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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 5:32pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
I saw one or two post about guys not being qualified to be called virgins because they need practice to be experienced. and y'all wonder why feminism gained such a strong movement,the likes of you guys caused it. we humans we selfish sha ,we always want to eat our cake and have it. ever wondered why virginity follow the law of abnormal demand. if only una fit abstain too then virgins go plenty yafun yafun for everybody to marry . 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 5:33pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
jmoore: Are you a virgin with a sweet and amazing character? Your marriage will fail if you are not. 5 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Ikpunwanyianamb: 5:33pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JovialJune:Jealousy , you are definitely envious 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 5:35pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Ikpunwanyianamb: This is your answer? And I thought you have substance. 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 5:35pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Hamiltonii:Sorry love, I don't speak stupid. English please. 4 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Ikpunwanyianamb: 5:36pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JovialJune:You are empty headed chicken brain which one is will her virginity remain forever ? Like a kindergarten question and you expect me to come down to your level to answer that,lol 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by advanceDNA: 5:37pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
shaybebaby: Allow women have automnomy of their body..who prevent you from having autonomy?? ..so someone owns your body more than you. Which fvkig idiot guy says I want skin and you allow him and them blame him for allowing him?? ..babe...the part I don't like about men and women dialogue is playing victim.. It irritates the fvck outta me 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Imilikeboi: 5:39pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Ikpunwanyianamb: https://www.nairaland.com/6784358/unknown-gun-men-nsukka-caught#106409514 |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by VERDA: 5:40pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
duality: Please spare me the crap...nobody is trying to trivialise chastity, the question is simple and straightforward but for some reason some of you are being unnecesarily emotional about the whole thing. You don't need to lecture anybody about sexual morality, keeping yourself till marriage is a good thing, probably one of the top pointers to discipline and strength of character which are very important to keep a marriage, but don't be deluded into thinking that is all you need to sustain a marriage is all people are saying, instead of answering the question, some of you are forming holier than Jesus Christ... The question remains, is virginity enough for a successful marriage??, Is not being a virgin a guarantee that your marriage is doomed??, because this seems to be ur argument... Just answer the very direct question and stop acting like a big baby. 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by derecho(m): 5:41pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Funny but I agree that a virgin can turn a prostitute. Like I always say Every prostitute was once a virgin... However, a virgin need not be a prostitute. It's not about being 5mins or 3secs man, it's what is preferable. No responsible man would want his wife to be warming another man's bed. Satisfaction is relative...there are women who are addicted to sex so forget satisfaction for those ones.Sex is a thing of the mind. But since we are not here for sex education, let's address the issue. The issue is a reaction to a statement that being a virgin doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. This seeks to find out one thing amongst others: does virginity before marriage matter? Or how does it affect marriage positively? Wisdom, I believe is better than strength (since you mentioned weakness). You don't go all out to hire a thief because you are financially strong. Though, anyone could become a thief, no wise employer would employ a thief when you have someone with a similar qualifications and no bad record of theft. A wise man sees trouble afar off and hides himself but a fool rages on and is destroyed. God designed sex to be explored in marriage AND HE IS WISER THAN ANYONE. Sexual defilement and wrong exposure to sex has its consequences. Why choose to fetch water with a basket instead of an good bucket? Even if you are "capable" and can go a hundred times, it's wisdom to conserve your strength and use it for other profitable ventures. lawkenoz: |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JoeEeL(m): 5:41pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
brodalikeme: There's always the disillusioned SIMP who just jumps on a thread to defend stupid things. |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by victons(m): 5:42pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
brodalikeme:And being a borehole guarantee a successful marriage |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JoeEeL(m): 5:43pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
duality: Lol, ure correct. It's typical black man prejudice. They usually tend more towards negativity and evil. 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by victons(m): 5:44pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
chival:Virginity alone doesn't no guarantee a successful marriage, yes, but virginity is a favourable trait in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by folake4u(f): 5:44pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
cooooooks: You just took the words from my mouth. 3 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by ceeceeuwa: 5:44pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
