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Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by OlayemiTade(m): 2:08pm On Sep 12, 2021
Anybody can cheat, even if you truly love the individual but when you are conscious of yourself you can manage to scale through such temptation
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by sokkatua: 2:08pm On Sep 12, 2021
My wife cheated on me when i lost my job ,thank God for a nairalander in Canada that hook me up with a much better job.I dont ever want to be a woman again
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Ayo2004: 2:09pm On Sep 12, 2021
moneyissweet:
I love my wife so much and I just bought Hyundai sonata 2019 model for her birthday last month,but I still dey groove other beautiful babes with big yansh outside. It is all about fun, I need to enjoy my money now that I am alive. It has nothing to do Love,I will do everything and anything for my love,but I will still groove other babes.

I need to make other women happy too.
Sure gee!!
U sabi

No man wey get small change wey no dey cheat
Na your wife u put as profile picture huh
Omo,u like better thing o grin
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Dodoproperties: 2:09pm On Sep 12, 2021
Love has been lost between my uncle and his wife for long, they are both living like cat and rat, if they didn't quarrel over one silly thing in a day, then that day is abnormal,
BUT you know what? Bros has never cheated......he's not just into such game, he said he doesn't love her again like before, but he cannot cheat.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by aAK1(m): 2:10pm On Sep 12, 2021
Sex and love are two different things. Especially for the men.we can sleep with many women and still be madly in love with our partners. A man will cheat out of curiosity or desire for variety
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Nobody: 2:11pm On Sep 12, 2021
Beebah2000:
Why do people still cheat on people they truly love?? undecided cry cry
Are you people not tired of this baselsess Question? It's becoming embarrassing how this same question makes front page 3x per day.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by jaxxy(m): 2:11pm On Sep 12, 2021
Beebah2000:
Why do people still cheat on people they truly love?? undecided cry cry
It has more to do with personal character and principles than love.

It also depends on if they truely love u, not everybody that say “I love u” or dates u, actually loves u like u think they do. Lol
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Ogasah: 2:12pm On Sep 12, 2021
Beebah2000:
Why do people still cheat on people they truly love?? undecided cry cry
It’s only cheating if you get caught. First, get this nonsensical concept of love being monogamous out of your head. One can love another with as much passion as the first. You can love another for qualities the first never possessed while still being inlove with the 1st for all you reasons you got into the relationship at the beginning.

One can love many and many can love one. Your love for another says nothing about how you feel about the first. It’s just that simple you love 2 or more.

Monogamy is a foreign concept that forces one to deny himself. Puts you in a box. Some men (and women) just will never conform as it’s unnatural.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Ishilove: 2:12pm On Sep 12, 2021
E reach to ask
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by LastProphet: 2:12pm On Sep 12, 2021
Newboss:
Definitely.

Cheating has nothing to do with love. Not cheating has nothing to do with love.

It's all up to the individual's circumstances, choices, luck and opportunities. It's just sex. Make me cûm. That's all. Love is an emotion that is more than cûmming.

He is not sexually satisfied, nigga gats get it elsewhere. Same goes for the lady. It's not about love.
This obvious and well researched response has been explained to people many times before but how they still don't get it just baffles. What has love for one person got to do with instinctive primal yearning (lust) for another? How is this confusing? You are in love and so? What are people even learning these days?
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by akanbiaa(m): 2:12pm On Sep 12, 2021
Beebah2000:
Why do people still cheat on people they truly love?? undecided cry cry
Because carnal desires, sexual attraction are independent of true love emotional mutual feelings for each other.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by stmoriz(m): 2:13pm On Sep 12, 2021
Na for this matter devil Dey take enter. When you are tempted you go cheat on someone you love. But once you are caught. The matter go con clear for your eyes because someone you love is hurting.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by authority2006(m): 2:13pm On Sep 12, 2021
MrBrownJay1:
you [b]CANT cheat on the people you truly love, because if you indeed truly loved someone, you wouldnt knowingly hurt them by cheating. sadly, many people fall out of love or pretend/lie that they love someone, when in reality they dont.

if you dont care about your partner's feeling; if you dont respect your partner/relationship; if you are ready and willing to throw your r/ship into the dustbin then you cant call that love
Lol. You are more than confused about the topic. Decision not to cheat is not because you love your partner, but because it is your personal decision not to cheat. It has nothing to do with who you love.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Decryptor(m): 2:14pm On Sep 12, 2021
Person wey open thread don leave una japa
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Awoleesu(m): 2:15pm On Sep 12, 2021
Ayo2004:
Men are designed to disect more than one toto,it gets worse when they are rich and are able to attract any toto of their choice
For those saying some men don't cheat (very rare especially among the rich ones),those ones are denying themselves,trying their possible best,trying to override their natural instincts not to cheat
It is not a matter of love
A man usually loves one woman with his heart but his gbola is for plenty women
It's not about love.
He has met a pretty girl who he wants to explore her Toto,booty and titties until he moves on to the next one but his heart dey with one woman.Sex is not emotional for most men.

