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Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op): 6:42pm On Sep 26, 2021
"Nobody watches you harder than the people who don’t like you. Give them a good show. Thank them. They are unknowingly providing you with the fuel you need to succeed."
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op): 6:43pm On Sep 26, 2021
5 minutes after your birth, they will choose your name, your religion, your nationality and your community.

And you'll spend your whole life fighting for things you didn't choose, all of this is best case scenario.
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op):
Don't do anything for her until she has worked for it or deserves it.
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op):
Dear aspiring patriarchs, reasons why you should pick your poison (woman) carefully:

- She will be familiar with your vulnerabilities and might decide to use them against you.

- If you marry a shameless woman, sooner or later she will bring shame to you.

- She can kill you easily. She will be the one to cook for you, prepare your bath while planning her heinous actions.

- If your wife is a bad one, there's a high chance your children's life will be greatly affected.


- She can make you father another man's child.

- She will make your life a living hell.

- If she's a toxic person, getting her to leave your life completely will prove difficult.

- Your business, mental health and progress will be on the line.

- She can make your friends and family turn their backs or distant themselves from you.

- Your children's emotional health and growth will be affected.
Re: 2 - Deleted by Lightheaded: 11:14pm On Sep 26, 2021
TheUndercover:
Why do you think most music artists use women to promote their music especially in their videos? Because they know people would be more willing to watch them, they make them shake their ass, boobs, and dress seductively to attract potential consumers. Business organizations keep hiring physically attractive female HR or secretary in order to attract potential customers. It is a business strategy.
Thanks boss, I appreciate this. It explains a lot.
Re: 2 - Deleted by Nobody:
Re: 2 - Deleted by Lordfranklin(m): 8:14pm On Oct 01, 2021
TheUndercover:
Friendship with women, how to use women to get what you want. (Some errors might be seen, kindly ignore.)

Woman

INTRODUCTION:

Generally, friendship with women is being frowned upon in TRP with no exceptions or caveat. Women can prove helpful to you in a lot of ways if you're conversant with the way they think, how they react, what they are capable of doing etcetera. They are also capable of making your life significantly better or catastrophically worse depending on how you deal with them. A woman can be a venom, can be fragrance, can be used as a stepping stone, can be used as a weapon, can be fragile, and can also be lethal. A woman can wear any face (masks) depending on the situation. A woman can also be the reason for your rise or fall. Use them wisely, you'll succeed, use them poorly and you'll fall.

Friendship with women goes a long way. The reasons why TRP frowns at friendship with women is because most times the men is on the recieving end of things. He gives while recieving nothing. He spends and yet have nothing to gain from it. He's been friendzoned in this case. Friendship with women is also frowned upon because inevitably sexual attraction will rise amongst both parties which might lead them doing the inevitable when the opportunity comes.

Now, what about if the man friendzones the woman? If you're a man with little or no self-control, this is not for you. If you're a man without balls, this post is not for you. The post is aimed at how to keep women in the friendzone instead for mutual benefit and not sexual benefits. If your aim is to use a particular woman to get what you want, then do not have the mindset of having any romantic or sexual relationship with her.

Scenario One:
When I was building my business I use my female friends as a way to advertise my business by making them post on their status, the response I got was far greater than when I was posting it alone on my wall. Believe me, women have a lots more contacts than you can imagine. You can use them to reach a lot of people easily especially if she's very attractive. Before you can make a woman agree to do your biddings especially in this case, you would be a person of excellent charming and social skills. You'll put them in the friendzone instead. Spend on them when you have to without being asked, forced or compelled to do so, this will make it easier for them to do your bidding or what you want. You can tell them this is what they have to gain in return. If I know the woman I'm dealing with is a narcissistic person, I make it go both ways, do what I want and I will do what you want.
Thank you very much for this!
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op): 7:39am On Oct 07, 2021
"Whenever someone interrupts you when you are speaking, keep speaking without showing any signs of stopping.

If you stop talking, it will signal that you are of lower status than them - because they get to stop you from speaking."

Caveat: If a superior interrupts you whilst speaking, keep calm and remain silent.

#LifeStyle
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op): 7:40am On Oct 07, 2021
"Girls don’t send mixed signals. They bait betas for fun and then stop them before it gets real"
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op):
You know you've got an alpha mindset if:

- Getting a "NO" from a woman doesn't move you, doesn't bother you and doesn't make you think something is wrong with you. You have an abundance mentality.

- You don't seek validation from people, seeking validation is a feminine and beta trait.

- You act or do things differently from the average people. You are not afraid of being called "weird".

