Dissap:
All these Nigerian women are asshóles! They are only made to fvck and to be fvcked. Drill their asses and fvck em real hard like a real cholo. Damn it bro!

Bros na so them dy drill your sisters?

waywardpikin:


Does she have to walk away from his life? It's not that deep and he might only genuinely like her as just a friend. You guys need to get that straight.

Why women can't comprehend this is something I won't understand

Just cus you like him, he is not entitled to like u back. Girls say this thing all the time. Just be friends Its that simple.

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

That guy right there will be a time-waster in terms of relationship (he has already told you he doesn't want one). So pause the feelings-catching..

As a friend, your feelings will get in the way of the friendship and you both might become friends with benefits, and you will lose in the end. Because he already said what he wants.

My advise is that stay away.

OGraffix:

The guy dat comments first, hope he never enter market so?

He's typing from market my brother

Are you okay bro? Is everything going well at home?

Dissap:
All these Nigerian women are asshóles! They are only made to fvck and to be fvcked. Drill their asses and fvck em real hard like a real cholo. Damn it bro!

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

Oh, you don't want to be friend zoned?
You should do as you say, erase him from memory.
But note, he is a good guy. He is being honset with you. We need more guys like him not players

Ishilove:

How is it selfish? I'm pretty sure he doesn't know you're catching feelings because if he did, he wouldn't want you hanging around him like a puppy.

Make una dey calm down with the jibes. Why are you calling her a puppy now?

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

Eeeyah.

I don't know how many girls I've said this to just because I was not ready for lovey-dovey

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

is it every guy that comes your way you catch feelings for that you'll have relationship with? infidelity loading

Bornsinner7:
Are you alright??

He is not. A psyco case I guess

You missed the part of cash gifts from him

waywardpikin:


There will also be no confusion in her mind as well, because he would be very clear about his intentions.

Absolutely!

*Your moniker is just so funny to me, lol.

Greystone:


My advice is this: Walk away. He may fancy you a little but he definitely doesn't want you enough to be with you.

At best, you are a spare tyre in case other relationships don't work or worse since he knows you like him, you will become his booty call whenever he wants to have sex.

I am a guy and I will tell you the truth;

If a man loves you, there will be no confusion in his mind about it. Nothing can keep him away. But if he doesn't, nothing you do can make him stay.

Just because you are a guy doesn't mean you have the right to speak for all men.

We are not all the same.

Some people are disillusioned with the concept of "love" or relationships

You don't know where that man is coming from, so who the hell are you to make conclusions on his behalf?

He wants steady nacking without commitment

Better know what you want,as a matured lady,I just hope you dont settle for less.you have no biz with that type of guy who doesn't want commitment but benefits friend

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning on stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

Confusion everywhere

I met this girl I liked and wanted a relationship with, I've been asking her out till she eventually visited on a Sunday after she closed from church.

We gisted for over 2 hours and when it was time to go we hugged and I kissed her & she kissed back and then smooshing and fingering begins but she was in the mood already for some knacking but I held back because I don't want her feeling like I took advantage of her and because I wanted a serious relationship and not just a one-off or sex only thing...

Long story short, she withdrew from me since then, she intentionally avoided me and started staying away, this is someone we played and talked a lot before that Godly Sunday....

What do women even want

Never catch feelings on a cruise

I agree with you 100%

Greystone:


My advice is this: Walk away. He may fancy you a little but he definitely doesn't want you enough to be with you.

At best, you are a spare tyre in case other relationships don't work or worse since he knows you like him, you will become his booty call whenever he wants to have sex.

I am a guy and I will tell you the truth;

If a man loves you, there will be no confusion in his mind about it. Nothing can keep him away. But if he doesn't, nothing you do can make him stay.

Dissap:
Yo Hommies! I just wanna tell you something;
Fvck 'em all, bro. They ain't worth no shit! Damn! Drill every hole they gat to offer... Make them bitches scream like their ain't no tommorow!
Fvck them bitches! Fvck 'em real hard like a real cholo! Damn!
All these women are all whores!
Drill their ass and make them SCREEM your name while you ride them like a fvcking cheap horse! Damn it!

Mehn!!! this guy is a psycho. What about ur mum and sisters.

Dissap:
Fvck 'em all, bro. They ain't worth no shit! Damn! Drill every hole they gat to offer... Make them bitches scream like their ain't no tommorow!
Fvck 'em bitches! Fvck 'em! Fvck 'em real hard like a real cholo! Damn!

Bornsinner7:
Are you alright??

A whole "Bornsinner"7 shock
Finally, sin pass sin
Nawa for the whole situation

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

Let's be honest.. the guy has his best interest for you, because a guy that will want to use you would just go on with the relationship and still use you...

Well, there's another way to this.. baba doesn't want to tie himself down with any lady and just have fun so if you bring that guilty card of always being there and doing everything for him.. he would just tell you that he didn't give wat you guys have any label and by the way if you weren't having fun with him...

So the best thing is to have him as a platonic friend or better still, If you can't control your emotions.. cut all connections with him...

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

U can always be cordial friends or even buddies bt if ur emotions are conflicting right now u can step back and then reconnect when ur emotions can handle the situation or terms.

U don’t force relationships u let them flow. Nobody should be ambushed into a relationship with anybody.

It seems like U want to ambush him into a relationship when he’s not emotionally ready or yet to even study u and be sure. Let people breathe.

Especially aslong as he’s not asking for sex.

You may love him, but he doesn't love you, only wants to turn you into sex dull, youknow, makes fun with you and that's all. Be greatful he came out open to spell his needs. So, queit if you love yourself.

empress101:
HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...

Problem solved.

Na wa wa which kind thing is this

msabdul:
You may love him, but he doesn't love you, only wants to turn you into sex dull, youknow, makes fun with you and that's all. Be greatful he came out open to spell his needs. So, queit if you love yourself.

I’m not sure he’s demanding for sex(yet).

Company isn’t necessarily sex.

Bola146:
Jesu! What do is a mumu question

Or continue giving him attention, give him sex too( that is what you are waiting for too ) and don't ever come back here to ask questions or rain curses on him how he used and dump you for another lady that is sensible

I have nothing to add to everything said BUT what if he is scared of commitment or coming from a terrible relationship

All of you are saying, "dump him" "dump him"
Did she ask for you opinion in sex matters?
She might be having a hella good fvck from him
Madam, if you feel you are not getting anything and u wanna leave, leave.
Stop confusing ursef!

Dissap:

Drill their ass and make them SCREEM your name while you ride them like a fvcking cheap horse! Damn bro!

This one is not normal