Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,665 members, 7,955,405 topics. Date: Sunday, 22 September 2024 at 04:10 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? (49746 Views)
How I Found Out My Husband Was Cheating And Had A Boyfriend (Video) / How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? / How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Rickmann: 7:47am On Oct 22, 2021 |
computersoft: First, I wasn't refering to you..i and whoever I was talking with are cool and by that, I don't see how you come in. So I'll just pretend I didn't see this comment. You, take care. |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by celebgists01: 7:51am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Mercychen: My dear,as much as I want to understand your reasons for not wanting a man but you need to check yourself,are you a jealous person. My brother was a procurement manager in a company and they are given samples of products by potential customers even napkins,so if na shower cap you see come conclude then you have a problem 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Grandmeister(m): 7:56am On Oct 22, 2021 |
humilitypays:This argument is flawed. Since when did marriage and a ring guarantee faithfulness from a partner?? If marriage does then why do we have words like adultery, marital infidelity, paternal fraud etc? If the girl or guy you're dating or courting can't stay faithful what is the guarantee that he or she will when you put a ring on it? 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Cubeman: 8:02am On Oct 22, 2021 |
dragnet001: I worked in a renowned hospitality for years. They don't give shower caps to men except he has a female occupant. That guy na serial bleeper. 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by clefstone(m): 8:04am On Oct 22, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl:rephrased to mean you are the one cheats? |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by bonnyhope: 8:06am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Mercychen: Pls if you have decided, I am available for a serious relationship 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by clefstone(m): 8:08am On Oct 22, 2021 |
capnies:the highly intelligent ones will wreck someone like her so much emotionally she would never be able to recover 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by JeogahII(m): 8:11am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Mercychen: For me it is sounding like you are now beginning to align and positioning yourself to receive God's will for your life. God is love. He is also the author of marriage. In Him we have our beings...in He we truly learn love. In Him we can truly find love. 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by noble2faith(m): 8:18am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Mercychen:Owk. However, u re a product of love. Give love another chance. It might be favourable for you this time. I am also single. What do you think? |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:19am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Grandmeister: My inference wasn't for all men. Only for the men I have been with. Men are greater cheaters than women. Women are just craftier. 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:22am On Oct 22, 2021 |
clefstone: |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by FolabiCash: 8:27am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Leave Mercy alone and tell your stories. Godamn. 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by smk513: 8:28am On Oct 22, 2021 |
michaelgood: Still with her, 1 yr and the half, shes loyal to a level, and i seem to be content with that. |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Anaerobi(m): 8:32am On Oct 22, 2021 |
I followed from page 1-end, more than 29 people replied Mercy. Pls you guys should let her be. Her life, her business ... Let her be and give us your own side of the story. Well mine was when I traveled from far north to see my babe in Port Harcourt. 4yrs now, am still finding it difficult to trust women... It's just heart breaking and hurt so much.... It's well 4 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by INTEGRITYA1(m): 8:33am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Mercychen: I will encourage you to try and change your submission that; man to you is another stress, No. The fact is, man can not live in isolation and another fact is, no perfect man/woman/human being anywhere. Notwithstanding, there are good and responsible men out there and you can definitely get good one for fruitful relationship. Go and ask all those that are celebrating years of successful marriage, there are several occasions where they must have looked away from the mistakes and weaknesses of there partners, they must have comprised their set standard at some point in order to give room for peace to reign. That doesn't mean there are not bad men/women also, may will not be unfortunate in life, notwithstanding there are good ones with good behaviors out there. Cheers. |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by clefstone(m): 8:38am On Oct 22, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl:"rephrased to mean you are the one that cheats in your relationship?" (don't know why some words went missimg in my initial comment) 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Queenserah26(f): 8:42am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Sonnobax15: 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Nobody: 8:43am On Oct 22, 2021 |
