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ChineduChinedu:
I managed to get the phone number of the
biological father of those children

I called the man
And asked him if he is the father of the 3 kids
He said yes
He also said that he didn't do anything on her head at all
I asked why
He said cuz of family backgrounds

What should I do?

I know I made mistakes
If u guys don't help I may end up dead

Man you have to stand your ground,because lying is tantamount to cheating and she intentionally hid a big baggage from you....

Nwa nna leave that woman alone,even heaven and humanity would understand

She will run your life down,you deserve better

Things dey happen Sha

Omo! Be like you get experience in womenity o

FreeSpirited:
When a man is so naive and inexperienced abt women..once u enter into relationship with a very experienced one, even if she's not that experienced, most women are cunning, so she will use the power of her wet pvssy to control u..
because u haven't had much experience abt sex, she will fvvck u very well, she will make u experience the sweetness of sex and at same time use the power of her pvssy to control yoi because She knows she has tied u to her pvssy...dats wot women do...
It's ur dependence on that pvssy which is something u can't control that she will use to control u and maltreat...she will make u beg and apologize otherwise she won't give u the sex you are now used to....
...She will make demand and u must fulfill it, else she won't give u sex ......and u will miss the sex and her sexiness cos she will be hostile to u..so u will now try to appease her....
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The cure for this is to be experienced to know when she's trying to manipulate u and stand ur ground instead of accepting her terms....
....Another is why men have sidechicks cos when their babe manipulate them and refuse to give Dem sex..they will go and meet the side chick...
So start looking for another babe or else she will continue to use her pvssy juice to wash ur head and ur mumunity will double.
The reason u are confused is because u have been pvssyfied.. she has used her pvssy to control u . U must break that control, so u will need another woman.....and at thesame time...u need alot of stuff to know abt women.... otherwise even ur new woman will still take advantage of u

Biggest fool ever.

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

I don't know how to advise iberibe people like you . if what you typed here in not nollywood script then your own mumu na inborn , I don't know enugu people to be this foolish .at the age of 30 you don't have sense ? we the men don dash you for sacrifice for cleansing . Mumu man.

why won't she control you when you lack sense ? a lady forced you to do court wedding against your own wish . tufiakwa .

ChineduChinedu:
She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage

All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding

You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem
I wasn't into girls at all
I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type
For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity.
I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl

I don't know anything about women at all
That's how I landed into this problem
Make una help abeg

You can divorce her the court will favor YOU on this because she lied... Pay a visit to lawyer...
She manipulated you about a stupid dream because she knows that immediately yu discovered the truth about her children that you will run away...
LEAVE THAT FAMILY AND RUN FOR YOUR LIFE... THEY CAN BE FETISH.

Useless weakling....

Very very useless weakling

The fact is you completely ignored the red flags during your courtship or dating period. A lady who controls you, shout at you and gets angry easily is a big NO. You should have read meaning on why she was so desperate to have a court marriage, it implies she have an ulterior motive.
Baba you don Bleep up already!!!

This is the real definition of mumuric and simping

ChineduChinedu:
She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage

All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding

You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem
I wasn't into girls at all
I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type
For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity.
I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl

I don't know anything about women at all
That's how I landed into this problem
Make una help abeg

You don’t know anything about girls but you didn’t listen to your own family. You’re a fool forever. Get lost.

Oga, calm down and listen. Everything you have done with that woman prior to your discovery is null and void. What should you do: Approach the court based on this new evidence to dissolve the marriage. She could go to jail and you can also ask for reparations. Your lawyer knows what to do.

ChineduChinedu:
She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage

All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding

You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem
I wasn't into girls at all
I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type
For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity.
I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl

I don't know anything about women at all
That's how I landed into this problem
Make una help abeg

First n foremost,ur mumu wear coat.U hav no business fathering a child becos u are still one ot maybe u have an underdeveloped brain.Secondly,this is not America,there is no such thing as sharing properties into two after divorce.What i cant understand is before u fcked ur wife,hav u not ever fcked any other woman before?Becos there is no way i will see d body of a woman who has had a child before n not know...not to mention 3.How can u not know

Accept reality Brother??

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Efulefu

I see no reason why you should be asking us what to do at this stage

I'm older than you so I think j can talk senses to your head

Women are manipulative & will always take advantages of your weak side

Divorce her right away

No doubt, you are doing well financially than her former husband, sees that you are certified simp & that's why she played fast one on you

Btw, it's strange you can't detect a woman wey don born before with her body n while drilling her

U don't know HW a woman who get 3 kids kpekus and breast dey..u be Mumu man.