If you are a guy and you are not a virgin, I don't want to hear you saying that virgin ghbjkkkkf. Just shut the f***k up! Only virgins deserves their likes. 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by YoungBlackRico(m): 5:44pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
duality:lmao |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by radna2: 5:45pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Ashawo don drop quote |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by victons(m): 5:47pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
henrybomb:So we can't find virgins with good characters? Or Non-virgins with dirty characters?? Why do you want to argue blindly. |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by advanceDNA: 5:48pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JovialJune: Guilt-trip you?? Babe..the only reason I said u are responding with emotions is bwcos u ignore context and start finding gender wars, If you are not responding with emotions why are u all over this thread claiming the a virgin won't be a virgin for ever..?? Claiming some people don't have right to have an opinion because they are not virgins?? ...u sound like u are pained cos u are probably not a virgin.... Look I've told u before and I'll tell u again..i don't attack you or women ..I told someone there is nothing nice about men and women having over 20 body counts before marriage ..it's fvcimg irritating.. I'm a fan of discipline....I'm not perfect in all areas...but jumping from one pvssy to another is not one of vices 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by victons(m): 5:50pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
matthew41: What of people who run after virgins to ensure paternity and ego? Why do people choose boreholes? |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 5:51pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
shaybebaby: Nah, these guys are living in 2021 but running on passed down advise from their grand fathers from 1920s. These men are the kings of emotional outburst. When the can't defend their egotistical patriarchy driven agenda, the throw in religion in the mix to keep thing interesting. They are solely focused on sex, God will provide, and bs that cannot move mankind forward. On the subject, I ask again, is the health of the marriage solely based on her virginity, if the man was wetting his dick with everyone in the neighborhood, how does that affect the marriage, what is our roles as men in the health of a marriage. Our obsession with sex is destroying our country. All the ambition is fuelled by the mundane desire to have sex with multiple women thus the ragged state our country is in 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Elporo(m): 5:52pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
kevoh: Senior man, I beg to differ. With due respect; let us make a conscious decision to educate each other about the risk or reward which follows a decision/investment or task. Yes, you can marry a virgin or non-virgin - that is fine. But, let no man stand up to tell his counterpart that there is no difference btw a virgin and a non-virgin. That a man should consider other things, that a man should be concerned about other things. Yes, other things are important - but are they all as equally important. |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by AfroKnight: 5:52pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Any guy who allows virginity alone to sway his choice of a wife, is playing Russian roulette with his future. Look beyond the virginity. Open your eyes. Virginity is a good sign but it can also be a mask. 4 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by MrMacinterchi1: 5:52pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
This your analogy is watery and very weak to hold an argument. Being a virgin doesn't guarantee a successful marriage because there are many virgins that are not "marriable" because they lack some qualities that can sustain and make a marriage to be successful. It's fact. However, that does not reduce the virtues of virginity. 3 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by henrybomb(m): 5:57pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
victons:Some of you can't comprehend easily that is why you can't differentiate between an open minded statement and an arguement. Calm down or drink water 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Crysallis(m): 5:57pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Tourist123: That your ex was probably 19 |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Trogge: 5:59pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
matthew41:..... God bless you, he doesn't know what he is saying, when a child talks you will know. 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by walozanga(m): 5:59pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
ALOT OF CHILDISHNESS HERE. GIVE UNNECESSARY EXCUSES. VIRGINITY CAN NEVER GUARANTEE A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE. DO SOME OF YOU REALLY KNOW THE MEANING OF THE WORD *GUARANTEE* 3 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Elporo(m): 6:01pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JovialJune: Hamiltonii: I no believe say girls they kpansh from early age like that. Me dey think sey them go first reach like 18 or 20 before the thing start. |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by emmykk(m): 6:01pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Adekaka12345: That is not a virgin...My virgin girlfriend still call me till today even though I m married.when I wanted to married I lost contact with her then. A virgin love and respect his man. That act alone can cover legion of your sin as a man. It goes a long way to make her tolerate you. The society have made virgin before marriage scarce,but if you find one they are better off. |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Kajaard: 6:01pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Tourist123: Abeg no vex make I laugh small . Thanks for entertaining me before another hectic work week starting tomorrow 1 Like |
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