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Re: 2 - Deleted by Yxxx: 1:10pm On Aug 10, 2021
TheUndercover:
@Tonero231, @Yxxx and others...

Thanks for the comments. I appreciate.
You are welcome.
Re: 2 - Deleted by Glycolite: 1:11pm On Aug 10, 2021
@undercover

.• "If you are trying to destroy an enemy who has hurt you, far better to keep him off-guard by feigning friendliness than showing your anger"

Don't you think the reverse will be more devastating and strategic ?

People generally believe that people that express their anger or dissatisfaction at your attitude or something you did wrong at that moment ,or later ,have a better tendency to let things go than people who just start playing friendly without given you a piece of their mind.
What if you employ that to your own advantage ?
You create a smoke screen by displaying a false expression of your anger, maintain the "friendship", take a step back and re-strategize on how best to go for the kill.

Honestly,if you start playing friendly with me after we have had a fight ,I will be very wary of you cheesy. I will certainly be on my guard.

What do you think ?

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Re: 2 - Deleted by Greatswimmer: 5:26pm On Aug 10, 2021
TheUndercover:
Dumb people are easier to control. Sick people are easier to control. Poor people are easier to control. That's why in school they train you to be dumb, sick, and poor.
How did they trained us to be dumb sick and poor, please explain
Re: 2 - Deleted by Greatswimmer: 5:41pm On Aug 10, 2021
TheUndercover:
Don't spend all your nights sleeping if you want to be great.
please explain more if this is about reading, what about we that we cannot read at night
Re: 2 - Deleted by Greatswimmer: 5:59pm On Aug 10, 2021
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Re: 2 - Deleted by okrikaboi: 6:26pm On Aug 10, 2021
TheUndercover:
You really don't know someone, until:

1) Money is involved
2) You deal with them when they're angry
3) You live with them
4) You travel with them


Never underestimate point number one. Remember, the quickest way to make an ally is to pay up, and the quickest way to make an enemy? Not paying up.

Addendum: Be wary of the people you call your friends. The problem is that you often do not know your friends as well as you imagine. Friends often agree on things in order to avoid an argument. Since honesty rarely strengthens friendship, you may never know how a friend truly feels.
I rather keep business partners than friends. Friends will betray you and it will hurt. If you get conned in business it's just business. For the sake of my mental health.

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Re: 2 - Deleted by Adasun(m): 8:34pm On Aug 10, 2021
Ninejaywon:



This is so true. I always use SEX as a weapon against them.
how do you sex them?
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 7:05am On Aug 11, 2021
@Glycolite

Of course, I understand what you mean.. Most people will find it difficult to feign friendliness after an incident. They won't be able to do it perfectly without the other party detecting their real motive.

By feigning friendliness in this case, you have to make sure there's no difference between when the incident happened and before. You have to make him believe it's completely out of your mind. So you take your time, probably weeks or months later, then you make your move.

Addendum: By feigning friendliness, the longer it takes to make your move, the more likely you are to end up doing nothing at the end, because the emotion or anger you feel deteriorates with time. You might end up forgiving the person which is also good. You may forgive but never forget!

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Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 7:58am On Aug 11, 2021
Greatswimmer:
How did they trained us to be dumb sick and poor, please explain
Most of the skills and valuable knowledge you need to move on with life won't be taught in school. More than 90% of the knowledge I acquired wasn't learnt in school. Most schools doesn't care about the future of the students, they care more about the profits instead. They won't teach you the realities of life.

They made everyone believed in the fantasy of getting a certificate, waste significant number of years looking for a job to work in an office, buy a good car and live in big house. So tell me if this isn't dumb? They implanted the same mentality in everyone's minds and doused people's inner spirits.

Only a minority of schools "actually" care in the future of their pupils or candidates. Now even without going to school, you can know more than a graduate. Most people are just going to school for the sake of the papers without having a plan of their own.

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Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 8:26am On Aug 11, 2021
Greatswimmer:
please explain more if this is about reading, what about we that we cannot read at night
I've never met a great person who spent all his nights sleeping. Everything requires sacrifice. If you're not a student, there are lot of things you can do at night.

I'm a person who does a lot of research. You can also use it to build up a skill online. If you're a person working in an office, you can use the opportunity of this period.

If you're a religious person, you can pray at this period also, at least 15mins. If you are an atheist, you can also use this period to find more information about the work you do. You might be surprised what you may find. It will also make you reflect or meditate properly.

Remember, this is the period 90% of people are sleeping or being silent, so use this period to improve yourself whether physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually as the case may be.

To me I'm more motivated at night because of fewer distractions, but if you can utilize your time properly during the day, you might not need stay awake at night.

Being prepared for an opportunity before it comes is better than being unprepared after it arrives.

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Re: 2 - Deleted by Greatswimmer: 9:41am On Aug 11, 2021
@ Undercover
Thanks for the explanation, I see standing up at night as waste of time before, but now I will work on it. May you increase in wisdom

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Re: 2 - Deleted by Nobody: 10:33am On Aug 11, 2021
Adasun:
how do you sex them?

Oga, go and use Google. angry
Re: 2 - Deleted by Nobody: 11:31am On Aug 11, 2021
TheUndercover:

The question sometimes can have different meaning depending on who's asking but mostly that's the intention behind it.

For example, if a random girl or someone you're chyking asks you that question, she wants to know if you're person of high is status or low status so she can know where to place you in her heart.

You can use it to gauge how a girl is gonna react by answering that you work in a position that signify you're low status, if she acts disinterested or funny, you should know your next move.

You’re right but isn’t everyone this way though. Is there truly anyone that would remain neutral if you work a shitty job?

