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Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by babajeje123(m): 11:31am On Aug 11, 2021 |
oluayebenz:I'm sorry but saying Nigerian women are very difficult is over-generalization. Quite a number of them that I have seen here are supportive of their husbands. OP should man up and beg the wife, not for Visa's sake but for the sake of their kids and for peace to reign. Again, may be *her* family members or the person she hold in high esteem should be involved. While at it, don't paint her black. All the best bro 5 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 11:37am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Stereotypes:Did you miss the pun in my message. |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Stereotypes: 11:39am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Inkredible(m): 11:40am On Aug 11, 2021 |
$600M gone. Stay #SAFU
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Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 11:45am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Stereotypes:Amin. |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dupyshoo: 12:14pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
This is untrue. A lot of women support their husbands in the UK even while the men are messing around. At least I know loads of such relationships around me. Have you even heard the wife's part of the story? It is so wrong to say this. There are bad men and women. So let's stop generalising. oluayebenz: 3 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dupyshoo: 12:19pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
Na so o. As if it is very easy to be going through lawyer palaver. I can imagine the stress he will go though and the money he will spend with no guarantee of success. A lot of lawyers are just after money with no clue of what the immigration law says. My advice for him is to try and reconcile with his wife and also look at this senior care worker route of getting skilled worker visa sponsorship. He might be able to get that done within 6 months. @RalphJean 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Owlette: 1:52pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
Hi guys! Please, is there anyone in the Newcastle area or its environs? Pls is the commute from Sunderland to Newcastle doable on a daily basis? Or not just realistic? I’m having issues with getting accommodation that fit my budget in Newcastle and it’s surrounding areas. Please any advice will be appreciated. |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 2:22pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
wallg123: u make me smile bro, she is already having problem. to just like me now. As she has to fix the children in somebodies house to go to work and my kids have insisted they are not staying there. my kids kept calling me every time even in the mid night 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 2:25pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
justwise: thank u bro |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 2:27pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
Stereotypes: Like u said I may be sleeping in the marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 2:29pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
dustydee: my bro, I don't argue with people. all I know is that it is better imagined than experienced. untill the shoe pinches, that when one will know where it pains. thank u for ur submmission 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 2:30pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
Stereotypes: But obviously u are very wrong. |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 2:34pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
babajeje123: Thank u so much but I have never painted my wife black here. like people have being advocating a. exploring the alternative dispute resolution. Have being asured I will collect my visa without her but I want to put my family first. she too will be facing difficulties to cope with the kids. |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by KOVIC19COVID20: 2:34pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
dupyshoo: True |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by babajeje123(m): 2:35pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
lightest:God be with you Sir |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 2:35pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
dupyshoo: am sure u don't know me. I don't even keep. friends talk less of keeping women. Woman will always be woman expecially when they don't want to reason with u 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 2:36pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
babajeje123: Amen, I really appreciate the love u guys have given so far. u all don't know the value of it all to me |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by descarado: 2:41pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
lightest:It is "our kids" bro Our kids. Hope you don't operate with that mindset This is not Nigeria All the best 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by KOVIC19COVID20: 2:42pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
lightest: Be careful with all these people telling you to leave the house and stay alone . Be careful with those people telling you to care about your mental health bla bla bla… Find a way of appealing to your wife’s conscience. Try & make your marriage to rebound. All these people telling you about immigration and lawyers etc, I can assure you, they will not give you 1 £ or even 1 pence to hire a lawyer. Try all you can, to make thinks work with your wife. 12 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by TrumpsWall: 2:59pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
Try and try till visa runs out A sensible person, just like Op is doing, will look at ALL available options KOVIC19COVID20: 3 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Stereotypes: 3:12pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 3:26pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
@lightest so sorry you are going through this. Going through your previous posts shows the family just relocated in 2020 to join your wife here and sad to know within such a period things has disintegrated to that level. One thing I would like to add is involving her family as well or someone she listens to to resolve the issues between you guys(caveat as long as its not DV), if she has a good relationship with your family, let them know as well. Asides from the visa issues, please consider your 2 kids who will be affected in this situation. Remember they are in a new/strange land and now loosing their familiarity with their known household unit, and their mental health is also important. Please set aside pride and try and resolve. If possible engage therapist as well to help sort out your issues for you to know what is truly wrong in your union. All the best. 7 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 3:31pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
descarado: thanks bro Our kids |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 3:34pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
fatima04: Thank u so much for the love. the dialogue is going on and I hope it will come to good point. U guys are really making me to man up. thanks so much 7 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by RalphJean: 3:38pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
fatima04: This is what sound advice looks like. Lightest, people like @Fatima04 are the people you should pay more attention, and listen to. This her advise is worth a million ££ 5 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by LagosismyHome(f): 4:00pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
lightest: Truly single parenthood is no joke in this country especially around childcare .... hopefully it all gets resolve. Each person making amends. Its always best when both parties work together in many areas 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by deept(m): 5:02pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
Chukwuka16: So hypothetically, if one of these countries decide to liquidate their gold assets, what price per ounce will be quoted to them. Is there a different price for physical gold? |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Mrtruetalk: 5:55pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
@lightest listen up if you have ears. Most people typing up and down here know how they manage their homes, some men even know how they prostrate to their wives in the middle of the night when no one is there to make things work. So far there isn't any case of domestic violence here, you have to go back home and sort issues out with your wife for the sake of your kids. You are over 40 years old and i believe you should be wiser to know that you don't fully depend on the advise you seek from social media platforms. Refuse to be a victim of the system. You and your wife have come into a system and you need to be strong to pull through the system. Yourself and 3 members of your family must have sacrificed at least £10K to come on this Tier 2 with renewal fees coming up soon and i believe this should be your focus at the moment not you leaving home. The tier 2 system is not an easy one. You both literally work for the system for the said 5 years with huge financial sacrifice. Your MRS is probably tired from work as a nurse and needs your support but unfortunately maybe you are adding your drama as the Baale of Norwich as per your previous post. You probably are not looking to develop yourself either. Additionally, you might no longer appear attractive to your wife, you need to look to improve in all ways and set the example. Many things might be involved for her to lose interest in you. Talk things with her and you would find an answer. Legal fees don't come cheap. I would advise you don't even think of that route. lightest: 5 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by fatima04: 6:45pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
RalphJean: Please how can I get this 1 million pound bayii . Single parenting and dissolved marriages isn't easy on anyone |
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