- You are not afraid of being alone or working alone, instead you utilize the hidden benefits of it. You're a lone wolf.


- You have the ability to make people respect you and listen to you. i.e. excellent charming skills, you're good with words etcetera.

- You're not quick to make judgements due to your initial perception of 'reality'.

- You have leadership qualities. You're not weak. This weakness can be either emotionally, mentally or physically as the case may be.


Remember: Being an alpha male is mostly about your actions and mindset not words. If he feels the need to tell you that he is an alpha, he is not an alpha.
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op):
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op): 7:51am On Oct 07, 2021
"How to identify a bad deal:

If someone is trying to make you decide in a hurry, they are probably giving you a bad deal.

Walk away." This type of package mostly comes with the disguise of being free or cheap.
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op): 7:53am On Oct 07, 2021
"How to avoid repeating yourself:

When you ask someone a question and they reply with “What?”

Simply stare at them. In most cases, the person will answer your question.

This trick works because for most people, it’s like a habit to ask “What?” even if they heard you."
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op): 7:57am On Oct 07, 2021
"How to handle a hard question as a speaker:

Start with ‘What a great question! (etc etc).’

The asker is so pleased that their question got praised by the speaker in front of all those people that they are less critical of and pay less attention to the actual answer."
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op): 8:04am On Oct 07, 2021
"Men like boobs! Women like biceps!!

It's the reality. So exercise more often. grin"

But don't forget, Women's boobs are natural but biceps? Damn, you got to work for them. That's why women are born with value, and men needs to earn his value.
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op):
I read a quote that states thus;

"Its not the stab in the back that kills you. It's when you turn around and see who's holding the knife."

Tread carefully.
Re: 2 - Deleted by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 12:17pm On Oct 07, 2021
TheUndercover:
"Men like boobs! Women like biceps!!

It's the reality. So exercise more often. grin"

But don't forget, Women's boobs are natural but biceps? Damn, you got to work for them. That's why women are born with value, and men needs to earn his value.
This is the plain truth. Men must work and toil to get "anything" worthwhile and nature has a way of making sure when achieved, very sustainable, durable and long lasting. A woman is but a MAN MUST BECOME.

NO PAIN
NO GAIN.

Re: 2 - Deleted by foreman: 4:02pm On Oct 07, 2021
TheUndercover:
"Men like boobs! Women like biceps!!

It's the reality. So exercise more often. grin"

But don't forget, Women's boobs are natural but biceps? Damn, you got to work for them. That's why women are born with value, and men needs to earn his value.
Very funny
Re: 2 - Deleted by HELLASJ(m): 12:45am On Oct 13, 2021
TheUndercover:
"Men like boobs! Women like biceps!!

It's the reality. So exercise more often. grin"

But don't forget, Women's boobs are natural but biceps? Damn, you got to work for them. That's why women are born with value, and men needs to earn his value.
Thanks for this undercover!
I have a friend that's skinny and he always wants to develop muscles ( chest and the likes) and I don't think he could get that done, though I do encourage him to take some foods (milk and fats)
Please can you recommend ways I can help him out?

Quest:
What about skinny guys? Is there any hope of having biceps?..
Re: 2 - Deleted by Nobody: 11:59am On Oct 13, 2021
HELLASJ:
Thanks for this undercover!...[/b]
Many people do weightlifting wrongly. The first step before weightlifting is to understand your body's somatotype.

This is what determines how fast you can grow or lose muscles.

From your description, I suppose that your friend would majorly be an ectomorph, which means he has a high metabolism and would grow muscles more slowly.

Take the body test here: https://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/becker3.htm

Whatever his body type, he needs to understand that muscles are grown in the kitchen and not the gym. So he needs lots of protein: meat, eggs, beans, etc., and back it up with exercise in the gym with equipment and at home without equipment.
Re: 2 - Deleted by ExtremeDot: 1:19pm On Oct 13, 2021
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Re: 2 - Deleted by ExtremeDot: 1:20pm On Oct 13, 2021
I read this thread from the first page to this point.
So much knowledge.
Kudos to the OP and other contributors.
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover(op): 10:24am On Oct 14, 2021
Shoodboi:
Many people do weightlifting wrongly. The first step before weightlifting is to understand your body's somatotype.

This is what determines how fast you can grow or lose muscles.

From your description, I suppose that your friend would majorly be an ectomorph, which means he has a high metabolism and would grow muscles more slowly.

Take the body test here: https://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/becker3.htm

Whatever his body type, he needs to understand that muscles are grown in the kitchen and not the gym. So he needs lots of protein: meat, eggs, beans, etc., and back it up with exercise in the gym with equipment and at home without equipment.
Thanks for this.

