Emmadoc:


You are so so right.

I've helped a lot of niggas, friends, but I found out, I was being taken advantage of.

There was friend I helped when he was in school, nigga called me, that he needed some cash to tidy up some schools stuff.

I sent him the money, he couldn't pay back, so I told him to pay me whatever he has with him.

He gave me half of the funds I borrowed him, as a real nigga, I told him to keep the rest.

There was a time we were having a conversation about his school, and the idiot told me the money I borrowed him, he never used it for school stuffs, he told me he gave it to his girlfriend...

After sometime, I went to this same guy to borrow me some cash, because he was doing well, I even promise to pay back with interest, men the nigga stopped picking my calls till date.

Before I help such friends in my life again, you must have a collateral, something of value for that money, else I won't give you 1kobo.

Bro code my foot, and he is not the only one, because of people like him I stopped making friends, except na for business.

I don't make friends with simps.

ogkrakkid:

Chai lmfao u don kill ur client dem.
It is well.

Lol.. Me wey dey always be the best nurse anywhere I work.. Always loved by both colleagues and clients /patients..

Magnoliaa, men are helping one another with finances. But one thing you must know is that, no one want to be taken for granted. Life is all about give and take, help me today, I assist you tomorrow. Once a guy noticed that he is giving but the other person always want to collect without reciprocating. Its either he cut such a friend off or he play his game with him.

From the words of my dad, if you want to know a true friend, always give out money to him, buy him things and one day act like you don't have, ensure you know he has and request his help. His answer will tell if he is a giving friend or a parasite. I have always use this technique to choose my friends and it hasn't failed me.

Magnoliaa:


Thank you for the last sentence, especially. What this lady said and your advice is actually an indictment to you men yourselves. You people can form bro codes, and band together to insult women, and call women their own worst enemies, and sleep on a dirty bed, sharing boxers together and bla bla bla (that women typically do not do) and because of that declare that you love each other, because you're all supposedly banging a single girl, but your so-called affinity is only skin deep. You DON'T feel a single thing for each other. And this is not even because you don't have the money. A broke boy can still, any how, whichever way find money to give to his girlfriend, but to give his broke guy friend?

Instead of speaking to yourselves to change your attitudes, you'll rather hate on the girls ''whyning'' your friends' brains. At least a broke partying babe that is being bankrolled will still take the gifts and monies she get from men to share with her friends. The genuine sharing spirit is there.

That men are broke in huge numbers and women are cashing out (typically) only points more to the fact that men do not help one another rather than the manipulation of women y'all cry wolf about.

I agree with u on this .

ESANMEA:
Yes nau, na wise saying

Smiles...


Stay blessed, sis.

Intersexxsherry:
Men always give me money.. I don't know how they make the money.
However, i think men share among themselves.

but money money is unisex ..

Magnoliaa:

I have observed you always twist post to suite women no matter the situation even when the post is clearly about men..

There is a post about DNA coming to lekki, that post is on its 4th page and no single women or girls or ladies made a comment then I wonder if all those female monikers are actually men in disguise...
Instead of ladies trying to suppress every expression, it will make sense if you people change in reality..
In every criticism, I always make so with the points and change for the better.
Majority can never be wrong and I will like to see these criticism birthing changes in women...
My immediate junior sister young and a workaholic, I remember she sponsored her home for 1 yr 2 months without no one knowing, she even gives her husband money so people won't know the true situation of things..
Women can be better, they can do better

Magnoliaa:


Thank you for the last sentence, especially. What this lady said and your advice is actually an indictment to you men yourselves. You people can form bro codes, and band together to insult women, and call women their own worst enemies, and sleep on a dirty bed, sharing boxers together and bla bla bla (that women typically do not do) and because of that declare that you love each other, because you're all supposedly banging a single girl, but your so-called affinity is only skin deep. You DON'T feel a single thing for each other. And this is not even because you don't have the money. A broke boy can still, any how, whichever way find money to give to his girlfriend, but to give his broke guy friend?