As for women too,they are designed to always look for better,they cheat on their boyfriends and husbands when in love because they met a richer,more handsome,cuter,bigger gbola and so on. because they always want more except the ones that cant just do without sex
That's why pretty ladies cheat more than ugly girls because they always meet a guy with more but an ugly girl will hold on to one guy if she manages to see him self
Women (especially the pretty ones) who don't cheat are the ones that are able to control their level of materialism and greed (Nigerian girls left the group chat grin) and direct that attention to that one gbola.Most pretty women cheat one way or the other
It's not about love
Women want to chop life without working too hard
This is why your pretty babe will japa once she sees a guy with a clean Benz(and she will,if she is the Nicki Minaj type)
It's nothing personal,just business
For most women,comfort>love

My conclusion is it is almost impossible to find a rich and famous guy guy or an extremely pretty girl with those ass and curves who doesn't cheat especially in Nigeria.In short,please ,never fall in love in Nigeria
Treat your partner right,take care of them but always put in the back of your mind that your so called lover can serve you breakfast anytime.Hence,don't do pass yourself
Don't spend pass yourself
Don't kill yourself for anybody.
But many of una no dey hear word angry

I am a guy so I advice my fellow Nigerian men to please follow their natural instincts.If you have a sexy lover and see a sexier one,please fvck am.Do not keep killing yourself inside with "I must be loyal"
A lion should act like a lion grin
In summary,

Men are potential Polygamists while women are potential prostitutes abi?

And cheating, according to your erudite highness, is a subject of instincts...


I copy!
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Menandbrethren: 2:15pm On Sep 12, 2021
OhMyGodWtf:
Dont get it wrong or ever make that mistake of thinking that you cannot cheat on someone you truly love.. you will and you can
Chairman �
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Ayo2004: 2:17pm On Sep 12, 2021
Sonnobax15:
cheesy Enjoy your life bro..At least you still recognized your wife first before those other bannies..... But a woman will always be a woman no matter what...My popsman also did close to what you did for your wife for my mom,but las las, momsy no gree say make other woman enter the house...She even categorically told popsman that whatever he bought for her is the outcome of her struggle with him grin
Same here...
My popsy na rich fine guy wey dey scatter Toto steady especially those big bumbum light skinned Igbo girls but e love my mama die and him pikins...
When he first dey cashout,he first buy SUV for my mama and us to dey use while he go enter bus go work for Apapa

Na since small I learn say rich or financial stable man no dey fvck one toto o
My mumcy no gree sha,popcy gats comot go dey continue him life outside but he remained a great father to us still...
One time,I visit am,if u see the young fresh Igbo babe wey dey him side ehnn mehnnn...me sef dey eye that babe grin

Love and fvcking Toto be two very different things
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by valentinos22(m): 2:17pm On Sep 12, 2021
Cudeze4:
I don't really see any reason why someone who is in love should cheat, although most of them have different stupid reasons why they cheat.
some will say, she's not giving me sex, some will say i need to test another person.(My brother shey na market?).
If you are truely in LOVE, you wouldn't cheat the one whom you love bcuz you know it'll break his/her. And as far as i know, ''TRUE LOVE DOESN'T CAUSE HEARTBREAK''
U can take this info straigth to the bank; thank me latter...
The tendency to get the taste of a new vg.dkk is in all humans, true lovers, non true lovers, pastors,imam, Bleep boy/girl alike!
Footnote!
Yeah yeah i expect some females to come after me for this summary but dont worry as we all know how society and mad African traditions has limited them in that regard.

In summary, if "E" does not cheat on "F", its not because E has a true love for F it is because of the following

1. Clean/clear opportunity hasnt come
2. E might be on a spiritual path
3. F probably pays all the bills at the moment so E may not want to take that risk.
Take this gift hook line and sinker and u will be free!
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Mac2016(m): 2:17pm On Sep 12, 2021
Sex and love are two different things especially to a man. I doubt if we were in love with all babes that we have ever had sex with. I want to believe it is same with girls.

Not to cheat is a decision not to hurt a partner, it is not a question of love. Cheating doesn't transfer the love you have for your partner to the person you cheat with.