@HELLASJ, I hope this reply is satisfactory enough. You might need to Google some keywords to fully understand this.

He might not develop muscles to some extent according to his body type, but there will be some changes and he will be able to stay fit. People are different.
Re: 2 - Deleted by Nobody: 12:13pm On Oct 14, 2021
Shoodboi:
Many people do weightlifting wrongly. The first step before weightlifting is to understand your body's somatotype.

This is what determines how fast you can grow or lose muscles.

From your description, I suppose that your friend would majorly be an ectomorph, which means he has a[b] high metabolism[/b] and would grow muscles more slowly.

Take the body test here: https://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/becker3.htm

Whatever his body type, he needs to understand that muscles are grown in the kitchen and not the gym. So he needs lots of protein: meat, eggs, beans, etc., and back it up with exercise in the gym with equipment and at home without equipment.
Whenever I come across this narration "High Metabolism" The "Rest Room" comes to my mind. Those skinny people's Shit Is always Huge. Most of them eats like Glutton and The Food hardly stays In their body......grin

NB:I'm not making Jest of the skinny peeps, It's Just what I have observed.
Re: 2 - Deleted by Dliquidmetal(m): 12:48pm On Oct 14, 2021
Evolutionlove:
Whenever I come across this narration "High Metabolism" The "Rest Room" comes to my mind. Those skinny people's Shit Is always Huge. Most of them eats like Glutton and The Food hardly stays In their body......grin

NB:I'm not making Jest of the skinny peeps, It's Just what I have observed.
you are very correct my man,I have that type of body. I dey chop different things but before the next day na toilet go hear am and I no go gain fat. I fit dey fresh sha but zero fats but I'm also glad cause some people wish to have a body like mine. grin
Re: 2 - Deleted by Freeko4: 1:43pm On Oct 14, 2021
words on marble
Re: 2 - Deleted by Calibrator: 5:29pm On Oct 14, 2021
Na pushups I dey use patch my body frame to gain better physique.

Diarrhea is my best friend should I ever decide to start eating to gain weight.


Pushups is Bae.
Dliquidmetal:
you are very correct my man,I have that type of body. I dey chop different things but before the next day na toilet go hear am and I no go gain fat. I fit dey fresh sha but zero fats but I'm also glad cause some people wish to have a body like mine. grin
Re: 2 - Deleted by Dliquidmetal(m): 6:11pm On Oct 14, 2021
Calibrator:
Na pushups I dey use patch my body frame to gain better physique.

Diarrhea is my best friend should I ever decide to start eating to gain weight.


Pushups is Bae.
I think with my body frame i should have a food timetable first cause I dey do press up too na just 6packs dey show not muscles that I desire.
Re: 2 - Deleted by Calibrator: 6:25pm On Oct 14, 2021
Did I remember to add that I don't eat meat?



6 packs don do me.
My diet can never aid the growth of muscles or fat.



Though I am getting "rounder and fuller" these days.
Dliquidmetal:
I think with my body frame i should have a food timetable first cause I dey do press up too na just 6packs dey show not muscles that I desire.
Re: 2 - Deleted by Dliquidmetal(m): 7:51pm On Oct 14, 2021
Calibrator:
Did I remember to add that I don't eat meat?



6 packs don do me.
My diet can never aid the growth of muscles or fat.



Though I am getting "rounder and fuller" these days.
unlike you I eat literally everything but my body finds it hard to gain weight. I need those muscles man grin
Re: 2 - Deleted by HELLASJ(m): 7:26am On Oct 15, 2021
Shoodboi:
Many people do weightlifting wrongly. The first step before weightlifting is to understand your body's somatotype.

This is what determines how fast you can grow or lose muscles.

From your description, I suppose that your friend would majorly be an ectomorph, which means he has a high metabolism and would grow muscles more slowly.

Take the body test here: https://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/becker3.htm

Whatever his body type, he needs to understand that muscles are grown in the kitchen and not the gym. So he needs lots of protein: meat, eggs, beans, etc., and back it up with exercise in the gym with equipment and at home without equipment.
So much knowledge in this information thanks so much boss
Re: 2 - Deleted by HELLASJ(m): 7:28am On Oct 15, 2021
TheUndercover:
Thanks for this.

@HELLASJ, I hope this reply is satisfactory enough. You might need to Google some keywords to fully understand this.

He might not develop muscles to some extent according to his body type, but there will be some changes and he will be able to stay fit. People are different.
Yes very helpful, I showed him the post already
We exercise together so as to encourage him. Thanks so much
@TheUndercover
@shoodboi
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