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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Aurelius1(m): 2:13pm On Sep 10, 2021
Never to plan based on somebody else's pocket. and never to depend on ANY one for help: be it friends or family.

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by neonly: 2:14pm On Sep 10, 2021
Trust no body

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Uniquekriss(m): 2:17pm On Sep 10, 2021
To not date a girl who says no sex. It didn't pay off and rn, damn any bitch who says no sex, regardless of how pretty or homely u are, I'll tell u straight up, hey, babe, I no dey

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by mfm04622: 2:17pm On Sep 10, 2021
Ereolamide:
Be obedient to spiritual warnings.

You see those strange people that come across your way be it mad folks, white garment pastors, Alfas, in short those that come to give you any warning.

Please I beg you in whatever you believe in, even if you're an atheist, please learn to listen and obey.

This is a recipe to fall victim to fraudsters!
What is wrong on you being close to whatever god you worship so he can pass the message to you directly?

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by RapistOnBail: 2:17pm On Sep 10, 2021
Ereolamide:
Be obedient to spiritual warnings.

You see those strange people that come across your way be it mad folks, white garment pastors, Alfas, in short those that come to give you any warning.

Please I beg you in whatever you believe in, even if you're an atheist, please learn to listen and obey.
Your Mumu no too much?

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by erubati: 2:17pm On Sep 10, 2021
Make hay while the sun shines.
Do what u have to do and don't procastinate
I wish I could turn back hands of time to 2013/214

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by OmovuduTheBeast(f): 2:20pm On Sep 10, 2021
Juliusmalema2:
Never to trust Buhari ever again in my life. Wailers warned me that year.

Cc: JuliusMalema aka Simplyleo
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 2:21pm On Sep 10, 2021
Being friends with people who share different view of life from yours will end in tears.

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Fakbrown: 2:21pm On Sep 10, 2021
Never to trust vagina people, there sincerity is just a facade, trust them at your own peril

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by seasy: 2:22pm On Sep 10, 2021
Love is not for everyone
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Loveknitting: 2:27pm On Sep 10, 2021
Trust. Want to know people bring in money,

Family is overated, not everyone will agree with this, so it's fine.
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Ajiswaggs(m): 2:27pm On Sep 10, 2021
Becareful of friends.
Don't trust anyone even your gf
Never reveal out your next plan(I really learnt my lesson here) people will envy you, discourage you and wish you illluck.

Don't try impressing anyone, it's not worth it.

Avoid show off of material things.

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by seyz91(m): 2:28pm On Sep 10, 2021
cheesy
samuel051:
Sapa is d best teacher..
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Sep 10, 2021
Always, always, always trust your instincts.

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by AZControversial(m): 2:35pm On Sep 10, 2021
.... that most Nigerians are allergic to kindness.

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Zealoy(m): 2:35pm On Sep 10, 2021
Earthstorms:
Keep written receipts and agreements even when dealing with friends
Oga u just head the nail on the head, it seems u are talking to me directly, this is exactly the situation am into now

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Originalsly: 2:37pm On Sep 10, 2021
People are like books ... don't judge them by the cover.

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Zealoy(m): 2:39pm On Sep 10, 2021
Never trust no one even your friends and family, keep written receipt and agreement even when you are dealing with friends and family

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by madukaanaya(m): 2:39pm On Sep 10, 2021
gambling has finished me but now am wiser

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by ESANMEA(f): 2:41pm On Sep 10, 2021
I've learnt to always listen to my mind... and to be quiet most of the time

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Mike2021forGod(m): 2:44pm On Sep 10, 2021
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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Sep 10, 2021
Uniquekriss:
To date a girl who says no sex. It didn't pay off and rn, damn any bitch who says no sex, regardless of how pretty or homely u are, I'll tell u straight up, hey, babe, I no dey
grin grin grin
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Tenshades(m): 2:48pm On Sep 10, 2021
Ajiswaggs:
Becareful of friends.
Don't trust anyone even your gf
Never reveal out your next plan(I really learnt my lesson here) people will envy you, discourage you and wish you illluck.

Don't try impressing anyone, it's not worth it.

Avoid show off of material things.

You sabi...

There is this bad energy that brews and radiates in people when they hear about your next plan to greater heights.

Some radiate this bad energy unknowingly and some knowingly.

At the end, you realize that the plan you once had didn't fly at all.

I learnt the hard way to keep my plans to myself till I execute em'

Concerning that trust and gf...hmmmm...I'm also a victim grin

The girl I call gf and my paddy...

Shit is crazy.

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Moz22: 2:48pm On Sep 10, 2021
Loveknitting:
Trust. Want to know people bring in money,

Family is overated, not everyone will agree with this, so it's fine.
not far off the truth tho

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Asiseeit: 2:48pm On Sep 10, 2021
Going out of my way to help people, especially financially.
My lesson - Help only yourself and your family (parents and siblings).

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by ESANMEA(f): 2:52pm On Sep 10, 2021
Don't love too much because if you do, you might end up hurting too much as well..

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Roma10: 2:53pm On Sep 10, 2021
grin

Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Mymehn: 2:59pm On Sep 10, 2021
Never rely on a single source of income in Nigeria. If you're making money, think of how to diversify it into 3-5 streams of income at least. Buhari regime really got me.

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Chulluko(m): 3:06pm On Sep 10, 2021
School isn't the way out

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Rooneyboy(m): 3:10pm On Sep 10, 2021
Earthstorms:
Keep written receipts and agreements even when dealing with friends

Should be, 'most especially when dealing with friends'.

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