He's the first born out of 5 children .He's doing his PHD and has his own business. He still lives with our parents.

So he does not pay for house , food or water.But can you imagine this brother of mine who makes money from his business doesn't contribute to the house for the same food he eats,

when he makes money he goes to hotels and sleep over with women

and prefers to train and help outsiders than bring something to the family.

Recently, he had the effontry to reject my mummy's food on the ground that it was served late.

I simply asked my mom to stop putting food for him.

Honestly this brother of mine has never brought joy to my parents and siblings. He has had several accidents driving carelessly, yet my mom still takes care of it all and she has even stayed over in the hospital when he had the last accident and became unconscious.

They're just the kind of brother one will have and you wished you never had a brother , my brother is exactly that kind of brother anyone will wish not to have.

Not to talk of his dubious nature, you can't do simple business with him without him cheating on you. I once was rearing one animal and had to send him money for feeds but can you believe he was billing me in excess.

I wonder why God gave us this kind of brother, he has been like this since we all knew something and hasn't changed for good. embarassed embarassed

So pathetic!

helinues:
Why not enlightening him about his ways of doing things politely?

Candle can't see its own yansh

DaddyRochie1642:
That's how it starts,

The next na, you'll start thinking of ways on how you'll "Poison that your brother"

virginprincess:
You guys should sit him down and talk some sense into him

Mybrotheralso:
He's the first born out of 5 children .He's doing his PHD and has his own business. He still lives with our parents. So he does not pay for house , food or water.But can you imagine this brother of mine who makes money from his business doesn't contribute to the house for the same food he eats, when he makes money he goes to hotels and sleep over with women and prefers to train and help outsiders than bring something to the family.Recently, he had the effontry to reject my mummy's food on the ground that it was served late. I simply asked my mom to stop putting food for him.

Honestly this brother of mine has never brought joy to my parents and siblings. He has had several accidents driving carelessly, yet my mom still takes care of it all and she has even stayed over in the hospital when he had the last accident and became unconscious.

They're just the kind of brother one will have and you wished you never had a brother , my brother is exactly that kind of brother anyone will wish not to have. Not to talk of his dubious nature, you can't do simple business with him without him cheating on you. I once was rearing one animal and had to send him money for feeds but can you believe he was billing me in excess. We also contributed money to renovate our father's house and he emphatically told us he bought something which he didn't actually buy.

I wonder why God gave us this kind of brother, he has been like this since we all knew something and hasn't changed for good.

So pathetic!

KiNg0G:


Are you a male or female?

If you be guy and you dey bad-mouth your brother like so for public.
It make sense.

You not be guy man at all.

Mybrotheralso:

We've done that severally. When we were growing up our dad nearly flogged him to his death and decided not to touch him anymore. We're just unfortunate to have him. Funny enough he's very smart and intelligent and makes money but character and behaviour is just zero.

virginprincess:
You guys should sit him down and talk some sense into him

helinues:


May be your approaches have not been in a proper way.

Btw, you might be seeing the guy acting awkwardly, but he might have his own reasons

kenzysmith:
[s]Gerrout leave ur brother alone u re d main problem the fact he has his masters and PhD I think u should respect him and whereas he is the senior
He is d ist son so it is his birth right
Is your parents complaining? Y are u the one complaing better go and marry and leave your brother alone to enjoy himself. He is not a kid mind ur business[/s]

BeeBeeOoh:
He has passed the stage of talking sense into, what oga Op and his people needs now is to gather people, tie him (both hands and legs), break that his coconut and pack a lot of sense into it. Nothing more, nothing less

BeeBeeOoh:
He has passed the stage of talking sense into, what oga Op and his people needs now is to gather people, tie him (both hands and legs), break that his coconut and pack a lot of sense into it. Nothing more, nothing less

EzegeNdiigbo:
Fustration's Cause am


ignore his ass

virginprincess:
it doesn't work that way, even if you kill him it changes nothing, I'm sure with prayers and advise he would change, talking from experience.

Mybrotheralso:

Na, all approaches have been done the best way possible.These are not just my views about him , the rest of the family see him that way.

Mybrotheralso:

It has been done a zillion times

helinues:


Well, just let him be..

He might have his reasons .

Someone that is that educative can't just be like that, may be you guys have been exhausting him without consciously aware.

virginprincess:
Don't stop talking to him, like I said invite someone he respects so much, it maybe an outsider it doesn't matter, what matters is that the person maybe able to talk some sense into him.

Mybrotheralso:

A lot of prayers and anointing have been done for him since childhood

AfroKnight:
Just move out

virginprincess:
Don't stop praying, God can still change him, it not too late.

Mybrotheralso:

All what you've said have been done in the time past and recently too.

Mybrotheralso:

Oga you're finding all ways possible to blame us and not finding ways to help him. You're just saying maybe and maybe, when I have consistently told u he was never caged and he was shown love. He manages all the family businesses and keeps the money.