SimplyFacts:
This guy needs to be careful so he doesn't offend his brother. 2face wouldn't appreciate all this if he personally wants to do away with social media during this trying time.

In idoma culture,we listen to our brothers. Bc wen u are down, only ur brothers wil pull u up, wifes these day go japa.

Band of brothers

dudusky007:
Wetin I hate na family members when lyk to chuk mouth or dey do my broda my broda for broda when don get money..then dey disturb d wife peace.

..... So in all the boy have said, is he disturbing her or she is disturbing herself? Because 2face married Annie, he suddenly doesn't have to communicate with any member of his family abi? But she has members of her own family living with them....... It is well!

dudusky007:
Wetin I hate na family members when lyk to chuk mouth or dey do my broda my broda for broda when don get money..then dey disturb d wife peace.

I disagree with you. Annie should behave herself. She married a man who has many wives whether they are married or not and those ones can't suddenly become enemies cos decided to tie the knot with her. They may have disagreement also with tuface in their time but it doesn't mean they will be upset with him forever. So eventually, the bonds between them will always resurface. Even Sumbo who is now a wife to another man and both are now Pastors, will still have special reservations for tuface except only when his relationship with them is toxic.

She can't eat her cake, then still have it. She claimed she has been enduring, she has no choice than to continue to endure and engage positively with the rest of her family cos she should just accept that she is not the only woman in tuface's life. She shouldn't have any aggression or extend such towards her inlaw. She will only loose out. Without sounding derogatory and I respect women alike but she bore girls. Those that will continue the Idibia legacy are guys and they not from her. She should just calm down, enjoy her marriage and should be open and welcoming to everyone. Infact, I advice all of the women in tuface's life that they should just embrace each other and work together to support each other and the guyz in their lives. The more the merrier rather than complaining, backbiting, being disrespecting, shaming herself and putting her family in disarray...

joyfullyjoyous:
The two sides should apologise to one another and right their wrongs. It's not too late at this point before it degenerates to an unammendable one. I pray Annie n Tuface learn a lesson or two from this.

They can't..... both of them do not have the brain to manage the damage on the ground ..... not Annie not 2Baba !..... The only grace is total patience and Annie to look away as she always does ...... !

culf:
I pity 2baba, he is truly strong, having a bad wife is terrible, May God help help us all.

So Annie is bad and 2baba is good? The same 2baba who has kids all over and can't manage the situation. He is just as bad for creating a situation that makes his wife feel insecure.

This one is just disgracing his brother thinking he is making sense.

And who are you?

Munzy14:

Soon or later you will realise I said this..

kboyshow:
Charles Idibia, brother to Nigerian music legend 2face (also known as 2Baba) returned on social media to clear the air, following the confrontation he had with Annie Idibia on Instagram yesterday.
Today September 4, 2021, Charly Brave took to his Instagram account to give more insight into the matter he created with Annie Idibia on the 3rd.

He shared;

https://www.9jahomeland.com/2faces-brother-charles-idibia-gives-full-insight-into-how-annie-has-being-maltreating-2baba-the-idibia-family/

...... This is what you get when you marry out of sympathy.... Because she don suffer with you, you see it as an obligation to marry her.... That one make sense but na only women wen get sense dem dey give that honor to... The one wen no get sense, settle her with better money and save yourself a life time of stress..... This Annie has been a green snake under the grass ever since and na people like jim iyke wen no dey take nonsense from women she suppose marry.... What on earth does she need 4 maids for? That's the first sign of a bad wife..... 4 maids and 2 personal assistants and you're not even royalty...... 2 face too gentle to marry this kind werey woman........ 2 baba get him own crase because him gbola no dey stay one place but he still too good for this kind woman.... He for just settle her well for staying with him all this while and look for a gentle woman like himself to marry.....

Yankee101:
you can’t actually be demanding respect from me anymore when you have none for your husband or any for members of his family , his friends or his staffs

Why do women turn to dictators once a man marries them?

Marriage is a seal for women ultimately stating You are now her Property which she will Jealously guided and guarded ....... Just like Maternal instinct .... Marital instinct also dey ..... even some GF/Fiancee.... except she doesn't love you ....

But if she does, She will dictate your pace for you. Now, you will use your maturity to reverse psychology her drives ..... That's how marriage survive!

Na so this woman bad? nothing should happen to my brother 2face ooo!

What's her background? Marrying an unenlighted person is very dangerous. It's not just about being educated or coming from a wealthy home.