Instead of speaking to yourselves to change your attitudes, you'll rather hate on the girls ''whyning'' your friends' brains. At least a broke partying babe that is being bankrolled will still take the gifts and monies she get from men to share with her friends. The genuine sharing spirit is there.

That men are broke in huge numbers and women are cashing out (typically) only points more to the fact that men do not help one another rather than the manipulation of women y'all cry wolf about.

loads of bullshit talking as if you know men ,you know nothing just go find somewhere seat abeg

Hustle and keep some away in case it doesn't go your way.

We work. Most of them borrow a lot and don't pay back.

Mompha?

Maryjane001:
Men are the real MVPs. Life is always harder and not fair to them. As a lady, I have been in unfortunate situation and was helped because I was a female, while other men in such situations were were simply ignored or told to "face it like a man".
Even times when I would get all emotional over bad situations and cry and panic. But there they are, even in the midst of their bad situation, they still keep their head up, being optimistic, strategizing and sorting out things with a clear head.
I Thank God he made MAN.
The world is such a lovely place with them in it.
God bless all men out there

I appreciate your candor and probity, God bless you

Viltron:
This brought back memories of last year. Was so broke that I didn't know when I started looking for help. Went to a popular church, all the pastors used me to catch cruise. Not 1 Kobo did anyone give to me. Hmm! 2020, it should never be well with you.

Sorry bro, you will bounce back

Niyeal:
Capital G O D

And a sprinkle of scams

faithfull18:
We work. Most of them borrow a lot and don't pay back.

All the men in ur family are Oni gbese abi

[quote author=Demigod22 post=106136869]Food for thought. Men are going through a lot, especially in Nigeria that our ladies have commercialized relationship. The entire family is looking up to the man, his girlfriend, his own needs.

[color=#990000][/color]this must be coming from Papa Prince Will

Vireani79:


All the men in ur family are Oni gbese abi

We know your type.

Benzemma:
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That's why I said some boys and girls are equal in foolishness. Your fellow man ask you lend him some money that he will pay back, (lending oo not dashing) you claimed you don't have it, but foolishly dash it to someone that will still take it and give the person she loves that you don't even know. Is that not penny wise, pound foolish?
That how my own guy claimed he didn't have Shishi to contribute for our cooking, but when his girlfriend came that same day, he mysteriously had some change to buy biscuit and malt for her.

sometimes e pay me to help ladies weh I no get anything with than help my fellow male friends.. Some of dem are very wicked... If no be some of my female friends in sch then hunger for really kill me but my guys weh I dey do normal give dem always dey stingy for me.. Well such is life me no fit help my guy just forget am except na the one weh we dey scratch each others back together

davealvaro:
for sch here wen binance liquidate my money, coins really dip dat Sunday, i told my guy to borrow me 30k, to try again, i will even pay with interests, dis guy say e nor get, but dat same da nai e brother tell me say he transfer 60k give he babe for wig... imagine now, tommorow, my guy go come da tight corner, u go come expect me to help am?.. we know things are difficult, sometimes we guys make it more difficult for ourselves, imagine ur guyman go da tell u say if e never use d update blow, e nor go Share am..

True talk man to man giving tight gan.. Me don stop to dey help my male friends cux wetin those nigga use my eyes see weh I no get money back then for sch.. Hmmm if no be female friends weh I get weh dey help me out with food.. Well Man gat thank God for today sha cux where dem see me put yesterday, today level don mature than yesterday own

My sista wey get sense to ask.... Hmmmm, na small us with a VERY BIG GOD

dammie4j:
Sometimes the smile can be masked. I’ve always promised to support my fellow bro at the slightest opportunity whenever there is a genuine need. I’ve been there honestly.

P.S: Guys, learn to help your fellow gees rather than lavish to impress who will not care sighting a better offer on the table

even when a man does such you men will tag it gayish or eww.many of you are even suffering from over inflated ego and saying things like how can I be collecting stuffs from a fellow man like myself

It's GOD that provides.

siofra:
Me I'm a woman, no man dey dash me money o
Not even my own father.

