| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Richy4:
why can't you open up to your lecturers instead of devising a means to eliminate your own Father... I believe you got smart phones.. take couple of pictures and show them with tears in your eyes...
What are you trying to prove to your lecturers?... Why are you bottling things up? ... Are you trying to prove to them by acting tough in their presence that all is well with you when clearly all isn't...No matter how sadist they are, even the devil got soft spots...Assuming your school has students advisors, This situation is enough to granted you a study leave because you can't concentrate.... Please tell your lecturers the situation of things....
You are clearly passing through a traumatic situation at the moment but u have to try your best to leave your dad out of it until his maker calls him...Can you be able to leave with it that you killed your own father for the rest of your life? besides, you have no right whatsoever to take a life u did not make..... he did not kill you when u were a toddler..No matter what you call it, Mercy killing, or kind killing, killing is killing....Thou shall not Kill  He has graduated already 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Goldiness: 10:09pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
dvkot:
will you also help them raise money for meds? Boys will always try to show themselves when men are talking, I will not answer you. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by akaahs(m): 10:09pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Omorotionmwann:
Thank you for this,the doctors wouldn't even attend to us if a particular tests or drugs were not done or bought and they are so expensive I really feel Ur pains and Ur mum. U can try taking him to home for the elderly with constant visiting so u mum can rest a little bit and u. My two cents |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Goldiness: 10:11pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
1Sharon:
Jungle justice is rife in Nigeria, but do y'all give a damn about those ppl?
Yet you turn around to say 'let God's will be done'
I can't answer you, because you don't have an understanding heart. |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Purepen: 10:11pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
If your father were rich, healthy and active, you would claim that God has destined you to have such father and you wouldn't want to kill him. So, take it at destiny and take care of him till natural death. God would bless you |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by wendixx(f): 10:12pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right
IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?
NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE
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My dear brother, first of all I say well done to you and your family. It has indeed been a tedious journey so far... WELL DONE. May God bless you for all your labour and effort. PLEASE DON'T HAVE A HAND IN THE DEATH OF YOUR FATHER. Directly or indirectly. Do you still believe in God? I know that by now, you might be saying where is God in all these.. But He is right there with you, even when it feels as though He isn't. Go to God in prayers and table all these things you shared with us to Him. Tell him you are tired. Give yourself a fast or vigil and just bare your mind to YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER. Delay is not denial dear. This affliction will pass. Just try not to allow negative voices to weigh you down. Mind you no matter the name it is sugar coated with, euthanasia, abortion, mercy killing etc.. It is MURDER. Don't take a life you can't give. I pray for you and your family, that by the mercy of God, this affliction comes to an end in your family in Jesus name. God bless you. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by litaninja(m): 10:13pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
erm, this is his limit. That's the reason for the post. The "much" you say he shouldn't spend, he's spent more. He's been at it for 4 years. so... maureensylvia:
Lemme pee, I'm coming
Alright, I'm back 
No matter what, he's your loving father.. his seed brought you into this world. The mercy death on this is unjustifiable.
It's true it hurts, but you have to carry the cross.. it has its own blessings.. believe me.
Try and take care of him but KNOW your limit.. don't spend much on him but take care of him.
Even if he dies on the long run, you won't feel guilty.. you will feel fulfilled that you tried your best.
Encourage your maale, nwanyi Ibem!!! She must have seen alot to the extent of giving the thought of running away.
If you can, get a nanny that can take care of your Dad.
Don't do something stupid
Read it again
Cheers
This too will pass 
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| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by keeper303: 10:14pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Misternas89:
You are a real Gee I must confess. I’ve been waiting on someone to types this snail water + milk. Exactly what was prescribed for my Popsy too Have you tried it on him? Did it improve his situation? |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by drololaaof: 10:14pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
All your allegory, you want to kill him period ,DON'T try it his blood will be upon your head and your generation forever. From your narration ,stop wasting money on all those tests keep him at home feed ,clean him ,Pampers twice daily,pray for him ,do not be downtrodden, tell your mother to continue the care. If the man is healthy and bringing in money NONEof you will complain except if he went and marry another wife. Only God knows what will become anyone of us later in life.Do your best till he answers the call of the Almighty . Ire o. |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by RosyIsBlessed: 10:15pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....
