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Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by OdogwuHappyMan: 2:59pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Justbehave: Oga if he knew, why would he post public for advice? You for just ignore the post than spill these gibberish. You want to sit on the fence, abeg comot for road make we for see joor. Op. Make out a strong budget taking your income and expenses into consideration. Cut all excess with your wife which includes setting up any biz and his bro excesses. Send her bro packing immediately. Your expenses should include evening outings to take your mind off the happening. Then allocate and keep balance for your personal savings and investments. Life continues bro |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Solofresh2: 3:07pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Justbehave: |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by RealAlubarika(m): 3:21pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
WEEDdemgirls: You've said it all, I doubt if the story is true or you're just a simp. Who tolerate such in his space?I wonder the kind of men we now have We rise by lifting others |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Klass99(f): 3:24pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by fxsky: 3:38pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Lessons123: It is your income she married to.....and not your person. Get 2nd wife |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Johnsown1(m): 3:41pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
I think this lunch is meant for the married couples because in my bachelor's mind, I will give my self a break by staying away from them for 3-6 months. I will rent a separate and distance house for her siblings after my break and I will pretend to be broke in other to check if she will change her mind or quit. |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Kobojunkie: 3:42pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Johnsown1:The problems will still be there waiting for you after your break... compounded. |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Johnsown1(m): 3:45pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Then it will be better if I will fake brokenness so that she may flee or calm down |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Kobojunkie: 3:51pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Johnsown1:Fake brokenness? Problems typically have no way of processing our human condition so they continue to evolve as previously coded until we finally get around to resolving what has become of them.. If his wife leaves, that is more problems for him as he now has to find a way to handle his kid, handle the store assuming she leaves that too, handle his own job and still pays off the loan he has on top of it all among other problems.. |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by GetMeRight: 4:23pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Trash. Are you a bird? Because those are the creatures that don't serve any purpose to their parents after all the labour and sacrifices to make them become something |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Kobojunkie: 4:26pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
GetMeRight:Maybe it would do you some good to learn from the birds. |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by GetMeRight: 4:30pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: No. My parents' labour and sacrifices on me will never be in vain. They deserve much more from me |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Kobojunkie: 4:40pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
GetMeRight:Well, if that works for you, great then! God who created the birds the way they are also did so with great wisdom. |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Vicas2000: 4:42pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
manontree: Poster please IGNORE this advice. This will make it worse! And yes take it from someone who is married! |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by kingreign(m): 4:45pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
GetMeRight: Ignore that moniker, he's fond of giving trash advices in marital related threads. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by SURElee(f): 5:08pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Lessons123: You married a wife, before you married her, sis you see if she had entrepreneurial spirit? You asked get to resign and set up businesses for her that she can't manage and maybe they were never her life of passion sef. Some women prefer to work in an office or teach. Did you ask her if she really wanted to resign? Now kasala don dey first for your head. What sort of a man are you? How can a man use his money to marry a wife and house his neither inlaw and brother go dey disrespect am for him own house? . Oh! So you are waiting for nairalanders to ask you to sit up as a man in that home? You are waiting for us to tell you to kick they BIL out for his disrespect to you so the sister who is the wife you married can know who is the man of the home? . If you like continue to be lily delivered let a BIL and your wife as siblings wreck you, they kuku know you have money so they are misbehaving. The choice is yours to make |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by donhils: 5:17pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
greenie77:His dad |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Omobada(m): 5:29pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Lessons123: Replying those small boys, who knows nothing about life, in that civil manner shows how irredeemably weak you are. Man, stop being a chronic gentleman |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Babalola0920: 5:29pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Marry another wife ! You will THANK GOD ALWAYS |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by v2: 5:39pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
EmptyGarden: You have said it all. The sense of entitlement is so scary that they tend to be very ungrateful for things you go out of your way to do for them. As soon as you say "I DO", it becomes your responsibility to meet their needs, if you like go and borrow. The ones that mocks you at your low points in life are actually the type that sends men to their early grave. Use your head or you die before your time. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by SURElee(f): 5:40pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Lessons123: Then stop quarreling na. Work on issues that make you two quarrel. |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by djon78(m): 5:42pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: You are talking story Even God requires being grateful from we humans Talkless of a human being Anyone that is ungrateful doesn't deserve anything good be it wife or whatever Women especially are very fond of this thing And this is the reason why many homes are having issues Many entitled and ungrateful wives 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:47pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Lessons123: If someone disrespects you in your own house, without question, the next night they should sleep under a bridge. |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:49pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: You must be a vagina person. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Johnsown1(m): 5:52pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: If the wife leaves which I doubt then he will have to heal and find another. I know of a doctor that his wife died leaving him with a 3year old kid but he never remarry till date, he can handle himself na. The stoor is a small thing because he can put people their,monitor them and go about his business and whether she leaves or stays the loan must be repaid. |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Kobojunkie: 5:57pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Johnsown1:If you say so. |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by AfroKnight: 6:05pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Even a blind man could see that you had started to gaslight OP. It is obvious where you lean anyway. |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by djon78(m): 6:08pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Rogerss: Very revealing |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Kobojunkie: 6:33pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
AfroKnight:I am afraid you have no clue what my leanings are at all since all I am doing is following Op's own lead. Majority of you commenting are instead reacting without first getting the story in properly. The OP made it known he is a Christian and has no intentions of seeking a way out of marriage, and he also made it known he was not looking to kicking his in-laws out meaning he is looking for a way to resolve not create new issues on top of the load he already bears. |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by dannielight(m): 6:46pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Abeg... Who is this? 30M indebtedness because of a woman who doesn't show gratitude. Does she have to send him to the grave before you realise that you are just heartless? |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by Kobojunkie: 6:57pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
dannielight:I dey ask the guy questions about the situation, you dey ask me wetin?? |
Re: My Wife Is Ungrateful by calebseun2015(m): 7:30pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Not everyone is business minded, let your wife go back to the teaching job or she should find a better salary job and continue to foot the family bill while you have another business for yourself as side hustle incase you have issue with your major source(s) of income in the future. |
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