Maybe you wor wor... Lol

AbujaCitiBlog:

I have not option but to support what you just said because it is the truth. Men are some of the most foolish creatures God ever made! They hate and fight each other idiotically for female attention like hegoats without sense. A man will idiotically employ a lady with lower qualifications just because she has bigger backside and boobs against a hard-working and by far more brilliant guy! Most men are cursed with foolishness!

Women are I million times by far more smarter than most men. They claim they are weak, so that they can keep cashing out from the brutish hegoats!(Men).

Infact a typical guy( hegoat) will never compliment a fellow guys but will be trembling with tongue hanging out looking to compliment a lady.

Honesty, women are the smarter gender.

I am waiting for the hegoats to attack me! Idiots everywhere!

women have higher sense of reasoning than men. Women rule this world, no doubt. Some men are smart but their fornicating and adultrous lifestyle makes them foolish

I thank God for my life... It is him that helps the broke ass niggas. Also, I appreciate good friends that I have oh, Especially Don Risky. He has never abandoned me since we began to talk. God bless you baba

Magnoliaa:


Thank you for the last sentence, especially. What this lady said and your advice is actually an indictment to you men yourselves. You people can form bro codes, and band together to insult women, and call women their own worst enemies, and sleep on a dirty bed, sharing boxers together and bla bla bla (that women typically do not do) and because of that declare that you love each other, because you're all supposedly banging a single girl, but your so-called affinity is only skin deep. You DON'T feel a single thing for each other. And this is not even because you don't have the money. A broke boy can still, any how, whichever way find money to give to his girlfriend, but to give his broke guy friend?

Instead of speaking to yourselves to change your attitudes, you'll rather hate on the girls ''whyning'' your friends' brains. At least a broke partying babe that is being bankrolled will still take the gifts and monies she get from men to share with her friends. The genuine sharing spirit is there.

That men are broke in huge numbers and women are cashing out (typically) only points more to the fact that men do not help one another rather than the manipulation of women y'all cry wolf about.

who told you men don't help each other.....where do you think men get money when they are broke You think is women that gives them money

I am talking about men not young teen boys,men that have families.

Lavisha:
M A N means Morning, Afternoon, Night.


To be a MAN, you mustn't quit hustling.

What about women?? We weren't the only only on made by God..

Magnoliaa:


Thank you for the last sentence, especially. What this lady said and your advice is actually an indictment to you men yourselves. You people can form bro codes, and band together to insult women, and call women their own worst enemies, and sleep on a dirty bed, sharing boxers together and bla bla bla (that women typically do not do) and because of that declare that you love each other, because you're all supposedly banging a single girl, but your so-called affinity is only skin deep. You DON'T feel a single thing for each other. And this is not even because you don't have the money. A broke boy can still, any how, whichever way find money to give to his girlfriend, but to give his broke guy friend?

Instead of speaking to yourselves to change your attitudes, you'll rather hate on the girls ''whyning'' your friends' brains. At least a broke partying babe that is being bankrolled will still take the gifts and monies she get from men to share with her friends. The genuine sharing spirit is there.

That men are broke in huge numbers and women are cashing out (typically) only points more to the fact that men do not help one another rather than the manipulation of women y'all cry wolf about.

Women are more broke in large numbers than men in Nigeria, don't deceive yourself with women are cashing out.
Your man hating mind is playing tricks on you.

Lavisha:
M A N means Morning, Afternoon, Night.


To be a MAN, you mustn't quit hustling.

Otherwise men are only here to hustle and quench!!! I hope you dey hustle Sha stop relaying on the pocket between your legs...

dammie4j:
Sometimes the smile can be masked. I’ve always promised to support my fellow bro at the slightest opportunity whenever there is a genuine need. I’ve been there honestly.

P.S: Guys, learn to help your fellow gees rather than lavish to impress who will not care sighting a better offer on the table

q

siofra:


Do you want to dash me money?

Yes.....I want to

It's quite not easy for some men, even when some are hungry and have little left with them, they would still place their family first, what the wife and kids at home would eat would be the front burner in his plan. May God keep blessing us.