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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Charmingrascal(m): 7:05am On Sep 30, 2021

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

You are not alone.
There are times I don't pick calls.

It's a sign of introversion
There are times we just feel like not talking to anyone.

I prefer texting to calling and all my friends and family knw that.
I haven't called my girlfriend for two week and she has been calling I did not pick. (Atleast she understands my personality)

I ended a relationship recently because I don't call and I don't pick calls, if you can't chat or text me then we might not talk for weeks.

Infact I only chat people on my WhatsApp contact list when necessary, if we have nothing important to say I don't send or reply chat on time.
Infact if you want to make it worse try and video call me without prior notice, I will ignore it and I will never say anything about it when we meet next because I believe it is wrong to video chat/call someone without prior notice no matter who u are.

I love the lifestyle

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Ghostrye: 7:11am On Sep 30, 2021

My kind of person, altho my own no reach you level. I can go a couple months without calling or chatting with anyone, went a a few 5 years or so without calling my extended family, they had to call my parents to complain. But it is nothing strange, it's just we are all wired different

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Goalnaldo(m): 7:31am On Sep 30, 2021

It's like we're many on this table. For like two months now I haven't called my two younger sisters. I prefer Data. I most Times trade my call credit for Data.

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Hungrychicken(m): 7:55am On Sep 30, 2021

Mine, its tiring to even post or chat on social media. My active status dey off 24/7.

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by SOZINN: 8:05am On Sep 30, 2021

Brother, you are not alone.
I think this attitude is mostly common with introverts. Are you an introvert?

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by SOZINN: 8:07am On Sep 30, 2021

Charmingrascal:

You are not alone.
There are times I don't pick calls.

It's a sign of introversion
There are times we just feel like not talking to anyone.

I prefer texting to calling and all my friends and family knw that.
I haven't called my girlfriend for two week and she has been calling I did not pick. (Atleast she understands my personality)

I ended a relationship recently because I don't call and I don't pick calls, if you can't chat or text me then we might not talk for weeks.

Infact I only chat people on my WhatsApp contact list when necessary, if we have nothing important to say I don't send or reply chat on time.
Infact if you want to make it worse try and video call me without prior notice, I will ignore it and I will never say anything about it when we meet next because I believe it is wrong to video chat/call someone without prior notice no matter who u are.

I love the lifestyle

This is so me.

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Depressed101: 8:10am On Sep 30, 2021

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

you are suffering from call anxiety, but 6months is a huge gap, i dont know what to call that.. "SELFISH AND UNCARING?

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by OMOJOHN001: 8:18am On Sep 30, 2021

Verily Verily I say Unto you OP, that the reason for this is because you're BROKE yes I said it, You have less than 500k in your account.

2) Verily I say unto you, that a Part of you is bitter and you're trying to fake happiness by moving away from people, which will not work.

3) You don't have real Love within you, simply because people doesn't use to love you enough.

So on YEE son , I say unto you, CHANGE NOW BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE. GO OUT AND MINGLE WITH REAL PEOPLE, FIND WHAT GIVES YOU HAPPINESS IN PEOPLE AND STICKS TO IT.

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by cezarman(m): 8:21am On Sep 30, 2021

You're not alone oh!

First page posters no dey try at all.

They post carelessly for likes, thereby misleading and giving a lot of people wrong info and advise.

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by brosom(m): 8:28am On Sep 30, 2021

Peemonny:
I feel you are still young to understand life, there are problems that comes in triple waves, it not every problem u can solve alone, I wonder how u can stay 6months and not communicate with ur mom and be feeling bad ass about it, I wonder how she feels, how will u find a wife? Who will u talk to wen u have martial issues? If you are in financial need who do u talk to? the deepest problems starts wen you are 30+ and chocked with responsibilities remember your friends are your children's connection except you do not have any plans for marriage or having children, if that's the cases you are one hell of a selfish being. Remember problem be like grace it is new every morning. Secondly you will miss alot of opportunities not returning calls or picking them. Someone I knew gave anothers person my number and he did contact me and guess what it was a deal and I made good money out of it, was I expecting his call Hell No! If I hadn't picked the opportunity will pass to someone else #fact and I've had similar experiences more than 5 times, there is this guy I heard about he is just like you and very intelligent he came out with 1st class from uni but guess what he committed suicide possibly loneliness maybe part of the cause. What I'm just trying to say is there are lots of advantages wen u have people u can confide in as opposed to being alone in everything u will get tired, burnt out and give up.

