ClassicMan202:


Abeg park one side... So make him dey sugar coat am because him too na man abi?

KiNg0G:


Are you a male or female?

If you be guy and you dey bad-mouth your brother like so for public.
It no make sense.

You not be guy man at all.

Iyaebe:
Rain will fall the day you'll contribute wisely to a complex situation, I'm looking forward to that.Hope you heeded to my warning to stop fighting Mart...z on the redpill thread.

helinues:
Why not enlightening him about his ways of doing things politely?

Candle can't see its own yansh

DaddyRochie1642:
That's how it starts,

The next thing na, you'll start thinking of ways on how you'll "Poison that your brother"

HeyHey:
The ball is in your parents court. Especially if he is troublesome, no put body. Bc you are acting on what they told you, but they cannot tell him personally. Na you them they push go front to go fight their battle so, if your skin no full better no put body.

I’m a lawyer, and today so, I Dey go court because my clients wants a restraining order against their first son for similar troubling behavior. though the guy is 42, and issue him pops several blows, but na small small like this he start

Chrisgod001:
From all the things he said this is what you could understand. Post like this is meant for mature people just rest abeg.

frozen70:



Is very unfortunate for him to be behaving like a prodigal son at that over ripe age

You guys must learn from his mistakes and move on with out him being am obstacles to you his siblings

Don't give him the time and attention he needs from you people, because he will capitalize on seniority for you guys

Just move on but be prepared for the trouble he may pose for you people as he grows old unless he is married then, his wife may be the one to correct his madness

As for your mum, no woman can leave her child just like that,even if the child is tied to a stake for police shooting she will still love that child, unless not a biological mother

Don't be surprise, that his Animalistic behavior has already affected your mum emotionally

Just don't give him the opportunity to intimidate or harras any one of you, you guys must team up against him when that time comes

Lastly, put away your family landed properties documents hope you know why ?

bmasz:


The question I want to ask is not really coming out. But, if it were to come out promise me that you would not be angry.

Me I was thinking out loud, but I have not said anything yet oh. Please, reason with me. .

This bro of yours seems to be the only outlier in terms of moral and familiar fidelity.

I want to ask... Are you sure that this your brother is really your brother.

Is not that am accusing your mom of infidelity, am asking, to verify whether he was adopted.

You know an orange tree is still an orange tree even if it were to be planted in a garden filled with apple tress.

Kobojunkie:
For a 35 year old P.h.d student,all this is in one ear and out the other. He needs to be booted out so he can go live his life elsewhere.

Life needs to take a go at teaching him lessons which he has been denied of up til now.

virginprincess:
You guys should sit him down and talk some sense into him, invite someone you know he respect so much it may be friends, relative,or anybody, again you people shouldn't despise him instead show him more love, sometimes also tell him how hurt you guys are with his behavior, lastly don't forget to always pray for him, remember him in your prayers, I'm sure with God and advise he would change.

Mybrotheralso:

He has even defended his thesis , funny a thing he's very intelligent and has no problems with academics

Tunde835:
Your elder brother is gifted and highly intelligent. You guys dislike him because he is different from you, so you ostracize him. Its called human herd behavior, the pack rejects the one they perceive as an outsider. He is probably an Introvert and stays in his room all the time. By the way what field is he doing his ph.d in?
When he starts living on his own, everything will be alright.

Morgan9:


Ur understanding is very shallow

BonPatrick:
He is a useless son

Mybrotheralso:
He's the first born out of 5 children. He's doing his PHD and has his own business. He still lives with our parents. So he does not pay for house, food or water. But can you imagine this brother of mine who makes money from his business doesn't contribute to the house for the same food he eats, when he makes money he goes to hotels and sleep over with women and prefers to train and help outsiders than bring something to the family. Recently, he had the effontry to reject my mummy's food on the ground that it was served late. I simply asked my mom to stop putting food for him.

Honestly this brother of mine has never brought joy to my parents and siblings. He has had several accidents driving carelessly, yet my mom still takes care of it all and she has even stayed over in the hospital when he had the last accident and became unconscious.

They're just the kind of brother one will have and you wished you never had a brother , my brother is exactly that kind of brother anyone will wish not to have. Not to talk of his dubious nature, you can't do simple business with him without him cheating on you. I once was rearing one animal and had to send him money for feeds but can you believe he was billing me in excess. We also contributed money to renovate our father's house and he emphatically told us he bought something which he didn't actually buy.

I wonder why God gave us this kind of brother, he has been like this since we all knew something and hasn't changed for good.
He has been sat down and talked to severally yet he will repent and still go back to his old ways .

So pathetic!

princeeze1:
Unfortunately the problem here is your mother! Not every child is meant to have common sense factory fitted. I have same issue with my immediate elder brother. Unmarried, 40, eating from my mother’s pot. Mind you I already have 2 kids. I agree life is not competition though. I never returned home, the moment I graduated, not because I would be chased out, but because I was ready to face life. He will not get serious because he does not want to leave his area of comfort and face the challenges of paying the attending bills life begins to throw at him, and your mother just like mine has aided and abetted him thinking it’s mother’s love. My mother cannot just stop. Your best bet is to encourage him to get married, which I intend doing for my bro when I arrive in December, I already asked him to introduce his fiancée to me when I arrive for Xmas. A wife would most prolly ensure they get their place, he has bills to shoulder hence he becomes financially responsible. As for dubious dealings, that maybe factory follow come.

Mybrotheralso:
He's the first born out of 5 children. He's doing his PHD and has his own business. He still lives with our parents. So he does not pay for house, food or water. But can you imagine this brother of mine who makes money from his business doesn't contribute to the house for the same food he eats, when he makes money he goes to hotels and sleep over with women and prefers to train and help outsiders than bring something to the family. Recently, he had the effontry to reject my mummy's food on the ground that it was served late. I simply asked my mom to stop putting food for him.

Honestly this brother of mine has never brought joy to my parents and siblings. He has had several accidents driving carelessly, yet my mom still takes care of it all and she has even stayed over in the hospital when he had the last accident and became unconscious.

They're just the kind of brother one will have and you wished you never had a brother , my brother is exactly that kind of brother anyone will wish not to have. Not to talk of his dubious nature, you can't do simple business with him without him cheating on you. I once was rearing one animal and had to send him money for feeds but can you believe he was billing me in excess. We also contributed money to renovate our father's house and he emphatically told us he bought something which he didn't actually buy.

I wonder why God gave us this kind of brother, he has been like this since we all knew something and hasn't changed for good.
He has been sat down and talked to severally yet he will repent and still go back to his old ways .

So pathetic!