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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 1:02pm On Oct 21, 2021
[quote author=Mercychen post=106912169][/quote] bamboozled yourself
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Zubi10(m): 3:13pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercy become a Muslim n I will marry you.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by greatAbdurl(m): 4:29pm On Oct 21, 2021
For harmattan season nko?
Mercychen:


What urges?
Do you think women just sit and start having urges? No now.

Urges can only come when you indulge in things that will trigger it. Like sexual materials or contents eg romantic movies and what have you, which one should avoid as a child of God. But when you do away with such things and ask the holy Spirit to help you, nothing like urges anything.

Got that?
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Morientez: 5:08pm On Oct 21, 2021
avrilwisedata:
You don turn sponsor now. But u did all u did out of your own volition cos u care. Since the feelings weren't mutual, na to free her and find another. As simple as that.

My brother i was doing it base on serious relationship stuff ... i was seeing her someone i had a future with,but the idiot wanted to explore...
For now am done with anything serious relationship.. (na how e dey be) na i dey do now..

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by capnies: 6:02pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:


Lol.. you won't understand.
Man no dey hungry me again tongue.

Seriously, I don't fancy men any longer. I see them as additional stress in my life. cool

Am a male n married; I would advise you to change the attributes of the men you fancy, go for the intelligent ones I mean the highly intelligent ones; they are more humane and considerate.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by MufasaLion: 8:41pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.



grin grin grin grin

Damn! Nigga was good!

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by MufasaLion: 8:43pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:


I've given up on men. I'm now married to Jesus. Waiting for the trumpet to sound.

I like my peace of mind.



Yes for real. He thought after seeing his posh apartment, I'll now be worshipping him.
I just called and told him i can't continue with the relationship. I want to serve God.


You're married to Jesus and serving God. Kindly let us know when you pop out your baby.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by MufasaLion: 8:47pm On Oct 21, 2021
Morientez:
My ex always gives stupid excuses of not been chanced ,always forming busy with school stuff...she only do come to my shop for food n money...each time i tell her to come over to my place so we could spend the weekend together cus am always busy during weekdays ,because of the nature of my bizness...

The idiot go tell me say she dey cook Sunday rice ,say her pman no dey allow her comot on Sunday s apart from going to church..
..na so one day like dat i caught her in my street with one manchie walking romantically inside the guys compound..
I echoed her name she turned around and was shuttering with words..I ask her so you dey go out
finishe?7 ...you come dey lie say your pman no dey allow you go out weas you dey gum body with this nigga..

Nia she lie give me say she tell pman say she want go for all night revision for her course mate house cus her 1st semester exam..

I don comot hand for anything wey undergraduate..

Immediately I saw "school stuff" in the first paragraph, I stopped reading your post because I knew it would be bitter story for you. grin

Your last statement confirmed it, too.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by MufasaLion: 8:48pm On Oct 21, 2021
proxitaly:
First sign: I suddenly became very popular in her street. As in, I was thinking they're hailing me as the guy dating that beautiful banny, didn't know they're hailing me as the one dating "our wife"
Second sign: I came to visit her one day and she refused to let me in. She's staying with her elder sister then. Her elder sister of course had gone to her shop. I had to turn back at the door

Third sign: I mistakenly picked up her phone one day to transfer game, it was during those Nokia Asha days. She dived for the phone from across the room. Mendy of Chelsea could not have made such a dive cheesy

Last straw: She left for school and one day after talking to her on the phone, my elder sister asked "who was that?"
I said Vicky
She hissed and said " That girl that use to leave school and come to stay with Chiboy and think we're not seeing her"
I just had to cut my L and move on

She hissed and said " That girl that use to leave school and come to stay with Chiboy and think we're not seeing her"

grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by noisy45(m): 10:06pm On Oct 21, 2021
About Glory my 3rd ex she mistakenly logged in her Facebook account on my phone and forgot to log out. Come and see chats from men complementing her tight ass and pussy I nearly had an heart attack.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by folks4luv(f): 10:08pm On Oct 21, 2021
Is it right to say he was cheating while you guys were not together? He lied though, but cheating? Technically he didn't
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.


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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Blackdisciple(m): 10:10pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.




Only shower cap not even a lady's clothings and now I see niggarrrs using shower cap too, what if it was actually given to them at his work place as he claimed.??