Dont expect him to understand anything u write up here, he's old in age, but Young in understanding.

He thought he's living a best life not knowing what awaits him soon or sooner, therefore allow him to keep living his dream life until he wakes up.

His foolishness will one day caught up with him, Period..!!

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by brosom(m): 8:29am On Sep 30, 2021

Peemonny:
I feel you are still young to understand life, there are problems that comes in triple waves, it not every problem u can solve alone, I wonder how u can stay 6months and not communicate with ur mom and be feeling bad ass about it, I wonder how she feels, how will u find a wife? Who will u talk to wen u have martial issues? If you are in financial need who do u talk to? the deepest problems starts wen you are 30+ and chocked with responsibilities remember your friends are your children's connection except you do not have any plans for marriage or having children, if that's the cases you are one hell of a selfish being. Remember problem be like grace it is new every morning. Secondly you will miss alot of opportunities not returning calls or picking them. Someone I knew gave anothers person my number and he did contact me and guess what it was a deal and I made good money out of it, was I expecting his call Hell No! If I hadn't picked the opportunity will pass to someone else #fact and I've had similar experiences more than 5 times, there is this guy I heard about he is just like you and very intelligent he came out with 1st class from uni but guess what he committed suicide possibly loneliness maybe part of the cause. What I'm just trying to say is there are lots of advantages wen u have people u can confide in as opposed to being alone in everything u will get tired, burnt out and give up.

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by pointblank247(m): 9:07am On Sep 30, 2021

Op , for the fact that you brought this up here means that you already noticed that some thing is not right with you.
Fact is that like, some have already commented, you are not alone but that doesn't mean you are normal. You need your mental health but you need help to put things right with you.

Sorry to tell you without mincing words , what you are going through can lead to depression, madness and suicide.

Get help

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by nairaman66(m): 9:25am On Sep 30, 2021

Offpoint1:

Depress? Naaa! I've mastered the act of dealing with life problems since I was 11, nothing on earth can make me depress. No pleasure, nor pain, nor rejection.

Isolation is a powerful tool to unleash spirituality, the more isolated you are the less human you become and the more spirit you become. It's a key to spirit realm. More powerful than prayers, chants and incantations.

If you can trace some historical spiritual books, most communications with the spirit realms took place in isolated places.
Take a clue from the Bible for references.
Abraham communicate with God in isolated places
Moses as you know always left for the mountains
Jesus always left his disciples behind into isolation when he wants to communicate with God.

Let me not derail my thread

Each of those people you mentioned were called by God, are you?

Some people were called through prayers! Because you are a loner doesn’t mean you attract spirituality. Don’t let motivational books fool you

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Sapaz02: 9:30am On Sep 30, 2021

Then quite social media & anything that relates to infor tech ok.

Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Aarenasbaba(m): 9:31am On Sep 30, 2021

Something is wrong with you, you can't try that shit with my Mommy...if she no see you for two days self na problem..... Nobody go even ask of you if you die

Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Innobee99(m): 9:31am On Sep 30, 2021

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

No go die inside ur room over night ooooo

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by AuntRose(f): 9:31am On Sep 30, 2021

Offpoint1:

Depress? Naaa! I've mastered the act of dealing with life problems since I was 11, nothing on earth can make me depress. No pleasure, nor pain, nor rejection.

