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slickycee:
Too much wisdom will not kill you.

Involve God in your relationship.

Let God be the one to lead you to your partner.

You go just use years of your life dating the wrong people and keep getting miserable.

Even when God is involved, it doesn't mean you would find the perfect love immediately, but at least you would keep getting better until you find the one that was destined for you..
Your person is not perfect, your person has a past
Your person is also a human being, not an angel.

In all you do, pls do it out of love for God and respect for yourself.

Everyone has a sad experience, we all have made mistakes, we've all hurt someone but what matters is how we strive to be better .

Don't approach relationships like marriage or partnership..
It's just friendship


Nothing is guaranteed, there no definite standard, but your ability to love and forgive would take you far.

I wish us all good luck

Pinkyposh:
Doesn't work for all women, some are different
I don't feel a shit, everyday feel the same, whether ovulating or not. I don't even know when I'm ovulating, except when I want to personally monitor it

Gadafii:
most of the girls i have been with, they always the one cheating with me on their main guys.

the only girl i met without boyfriend, i told her if she cheat me on and i find out, i will break her neck

Mercychen:
What urges?
Do you think women just sit and start having urges? No now.

Urges can only come when you indulge in things that will trigger it like sexual materials or contents eg romantic movies and what have you, which one should avoid as a child of God. But when you do away with such things and ask the holy Spirit to help you, nothing like urges anything.

Got that?

Grandmeister:
Why do I feel this your post is personally directed at me? It's like you already know or knew what I just went through... "Your ability to love and forgive". If you love truly, in the truest meaning of the word love, you will certainly forgive. There's no lobe without forgiveness...when I understood this, I began to understand why God loves man so much, even beyond human reason.

Morientez:
Baba i no see her pant oh talk more of to shagg...she play me virginity tape and base on sayi see her as gal wey i get future with niam make i know too disturb her... Thing pain me ohh make i no lie

Mercychen:
Lol.. you won't understand.
Man no dey hungry me again .

Seriously, I don't fancy men any longer. I see them as additional stress in my life.

Mercychen:
I knew someone was going to come up with this line. Reason I said I'm not dumb cos I know it's possible some times to distribute such because I too have worked at federal palace Hotels, so I know. But my ex was a procurement manager!!!
I don't know if I'm making sense though. Plus other things he does that I won't want to mention here.

Mercychen:
What urges?
Do you think women just sit and start having urges? No now.

Urges can only come when you indulge in things that will trigger it like sexual materials or contents eg romantic movies and what have you, which one should avoid as a child of God. But when you do away with such things and ask the holy Spirit to help you, nothing like urges anything.

Got that?

Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.

Mercychen:
I've given up on men. I'm now married to Jesus. Waiting for the trumpet to sound.

I like my peace of mind.



Yes for real. He thought after seeing his posh apartment, I'll now be worshipping him.
I just called and told him i can't continue with the relationship. I want to serve God.

princefrank76:
The woman i trusted so much back then. I accidentally bomb into her facebook and discovered she was cheating on me with multiple guys. I fainted 10 times. But then, it was a life lesson. I dumbed her and moved on and have bounced back. I now take every girl i meet as a potential cheat. I don't want anoda shocker. Chai T-girl u really do me things that year.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Naaah. Don't even try to infuse excuses.

Na me even did them dirty sef. I have very serious trust issues. So, for me to have called them upright, they passed a benchmark that I placed.

I don't make excuses for people, but I can for the men I have been with.

greatiyk4u:
Change the mindset immediately and be a pro-family Christian ready to obey the clarion call of procreation
There is joy in sweet companionship

Waiting to hear a different story from you,.....perfect men are hard to come by these days but there are many husband materials out there

UyaiIncomparabl:
Yes.

I can't survive on one soup. Variety is the spice of life.

UyaiIncomparabl:
When people say their partner cheated on them, I usually cannot relate. I have been with very upright men.

perryy:
This mercy is in serious need of a man. It is obvious she is advertising her status so that a serious man would apply. If not that my business is not doing fine like before at the moment, I would have applied as I'm a widower who lost his wife to adultery. Adultery is a taboo in my village especially my family. Our own dey hot even after the death of the man. Unless something is done, the woman has no right to Bleep another man

Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.

Oyiboman69:
are you still with all of them now... or you're the one initiating the break up?.

Acidosis:
You dey crase

Mercychen:
Who told you I didn't love him? Hm. Well. I did but I was scared because he likes women too much and he can lie??

Ruke1989:
Well, I like your scientific mind. Want to connect with you if you don't mind.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Yes and no.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Abi.

I gats change rod once in a while.

capnies:
Am a male n married; I would advise you to change the attributes of the men you fancy, go for the intelligent ones I mean the highly intelligent ones; they are more humane and considerate.

Joshcoli:
I have a bloody strategy that I have used to catch my cheating partners that they become dumbfounded.

One thing about this species called female they will never agree they are cheating even when you see the man cooking his gbola inside her kpekus, they will deny

Guys of you want to know my strategy inbox and don't what this ladies to understand it now

huntax:
Scientific mind kwa... This nigga is horn.y mehn

Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.

Is it only shower Cap you saw there? Did you find any other female wares there to arrive on such conclusion?

Gadafii:
most of the girls i have been with, they always the one cheating with me on their main guys.

the only girl i met without boyfriend, i told her if she cheat me on and i find out, i will break her neck

slickycee:
I don't know you , I just wrote from my heart.
Because that's where I am.

I love Someone and I just have to always forgive.

It crushes me, but I know that at the end it would make me stronger and better.


God is really good and he wants the best for us , but it never comes easy.

Some days I just sit and wonder how Joseph agreed to marry Mary even after he found out she was a virgin with a pregnancy.

It must have taken something from him

It must have been really painful

No normal man would accept a lady with that condition.

Look at Jacob, working all those years to marry the one he loved..

Look at King David, he had to kill his soldier just to marry the one he loved.

To get what you love is not easy, it would never be easy.
My dear, love would touch you and it would change you.

You can't be in love and still be the same.

I love this lady with all her complications, I get frightened most of the time, when I realize what I'm doing.

But then Loving doesn't make me a bad person.
Me loving someone doesn't hurt me or the person

My expectations are what hurts me
Even if I don't get this one that I love , I know this experience would definitely make me better for the one I would meet..
And being the best version of myself is one of the greatest attainment I can achieve in this my life time