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I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse

Lobatan

Imagine ur Dad runs DNA on all of u and it turns out u are also not his child ...
.......
Nothing is impossible especially if it involves vagina people and paternity.

Do what you know is right for you and your family. But before you tell your father about your step brothers legitimacy, make sure you are also your father's legitimate child. To avoid 'had I known'.

Tell him and foot the bills

Note i don't hate him.. I love him with my everything.
I just discover recently that he's not my dad son..

Tell us the Koko first! Wetin de sup? So elders fit align come reason 1or 2,make kasala no come burst out later 4 ur head!!

What are ya proofs?

Juliusmomoh:
Note i don't hate him..
I love him with my everything.

I just discover recently that he's not my dad son..

wait first,my guy,are you serious?

Freelane33:
Tell him and foot the bills

Am just afraid... What if i tell him and got heart-break and die... He's 76 plus

FreeSpirited:
Imagine ur Dad runs DNA on all of u and it turns out u are also not his child ...
.......
Nothing is impossible in this life especially if it involves vagina people

Am sure about my own... It can't happen dat way

Sonnobax15:
wait first,my guy,are you serious?

Oga sonnobax...
I just receive the new yesterday... And guess what, all what they told me is true... They can't tell my father direct. Since am the first born, they had to let me know first... They said i shoul get back to them before sunday.

Then leave everything for God

Juliusmomoh:
Am just afraid...
What if i tell him and got heart-break and die... He's 76 plus

I can't trust the other gender

Oxb90:
Do what you know is right for you and your family. But before you tell your father about your step brothers legitimacy, make sure you are also your father's legitimate child. To avoid 'had I known'.

I know am his legitimate son... My problem now is, what if i tell him and this old man died out of surprise?

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he doesn't belong here...

Should I go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffers to train is not his?.

Or I should tell him to conduct a DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

I Am confuse

Let us assume that after you told your father about him, he was sent packing. After that, would you be happy?

Your dad had spent on him, and it's his time to make your father proud, but you want him away.


I hope you are not about to make a mistake. You sounded like a female because some of them don't reason before taking action.

Juliusmomoh:
Note i don't hate him..
I love him with my everything.

I just discover recently that he's not my dad son..

I realized long ago that having blood ties does not make a family.

If your step bro is family enough, then he is your brother.

How do you think you would live a peaceful life if you don't tell that man the truth b4 he joins his ancestors.
I bet you a 76 Yr old man must have seen or heard worse things in his life.
It's always better to intentionally live with the truth than unintentionally live with a lie you wish you knew all your life. Either way it will break him but he would feel better knowing he loved the young man going forward by choice.
And have you ever thought of the chances of he finding out from someone else? Walls have ears.
Do the needful. I hate deceit whether its harmless or harmful, deceit is deceit.

Bro, no kill that man before him time?

just wait till he dies, then give that bastard and his mom the shock of their life by exposing them with the evidence u have.

But don't try this if ur dad is rich, cos he might have given that son of a beech a large chunk of his estate in his WILL before his death and it can't be altered after his death. Just scattere everything now make una rearrange am.(but that's if he's really wealthy).

Omo this thing dey pain eh!!

Juliusmomoh:
Oga sonnobax...
I just receive the new yesterday... And guess what, all what they told me is true... They can't tell my father direct. Since am the first born, they had to let me know first... They said i shoul get back to them before sunday.

Bros,this thing get as e be oh.....Just like you you said,the outcome of the news might have a negative impact on your dad.....This thing get as e be,but I think it's very important for him to know..

A similar thing happened to a man(an retired shell worker for that matter) here in my home town...In this case,all the children weren't his....After the man don train all of them finish go school,even all of them self don dey abroad dey live good lives,na one day the wife call the man sidown,break the news to am...She Also told the kids about it.... mennnnnnnn,na one day the children come naija come carry the man fly out,say na the father wey them know nai be that

Kylekent59:
Let us assume that after you told your father about him, he was sent packing. After that, would you be happy?

Your dad had spent on him, and it's his time to make your father proud, but you want him away.


I hope you are not about to make a mistake. You sounded like a female because some of them don't reason before taking action.

Honestly i whould not be happy... But no am not the one engineering this..

I was told by my dad friend yesterday.

Am a man, hence the reason why i neet advice

Juliusmomoh:
Honestly, I would not be happy... But no am not the one engineering this.

I was told by my father's friend yesterday.

Am a man, hence the reason why I need advice

It could be that your father is aware of his identity but doesn't want to tell on him. If his friend knows, then he should also know.

Sonnobax15:
Bros,this thing get as e be oh.....Just like you you said,the outcome of the news might have a negative impact on your dad.....This thing get as e be,but I think it's very important for him to know..

A similar thing happened to a man(an retired shell worker for that matter) here in my home town...In this case,all the children weren't his....After the man don train all of them finish go school,even all of them self don dey abroad dey live good lives,na one day the wife call the man sidown,break the news to am...She Also told the kids about it.... mennnnnnnn,na one day the children come naija come carry the man fly out,say na the father wey them know nai be that

Jesus !!!
Na only god go safe us o..

So i should tell popsy ba?

Juliusmomoh:
Oga sonnobax...
I just receive the new yesterday... And guess what, all what they told me is true... They can't tell my father direct. Since am the first born, they had to let me know first... They said i shoul get back to them before sunday.

why sunday

Kevsmart88:
How do you think you would live a peaceful life if you don't tell that man the truth b4 he joins his ancestors.
I bet you a 76 Yr old man must have seen or heard worse things in his life.
It's always better to intentionally live with the truth than unintentionally live with a lie you wish you knew all your life. Either way it will break him but he would feel better knowing he loved the young man going forward by choice.
And have you ever thought of the chances of he finding out from someone else? Walls have ears.
Do the needful. I hate deceit whether its harmless or harmful, deceit is deceit.

if he is 76 how old is the father

The fact that you can foot the bills makes me conclude that you're financially awk and won't be affected by the outcome (not so much anyway), but is it the same for your brother??

Paternity fraud is devilish!!!!
Knowing and not saying makes you a culprit too...
But you have to ask yourself, if you were in your father's shoes, would you want to be told??

Kylekent59:
It could be that your father is aware of his identity but doesn't want to tell on him. If his friend knows, then he should also know.

Something is telling to get the man arrested. He know about this for year without letting my dad know about it.. Is that not wickedness? .. What are they friend for. ..

house10s:
why sunday

I was told by my dad's friend. I think he want want the son back to the original family after sunday... I will never let it happen...

[quote author=Juliusmomoh post=106721399]Honestly i whould not be happy... But no am not the one engineering this..

I was told by my dad friend yesterday.

Am a man, hence the reason why i neet advice [/quote

That ur dad's friend has some questions to answer? Hold him and ur stepmother tight, they might make some confession that would shock u.

Juliusmomoh:
Jesus !!!
Na only god go safe us o..

So i should tell popsy ba?

Bro,I for like say make you tell am..But do am in a more matured way.....Chebi your popsman get close friends/family wey you fit arrange together....Do am like that,make dem tell am..

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse

I doubt he will believe you without a DNA.

Tell him that you will pay for a DNA test at any lab of his choice if you are so sure.

I hope say no be Pastor tell u or na for dream u see am?

some secrets are worth taking to grave, you are just going to create unnecessary issue, the man is old already , allow him to enjoy the rest of his life on earth in peace... i know secrets that i can never ever disclose to anybody in this life. and that's what makes you a man