Emmadoc:


You are so so right.

I've helped a lot of niggas, friends, but I found out, I was being taken advantage of.

There was friend I helped when he was in school, nigga called me, that he needed some cash to tidy up some schools stuff.

I sent him the money, he couldn't pay back, so I told him to pay me whatever he has with him.

He gave me half of the funds I borrowed him, as a real nigga, I told him to keep the rest.

There was a time we were having a conversation about his school, and the idiot told me the money I borrowed him, he never used it for school stuffs, he told me he gave it to his girlfriend...

After sometime, I went to this same guy to borrow me some cash, because he was doing well, I even promise to pay back with interest, men the nigga stopped picking my calls till date.

Before I help such friends in my life again, you must have a collateral, something of value for that money, else I won't give you 1kobo.

Bro code my foot, and he is not the only one, because of people like him I stopped making friends, except na for business.

Akinblogdotcom:
A Nigerian lady has empathized with men over how they survive whenever they are financially incapacitated.



The young woman wondered how men get money for food whenever things are terribly bad as she never experienced some of the struggles they complain about no matter how broke she was.

Taking to Twitter via her handle Udara @Caviarpurple, The Nigerian Lady expressed deep concern while recounting stories of male students drinking garri, and trekking to and fro class due to brokenness.




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yuping:
For ones a Nigeria Lady put herself in men shoe. My dear is not easy ooo, that why when we finally make it we behave arrogant and proud. Because no one was their when it rough. I pray we all make it.

siofra:
Me I'm a woman, no man dey dash me money o
Not even my own fatgher.

Intersexxsherry:
But seriously women stopped helping men because most of them don't appreciate a good woman..

Emmadoc:


You are so so right.

I've helped a lot of niggas, friends, but I found out, I was being taken advantage of.

There was friend I helped when he was in school, nigga called me, that he needed some cash to tidy up some schools stuff.

I sent him the money, he couldn't pay back, so I told him to pay me whatever he has with him.

He gave me half of the funds I borrowed him, as a real nigga, I told him to keep the rest.

There was a time we were having a conversation about his school, and the idiot told me the money I borrowed him, he never used it for school stuffs, he told me he gave it to his girlfriend...

After sometime, I went to this same guy to borrow me some cash, because he was doing well, I even promise to pay back with interest, men the nigga stopped picking my calls till date.

Before I help such friends in my life again, you must have a collateral, something of value for that money, else I won't give you 1kobo.

Bro code my foot, and he is not the only one, because of people like him I stopped making friends, except na for business.

Magnoliaa:


''One-off'' situation? LMAO. Go conduct a poll or carry out a research on this topic, yo. Even on this thread, you'll find more guys agreeing with what I and the person I quoted said than guys disagreeing with us.

Why does it kill y'all to actually agree with things a lady say? When women come out to share their wins, you say it's pussy power...when women post ass and all on IG, you say it's to attract clients; you talk about the evolutionary kinikan about how men are attracted to women and want to sleep with them, bla bla bla... I don't care sha. The fact is men spend on ladies than on their fellow guys. If a lady comes to talk about how men sponsor her and bankroll her, you'll lap it up and call her all manners of name. Now I'm saying men bankroll ladies (NOT ALL) MORE THAN, AS COMPARED TO their fellow guys. Hence, some lady might not go broke or hungry because she has a man giving her money. (I know it might not exactly be what the OP is talking about, but this is just my perspective).

*That* (women collecting money from men) is another scenario and point that could require its own discussion, but *the* point I'm pointing out here is that men give women money more than they give guys. You can see it from the moral aspect and equality aspect or whatever, but HERE NOW, I am choosing to focus on the fact and part of MEN NOT HELPING EACH OTHER.

I know it's because I'm saying this from a critical and condemning stance , hence some of you will disagree with me, but if I switch to a sympathetic and empathetic tone, and start criticizing the ''so called olosho girls'', you'll be lapping up what I'm saying.