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by noisy45(m): 10:11pm On Oct 21, 2021
About Blessing my 4th ex that slut closed from work and went to meet a man in an hotel in Uyo I was in ibadan something just said I should call her she switched off her main line but forgot to switch off her company phone number. So after several missed calls on her company phone number she finally picked and I urged her to come online in video call she obliged and I saw her naked in a strange bathroom. She lied and lied but I eventually found out the truth and werey kept asking forgiveness. This was a lady I was planning to marry and I had visited her parents and made my intentions known. I will forever never trust a woman.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by IYANGBALI: 10:11pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.


yinmu! Swear sey you too no dey cheat

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by ominilongest(m): 10:12pm On Oct 21, 2021
Lol shit was funny as hell ;Dwe dey use d same Icloud ;Dmama na one Bush girl like that wey no too sabi operate phone.I just dey catch my cruise na so I just c dz pictures of my babe with this guy on bed ;Dlol she no know how I take know, Bush girl ;Dna when we break up I tell am sha cheesy na me fk up marry person wey no sabi operate phone, she suppose dey smarter now ;De fit sail d sinking ship grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 10:12pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:


It's not really because of breakup. I mean... I initiated the break-up. So..

The thing is, I've come to realize that im more at peace when I'm not in a relationship than when I'm in one. At least, I can think straight and focus better on my job than having one guy disturbing me with calls, monitoring my movement and always wanting me around him.

You mean y'all ladies h8 these things?
I thought they're the very spice for relationship. Well, what do I know!



Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Munzy14(m): 10:13pm On Oct 21, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
When the baby that they used to call me was automatically changed to Oga obax undecided. ..Na then I realize say dem don relegate me undecided
Hahahahahaha serious relegation, next is baby can we just stop having sex..grin grin

That's when you will realise you have lost second leg of the semi-final match..lol

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by IYANGBALI: 10:13pm On Oct 21, 2021
Blackdisciple:



Only shower cap not even a lady's clothings and now I see niggarrrs using shower cap too, what if it was actually given to them at his work place as he claimed.??
don’t mind her. Her body dey too hot

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by ednut1(m): 10:14pm On Oct 21, 2021
Facebook chat. Bitch was denying me pussy unto church girl levels but dey give 3 other guys

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 10:14pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:


What urges?
Do you think women just sit and start having urges? No now.

Urges can only come when you indulge in things that will trigger it. Like sexual materials or contents eg romantic movies and what have you, which one should avoid as a child of God. But when you do away with such things and ask the holy Spirit to help you, nothing like urges anything.

Got that?

grin grin grin
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by emmnprince(m): 10:14pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:


I've given up on men. I'm now married to Jesus. Waiting for the trumpet to sound.

I like my peace of mind.

Is he the only one that you assumed cheated on you that made you to give up on me or after him, other men cheated on you before you finally called it a day while you await the trumpet to sound?

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Wannabenz: 10:14pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:


I've given up on men. I'm now married to Jesus. Waiting for the trumpet to sound.

I like my peace of mind.



Yes for real. He thought after seeing his posh apartment, I'll now be worshipping him.
I just called and told him i can't continue with the relationship. I want to serve God.
You don't have to give up on men now, can I see your pic maybe we can continue or I finish you kpatakpata. You be Igbo?

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 10:15pm On Oct 21, 2021
Gadafii:
most of the girls i have been with, they always the one cheating with me on their main guys.

the only girl i met without boyfriend, i told her if she cheat me on and i find out, i will break her neck cheesy cheesy

Gangster love!
Mah niggah

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Jokescity(m): 10:16pm On Oct 21, 2021
dragnet001:

You've probably never worked in a hotel. They do give shower caps, especially in the production department.
Are u for real
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Oct 21, 2021
Ka fi si enu ka dake. angry

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Maipanda1(m): 10:17pm On Oct 21, 2021
*If Nigeria has so much oil, why are they so poor?*

https://freshloaded.com.ng/if-nigeria-has-so-much-oil-why-are-they-so-poor/
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by phenylalanine(m): 10:18pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:


What urges?
Do you think women just sit and start having urges? No now.

Urges can only come when you indulge in things that will trigger it. Like sexual materials or contents eg romantic movies and what have you, which one should avoid as a child of God. But when you do away with such things and ask the holy Spirit to help you, nothing like urges anything.

Got that?
I disagree with you on this, urges will come even if you avoid things that triggers it, that is how the body (flesh) was designed, is just that the holy spirit helps us to overcome it, pls give relationship another chance, but this time be more careful and don't have too much high expectations... We aren't perfect...

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Blakjewelry(m): 10:18pm On Oct 21, 2021
Mercychen:


I've given up on men. I'm now married to Jesus. Waiting for the trumpet to sound.

I like my peace of mind.



Yes for real. He thought after seeing his posh apartment, I'll now be worshipping him.
I just called and told him i can't continue with the relationship. I want to serve God.
Sorry sister, we the good ones are destined to meet the bad most times

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Crochet: 10:19pm On Oct 21, 2021
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by FanOfMyself: 10:19pm On Oct 21, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:


Naaah. Don't even try to infuse excuses. grin

Na me even did them dirty sef. I have very serious trust issues. So, for me to have called them upright, they passed a benchmark that I placed.

I don't make excuses for people, but I can for the men I have been with.
So why didn't they marry you. Just curious...

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