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HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

Dissap:
Fvck 'em all, bro. They ain't worth no shit! Damn! Drill every hole they gat to offer... Make them bitches scream like their ain't no tommorow!
Fvck 'em bitches! Fvck 'em! Fvck 'em real hard like a real cholo! Damn!

Are you alright??

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

Op, you are about to start cheating on your current guy....

airminem:
Op, you are about to start cheating on your current guy....

No dear...

He wants you as his sex mate,so you better think with your brain now and leave.

Jesu! What do is a mumu question

Or continue giving him attention, give him sex too( that is what you are waiting for too ) and don't ever come back here to ask questions or rain curses on him how he used and dump you for another lady that is sensible

He wants F.W.B Friends with Benefit

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

My advice is this: Walk away.

He may fancy you a little but he definitely doesn't want you enough to be with you.

At best, you are a spare tyre in case other relationships don't work or worse since he knows you like him, you will become his booty call whenever he wants to have sex.

I am a guy and I will tell you the truth;

If a man loves you, there will be no confusion in his mind about it. Nothing can keep him away. But if he doesn't, nothing you do can make him stay.

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

He just wants to be friends with you. So you need to decide whether the friendship is worth it to you or not.

I don't see what the problem is !

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

You should thank God he was honest and he didn't friendzoned you.
Just know he isn't into you and clear off the feelings you caught for him and walk away from his life.A word is enough for the wise*****

Dude is careful with his heart, cus it doesn't always end well , Open relationships are the best , nothing attached

Pussy creatures see the way they are giving one of their kind advice as if they get sense.

muller101:
Pussy creatures see the way they are giving one of their kind advice as if they get sense.

So because you have an outie means you are somehow on another level from those who have an innie?

For Pete's sake, how old are these kids who frequent these sections on nairaland abeg?

The guy dat comments first, hope he never enter market so?

Greystone:
My advice is this: Walk away. He may fancy you a little but he definitely doesn't want you enough to be with you.

At best, you are a spare tyre in case other relationships don't work or worse since he knows you like him, you will become his booty call whenever he wants to have sex.

I am a guy and I will tell you the truth;

If a man loves you, there will be no confusion in his mind about it. Nothing can keep him away. But if he doesn't, nothing you do can make him stay.

Listen to this op

Once had that experience back in those days as a Nigerian student. The babe in quote always like to identify with me, no single day I called that she doesn't come around, we hang out together up to late hour, play together but once I request that we get serious as in relationship matter she declined stating that she is not ready for that, I continued with the groove till I graduated left school still on still she was still dilly-dallying well me shall got to erased everything about her..

Life goes on.....

empress101:
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"... To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..I'm so confused now, what do I do??

What he's saying is that you're just a placeholder to him or that's what he will turn you into, until the person he wants comes along. You better cut him off with the quickness before you open another thread on Nairaland. Don't say you weren't warned. Good luck.

Greystone:
If a man loves you, there will be no confusion in his mind about it. Nothing can keep him away. But if he doesn't, nothing you do can make him stay.

There will also be no confusion in her mind as well, because he would be very clear about his intentions.

Kobojunkie:
He just wants to be friends with you. So you need to decide whether the friendship is worth it to you or not.

I don't see what the problem is !

Well, women generally find it hard to accept that there could be a man out there who doesn't want them. A whole spec like them.

It's a hard hit.

Bolarineliza202:
You should thank God he was honest and he didn't friendzoned you.
Just know he isn't into you and clear off the feelings you caught for him and walk away from his life.A word is enough for the wise*****

Does she have to walk away from his life? It's not that deep and he might only genuinely like her as just a friend. You guys need to get that straight.

waywardpikin:
Well, women generally find it hard to accept that there could be a man out there who doesn't want them. A whole spec like them.

It's a hard hit.

Huh? I don't think that statement is true neither do I see what it has to do with this.

Kobojunkie:
Huh? I don't think that statement is true neither do I see what it has to do with this.

You wouldn't.

Damnnn niggar
Isoright

Grab my damnnnn afternoon weed while I read comments

Lol

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

Do the bolded and thank me later.

Dissap:
Fvck 'em all, bro. They ain't worth no shit! Damn! Drill every hole they gat to offer... Make them bitches scream like their ain't no tommorow!
Fvck 'em bitches! Fvck 'em! Fvck 'em real hard like a real cholo! Damn!

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