Isolation is a powerful tool to unleash spirituality, the more isolated you are the less human you become and the more spirit you become. It's a key to spirit realm. More powerful than prayers, chants and incantations.

If you can trace some historical spiritual books, most communications with the spirit realms took place in isolated places.
Take a clue from the Bible for references.
Abraham communicate with God in isolated places
Moses as you know always left for the mountains
Jesus always left his disciples behind into isolation when he wants to communicate with God.

Let me not derail my thread

I think the post you quoted isn't wrong at all, no man is an island. Try and open up

Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Mummyfour(f): 9:31am On Sep 30, 2021

Bros, it's not normal.
You really need help.

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by iLegendd(m): 9:31am On Sep 30, 2021

I hate it.

I hate calling, I hate picking (my 5k bonus always expire without using 5% of it), but a man just gotta do it at times to avoid making them say you're too proud or gossip about you too much.

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Nobody: 9:31am On Sep 30, 2021

Exactly. Just leave him for now. Let him not adjust and be capping rubbish

brosom:
No man is an island,

Dont worry you'll understand some day.

Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by ElValiente(m): 9:31am On Sep 30, 2021

Same here too ooo but not all the time. Op you're broke. When money come they will find you

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Topmaike007(m): 9:32am On Sep 30, 2021

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

you are not alone grin

in Mike Jackson voice

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Innobee99(m): 9:32am On Sep 30, 2021

Sonnobax15:

Op,I must say this to you---"you are not alone".

I just be like you......Come on, what's the essence of wanting to waste my airtime calling to check up on people who wouldn't do the same for me . That money wey I go use buy the recharge card,I rather use am take buy suya and black fearless take step down for mama Karo beer parlor .

Mennnnnnnn,this life ain't hard one bit.....If we all can just be respecting one another's space and peace of mind,this world go certainly become a better place to stay over night

Did u read that he doesn't return calls? People call him but he doesn't return calls

Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Nobody: 9:32am On Sep 30, 2021

Anytime i called someone the person will be like "mehn so you remember me today, yeah that's how bad it is for me.. grin

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Dagger111(m): 9:32am On Sep 30, 2021

Urs is better than mine.

Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by FILEBE(m): 9:32am On Sep 30, 2021

Weird for a social media manager

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Cnach: 9:32am On Sep 30, 2021

My guy me too o, the only difference is that I call them on a minute of send your account number. And that's all. And I have one person that tells me about every other persons, I call her monthly

Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by DrDax: 9:32am On Sep 30, 2021

Offpoint1:

Depress? Naaa! I've mastered the act of dealing with life problems since I was 11, nothing on earth can make me depress. No pleasure, nor pain, nor rejection.

Isolation is a powerful tool to unleash spirituality, the more isolated you are the less human you become and the more spirit you become. It's a key to spirit realm. More powerful than prayers, chants and incantations.

If you can trace some historical spiritual books, most communications with the spirit realms took place in isolated places.
Take a clue from the Bible for references.
Abraham communicate with God in isolated places
Moses as you know always left for the mountains
Jesus always left his disciples behind into isolation when he wants to communicate with God.

Let me not derail my thread

Moderation in all things...

Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by preshyusufu: 9:33am On Sep 30, 2021

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

You need to work hard in changing this very bad habit of ours. How you dey take cope, for six months you never call your people.
To me, it sounds like, bondage.

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Imustnottalk: 9:33am On Sep 30, 2021

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

talk true bro you are avoiding billing?

Na joke oo

Modified :bro to be realistic it's a bad character how can you be snubbed your mother for complete six months that's bad even if you don't talk to other siblings but your mum she is important. they is a saying we don't value what we have until we lose them some people still wish their mother or father are alive so change your mindset because one day you will grow up to be like them

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Nobody: 9:34am On Sep 30, 2021

You are an introverted sadist who is depressed cheesy

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Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Denko2721987(m): 9:34am On Sep 30, 2021

It's not bad to hate calls but it could also be an indication that u are socially averse..

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