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anthonyuncle:
i perceive mammy water here

I perceive evil spirit

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

Check your boldness and performance in bed. Those are what makes a man to them.

Are you bold in your interactions with outsiders and her?

What kind of vegetable? Is it lettuce, cabbage, spinach or just some random roadside veggie?

FutureIsFemale:
Man up. Your just too weak. I'm sure you are the last born. 'Mum's boy'.

She is trying to build up the man in you.

Women want a strong man. A man that can stand up for them.

A MAN THAT CAN STAND UP FOR THEIR EQUAL ?
MEANING WOMEN ARE WEAK

JovialJune:
Lmao

Endure brother, marriage is for better for worse, pray and fast for 40days and 40nights, then watch WAR ROOM, one day, when God touches her, she will change and see you as a man.

You are joking right?

kingemaker:
Take the red pill, una no gree, now see.

Tell the simp

I go give you formula for ur problem
=> No money=no love + no respect from
woman
=>Small money=small respect +small love
from woman

Do you f*ck her wela ? Bros that thing they pain woman ooo....

I'm not joking at all. When you f*ck women very well, they are happy and at peace with their man.

samonak:
It's like you've been tested, tried and found wanting. She perceives you to be a SIMP. Women are very intriguing creatures, They are constantly probing, evaluating and psyching up men at every turn. They try your patience, Anger , endurance threshold and ur ability to stand your ground as a "MAN" perhaps during courtship you were the Mr "nice guy" always looking to please her or accept her every request without any hesitance. The Truth is most women don't respect men that they can "manipulate" or control, that's why most times dem need to the see your "red eye" once in a while ( I don't mean domestic violence) assert your authority or dominance, show her who "wears the pant".

Guy one chilllllllled bo for u jare! Op dey there dey do Mr nice guy, na one day she il lock u out of ur house, cus she is inside with her boyfriend, na dat day u go sit up. Better resounding slap , just to rest her brain o! No domestic violence o! Just a brain resting , nothing more. U go see sey she go change.

Uniique:
That one na ur own problem

Abeg, can you elaborate the reason for your response?

What kind of vegetable? Ugu, uziza or spinach?

Fear nor go let some men comment because their wife monitor them reach NL. We day pray not to marry a demon abi ayamatanga for house. I think the wife is either possessed, or wants him to beat her up... Yes Women can be that daring ohhhhh.... Or the man is not blowing her very well. I mean this! Only married men will code. Or the man is poor, weak, docile. There is something wrong with the man

My Brother, what your wife needs is serious nacking in the midnight, if ur d working class of 8am to 5pm, try to fire her well on Friday night, say from 11pm to 1am, try same on Saturday, then check her behaviour during this period, you can then tell if it's in other areas she means ur a vegetable.
She doesn't know how to confront you concerning this, talking from experience.

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

You Don marry confirmed Ekwensu.
Better go meet her parents to tell them what is going on cos this one pass ordinary.

Infact your story sounds unbelievable.

And if she is indirectly passing a message to you then you need to give her real good cos wives usually respect husbands who make them cvm and squirt so well... Go down on her if needs be and make her satisfied then let's see the strength she will have to wake up at night..



Vegetable bawo.

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

But you saw all these bad behavior traces before you marry her.. You might be seeing some red flags on her when both of you are dating but you ignore those red flag because you dey chop her ponmo wella.. Now she don show you, you come dey carry your bad night market matter come nairaland platform make we come dey solve am...

What I can tell you is that she is your eternal cross in life learn to carry it with joy and endurance...I pray she wouldn't kill you one day.

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

Shey u dey scatter everywia wella laidis.......

Omoh.. Nah which kind wahala be this



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Schizophrenia can manifest at any time. She can be fine for years and all of a sudden she begins to act weird.


To me ,she doesn't seem mentally sound.

Rules of a rational male(Alpha):

1) never allow a woman's slap be the last, return it within seconds of such a nasty act and with full force: it will reset her brain and make her never to try that with you. it also make her feel you're man enough to protect her.