The wife that knew about his baggages and still married him.

chineloSA:


So Annie is bad and 2baba is good? The same 2baba who has kids all over and can't manage the situation. He is just as bad for creating a situation that makes his wife feel insecure.

All this Dubai wedding always go North ask Tiwa

4maid and 2pa pls who is paying
3 of your family and I don’t want to see anything related to your husband


Affordable men clothing payment on delivery

Seriously for a long time ago I knew Annie was using some sort of charm on tuface...the 2face lacks composure now, he doesn't even sings again since he got married to that bitch...keeps leaning and getting thin with only head remaining

Sterope:
The wife that knew about his baggages and still married him.

So both are not angels. They should tolerate each other. He created the situation and he needs to manage it accordingly. Feeling insecure in any relationship doesnt produce good outcomes.

Even a relationship between a parent and a child, employer and employee, etc. Insecurity creates havoc. He made the bed and he should lie in it.

I know say na all the male pikins go shook mouth support the Charles wey no fit leave im brother marriage.
Deep down una mind,u guys know the pressure that the woman faces for not having a make heir,most especially when the man has a male child outside.
It's very advantageous for the male cus una fit impregnate pikin and get married anytime u wish,but na the woman go carry all the cross.
We all want to paint Annie as the villain forgetting that we are in Nigeria and know what women go through in the hands of in-laws.
Tuface should man up and protect his wife.there is a reason why u chose Annie amongst the other women in ur life.
Am not saying Annie is a saint,but 2face abused the sanctity of marriage by sleeping in the same house as pero.
As big as u dey,u wan tell me say u no buy house for US wey ur children fit come anytime u wan see Dem for US.
Make we talk true jor,tuface Bleep up

Jeferious:
Oga, we all know that family system is very much valued in Africa to the extent that when a man marries a lady, it's said that two families are now married to each other. The problem with some marriages starts from the very "intial beginning"(sic). The lady knows very well that her man's family resent you and don't want her, yet she believed erroneously that "love conquers all" and that "it is their brother and son that I'm getting married to, not them". That marriage is on its way to collapse from the start. If the man's family doesn't want the lady, and she has made every geninue effort to present herself as a likeable and good person to no avail, then it's better she respects herself and move on. But desperation will not allow some of these ladies reason well.

On a more serious note, the marriage institution doesn't look like it will still exist in the next fifty years. There's something wrong with the human beings of this age. Maybe it's because of too much education and too much knowledge, as well as too much propensity to overturn age-long practices in the name of "wokeness" and the dire scarcity of loyalty and trust in ou time. The worst is that women are acquiring more "freedoms" than ever before, and the men are not comfortable with the new dawn of change. No two captains can sail a ship, so I perceive in the near future, the marriage institution will crumble and collapse. Others forms of relationship and commitments will take its place, for nature does not like a vacuum unfilled, and we are seeing some of those "less commitment" relationships today. I expect them to displace marriage

As much as I agree with most of your assertions, marriage as an institution will be around for awhile..
There can be changes to it. Such as intermittent open marriage.. But its here to stay.

But as humans, our desire for security is bone marrow deep. Instantaneous security is wrought through marriage. Hence women clamour for it, no..... agitate vigorously for the status - - MRS..

Its a shame that some turn the "security" on its head into some form of control. Yes its good to be mutually accountable to one another.. But to be controlling... is frankly witchcraft

Despite the fact that Cohabitation has been given the same legality with financial access as marriage in some climes, you still find people willing to change age-old laws to enable access to marriage... That says there is something special about marriage.

.

RedEnergy:
But why are many Nigerian women like this, they always try to turn you against your family, then bring their own family to camp in your house? Why? Husband's family have to get visa at the US embassy before they can visit their brother or son for 2 hours, but wife family are free to come and go and even camp inside the husband's house anyhow they like. Any man that turns against his own family just to please his wife is not a good man. That's how my previous Nigerian girlfriend was telling me when we went shopping that what I bought for my mom was too much. On top my own money that I worked for. Can you imagine? If I marry that kind of a girl, she will tell my mother to go and collect American visa in South Africa before she can visit me in Lagos. If I notice a girlfriend trying to turn me against my family, I will surely break up with you. I can't cope with that kind of treacherous behavior. That was how Herod's wife made him cut off John the Baptist head through treachery. Same way some wive's make their husbands cut off their families. Very wrong!

