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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by AfroKnight: 2:42pm On Aug 17, 2021
Only if he doesn’t value his peace of mind.

Only a foolish man will allow himself be seduced into a relationship with a small girl who is of legal age. Most girls in that stage can do and undo.

I don’t have time to be mentoring one smallie on how to have sense.

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Aug 17, 2021
Iamagoodgirll:
Its wrong she just turned adult
in age only.
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 2:48pm On Aug 17, 2021
SimplyFacts:
To me, it's not right. It feels like taking advantage of a minor. She can't know what exactly she wants in a r/shp at that age.
And that's the reason they date them. Because such girls don't know what they want in life talk more of in a relationship. And these people who want to date them have nothing to offer the girls except small change and wild sex that will break the girls down and prevent her from even thinking anything more than sex. These girls now grow up to see sex as the only thing men need and will bring nothing except sex to the table when they grow up because those who "caught them young" had made to understand that sex is the only reason a man and a woman should be together.

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by fruitfully: 2:49pm On Aug 17, 2021
Normally, a girl of 18 should in either be focusing on how to enter uni or is already in the uni. it will be wrong if you become a distraction, but won't be if you moderate things, like wanting her hang out instead of reading. my thought tho.

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by neyoohhh: 2:50pm On Aug 17, 2021
richmondefosa:
These ladies wailing should set a standard and stick with it.

An 18 year old starts an only fans ---- her body her choice
An 18 year dates a sugar daddy older than her dad ----- her body her choice
An 18 year becomes a lesbian ------- her body her choice
an 18 year old dated a 30 year old but it didnt work out --------- the man is a predator

is this not ment?
If the 30 year old guy gets her the latest rang rover, he is termed being INTENTIONAL. they start screaming about wanting intentional men.
These same 18 year olds refused the man in their age grade, go for way older men and complain when it did not work out.

abeg una go dey alright.

Correct g.. .

It's all dog whistling.

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by richmond500: 2:54pm On Aug 17, 2021
lalasticlala:
What do you think about a 30-year-old man dating an 18-year-old girl?
u don deh eye that babe for street abi?
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by FORWARDEVERLY: 2:54pm On Aug 17, 2021
So many idiots saying it is wrong..
Because Op na poor man.. if em get money like NED now, d talk for different..
Op sef na fool.. e carry em matters come online..
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Toks2008(m): 2:59pm On Aug 17, 2021
lalasticlala:
What do you think about a 30-year-old man dating an 18-year-old girl?

Very ok


Just make sure you point her in the right direction.

Just 12years gap.

The funny twist is that an 18 year old lady who sees a 30 year old guy as too old will see a 55year old man as very OK if she is still single at 37...

What could be responsible for the change in mindset?.... MATURITY

Age is nothing but a mere number.

BTW, are you still a Moderator on Nairaland?

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Olam09(m): 2:59pm On Aug 17, 2021
lalasticlala:
What do you think about a 30-year-old man dating an 18-year-old girl?
Yea.. it's very right
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by OlawaleBammie: 3:02pm On Aug 17, 2021
Dialpad:
Likely to end in premium tears. But can't you find girls in their mid 20s...

The more matured the more dilapidated

I hav completed it for u grin grin

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by imagrg(m): 3:03pm On Aug 17, 2021
It appears the weed gives you more inspiration. You make sense die!
But weed could blow your mind and push you to the streets, naked. It could damage your lungs and build up cancer. Bang less too to keep your mentality stable too. Stay safe man!
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

That is like 12 years
Can you tolerate her chidish attitude...

Although all females behave like babies..whether young or old...

But this 18 year old will be worse

Anyway....let me grab my weed while I read comments
Apart from banging pussy, smoking weed, drinking alcohol and bombing....a real niggarrr should always seek for knowledge especially on issues that seems to be above or rather beyond his comprehension

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by yuping(m): 3:04pm On Aug 17, 2021
Nawaooo you no even allow the girl cross boarder finish.
It is well.
Make I sit down learn.
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Aug 17, 2021
lalasticlala:
What do you think about a 30-year-old man dating an 18-year-old girl?
Lala good day. You wrote this because of me ?? My girlfriend is a Nairalander and she's 18 & I'll be 30 by Saturday. We've not met though, but deeply in love. Lala did she contacted you to write such and push it to front page .. Cause she's very learned herself. Beside everyday she received bulk of mails/WhatsApp msgs from Nairalander's, just because of her cleverness. I've never seen her type. Baby if you mistakenly come across this, you know I sincerely love you. I'll do my best for you and be painstaking with you while you go on with your education. But we can marry in your course of education shall wink wink wink cheesy grin grin grin

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Esco2: 3:06pm On Aug 17, 2021
The way we see this our country now 19 year old now na mama ooooh

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by cococandy(f): 3:06pm On Aug 17, 2021
It’s literally in the name. Teen! Teenager!

Thirteen to nineteen are teenagers.

Yes the official age of childhood ends at 18. It doesn’t mean they are technically adults. There’s the actual phase known as adolescence where teenagers transition to actual adults. And late adolescence does extend all the way to 21 years of age which is when the vital and cognitive parts of brain are believed to complete the most growth necessary to be a mature functioning adult. Even if legal age tells you 16 is okay fvck, as an adult, maybe have some common sense and know that someone who is not very mentally mature is in a disadvantaged position if they go into a relationship with someone way older than them.

Following your logic, since there’s no difference between a 16 year old and 18 year old, and of course since there’s little difference between 14 year old and 16 year old
maybe 14 year old and 18 year old should be regarded as the same right? How about a 13 and 18yr old? Where do you draw the line?

I can’t believe any of you needs education on this.
You all know the right thing but prefer to go for children that you can easily manipulate since the more mature ladies can see through y’all’s bullshiet

This is becoming a tired conversation.