But alas, I'm not a fighter for men nor a pick-me or a virtuous woman that wants to win you over with my tone, mannerisms and delivery. So disagree all you want.

It's a free Internet and it's your data.

Have a good night!

P.S: Oh. Even in your spendings one one another once in a while, it's to carry yourselves to beer parlors and clubs and buy the most expensive drinks, bathing yourselves with beers and champagnes, drinking peppersoup and eating cow heads- you call it simple life, because you're not complicated beings. But to give yourselves worthwhile money, in a life-transforming way, for things that actually matters, like responsibilities and buying pampers, taking care of family? Na stories you go start to hear.

Anyway, I don't think I need to mention that exceptions apply to all the things I've said here sha.

Magnoliaa:


But this is not always the case at all times. So what happens then? If men work for money and they see the money, then they would not be broke and this would not even be a thing. At the point where they are broke, where do they see money?



Oya, say it without crying. So why does it pain so much if y'all help yourself? You don't get it, do you? I understand. It is beyond your comprehension. If this lady was lying, y'all will be here calling BS on her post. But the fact and truth remains:
-You're broke
-You don't have money
-You don't have money
-You're broke

That's reality. So tell me how you survive, without bringing women into it.

Intersexxsherry:
But seriously women stopped helping men because most of them don't appreciate a good woman..

Nezzjnr:

I can relate to this.

There's this Friend of mine always calling whenever he needs assistance... He doesn't call to greet nor checkup... Only whenever he needs help.

Of recent he sent me a text to send him some money... I ignored it to test him... When I chatted him up on whatsapp... He blanked me

Blessing185:
Whether na pride I go say or dignity or frustration or manliness no dey even make some of us voice out say we broke. We go just fem begin look up to God.. imagine going out and not eating but thinking of wat family at home will eat and u re all dey depend on..e no easy dats y most men die earlier dan their appointed time.

dammie4j:
Sometimes the smile can be masked. I’ve always promised to support my fellow bro at the slightest opportunity whenever there is a genuine need. I’ve been there honestly.

P.S: Guys, learn to help your fellow gees rather than lavish to impress who will not care sighting a better offer on the table

Beebah2000:
Salute for Nigerian men.
Fathers of tomorrow

Iamagoodgirll:
Honestly to be a man is not easy there's no help anywhere but a lady can easily get help from a stranger.
May God bless ever hardworking men out there. You're all the real MVP

Babara1994:
When men are broke, we borrow or commit suicide!

dammie4j:
Sometimes the smile can be masked. I’ve always promised to support my fellow bro at the slightest opportunity whenever there is a genuine need. I’ve been there honestly.

P.S: Guys, learn to help your fellow gees rather than lavish to impress who will not care sighting a better offer on the table

Intersexxsherry:
Men always give me money.. I don't know how they make the money.
However, i think men share among themselves.

yuping:
For ones a Nigeria Lady put herself in men shoe. My dear is not easy ooo, that why when we finally make it we behave arrogant and proud. Because no one was their when it rough. I pray we all make it.

Magnoliaa:


Thank you for the last sentence, especially. What this lady said and your advice is actually an indictment to you men yourselves. You people can form bro codes, and band together to insult women, and call women their own worst enemies, and sleep on a dirty bed, sharing boxers together and bla bla bla (that women typically do not do) and because of that declare that you love each other, because you're all supposedly banging a single girl, but your so-called affinity is only skin deep. You DON'T feel a single thing for each other. And this is not even because you don't have the money. A broke boy can still, any how, whichever way find money to give to his girlfriend, but to give his broke guy friend?

Instead of speaking to yourselves to change your attitudes, you'll rather hate on the girls ''whyning'' your friends' brains. At least a broke partying babe that is being bankrolled will still take the gifts and monies she get from men to share with her friends. The genuine sharing spirit is there.

That men are broke in huge numbers and women are cashing out (typically) only points more to the fact that men do not help one another rather than the manipulation of women y'all cry wolf about.

Beebah2000:
Salute for Nigerian men.
Fathers of tomorrow