Sincerely speaking in all Fairness..... the Home belongs to your Wife and she is the Domina in her own matrimonial home .......

Some families the in laws will come and dominate the kitchen (her kitchen) and be forming dons as if they are in their family house .......... No sheeeeee ...........

If you wanna meet your brother, come as visitor and leave .... that's honourable....what you doing staying for weeks .... go back to your home fvck you....... For the MIL, Visit as Visitor oh yes, Your son home is not your home ... na ihm papa home be ya Home .... stay as visitor, don't fvck with the home owner (Wife) and go back in due time...........

If everybody know their limitations, there won't be a power tussle ......

When poverty become rich without the brain development, it goes back to poverty!

ArinzeUgo:
Seriously for a long time ago I knew Annie was using some sort of charm on tuface...the 2face lacks composure now, he doesn't even sings again since he got married to that bitch...keeps leaning and getting thin with only head remaining

He keeps getting thin and lean with only head remaining

Kai nairaland, una go kill person with laugh one day

joyfullyjoyous:
The two sides should apologise to one another and right their wrongs. It's not too late at this point before it degenerates to an unammendable one. I pray Annie n Tuface learn a lesson or two from this.

Apolo wetin? Because youre a woman ba? If she could throw a bottle at him and shout at him in public when he is rich, I wonder what she'd do to him if he is poor and broke. He should divorce her ASAP.
This is why Davido and wzkid didn't marry o.

Tuface already had 3 children before getting married to her .. I don't know why annie would be so stupid enough to think he would just forget the woman ... Na wickedness no de make Annie wan allow tuface de see Pero
She is a Wicked and Pained woman

With the way too face calm and quiet I won’t be surprised

insidelife22:
I have had such experience with my bro's wife.




I just pack my things jakpa for them.

Leaving only your brother to face the humiliation, Kai u disappointed me,

A brother in need is a brother for real

For people that knows Annie well, she has a shop at lekki phase 1,and she is a very strong hard drugs addict.
Choko dey her head wella.
Make tuface japa before chidinma case happens to him o.

God, please give me a God-fearing woman. Amen.

The worst thing in life is not to die but to live with bitterness.

Last day to enjoy 10percent off all your Jumianigeria orders.....check siggy.

Tedpgrass:




As much as I agree with most of your assertions, marriage as an institution will be around for awhile..
There can be changes to it. Such as intermittent open marriage.. But its here to stay.

But as humans, our desire for security is bone marrow deep. Instantaneous security is wrought through marriage. Hence women clamour for it, no..... agitate vigorously for the status - - MRS..

Its a shame that some turn the "security" on its head into some form of control. Yes its good to be mutually accountable to one another.. But to be controlling... is frankly witchcraft

Despite the fact that Cohabitation has been given the same legality with financial access as marriage in some climes, you still find people willing to change age-old laws to enable access to marriage... That says there is something special about marriage.

.

You're right. Marriage will always be there, with some tweaks in order to accommodate modern realities. Or it may become extinct. Any which way.

Dem no dey argue this kind thing . Na future tense e be. Time will tell

Femeto:
Shey Annie no be actress ni? She has her own money too.

Don't be deceived ooo. How much them the pay per role. Someone like 2face fit enter studio sign rubbish millions go stream. No try compare ooo

This 2baba families are at fault for this dilapidated issue going on. I think 2face had always wanted Pero but I think his family is just one tribalism family who no one ever want Pero because she is Yoruba. But along the line they find out the bad one was the good one and the good one in their eyes was the bad one but all to late. Am not blaming Annie expect 2face family that are too tribalism to allow their son to marry his choice of Woman

Kaymaxine:
For people that knows Annie well, she has a shop at lekki phase 1,and she is a very strong hard drugs addict.
Choko dey her head wella.
Make tuface japa before chidinma case happens to him o.

Yeah I heard she takes hard drugs and smokes weed daily. Shame.

Scolari020:
This 2baba families are at fault for this dilapidated issue going on. I think 2face had always wanted Pero but I think his family is just one tribalism family who no one ever want Pero because she is Yoruba. But along the line they find out the bad one was the good one and the good one in their eyes was the bad one but all to late. Am not blaming Annie expect 2face family that are too tribalism to allow their son to marry his choice of Woman

Try and read what you just posted and see if it makes any sense

Michelle55:
Why does marriage looks scary these days or am I the only one scared of this institution called marriage?

The good news is that you don't have to get married, so no point getting scared.