Again, something must have attracted you to said lady who also has her own standards. Perhaps if she wasn’t as curvy or pretty, chances are you wouldn’t have approached her. In thesame vein, is it wrong for her to also place certain covert demands on her would be suitors?

I’m playing devil’s advocate here

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Re: 2 - Deleted by Adasun(m): 7:59pm On Aug 11, 2021
Ninejaywon:


Oga, go and use Google. angry
mouth up and down
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 11:45pm On Aug 11, 2021

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Re: 2 - Deleted by abbatoir(m): 12:17pm On Aug 12, 2021
NobleSeed:
the bitter truth
Jah!! Keep us all .amen.



You are right .but with few expection







....My Life begin at 50.. and that is supposed to be half time

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Re: 2 - Deleted by abbatoir(m): 12:24pm On Aug 12, 2021
TheUndercover:

You confidence or pride should be based on your abilities and skills, not materialistic possessions. It should be based on your talents and personality.

You might lose your wealth at some point, but your personality, skills or talents can never be taken from you.


Absolutely.However, in today's materials world, especially if you have already taste wealth... please guide it at all cost..Trust me it goes a long way with your ability however small



We can manage with few...we can NEVER live with nothing

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Re: 2 - Deleted by NobleSeed(m): 12:53pm On Aug 12, 2021
good luck bro
abbatoir:




You are right .but with few expection







....My Life begin at 50.. and that is supposed to be half time

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Re: 2 - Deleted by abbatoir(m): 2:41pm On Aug 12, 2021
NobleSeed:
good luck bro

Yeah.. thanks
Re: 2 - Deleted by Peaceyw(m): 3:36pm On Aug 12, 2021
Great job @TheUndercover.
Following back to back.

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Re: 2 - Deleted by Greenishly: 11:52pm On Aug 12, 2021
TheUndercover:
I will be discussing on misconceptions about TRP on a separate thread, but I don't know when. It 'might' be my last project on this forum. I might hurt a lot of people's feelings with it.

It has been an honour working with you guys.
Pls if u have started, or had pls share the links for me here.
Re: 2 - Deleted by ObinnaValentine: 11:51am On Aug 13, 2021
If u do abeg let us for this thread
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 5:07pm On Aug 13, 2021
abbatoir:


Absolutely.However, in today's materials world, especially if you have already taste wealth... please guide it at all cost..Trust me it goes a long way with your ability however small

We can manage with few...we can NEVER live with nothing
Right. That's the reason why when you're high status or someone who's rich and also famous, you have to work more harder to maintain your position in order not to be be seen as a poor person. This is why sometimes being famous can have its own disadvantages.

If you can get rich without being famous, then you have massive privileges. Being famous will draw unnecessary attention and focus of the public eyes to you. This will also make you restrict the things you do in public. Privacy is freedom itself.

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Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 5:34pm On Aug 13, 2021
seanwilliam:
@ theundercover , I want you to talk about girls raised by single mother.. especially if the mother is divorced.
Of course, this is also one of the topics I will cover when discussing misconceptions in TRP. The following are expected:

- Position of Single Mothers in TRP (Divorce or Death).

- Friendship with women. (How to use women to get what you want).

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Re: 2 - Deleted by Lightheaded: 10:50pm On Aug 13, 2021
TheUndercover:


- Friendship with women. (How to use women to get what you want).
Picks mic
Great job Undercover. TRP (the one preached) has been an advocate of abstinence from female friendships (platonic) due to obvious reasons with the major being disrespect and zoneships (friendzoneship, brotherzoneship, bestiezoneship, shawarmazoneship and the likes). I'd suggest/ plead that you write on this topic extensively if you can. It'll go a long way in clearing some misconceptions about interactions with the other gender. I'm looking forward to reading it. Holla when it's done boss.
Drops mic

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Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 6:10am On Aug 14, 2021
Lightheaded:

Picks mic
Great job Undercover. TRP (the one preached) has been an advocate of abstinence from female friendships (platonic) due to obvious reasons with the major being disrespect and zoneships (friendzoneship, brotherzoneship, bestiezoneship, shawarmazoneship and the likes). I'd suggest/ plead that you write on this topic extensively if you can. It'll go a long way in clearing some misconceptions about interactions with the other gender. I'm looking forward to reading it. Holla when it's done boss.
Drops mic
Sure, I understand. The thing is that, typing isn't really my thing and I get bored and tired easily when typing but I'm working on it. I might not create another thread for it. It will be posted on this thread when I'm done. It will enable us rub minds together on the topic.

As they say, no one has the monopoly of knowledge, as long as you're alive, you just have to keep an open mind and continue learning. Thank you.

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Re: 2 - Deleted by Lightheaded: 7:39am On Aug 14, 2021
TheUndercover:

Sure, I understand. The thing is that, typing isn't really my thing and I get bored and tired easily when typing but I'm working on it. I might not create another thread for it. It will be posted on this thread when I'm done. It will enable us rub minds together on the topic.

As they say, no one has the monopoly of knowledge, as long as you're alive, you just have to keep an open mind and continue learning. Thank you.
All the better should it be on this thread, it's exactly what I was looking forward to.
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 5:30pm On Aug 14, 2021
"Without enemies around us, we grow lazy. An enemy at our heels sharpens our wits, keeping us focused and alert. It is sometimes better, then, to use enemies as enemies rather than transforming them into friends or allies.

Without a worthy opponent he explained, a man or group cannot grow stronger."

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Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 5:33pm On Aug 14, 2021
In a society of strong women, men are the weaker vessels likewise in a society of strong men, women are the weaker vessels.

If all men decides not to settle for less, there will be an increase in the number of high value women

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Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 5:35pm On Aug 14, 2021

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