I have never been cheated on.. I am in my 20s I have never dated a girl because I do not believe in love or relationship. Just fvck and fvck again and eventually leave eachother.. Every time I decided I want to give it a try then my alter ego pushes against it... Truth is, I am not attracted to 9ja girls for relationship thingy.... 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Patented: 8:44am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Rickmann: The matter tire me. |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Grandmeister(m): 8:47am On Oct 22, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Lol you think you're the only one who has dated faithful men? You're not! It is the norm actually, like I said, men cheat less. It is just that the ones who do are not discreet and women are quick to trumpet it all over the place. Most men won't come in public to tell others how their woman cheated on them. It's a dent on their pride as men. Again, use this particular thread as a microcosm of what is happening out there. How many ladies have shared their experiences?? But because it is an anonymous platform the guys can freely speak out. 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Queenserah26(f): 8:48am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Wooow proxitaly: 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by sherlock229(m): 8:49am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Never had a girlfriend and I'm not planning on it ,i basically turned down every girl advances .. The only time I had something close to a girlfriend was the first girl I have ever loved ,i didn't even know why she stopped talking to me and i got angry at her for that , until someone told me my Mom told her not to come to our place that's over 6 years ago anyways, and it seems she never liked me that much so i was the one wasting my time ,i already left the area and she never told me the reason with her own mouth and i didn't even care cos she should have and she didn't. After that i was never interested in any relationships anymore. |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by posty56: 8:52am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Grandmeister:leave the mumu he thinks a woman courting another man will change if she marries , very dumb logic. |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by clefstone(m): 8:53am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Mercychen:all men like women "too much", even the ones that do holy holy. It's not any man's fault but how we are wired. Lying is a bad signal though but truth be told, in our African society, cheating is not a reason to leave a man as long as the man respects you and has family values. Most African men cheat in marriage(your father may be included sef), the difference is that some men do it foolishly because they do not respect their wives and their family. In relationship setting, so far it is one that involves sex(intimate relationship), expect anything from both parties. NEVER invest too much in anybody that you are not at least engaged to and do not allow anybody invest so much in you. That way, no heart gets broken if the worst occur 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Boniwhite: 8:53am On Oct 22, 2021 |
noisy45:You dont have exclusive right to a lady pussy. You can only be the highest shareholder. 1 Like |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Munzy14(m): 8:57am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Mercychen:Lol...your story eeh...Very amusing in a way. The honest truth is that, that guy saw his wife in you, but your insecurities ruined it all. And to worsen case you really really like him...And as he has moved on with another woman, you have zero regard for any other man. It is part of being human and nobody will blame you. Some mistakes are irredeemable. Anyway, marriage is not a must...It is better to be single, than frustrating somebody's son. Just focus on Your new found love for God. |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by kkins25(m): 8:58am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Mercychen: Hahahaha. incase no one has told you- you're delusional, and living in denial. incase, you dont know, jesus probably didnt walk the earth. |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:02am On Oct 22, 2021 |
clefstone: Yes. I can't survive on one soup. Variety is the spice of life. |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by slickycee: 9:08am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Grandmeister: Too much wisdom will not kill you. Involve God in your relationship. Let God be the one to lead you to your partner. You go just use years of your life dating the wrong people and keep getting miserable. Even when God is involved, it doesn't mean you would find the perfect love immediately, but at least you would keep getting better until you find the one that was destined for you.. Your person is not perfect, your person has a past Your person is also a human being, not an angel. In all you do, pls do it out of love for God and respect for yourself. Everyone has a sad experience, we all have made mistakes, we've all hurt someone but what matters is how we strive to be better . Don't approach relationships like marriage or partnership.. It's just friendship Nothing is guaranteed, there no definite standard, but your ability to love and forgive would take you far. I wish us all good luck 2 Likes |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by clefstone(m): 9:10am On Oct 22, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl:well, don't be too sure that you are the villian except those guys didn't chop kpekus though your comment suggests they fvcked you |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by mrmattolanrewaju(m): 9:10am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Sonnobax15: Na how you con take do am |
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Morientez: 9:12am On Oct 22, 2021 |
Lastmankc: Baba i no see her pant oh talk more of to shagg...she play me virginity tape and base on sayi see her as gal wey i get future with niam make i know too disturb her... Thing pain me ohh make i no lie 1 Like |
(1) (2) (3) ... (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (Reply)
Man Gifts Car To Woman After She Rejected His Marriage Proposal (Photos, Video) / See What A Lady Posted On Twitter & The Lovely Response She Got / Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date?
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 64 |