2) never argue with a woman, for you cannot argue with feelings but rather, manipulate them instead: walk away each time there is heated argument and aviod exchanging words with her. she will respect you more.

3) always go against her threat to show you're the man of the house and that nothing will happen: like when she said you will die if you try to divorce her, go against her will and file it.

marry more women if the above rules don't work and watch them compete to love and serve you like a god

Oga na ur fault... nite wey u suppose satisfy madam u dey there dey sleep come use snore dey diaturb her... y she no go slap u??
Bros lash her in every corner of ur house make we see weda na b kiss u go dey get wen u dey sleep.
Abegi do ur work like a man.
Yeye.

Devil don finally catch this one, them don pretend enter you finish, she wakes up to slap you keh? And even wake up to dey play music for night? Say you re a vegetable? She wants you to be a lion, you don enter this one, God go save you..... Next time, do screening well well una no go hear

Gwan2:
Firstly, I like to ask you?.....are you financially stable in the marriage?

You see, I sent monthly dues to my sister back home for house upkeep and other utilities and I see how she bombard me with numerous romantic words as gratitude..I have it at the back of my mind, if the flow is disrupted or stops, the gesture from her stops as well, maybe gradually, maybe instantly..."Men are loved by what they have or potential to have, conditional love or respect or submission"

A friend called me on my way to fix an issue with my car, he spent hours with me at the mechanic garage. Afterwards, I took him to a pub so we can chill, drink and have food. He literally told me to give him the money instead to get pampers for his child....I came to understand, it was fire on the mountain from madam that chased him out of home running helter skelter.

I also have a friend that flirt alot, but he is financially buoyant. He first made his current wife a baby mama, when she was craving for him to wife her, he didn't. He wifed anyway when she least expected. She know his sexcapade but won't confront him on that but rather putting blames on us his friends for aiding such. I had to give the guy some distance at one point because of that. Something she knew even before the guy wifed her. Infact, she is a major beneficiary since he finally married her out of 100s. Now, this lady ain't confronting this guy because..He already build and furnish his house before marrying her, his children attend one of the best schools around, he set up her brother in business. His birthday is alway big because his wife always invent new ways to sweep him off his feet.

Now, read my long post gently and figure out where your problem lies.

Which business is this your friend doing sef make I try am

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

I don’t believe this story.

mariahAngel:
Oga, you don go marry ogbanje I swear!
E don be for you your enemies!

Wahala wey no dey nairaland no exist!

Chai

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

Hmmmmmmmm please run out of the marriage if she's not ready to accept you as the Man.

Ladycewhy:
Schizophrenia can manifest at any time. She can be fine for years and all of a sudden she begins to act weird.


To me ,she doesn't seem mentally sound.

She needs to cvm and squirt hard so that her body go calm down and I guess Oga dey slack in that area.

you don look yadsh and breast go carry ogbanje. May God save you...

JovialJune:
Lmao

Endure brother, marriage is for better for worse, pray and fast for 40days and 40nights, then watch WAR ROOM, one day, when God touches her, she will change and see you as a man.

Would you have said this is the domestic abuse was from the man?

A honest question.

[quote author=Vabama post=105392129]So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all



This is what you get if you can't service your wife like a real man. If all give to your wife is money and money,then you are a vegetable.
Your wife will give you real respect you deserve if only you are a real man on the bed.
You can call me for little a little secrete if you are a one minute man 0 8 1 6. 4. 3. 2. 0. 5 . 64

Toks2008:
She needs to cvm and squirt hard so that her body go calm down and I guess Oga dey slack in that area.

This is way beyond sexual furstration. Na so madness take dey start.

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...


Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

Imagine person don get fiance and not grateful, me wey never get one
God when oo, come and answer me oo

Like someone rightfully said, she wants you to take charge. I had an ex employee that during work hours his wife will instruct him to start coming home around 2pm when work is at its peak, that incident just made me let him go permanently, that's the thing about courtship during that period everybody is acting all saintly and good and then BOOM, sisqo unleash the dragon. I'm not married but standing outside looking in that is always the case.