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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by G450: 11:51am On Aug 21, 2021
So 4 ur mind pple wey get moni no dey get break relationship... I knew one girl who use to collect moni from her rich boi friend nd be giving it to her broke ass niga guy... Marriage and relationship it takes grace of God to find good partner, whether rich or poor... Moni can buy bed but not sleep

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Nobody: 11:51am On Aug 21, 2021
You need Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit, and the Holy Bible. That’s all you need. Do not listen to all these stupid talks. It’s nonsense.

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Nobody: 11:52am On Aug 21, 2021
Bouz:
You have an inferior mindset, that's why you think you must have money to stay in a relationship, there are women that provide for the house, to keep it going.i guess you've been hanging out with hungry ladies. Relationship needs both parties effort both financially. Stop feeling you have the burden of providing alone. Every body cannot make money in this life, but with two head, a family won't lack basic needs.

That's the problem with most Nigerian guys. I don't know why they stay in one sided relationships. I don't know if it's inferiority complex or nah, they embrace every burden with some sort of nonsensical pleasure.
I believe this explains why some praise ladies for dating them when they were poor, meanwhile said ladies were poorer at the time, and still broke. They get their shit together,while the ladies are still at the place they were right from the beginning, expecting the guy to come and solve all their problems,as if they didn't have the same time.

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by lonelyisland(m): 11:52am On Aug 21, 2021
saphiere:
Is Paul Okoye not having money?
You must be sick if you think money can keep a woman.
Thank you

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by lonelyisland(m): 11:54am On Aug 21, 2021
Conner44:
Nawah na so lack of cash make op turn poet undecided


grin grin grin
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by UncleJudax(m): 11:56am On Aug 21, 2021
saphiere:
Is Paul Okoye not having money?
You must be sick if you think money can keep a woman.
i heard the wife is already in the US with kids...if true, he will have to pay child support and probably alimony to her.

Yea. it is certainly not about money. grin

Meanwhile, don't argue things with celebrity instances.

Update: just after quoting you. i saw a thread the wife is demanding about $15k/month as spousal support. hahaha.

This your shit aged so badly. Use your head, not heart.

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by folake4u(f): 11:56am On Aug 21, 2021
Carchoice:
Bread and tea wey everybody dey manage for breakfast, e reach your turn, you turn adviser Onuwabhagbe.


Lmao.
It's spelt Adviser Nowamagbe (it's a Bini name).

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by pretydiva(f): 11:56am On Aug 21, 2021
MrCover:
To Me As MR COVER, Nigerian Ladies has nothing to offer me, apart from my mother who gave birth to me, Most Of The Ladies Who I have met so far, all of them has poor Mindset, they are not heading to the same direction I'm heading to, If I talk A, they will reply with Z.

Money Is Not Everything In Relationship or Marriage, it only takes God's Grace for any relationship or Marriage to work out in Nigeria.

Mr Cover, Is Currently Talking From His Experience with so many ladies here.
You attract what you are

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Ambbayo(m): 11:58am On Aug 21, 2021
I perfectly agree with you bro
Bouz:
You have an inferior mindset, that's why you think you must have money to stay in a relationship, there are women that provide for the house, to keep it going.i guess you've been hanging out with hungry ladies. Relationship needs both parties effort both financially. Stop feeling you have the burden of providing alone. Every body cannot make money in this life, but with two head, a family won't lack basic needs.

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by MufasaLion: 11:58am On Aug 21, 2021
tepes:
Another thing don't date an only daughter of any family. The stress and problems that comes with it is too much. I'm currently dating one and I'm getting fed up with everything.

An only daughter are cool most times tongue
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by ityP(m): 11:59am On Aug 21, 2021
lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo


saphiere, come o. You been dey advice one nonsense the other day
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by m140(m): 12:03pm On Aug 21, 2021
saphiere:
Is Paul Okoye not having money?
You must be sick if you think money can keep a woman.
Jeff Bezos break ... the gates ... even dangote sef... relationship is understanding and tolerance... anything good requires work and cooperation

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Edyice: 12:06pm On Aug 21, 2021
Caramia2020:
Money is like fuel, as relationship is like a car, it's highly needed in order to avoid unusual frustration.


