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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by suffering: 2:58pm On Sep 19, 2021
How many times will this story make front page here?
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by BigBizzy(m): 2:58pm On Sep 19, 2021
My brother, as much as I don't support abortion ...which person daughter you want to suffer and truncate her life?

Go and sidon...baby no be joke. Calm down

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by AroleOduduwa2: 2:59pm On Sep 19, 2021
If I am related to the said girl, I will definitely abort the pregnancy, imagine that girl bringing a child to this world without any proper plan. You also have a loser mentality, already you think someone else is responsible for your woes.

My advise to you is to work on your craft, have a stable life before thinking of having a family.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Romanoff(f): 2:59pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

Oga, you don't have any right if you've not paid shishi on top her head.

Na them spos find boys wey go beat sense enter your head. Instead of you to carry your parents to go see them and make proper resolution and agreement, you're flexing on top girl wey no be you born her, no be you train her and you no marry her.

What right are you talking about gan?

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by manchinKY(m): 2:59pm On Sep 19, 2021
how old is the girl, if she is bellow 18, shey u know say u fit go jail for impregnating a minor if the parents mean you..
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Depressed101: 2:59pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.
the mother is right you are tout... And any right thinking parent will not like to associate their child with a tout.., see your statement, that you will take the youth to their house, is that not how a tout thinks?

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by jarrot(m): 2:59pm On Sep 19, 2021
Wetin 19yrs boy dey find for woman body ?
We've lost it totally in this generation!

If it was your sister that was pregnant for a 19yrs old what would be your reaction?

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by AutoChick4U(f): 2:59pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.
Seems we've got an old soul here. If men get your reasoning, I doubt we'd have single moms everywhere. Impressive.

Op, childbirth isn't an easy task, have you asked the girl what she wants? Cos this aint about you alone

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Tajbol4splend(m): 2:59pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.


You illegally impregnated her daughter without you paying her dowry, how is that your right?

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by MNDY(m): 2:59pm On Sep 19, 2021
Olunmercy56:
Wahala. Prove to them that you are responsible, since you could lift legs and impregnate someone's child, be ready to provide all her needs. Or she will give birth in her parents house?

You will not advise your gender not to give consent to sex anyhow and other issues.

Everything na the man una go blame.

Did he rape her?
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ramanto(m): 2:59pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.
What stupid right have you when you haven't married the girl? Start making wedding arrangements to show the parents you are man enough

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by obyrich(m): 3:00pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:

Haven't been tied And flogged before.

Maybe them go tie and flog you this time before your head go cool down. Carry community boys go disturb the woman and see how the story go change against you. Impregnator 1.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Charmingrascal(m): 3:00pm On Sep 19, 2021
Romanoff:
If she's below 18, her parents can decide for her.

I'm more concerned that you've started having babies at 19 do you not have solid plans for your life or dreams and goals to make your life better?


Decide for her to abort a pregnancy abi?

Abortion is not legal in Nigeria no matter who is pregnant or who impregnated who

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Canberra55: 3:01pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:

It's her assumption, yes they know me in the street we all live in, am popular and active among the youths.

When our light transformer blew few months ago, I was among those people who collect fees from compound to compound to get it fixed.

No am not a tout, haven't steal before.
Haven't been tied And flogged before.

Now I know you're just a fuzcking attention seeking

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Alaganature09(m): 3:01pm On Sep 19, 2021
Davash222:






You see why her mom said you're a tout?

You want to take boys to their house to constitute nuisance.

Gbola = Active
Sense = inactive


I swear you just nail it on the head....why would a reasonable boy go to her girlfriend mom house with some tout to cause nuisance... definitely her mom is right because is about to act like a tout

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Kobojunkie: 3:01pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)

The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.
So what do you intend on doing? undecided

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by drey076(m): 3:01pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.
which right? Have you paid her bride price? Ode

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by chatinent: 3:02pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
are you saying I should go myself?

Do you think her parents will listen to me, they've already concluded am no good.

Should I go there and start crying, weeping for my own offspring?

No sir, I rather go to the community youths and make it a public matter.

I didn't kill anybody, it's my child am fighting for.

Speak with your dad.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by RichAbujaGuy: 3:02pm On Sep 19, 2021
You can almost always spot a upcoming Nollywood script writer. wink

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by BarrElChapo(m): 3:02pm On Sep 19, 2021
Romanoff:
If she's below 18, her parents can decide for her.

I'm more concerned that you've started having babies at 19 do you not have solid plans for your life or dreams and goals to make your life better?

Abortion is a crime in Nigeria, except if it is in a life threatening situation you cannot walk into a hospital and request for an abortion. We aren't in the West.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by od501: 3:03pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

Sorry oo op, how old is this your girlfriend?

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by samdaisi: 3:03pm On Sep 19, 2021
Oko Iyawo elepon blue,the way you boosting of your baby without talking about bride price you're just driving by the spirit of destruction to ruin the lady life, Oga face your education first and get a job that can sustain you and your family forget about the 10 naira you're making that make you think you are arrived.
NOTE: you have committed fornication please going and be pleading for the forgiveness of the sin

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by ugobi2555: 3:03pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

don't live to regret your actions. youthful exorbitant. firstly you impregnated an under age girl, without the consent of her parents. they can sue you for rape and character defamation. Be guided

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by directoroluwole: 3:03pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

You are not legally married to her, they can decide anything with the pregnancy

For you to even think of going to their house with boys, the girl deserve a good life and a good man who will take care of her, not you. face your future.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Romanoff(f): 3:03pm On Sep 19, 2021
Charmingrascal:



Decide for her to abort a pregnancy abi?

Abortion is not legal in Nigeria no matter who is pregnant or who impregnated who

Be deceiving yourself.

90% of people here have told you the plain truth but you're too immature to see it.

You have NO RIGHT over that girl or that child she's carrying cause you're not married to her and she's still a teenager, her parents can decide on what's best for her.

Follow your dreams, become something in life. Grow up and while you're doing that, stay off premarital sex till you're mature to handle the consequences. Right now, you're not.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ayanwukoma: 3:03pm On Sep 19, 2021
od501:


Sorry oo op, how old is this your girlfriend?

We are both same age.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Romanoff(f): 3:03pm On Sep 19, 2021
BarrElChapo:


Abortion is a crime in Nigeria, except if it is in a life threatening situation you cannot walk into a hospital and request for an abortion. We aren't in the West.

That's what you think.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Nobody: 3:04pm On Sep 19, 2021
I think you should concentrate on your future for now. It is too early for you to engage in this kind of fight

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Kay25(m): 3:04pm On Sep 19, 2021
I don't even know what to say but first of all you need to learn and re-learn what life is for and how to order your steps to get things done in a meaningful manner..well the youthful exuberance is really in play but I think I found something cool to relate with about you..and that's u being ready to accept responsibility on the pregnancy which is not common this days.young man if u want to have things done properly let your parent follow you down to the lady's house today and have words with the mother not u talking but ur parent try to let your parent convince her mother the danger of abortion and your willingness to take responsibility over the baby.if your parent can't follow u look for an elderly person to do that I repeat not you going there you can't manage thee situation well get your parent or an elderly person
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by mariahAngel(f): 3:04pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So you are supporting the abortion.
They should kill my child, because am young and poor.
Is that it.

Sorry I will not let that happen.

Don't let it happen!

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