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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by GeneralKoko(m): 9:40am On Sep 11, 2021
Draggun:
I learned never to trust anyone no matter what. A very close friend of mine and I did a job and got paid a huge amount of money, approximately $5k. He was sent the money because he had the means to but he denied ever receiving the money despite the evidence glaring at us. I just let it slide because I knew something better was coming and it came, since then my eyes and brain sharp pass anything.


If to say this thing happen for PH that your friend for day with in creator

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by StarryV(f): 9:51am On Sep 11, 2021
kenny5811:
i learn say school/education na scam... 3yrs afta graduation i still dnt hv a job nd age jst dey increase slowly n steadily... wasted 5yrs studying mech.eng....
Mechanical Engineering?

Are you knowledgeable in Electricals? Are you willing to work with Electricity Company? (NEPA) if yes, chat me up. We're recruiting at the moment. I don't know where you're residing presently sha.
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by GeneralKoko(m): 9:52am On Sep 11, 2021
freshbear:
Betrayal.
Got a job to head an organization back in 2017.Chairman said he needs an accountant current one was milking him out.Got this friend whose wife was an accountant but jobless.Told him abt the job(he was also without job).Thru my influence his wife got d job but turned around to gang up against me.I was bitter.i resigned and left.last year, chairman called me and pleaded that I should comeback because things were going under.Folks,she was the only one that kicked against my return.chairman told my this in confidence after I politely turn down the offer that I am in a better place.(federal staff).
The betrayal affected my close friendship with my guy.Buddies before we got married.I completely blocked them from my life.What shocked me was the fact that he went with his wife to chairman's house to lobby against my return.Two jobless peeps I was trying to help.Woman that came last in the aptitude test but I use my influence to get her the job primarily because of their job situation.
After almost four years of not seeing yesterday he showed up in my house trying to form friendship.I have long moved on.made him understand that yesterday.Not sure he will wanna pay me a visit again.

Damn!!!!

Such is life

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Warriboy1234567: 11:18am On Sep 11, 2021
alexola20:
Not even your mother
Yes... Especially her

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Sep 11, 2021
davibid:


Yeah, you trade too?
Yes oo....
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by davibid: 6:12pm On Sep 11, 2021
Ogademo1:

Yes oo....

You’ve started cashing out?
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Pootle: 7:14pm On Sep 11, 2021
SALLYBERRY01:


Sorry bosses I was not aware this post will get to front page.

Let me share mine.
1) Life is hard if your parents are poor, freinds and family will dissociate themselves from you.

2) money is very important.
3) Corruption is everywhere, just like my school before your letter get to Hod secretary will request for Gala or card.
4) Anybody can change anytime, don't trust nobody. The amount of pastors and alfa that has started bombing in my school is high, Satan is wining soul.
5) Oppression is real, forget about contentment, you can still feel oppressed.
6) Have money or you go suffer.
7) If you want to help anyone, Do it for God, not for any reward for yourself or your children.
9) nobody owe you SHIT either your family or friends , you can ask but if you are not given don't get angry because nobody owe you shit.


what i learned the hard way was religion is a scam for third world countries...it never saves, it only put you in bondage.

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 9:16am On Sep 12, 2021
davibid:


You’ve started cashing out?
Yes✅... I have $500 account and make minimum of $200 monthly.... It's gradual by gradual
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by davibid: 8:35pm On Sep 12, 2021
Ogademo1:

Yes✅... I have $500 account and make minimum of $200 monthly.... It's gradual by gradual

Nice one, you analyze yourself or you get signal from someone?
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 9:12am On Sep 13, 2021
davibid:


Nice one, you analyze yourself or you get signal from someone?
The worst thing to do as a trader is getting signals from someone... I analyse market myself.... I trade AU, GU and EU with my simple strategy.
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by 77star: 10:18am On Sep 13, 2021
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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by pulsa(m): 10:43am On Sep 13, 2021
doscar:
Men are more ready to repay an injury than a benefit, because gratitude is a burden and revenge is a pleasure.

Damn this is so true.

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by pulsa(m): 10:46am On Sep 13, 2021
Tolzy11:

Is it that you've stop gambling or you have mastered the game .
You wan know weda him never still wise grin grin grin
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by davibid: 1:29pm On Sep 13, 2021
Ogademo1:

The worst thing to do as a trader is getting signals from someone... I analyse market myself.... I trade AU, GU and EU with my simple strategy.