Can you see where the word of God comes to play a vital roles in the life of a man, the laws in the Holy books are for our own benefits.
Cohabitation is strongly a prohibited in Christian dom, it show that disobedient will surely gives birth to disobedient leading to tout

ChineduChinedu:
My mumu nobi here oo
Thanks for the advice

Chai! I really feel 4 u cos you are now entangled in a sticky cobweb.

Go and seek the honest opinion of your parents and pastor before making any fiinal decision. Do as i say brotherly and thank me later.

ChineduChinedu:
She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage

All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding

You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem
I wasn't into girls at all
I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type
For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity.
I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl

I don't know anything about women at all
That's how I landed into this problem
Make una help abeg

if this story is true, then there's one thing I can say, congratulations you are now a married man to a mother of three. The marriage itself is a deception, look for a spiritual leader to lead you, and a very sound and knowledgeable person in the judiciary to direct you. moreso pray for direction.

Favfables:
It's not every divorce that the man losing half of his property, because the content/agreement of a court marriage can be adjusted to suit the couple...

Since you said her junior brother signed it for you, it therefore means that he adjusted the proceedings to favour his sister, because if na the one wey my sister sign, your supposed wife for go prison for 21years...
first go through the proceedings of the agreement and see if there's a loophole you can exploit...

I'm not a fan of divorce, but Oga kick that woman outta your house, because marriage built on deceit cannot last...

Properties are not even shared in Nigerian marriages. Only happens in the west and not Nigeria so he should get sense for himself

You won’t lose anything she married you under false pretense go and dissolve the marriage in court ASAP. Get your child train him well….

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

You be heavy mumu. I no pity you one bit. You deserve what you got. You're getting married to someone and u don't know her age. Ode. You did court wedding without your parents. Let me ask you. How did her brother sign for you when the court registry always gives a form to fill weeks before the court wedding,in that form you will write down the names and details of those that will sign. At least this is what I passed through from Abuja Registry. I don't believe your story though. I don't believe someone as old as you can be this stupid and weakling. I spit on your childishness

That woman is cold hearted and manipulating. She forced you to go through with the registry wedding because of the secret she was keeping g. She is mean. Get an annulment, have a DNA test run on the baby after its birth and then take responsibility for the baby if it's yours. You were played.

This is a gram up story is not real ..

brosom:
Oga pray make redpillers no catch u both online and offline.

Ur case get as e be

some people go really wish to know this op offline so dem go fit beat sense enter him coconut head

Smartb0y:
Divorce and take half.
Accept the loss for your foolishness.

Divorce and take half?

Who even believes that rubbish?

This is Nigeria not Europe or America!

ChineduChinedu:
I managed to get the phone number of the
biological father of those children

I called the man
And asked him if he is the father of the 3 kids
He said yes
He also said that he didn't do anything on her head at all
I asked why
He said cuz of family backgrounds

What should I do?

I know I made mistakes
If u guys don't help I may end up dead

Go to any lawyer and tell him the truth and that you no longer want stay in the marriage no matter what . then the lawyer will help you get the divorce without much to lose . never you ever try to manage the lady if you like yourself .

bro before its too late,disbantle that shit called marriage with her ,run for your life beside you are not smart enough ,beside am sure shes older than you . wohhhh saaa run for your life

felibrain:
Your sense of humor is top notch. The nwa bu ewu. But story looks fake and poorly written.

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Sell everything you have to a friend or a brother.

Move in with a family or friend

Declare bankruptcy

If you are employed, tell her you are owing the company

Ghost her for 1 month

Then come back and tell her you’ve been in efcc and dss Custody.

Always demand money from her


Maintain the lie for at least 2 years she will be begging for a free divorce





Follow the above instructions since everyone is living a life of lies.


You will be fine las las

joshuaidibia:
You be heavy mumu. I no pity you one bit. You deserve what you got. You're getting married to someone and u don't know her age. Ode. You did court wedding without your parents. Let me ask you. How did her brother sign for you when the court registry always gives a form to fill weeks before the court wedding,in that form you will write down the names and details of those that will sign. At least this is what I passed through from Abuja Registry. I don't believe your story though. I don't believe someone as old as you can be this stupid and weakling. I spit on your childishness

Yes the story is a fiction not true at all but a frame up one..

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

On the assumption that this is not one of those tales that Seun and his team use to attract traffic to their site on very boring weekends Iwill make a contribution here.

History is replete with stories of very foolish men brought down by the wiles of women from Adam through Samson, Hosea and a host of others.

But you Sir, have earned the crown. From realtor to Girlfriend and then wife all within a very short space of time and to crown it all ....it happened in Lagos.

Don't you have male friends that you can confide in...even if you don't have relatives?

You are a the personification of unintelligence and deserve only to marry that girl.

Please ensure that you stick by her.

Nonsense and ingredients.

ChineduChinedu:
Please what do u suggest I beg u

Divorce that witch. Mumu man. Go and speak to a lawyer.