I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...
I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....
Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!
IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?
NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE
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Don't kill that man else you'll be a murderer. There's nothing like mercy death in this case. |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by duro4chang(m): 10:15pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
DropsMic:
I get sad when i read things like this... Really sad. Things like what? |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Goldiness: 10:16pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Decryptor:
So all the sick people who have died in the past really wanted to die while those who survived fought for their lives abi?
Why are most Nigerians so senseless??  Children don't understand the things of adulthood, so I can't blame or fault you as a child that you are with your kind of reasoning. Shallom!!  |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by BusterG: 10:16pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....
I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...
I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....
Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!
IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?
NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE
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Not Easy bro I understand how u feel..... Time will sort it out... Hang On TTYL |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by PotatoSalad(m): 10:18pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Eriokanmi:
SMH! Small boy can't recognise a charm, he's now calling it ugwu leaf...that's my adage in response to your narrative. Ignorance is bliss. |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Calmthunder(m): 10:20pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
SportsHD:
Religion is damaging your mentality. The dad has been in that state for 12 years now. I'm sure no one would want that for himself. Not being able to talk or do anything yourself.
Drop all emotional sentiments here, think logically. Imagine the peace of mind he and the mom would have, coupled with the amount they'll save not going back and forth to the hospital.
If it were my family member, lord knows he would have been in the ground by now.
It's better for him to be at peace in heaven than to be suffering here In life. #Every sin begins with a logic, sir. |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Op,Don't try it o, my late dad went through the same thing with your dad. Infact, we were 4 in the university as at the time the sickness started. My elder brother wanted to drop from school but my mum persuaded him not to. My mother, God bless that woman because l can't do half of what she did. She kept her hopes high and she became our sole provider, and how we all survived in school then, was all God. she persevered and endured with love, she never complained. Three of us graduated at a time since my brother's course was a 5years course. We carried on till l got married, same with him. Though my dad lost his speech, mobility, sense to recognize people or objects, he was spoon fed, bedridden and suffered severe bedsore because of that, but he was blessed with a great wife and hopeful children. He met two of his grandchildren before he died after 11years of sickness in the midst of his family.
So my dear, let your mom endure, hope and persevere, you ain't God to take a life you didn't create. I wish l could tell you more of what we went through, especially my mother but she carried on, as if it's her cross to bear. God is blessing her with health every day and many more to come, for going through such trial without breaking. |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by GistFullGround: 10:22pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Bola146:
So sorry, please don't kill him. Continue praying for him, God will help you out. Jesus is the best, the truth & life... 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Wiinnd(m): 10:23pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....
I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...
I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....
Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!
IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?
NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE
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Brother, I empathize with you. I attended UNiBEN also, 09/10 set from Production Engineering and I can relate easily to your university travails. It is well with your father. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Goldiness: 10:23pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
koyyes:
I don't understand...how does he feed?
If he feeds using the other hand or is being fed by someone, it means he wants to survive. You can't end his life. It's a sin and you will be a murderer. God bless you and some children in this platform who don't know what life is talking about is encouraging the OP to kill his father. May God Have mercy on them all. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by callthefred: 10:26pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Believe it or not but you need to find spiritual solution to this. Sorry to add no one, I mean no one should know of your moves. Stroke isn't a joke o. Forget drugs and Hospital abeg. |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Perfectbeing(m): 10:29pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
I remember a movie I watched where a UK millionaire son had a bike accident and became paralyzed neck down.. I can't imagine how it feels to be able to move only your head. That's worse than death. I will suggest death for any such person. |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Adunn1ade(f): 10:30pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups
with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....
I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...
I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....
Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!
IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?
NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE
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| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by DenreleDave(m): 10:32pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Goldiness:
You see you, and your life. If the father wanted to die he would have died since, he is fighting for his life, and you said he should be killed, how funny and wicked of you and the intent of your heart. See just pray not to be terribly sick one day, especially at old age, then you can tell them to do the same for you.
NB: may be you don't value your family members.  You can run ur mouth bcox u r not in his shoes... Let turn it to ur side and let's see how u will run ur mouth 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by DenreleDave(m): 10:33pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Goldiness:
It will be your turn next, then you know how it feels to be sick and need help, then you can tell them to do the same for you. Heartless beings. After his turn, it will yours 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by DenreleDave(m): 10:35pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
koyeni:
I understand how the op feels . It's not easy.
We read of a psg footballer who spent 50 something years in coma. it's reported his wife was there all through for him. Though he died eventually..
Op should keep faith high So what's the essence if he later died.. Wife waited for notin 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Blastedholligan: 10:35pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
maureensylvia:
Lemme pee, I'm coming
Alright, I'm back
No matter what, he's your loving father.. his seed brought you into this world. The mercy death on this is unjustifiable.
It's true it hurts, but you have to carry the cross.. it has its own blessings.. believe me.
Try and take care of him but KNOW your limit.. don't spend much on him but take care of him.
Even if he dies on the long run, you won't feel guilty.. you will feel fulfilled that you tried your best.
Encourage your maale, nwanyi Ibem!!! She must have seen alot to the extent of giving the thought of running away.
If you can, get a nanny that can take care of your Dad.
Don't do something stupid
Read it again
Cheers
This too will pass
Meanwhile Nairalanders check out my signature for affordable Agro commodities from north come, if you can't relate with his issue it's better you don't give any useless advice. Most of you guys always advice someone without first feeling empathy. You must not contribute to a matter ESPECIALLY when you have not experienced or having any understanding about it. I know you'll want to insult your enemy 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by richiepolymer(m): 10:38pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky:
NO, you should not kill your Dad.
1. Killing is murder
2. Killing an ill individual without an advanced directive from them is murder
3. Killing ( the correct word is "euthanizing/euthanize" ) an ill individual in Nigeria is a crime under the criminal code. Even if euthanasia were legal, it must be done with an advanced directive in place; in a Hospital; by an assigned, certified Physician; using the proper method; and be documented/have documentation.
This is a human being and not a toy. You don't just decide to end his life at your own will. It's not your call to make.
Life is not all in black and white. You have no idea what the caregivers are going through over their old man's health. Have you ever nursed someone at the hospital before? The young man is already drained mentally and financially.... The old man can't feel any pain or worry in his current state. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by AmuEbule: 10:39pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....
I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...
I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....
Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!
IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?
NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE
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You’re a strong man bro. It’s sad to read what you and your mum are going through but I think the devil is trying to frustrate you but God is watching to see how you will handle this tough task till the end. If you don’t mind sharing, how much do you and your mum spend monthly in taking care of your dad? |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....
I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...
I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....
Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!
IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?
NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE
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Honestly, men should learn. Don't over stress yourself nor put so much responsion your shoulder. Enjoy life and take care of yourself and the little responsibility that you should try to have. I believe it should be because of your mum, you and your siblings to have a great life that is why that man over worked and over thought himself. Now, the time he needs love and attention, you thought of killing him. We have seen parent going all out to take care of Autistic, paralyzed and impaired children without complaining and with love. Now the children on now days to reciprocate such love is something else. What a world. |
| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Chevrolet076(m): 10:42pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....
I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...
I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....
Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!
IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?
NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE
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Hey boy, what I think you need is to just stop all the therapy and all sort since your dad's condition hasn't improved and still becoming worse. Just take him home and care for him like a normal human being. Him getting worse could be psychological due to seeing you and your mom going through so much stress etc. Just stop all the therapy and bring him home.. If you dare suggest euthanasia to anyone in your family, you'll become the bad person and everyone would start watching out for you as the son who wanted to kill his father. No amount of explanation can correct the notion for you. 1 Like |
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| Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by temielects(m): 10:43pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Very tough and deep decision to make,please dont! |