Once’s fuel finish

Relationship is over grin

The party who has more feelings will be hurt the most
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by babyfaceafrica: 12:06pm On Aug 21, 2021
saphiere:
Is Paul Okoye not having money?
You must be sick if you think money can keep a woman.
But Regina Daniels left her boyfriend and married her grandfather, you must be naive to think Money cannot get a woman

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by iamtardey: 12:07pm On Aug 21, 2021
I think I'm going to stick with this no girlfriend thing, ...
All I do this days is just look big big yansh for street, appreciate dem, call Dem fine girl, smile and move on,.. lol

The other day, I called one girl,as she came up to me, I told her I don't call her, I saw it on her face e choke,.. grin
McOluOmo:
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Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by CodeTemplar: 12:07pm On Aug 21, 2021
Caramia2020:
Money is like fuel, as relationship is like a car, it's highly needed in order to avoid unusual frustration.
money is an exchanger of things and services. What is OP exchanging for money before thinking of exchanging his own money forghings he cannot produce or do?
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by womenareapess: 12:08pm On Aug 21, 2021
lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo
my second advice to young guys, please avoid naija women with immediate effect undecided

Those baboons are there to eat your banana and go undecided

Better you date a foreigner than to swallow with shame with those useless piece of shiit called naija women undecided

No value in dating baboons

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by debbydams(f): 12:09pm On Aug 21, 2021
ipobarethieves:
cool. Undiluted truth
yes

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by ityP(m): 12:09pm On Aug 21, 2021
saphiere:
Is Paul Okoye not having money?
You must be sick if you think money can keep a woman.


Haba. Have sense small na. Shebi you saw she is demanding 7.8 million naira monthly due. Even the divorce is about money

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by ityP(m): 12:11pm On Aug 21, 2021
babyfaceafrica:
But Regina Daniels left her boyfriend and married her grandfather, you must be naive to think Money cannot get a woman


Even the Anita Okoye she mentioned is leaving because of money. She wants 7.8 million naira each month as alawee

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by babyfaceafrica: 12:12pm On Aug 21, 2021
ityP:



Even the Anita Okoye she mentioned is leaving because of money. She wants 7.8 million naira each month as alawee
Don't mind them, It's all about the Mullah in relationship

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Benteazaa(m): 12:14pm On Aug 21, 2021
I met my wife at my lowest, when I say lowest I mean I was penny less, jobless. She stayed put with her support, brain, prayers and today I we are married, we might not be rich like cubana but we don't beg anybody for anything. Avoid women that only depends on you to survive and believe me you won't regret it

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Nweike1: 12:17pm On Aug 21, 2021
SenecaTheYonger:
Why is her family pressuring u for money? You could have married into a burden family lol
good observation
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by debbydams(f): 12:18pm On Aug 21, 2021
DankemzI:
Relationship needs care and attention, irrespective of her financial status you'll need your own money for self esteem and confidence to avoid see finish!
I remember Jemi my lover, this girl showed me all lights I had to call her aside and tell her I'm not financially buoyant to be in relationship with you RN, Omo she started funding me till I found my foot again true love exists for real.
Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn.
u got it wrong..I'm the first born I have two brothers..the last time my bf now ex gave me money was 2015 nd I didnt asked he gave me willingly,so you are wrong nd it not about first or last born
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Nobody: 12:18pm On Aug 21, 2021
True true true!

No body is willing to suffer with any man anymore because even the country and our govt no let people believe in someones prospects.

It takes the grace of God to believe in your man in these hard times.

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by lonelyisland(m): 12:21pm On Aug 21, 2021
CharisEleos:
True true true!

No body is willing to suffer with any man anymore because even the country and our govt no let people believe in someones prospects.

It takes the grace of God to believe in your man in these hard times.

That's just the unbaised truth

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by debbydams(f): 12:21pm On Aug 21, 2021
MufasaLion:


An only daughter are cool most times tongue
thank you..
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by debbydams(f): 12:22pm On Aug 21, 2021
m140:

Jeff Bezos break ... the gates ... even dangote sef... relationship is understanding and tolerance... anything good requires work and cooperation
yes..chop Knuckle
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by jeff1607(m): 12:23pm On Aug 21, 2021
Simple, you got a girl from a broke and entitled family

Try a lady who is from a stable home not necessarily rich or wealthy.

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by pseudonomer: 12:23pm On Aug 21, 2021
lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

What if you are rich and you are at a difficult moment, I mean at your lowest. Which happens often to men, she'll still leave.
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by aysnoopy(m): 12:24pm On Aug 21, 2021
DankemzI:
Relationship needs care and attention, irrespective of her financial status you'll need your own money for self esteem and confidence to avoid see finish!
I remember Jemi my lover, this girl showed me all lights I had to call her aside and tell her I'm not financially buoyant to be in relationship with you RN, Omo she started funding me till I found my foot again true love exists for real.
Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn.


You're perfectly right.
The babe I'm about to get married to now endure so much for me. U know why?
I told her when I was wooing her that I'm not financially buoyant yet. So if she will accept me, she has to think well about it coz I'm not forcing her to choose me. And also, cheating coz I wouldn't take care of her isn't acceptable. So she accept and stick to me. We'll be getting married soon.
What I'm trying to point out is, I told her beforehand that I'm still struggling and hustling so she shouldn't expect much from me monetarily

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