I analyze myself, though I’m still looking for a workable and consistent strategy, mind giving me some tips?
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by kenny5811(m): 1:49pm On Sep 13, 2021
GeneralKoko:


With the way you typed this like a child , you don't deserve a job .
thank you very much sir...
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 3:27pm On Sep 13, 2021
davibid:


I analyze myself, though I’m still looking for a workable and consistent strategy, mind giving me some tips?
WhatsApp me let me give you the PDF
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by davibid: 4:41pm On Sep 13, 2021
Ogademo1:

WhatsApp me let me give you the PDF

Ok, this my WhatsApp no. 07038780221
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Sep 13, 2021
davibid:


Ok, this my WhatsApp no. 07038780221
Sent
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Simpledude0847(m): 8:45am On Sep 14, 2021
Hurt is an understatement, brother. Ha! Nobody should take them serious oo


MufasaLion:


LMAO

Y'all still trust 'em? grin

I could really tell you were so hurt that you layed emphasis on 'Omo' grin grin grin grin
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by DEBUU: 12:51pm On Sep 14, 2021
Never you trust anyone even your parents and siblings.
Always keep your plans secret but get necessary information about that.

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by DEBUU: 1:23pm On Sep 14, 2021
shiffynaani:
you're really experienced

You know this life inside out

I haven't reached 30 and yet I've experienced first-hand all that you wrote up there.

Life has really dealt with me, I don't even see my age mate as friend again. I see them as kid because what they alwatys talk, do is far below my experience and understanding

I prefer to roll with adults in their late 40s and up. Some Even marvel silently about my personality

I suffer and experience a lot in this life cry


Can you share some of the experiences so that we can learn from it.
I love the maturity playing out on this thread.
Can
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Sep 14, 2021
DEBUU:
Never you trust anyone even your parents and siblings.
Always keep your plans secret but get necessary information about that.
So true
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Familia66: 1:53pm On Sep 14, 2021
I find it difficult to learn something new. but I realized that I could not become a good specialist and build a career if I did not start developing and studying modern developments and technologies. I decided to get tf certification and did not regret it. I became a freelancer and have a large number of clients. I make their wishes come true and it brings me a good and stable income. I'm glad that I started my self-development
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Sep 17, 2021
GeneralKoko:


Godforbid!!!!!
Girls are crazy and irrational!!!!
so are some guys ohh
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Sep 17, 2021
There are ppl whom I don't want to see this, but might,
I don't really care though,
My comment on this post is more of a testimony, I used to hear that people battle with pornography and I thought wow,
Cuz after I got born again many years ago, all that wasn't a problem for me,
I felt the need to develop my Christian and prayer life more
Buh I guess I just ignored or was too lazy to really seek growth in my walk with God, and I learnt the hard way,
Cuz after 5years of being a Christian,due to lack of prayer power and growth and the fact that I remained a spiritual babe for long, I fell into the seige of Babylon,
That is to say after 5 years I fell into pornography, although it wasn't a chronic case, it kept reoccurring and it made me fraustrated,I was really depressed that period and learnt the pain of lack of spiritual growth the hard way,
My deliverance came after I finally obeyee God and opened up to a particularly person a pastor that he led me to,.I felt that this man held me in too much high esteem to tell him this truth, but I did anyway, when I saw that Satan will keep using this secrecy and disobedience against me ,
Since I obeyed my life has changed that phase is over, and I won't dare to risk spiritual growth again, it is a priority...


Other things I learnt the hard way is trusting someone toooo much,
I don't trust alot, but when I do get attached to someone I do it all the way, hence I can get really hurt when I'm betrayed..

Others are actually good lessons,
Hardwork truly really pays. And what you sow is what you reap...


And a life of sin, takes from you and has nothing to offer, if you keep at it,it can destroy your life...buh Jesus is a life saver and life transformer..


I learnt this the hard way, I thank my God that I came out victorious
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by StarryV(f): 3:40pm On Sep 22, 2021
kenny5811:
i learn say school/education na scam... 3yrs afta graduation i still dnt hv a job nd age jst dey increase slowly n steadily... wasted 5yrs studying mech.eng....
well i really thought you needed a job. But obviously you don't or maybe you're not interested.
The application will close soon and please blame no one if you miss this opportunity.
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by shantti(m): 12:04pm On Sep 23, 2021
He holder of the money calls the shots
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by mommaJ(f): 12:48pm On Sep 23, 2021
[quote author=StarryV post=106069177] please check your mail.
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by StarryV(f): 1:57pm On Sep 23, 2021
[quote author=mommaJ post=106096190][/quote] I just did. I've replied also. You can call me.
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Sep 23, 2021
samuel051:
Sapa is d best teacher..
Lolzzzzzzzz
Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Sep 23, 2021
Never to give up in life no matter the obstacles and always believe in your self.
Lastly
This life don't dear go broke
Oppression is real

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Re: What Are The Things You've Learned The Hard Way? by Elliotwealth1(m): 5:50pm On Sep 24, 2021
If you don't mind, can you share.
I am listening
I want to learn myself

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