All pedophiles should own their perversion and get put away where they belong instead of these useless drawn out conversations that convinces nobody.

hammer567:



THIS IS THE PART WHERE I WOULD ARGUE THAT 18 YEARS OLD SHOULD BE PLACED IN THE TEENAGER BRACKET.


MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY THEIR IS NO DIFFERNCE BETWEEN 18 YEARS OLD AND 17 YEARS OLD AND EVEN 16 YEARS OLD.


WHY ARE SOME TEENAGERS CHILD AND ANOTHER TEENAGER ADULT?





COCOCANDY MAY DISAGREE.

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by OhMyGodWtf: 3:06pm On Aug 17, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

That is like 12 years
Can you tolerate her chidish attitude...

Although all females behave like babies..whether young or old...

But this 18 year old will be worse

Anyway....let me grab my weed while I read comments
Apart from banging pussy, smoking weed, drinking alcohol and bombing....a real niggarrr should always seek for knowledge especially on issues that seems to be above or rather beyond his comprehension

Wisdom bro. I feel you

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by IJEYdiamond(f): 3:10pm On Aug 17, 2021
Go and look for someone in her 20s or wait till she is 22 25... she is still a kid.. haba..

Even 20 something no still get sense..

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by AdeChukwu: 3:11pm On Aug 17, 2021
Date or marry ?

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by IbileIfe: 3:13pm On Aug 17, 2021
ikllbrokehoes:
I think at 18, she's matured enough to date anyone above her age
Best comment.
A+.��
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by AsawanaDgreat: 3:14pm On Aug 17, 2021
There's nothing bad there
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by chris51(f): 3:15pm On Aug 17, 2021
It's ok for a 30 year man to date an 18 year old girl. Girls mature much faster than boys.

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by chris51(f): 3:15pm On Aug 17, 2021
chris51:
It's ok for a 30 year man to date an 18 year old girl. Girls mature much faster than boys.

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Iamagoodgirll: 3:16pm On Aug 17, 2021
gsmphoneseller:

At what age did you start dating?
19years

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by AmazonTopaz(f): 3:17pm On Aug 17, 2021
Hyerin:
It's morally wrong and borderline pedo because an 18 year old is either just finishing high school or a freshman at uni. The emotional and mental disparity is great because both are at different stages in their lives. The prefrontal cortex of the 18 year old isn't even fully developed. Why would you date someone that young if not for ulterior motives? Men who actively seek younger women most times do so because they're easier to manipulate and control which gives room for abuse. What happened to the women in your age-range that you don't want to date them? You have more things in common with them than the 18 year old.

For those using the law in support of this age gap, legality doesn't equate morality. Just because something is legal doesn't necessarily mean it's right.
I have been looking for this comment and I am glad to have come across it.

I don't know if it is just me but anyman especially in his late 20's to 30's and beyond dating teenagers or ladies below 21 seems like paedo's to me.I am just not comfortable with men dating women they are more than a decade older it seems like paedophilia.I just find it repulsive I don't believe age is a number it is an important factor but then to each his own.

What a 30 year old man is doing with an 18 year old doesn't sit right with me as you pointed out some men are drawn to much more younger women and that is not okay.

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by mac04: 3:17pm On Aug 17, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

That is like 12 years
Can you tolerate her chidish attitude...

Although all females behave like babies..whether young or old...

But this 18 year old will be worse

Anyway....let me grab my weed while I read comments
Apart from banging pussy, smoking weed, drinking alcohol and bombing....a real niggarrr should always seek for knowledge especially on issues that seems to be above or rather beyond his comprehension

Was reading ur post with rapt attention for the first time until you decided to grab your weed!

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Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by alphaNomega: 3:19pm On Aug 17, 2021
GIANTPLUSHUB:
Hmmmm. Morally not right but things are upside downs. Our girls have thrown moral values to the dogs. 16 years old sef now dey date 45 to 50 years old man and if you dare try to advise them against it, they will tell you, can you carry their responsibilities and some will call it hustles. Imagine, what kind of responsibilities is a 16 years old having? If not for their attitude of non contentment! Let's brace up for the worst is yet to cone with these girls with their cravings for materials things in exchange for their pussies and let's not try to put the blame on these men. Most times, these girls looks older than their age. You might want have gone several rounds, several days before you get to find out. I fear for the future of these girls as it looks like the future doesn't looks FEMALE at all.
oh yeah? How about the old folks in all your religious books fuçking and marrying under age girls?
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Gosaast: 3:21pm On Aug 17, 2021
lalasticlala:
What do you think about a 30-year-old man dating an 18-year-old girl?

Is it right for Regina Daniel to have agreed to marry Need Nwoko
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Iamagoodgirll: 3:21pm On Aug 17, 2021
loswhite:
lol so she should wait for another 5 years to turn matured adult...lol
atleat allow her to turn 19-20
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by AmazonTopaz(f): 3:23pm On Aug 17, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Guys who date girls far younger than them have no good intentions for such girls. They are dating them because they need someone they can intimidate, abuse both physically and emotionally and the person won't be able to reason good enough to walk away. They want someone that can contribute anything to their life and after jumping from one child to another, they will come here to tell how the female gender have nothing to offer except sex.
Date a 13yrs old if you like o, don't just come here to abuse your mother and all the women in your generation just because of what those kids have don to you.
@bold,truth
Re: Is It Right For A 30-Year-Old Man To Date An 18-Year-Old Girl? by Iamagoodgirll: 3:23pm On Aug 17, 2021
SergeantLawalG:
but you will not hesitate to drill a 70 year old sugar daddy that is old enough to be your grand father
not every woman deals with married men

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