Maybe the question shd be rephrased for an improved context.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Nobody: 2:19pm On Sep 12, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:
Are you people not tired of this baselsess Question? It's becoming embarrassing how this same question makes front page 3x per day.
if it is baseless to u, then u are a fool for commenting on this thread.
SMH....
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Sonnobax15(m): 2:20pm On Sep 12, 2021
Ayo2004:
Same here...
My popsy na rich fine guy wey dey scatter Toto steady especially those big bumbum light skinned Igbo girls but e love my mama die and him pikins...
When he first dey cashout,he first buy SUV for my mama and us to dey use while he go enter bus go work for Apapa

Na since small I learn say rich or financial stable man no dey fvck one toto o
My mumcy no gree sha,popcy gats comot go dey continue him life outside but he remained a great father to us still...
One time,I visit am,if u see the young fresh Igbo babe wey dey him side ehnn mehnnn...me sef dey eye that babe grin

Love and fvcking Toto be two very different things
grin chaiiii,na who no know dey mistake the two things to be one.. grin
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Sep 12, 2021
Noblewealth:
Did they actually love them! You won't dare hurt the feelings of the person you claim you love, everything you do about the person will be with trembling and enormous care.. I could remember one babe I dated then, when she said she is coming to my side, I started having this feeling of demi god and also checking myself if I have no pickup act...

Bottom line is, in as much as we claim we love God and still defile is commandments which hurt him and grief his heart how much we human...
100%@ the bolded. Our unfaithfulness to those we claim to love stems from our unfaithfulness to God.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Taroshi(m): 2:21pm On Sep 12, 2021
Beebah2000:
Why do people still cheat on people they truly love?? undecided cry cry
It's how animals are wired, including we "higher" animals.
We were never made to be monogamous.

But, most people would criticise that statement.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Nobody: 2:21pm On Sep 12, 2021
koyyess:
Fixed. Stop using the word 'love' carelessly.

A selfish and greedy person has no love in him or her.
what is this?? undecided undecided
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by suffering: 2:21pm On Sep 12, 2021
Humans love sex. That eight minute activity can make an individual sell their entire family into a lifetime of slavery. This goes for both genders.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Johnboom: 2:21pm On Sep 12, 2021
Cos they are not saved. Jesus is the way.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Ayo2004: 2:22pm On Sep 12, 2021
Awoleesu:
In summary,

Men are potential Polygamists while women are potential prostitutes abi?

And cheating, according to your erudite highness, is a subject of instincts...


I copy!
Exactly!
We might not like it but it is the truth that has been working since the beginning of time and it's not changing anytime soon
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Abagworo(m): 2:23pm On Sep 12, 2021
If by cheating you mean having extramarital affairs then it has nothing to do with love but respect.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by MrFta(m): 2:23pm On Sep 12, 2021
People cheat because they lack self discipline, inability to say no to their sexual feelings towards another party other than their spouse.
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Sep 12, 2021
Ayo2004:
Men are designed to disect more than one toto,it gets worse when they are rich and are able to attract any toto of their choice
For those saying some men don't cheat (very rare especially among the rich ones),those ones are denying themselves,trying their possible best,trying to override their natural instincts not to cheat
It is not a matter of love
A man usually loves one woman with his heart but his gbola is for plenty women
It's not about love.
He has met a pretty girl who he wants to explore her Toto,booty and titties until he moves on to the next one but his heart dey with one woman.Sex is not emotional for most men.

As for women too,they are designed to always look for better,they cheat on their boyfriends and husbands when in love because they met a richer,more handsome,cuter,bigger gbola and so on. because they always want more except the ones that cant just do without sex
That's why pretty ladies cheat more than ugly girls because they always meet a guy with more but an ugly girl will hold on to one guy if she manages to see him self
Women (especially the pretty ones) who don't cheat are the ones that are able to control their level of materialism and greed (Nigerian girls left the group chat grin) and direct that attention to that one gbola.Most pretty women cheat one way or the other
It's not about love
Women want to chop life without working too hard
This is why your pretty babe will japa once she sees a guy with a clean Benz(and she will,if she is the Nicki Minaj type)
It's nothing personal,just business
For most women,comfort>love

My conclusion is it is almost impossible to find a rich and famous guy guy or an extremely pretty girl with those ass and curves who doesn't cheat especially in Nigeria.In short,please ,never fall in love in Nigeria
Treat your partner right,take care of them but always put in the back of your mind that your so called lover can serve you breakfast anytime.Hence,don't do pass yourself
Don't spend pass yourself
Don't kill yourself for anybody.
But many of una no dey hear word angry

I am a guy so I advice my fellow Nigerian men to please follow their natural instincts.If you have a sexy lover and see a sexier one,please fvck am.Do not keep killing yourself inside with "I must be loyal"
A lion should act like a lion grin
Nothing but the truth
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Sep 12, 2021
Dagger111:
U don go cheat on ur lover ba?
no
Re: Why Do People Cheat On People They Love?? by Nobody: 2:26pm On Sep 12, 2021
They say;

if you eat just garri and a particular soup for a prolonged period of time, it's detrimental to your health. His true is this?

Very true.

Does it apply to cheating?

Well, I don't know.

Use your head!!!
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