FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

You're relieved, hmmm! Speaks volume

Myhusband:

is a dead discussion. anyone questioning the paternity of his father should meet his/her mom and stop disturbing the public with their family problem

My paternity isn't in question here since we all DNA- tested in my house and were cleared over 20 years ago.

The question is what about those or you agitating for DNA tests today as a way of solving all frauds? Are you certain you are the child of your own father?

BluntCrazeMan:
So, why do the people at the Foreign Embassies request for the test when applying for VISAs if it is not that important?

It is meant to keep folks from possibly kidnapping the wards of others and fleeing the country with them.

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

What's the emotion state of a man who found out a bastard after DNA test?
Real men don't just do DNA to a good woman. They to it to a woman with trust issues. A hoe with many body count that mingled into their lives. It happens. It may be a one night stand. But we can't raise a bastard. Even if we want to, we must know what/who we are raising.
I Bleep ed you is different from you born for me.
I Bleep ed you and you born for me is different from I Bleep ed you and you took advantage of that to trap me with a bastard

Oyinlomobambam:
[/b]At bolded, and your mind told you this is right?

This paternity fraud issue has been a part of Nigerian culture for at least the last 60 something years of its existence. There are even traditional laws meant to grant custody first to the husband who raised the child before anyone else. That is to show that this problem has been around long before many of you were even born.

Dybala11:

Therefore you're of the opinion that the scam/trend of pushing another man's child on husbands should continue right
You're just pained and scared, we understand where you're coming from.

No, he is suggesting we dig as deep as it goes....by having even those of you in support of it have DNA tests done to prove you are yourselves not of fraud.

genii96:
Such stupidity
I am guessing he has gotten another man's wife pregnant and the husband doesn't know

He doesn't know or he probably knows?

Myhusband:

it means you've little or no idea about Genetic and why are we even having such discussion self, you can't be using your family problem to judge others

anyone is entitled to do DNA once they've the cash, what that naive feminist clown and Nigerian comedian feel has no meaning

Stop spewing ignorance all over the place abeg!

Kobojunkie:
Stop spewing ignorance all over the place abeg!

who's this monkey, I stand firm to my post till your common sense resume work on your head

Myhusband:
who's this monkey, I stand firm to my post till your common sense resume work on your head

as expected!

Kobojunkie:
as expected!

fúck off junkie

Bookhub:
Simps everywhere tuehhhhh..

This one must have donated sperms to several women.

Kobojunkie:
This paternity fraud issue has been a part of Nigerian culture for at least the last 60 something years of its existence. There are even traditional laws meant to grant custody first to the husband who raised the child before anyone else. That is to show that this problem has been around long before many of you were even born.

It doesn't change the fact that DNA must be advocate for

Kobojunkie:
Doesn't change anything. This problem has been in existence since the time of our ancestors and there are even cultural laws that were set up from back then which to this day are meant to bestow custody over all children in the marriage to the husband.

So age of your parents mean nothing here.

I never dispute that... But DNA must be seen as necessary and as normal test in marriage to avoid stories.

Madam no be qurel ooh make de DNA tin no 2 vex you. Coz u no be man u no sabi as e go pain reach make you father another man pikin wit hope say na ya own.

Ladies are just jumping from pillar to post.

Men will always win and this DNA war won't be an exception!

Oyinlomobambam:

[/b]I never dispute that... But DNA must be seen as necessary and as normal test in marriage to avoid stories.

So, you are refusing to consider DNA testing yourself to prove your parentage and this because you don't want to rock the boat that is your father's belief that you are his son. But you would rather a DNA test be imposed on other marriages to avoid the same kind of stories?

NigeriaIsGreat:
I never stopped DNA not to stay

I'm only saying some men are product of away match but they don't know

And so?
How does that correlate?

Oyinlomobambam:

It doesn't change the fact that DNA must be advocate for

Must be advocated for by whom?

Those of you who are yourselves unwilling to submit to the procedure where your own parentage is concerned?

Kobojunkie:
Must be advocated for by whom?

Everyone...

What's the big deal in it?

Kobojunkie:
So, you are refusing to consider DNA testing yourself to prove your parentage and this because you don't want to rock the boat that is your father's belief that you are his son. But you would rather a DNA test be imposed on other marriages to avoid the same kind of stories?

I already said I wish my dad do it to be very sure...

I have baby I adopted, but it will not be funny not to know the real biological father of the 2 I called mine.

Why do you see DNA as a crime?

Oyinlomobambam:

Everyone...
What's the big deal in it?

The big deal is many of you are unwilling to submit to the procedure where your own parentage is concerned?

If you are going to fight a problem properly, dig deep to its very roots. Not apply a bandaid solution that forces a pill on others and not your own selves.

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

You just did

Kobojunkie:
The big deal is many of you are unwilling to submit to the procedure where your own parentage is concerned?

If you are going to fight a problem properly, dig deep to its very roots. Not apply a bandaid solution that forces a pill on others and not your own selves.

Show me the root and I will join you to advocate for it

Oyinlomobambam:

I already said I wish my dad do it to be very sure...

I have baby I adopted, but it will not be funny not to know the real biological father of the 2 I called mine.

Why do you see DNA as a crime?

Why wait for your father to do it when you can do it on his behalf and become a champion for the cause you advocate for.

I don't see DNA as a crime. If I did, I wouldn't be here asking you to take a DNA test now, would i.

Oyinlomobambam:
Show me the root and I will join you to advocate for it

To find the root you need to take a DNA test to prove your parentage.

Kobojunkie:
Why wait for your father to do it when you can do it on his behalf and become a champion for the cause you advocate for.

I don't see DNA as a crime. If I did, I wouldn't be here asking you to take a DNA test now, would i.

That's his choice...

My kids too have right to their choice

Oyinlomobambam:

That's his choice...
My kids too have right to their choice

So, now, it is about choices and not about knowing?

It's everyone else's choice but yours? Interesting!

Kobojunkie:
My paternity isn't in question here since we all DNA- tested in my house and were cleared over 20 years ago.

The question is what about those or you agitating for DNA tests today as a way of solving all frauds? Are you certain you are the child of your own father?

So because I’m a bastard, I should also raise a bastard?
What kinda logic is that?

Kobojunkie:
To find the root you need to take a DNA test to prove your parentage.

Join me to take the advocacy to him...

If he likes the Idea, we're good to go

But I won't pay my money for it...

He should carry his cross like I did mine

Oyinlomobambam:
Join me to take the advocacy to him...
If he likes the Idea, we're good to go
But I won't pay my money for it...
He should carry his cross like I did mine

Simply take his old tooth brush and yours to the DNA labs to find out.

Oh, it has to be his money and not yours, interesting!

Kobojunkie:
So, now, it is about choices and not about knowing?

It's everyone else's choice but yours? Interesting!

Don't you get it?

Who knows maybe they've done it in traditional ways?

He's the father that needs confirmation, not me.

What concern me is to be sure of mine too