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Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by bukatyne(f): 4:19pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
AuroraB: You do you They are Biblical principles. Not able to explain in details now. The problem is that poor people have too many kids. If they have just one kid in addition to themselves, they will do very fine. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by kevoh(m): 4:20pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Please, ignore the OP's advice! School fees, pampers, children food is not child's play. You see that school fees, it's a cycle that never ends! It also comes with additional features of buying daily snacks and cooked food for the kids every day! That your wife they are telling you is the key will turn to your worst nightmare when she starts complaining, nagging and insulting you. This is not 1961 where you can stroll to the farm to harvest food if you have no job, this is 2021, thirty thousand naira will not buy much nowadays. Don't listen to any foolish pastor, imam or motivational speaker, better have a job or some hustle you are doing before you get married! 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by FriendsAndFans(m): 4:21pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
judedwriter:It's either you are foolish or stupidly misinterpreting the Bible. The Bible in this context is talking about work/labour and not Marriage Don't mislead people with Bible quote 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by 4tomandchi: 4:22pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
I laugh in Spanish... then men who have married and things are not working well nko? |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Jazzman01: 4:23pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
This is a very bad and misleading advice. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Areola14(m): 4:23pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Don't be deceived my brothers.... Marriage doesn't give assurance to success.... Some men don't even deserve to get married. A man who doesn't have any technical skills and who doesn't went to school. If such man get married, what do you want God to bless him with? .... The people that will see favor after marriage are people that have tried all what is expected of them. Schooling, technical skills, civic and morally responsibilities... 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Highlyrespected(m): 4:23pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Well As far as I am concerned Once you are in possession to take up the responsibility You are free to go. However, May God give us our choicest spouse |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Iamolukorede(m): 4:24pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
I'm not surprised by this kind of post, op is his simply thinking from his anus. Just because you are broke then get married will be your cure and best therapy lol I can read some comments supporting his position, don't be a fool okay. Even if it worked for him, that does not mean it will work for you. Getting married is not a cure to financial break free, hustle make some few buck's then plan for a small wedding ceremony, you will start picking up from there.. That post up there might lead many to problems they cannot finish. Perhaps this are some thoughts that puts black African in a pit and back ward for life ... 5 Likes |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by TheWolfen(m): 4:25pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Create a topic and share the story with us Taywon: 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by enjay1(m): 4:27pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
24kmagic:brother, you need to visit Owerri....it's worse here, fraudsters, prostitution is the order of the day....legit hustle is the odd one out...for me, if im not on the "financially okay" part of life, i have no business with marriage...my parents made that mistake, i can't compound it... 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Taywon: 4:27pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
TheWolfen: Alright 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Halle000: 4:29pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
SO NOBODY ON nairaland CAN DECODE THE REAL MESSAGE OF THE OP? EVEN WITH THE MARK LIKE IMAGE ON THE WORD ''STRUGGLE'' NO WONDER , COMMOM SENSE REAL IS NOT COMMON OOOO |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Mcfi(m): 4:29pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Arda1000: May your days be long. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by olaNL: 4:30pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
ezenwajosh: Uncle Ruckus 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by judedwriter(m): 4:32pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
FriendsAndFans: Is marriage a game? Both husband and wife work hard to make their marriage succeed. Marriage isn't easy. It's not easy for two different people to live together, reason why love is so important. Abegee mind your language, I'm not foolish o... I am Bible student and teacher. |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by faceland: 4:32pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
stupid advice rush it and produce the next generation of prostitute and thief 3 Likes |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by brainfordetails: 4:33pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
If you marry a leeche as a wife while struggling, your case will be like Zee World. Am sure haunty with big mammalian glands is reading this. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by stanluiz(m): 4:34pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
This one is living in fantasy. Op should face reality. This is one of the reasons We have many poor people in Nigeria and Africa at large. The religious folks among them will tell you to go and marry and get children. That God gives Children little did they know that they are recycling poverty and building a generation of paupers. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by lexy2014: 4:36pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
saphiere: Pls take note of where u said "some women...". Which means not all women "hold the key to success". It clearly shows that ur theory will definitely not work for every man. D question is how should those "some women" be identified? |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by tunary(m): 4:37pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
From frying pan to fire |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Walex124(m): 4:37pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
saphiere:This kind of advice not working here in naija , I'm not talking about Europe ooo, but for here nah zero over hundred. Ogbenutan |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by lexy2014: 4:38pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
judedwriter: Not all two are better than one. Some one are better than two. It's a biblical fact: Matthew 7:6 |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Nobody: 4:40pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Halle000: Indeed, it isn't common since you don't know that the image represents the key he's talking about. Decode kee you there 2 Likes
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Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Gerrard59(m): 4:43pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
The A - Z of why Nigeria remains the poverty capital of the world. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by okoroemeka(m): 4:44pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
saphiere:to marry these days no be small thing,just to knock for inlaw door you will budget like #50-#100k,talkless of when the list will come with brideprice,the rotarian is advising marriage without any plan how to do that,does he think if you fvck woman you don marry am,what the smart guys are doing now is marriage by hire purchase. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by lexy2014: 4:44pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Gkemz: It's not about money. U can embark on d journey with money with d wrong person and come out worse off. NB: it's not healthy to generalise Nigerian girls |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Abdul240(m): 4:44pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Is it wit sand nd stone i go use marry i will hustle till i met it before i go think of marriage 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by DrFunmisticGlow: 4:46pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
saphiere:that that is how poverty is transmitted from generation to generation 1 Like |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by lexy2014: 4:47pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
saphiere: What of d men u don't no? God is d source of all blessing and not wives. A person who has God as his source won't run dry even if he is single. Mind u, everything God created is a blessing not just women |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by tonyshine01: 4:48pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Would you marry a broke or jobless man or advise any of your relatives to do that? Be honest. saphiere: |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by wonderr(m): 4:49pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
That is highly delusional stop bamboozling people to abject poverty if u are poor and u get married it only takes d grace of God and having a great plan before u could escape poverty, getting married when u are poor is almost like a succide mission speaking from experience |
Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by justking(m): 4:50pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Time and Chance |
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