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Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
pinkygurl:Do you know the cost of your recommendation? Put it into consideration. This is an option for the rich. If she is capable...fine. If not, think well. Adoption is not yet accepted here. Only people with 0 chance eventually accept adoption. Like a lady whose womb has been removed. Even 60+ still go to mountains to pray for miracles which is unlikely to happen. And they waste time so much living in pains and sorrow. They aged fast too. Someone who can still give birth is who you are telling to adopt in Nigeria. I am sure she isnt considering this now, but I may be wrong. It is a post menopausal woman (just one), and not numerous. The medical procedure is still with low probability outcome for people close to menopause. Many people tried and nothing happened. IVF has its own factors which determine the outcome. Look at FFK. He went for all boys triplets. And he was able to achieve it cos his wife is still very fertile. So, IVF is not meant for only people who are having problems to get pregnant. In fact, it's easier for fertile couples. Have your babies at once, choose their gender, and forget it. Then, just be making love later and enjoy it well well. At what age will she find a soul mate? A beg dont make me laugh. You stand a chance of finding your soul mate when you marry early and both couple are virgins. Simple as ABC. Is it soul that have mixed with multiple partners that will be called soul mate again? Or soul that has aborted will start looking for a soul partner? Lol. You dont know that sex is a spiritual transaction? A beg, let the girl just lower her standard and look for a man to get married to. That is all. Any scrutiny and staying on looking for high standard man based on her principle will end her up getting to menopause. She can upgrade the man as long as the man is with a good brain. Money can make change anyone. And the money to do this is cheaper than IVF, freezing, or bla bal bla. If the marriage collapses, it's still better than making oneself a baby mama from the start. And if she chooses the baby mama route, it is better than waiting for IVF which has slim chance. It is all about probability now. She must calculate very well. She has missed her soul mate. It is the truth. Also, even everyone of us married at early age, there will still be left over both male and female who will never marry because there are always more women than men. This is why muslims accept 4 women to a man. Are you saying the women are all the man's soul mates? There is nothing like soul mates again if you want me tell you the truth. Just be honest in your marriage, and be ready for anything. Get ready to heal if you meet hindrances in your marriage. This is why we need to get help. This world is more complex than what we think it is presently. Everything has almost scattered in this world. We just have to start living rightly. Most pastors, imams, and counselors in Nigeria are inexperienced. They are the cause of the problems in Nigeria. Everyone wears a mask to cover up inner thoughts, wants, desires, and actions. Cc: duyox2004 1 Like |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by revived: 12:44pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
We4all: Wait bro No be woman op be ni |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by princewarri1985: 12:45pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
I guess am lost here, a yankee babe complaining about lack of husband when there are multitude of men who are ready to marry you for real and also love you for real, OR ARE YOU A CRIPPLE OR DISABLED?? BECAUSE RIGHT NOW AM JUST WONDERING WETIN OUR NAIJA GIRLS WEY DON SOUR AND EXPIRED GO DO IF YANKE BABE FIT DEY COMPLAIN, or do you have any form of disability? Am just confused |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by gabbytabby: 12:45pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
More than the companionship cos if it is not the right person the worst loneliness is one when you are married to the wrong person cos you can't even get peace in your own home which is suppose to be your place of refuge. It becomes the enemy within and could even be fatal. Give yourself 2 years and just be focused on getting a good man whom you are happy to be the father of your children. After that a sample is just 100 dollars and you can do artificial insemination. No let anyhow person give you STD before you have a major health issue to contend with. There are support groups online for people going through the same thing speak with them to know if its for you. duyox2004: |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by johnfem321: 12:45pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
My advise to you is don’t die in silence, humble yourself and lower your standard.. speak to your friends, Family and relatives in Nigeria to help you find husband.. they will send you pictures.. pick the one you like most talk on phone and get married.. continue with your life |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by paulos8: 12:46pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Walkee:The story might be true. I think the op copied the story from another website |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Kobojunkie: 12:46pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Help2020:So? |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by bukatyne(f): 12:46pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: In the beginning, God said it is not good for man to be alone and created the woman. Singlehood seems fine for men & women till they are older and alone. @Eunuchs: the primary thing driving them is that they have a higher purpose aka monks, reverend sister's/fathers etc. They live in a well defined community (family) and are not alone. They also devote themselves to a greater good e.g. the Mother Theresas of this world. Everytime singlehood was mentioned in the Bible, it was like the above; devoting yourself solely for the gospel. The idea of being single to face your 'career' or work or just to flex is strange. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Bamzyriches451: 12:48pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Na waoo |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by hustla(m): 12:48pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
mysticgal: Plenty English na in make u dey talk Obvious facts are staring at you in the face at Age 30+, options start to thin out.. the men in that age bracket obviously want younger women - na that time body go begin tell you |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by bukatyne(f): 12:49pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
pocohantas: Any lady past 25 still having sex with a marry she cannot marry is not serious. Any one that aborts past 28/30 must be dancing to the drums of her village people. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Katcall: 12:50pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
koning:i'm currently cumming inside a 40 yr old bitch cos she needs a kid badly. I'm young tho |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by jclassiq(m): 12:51pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
pocohantas:43? Oh, okay. I hope you have kids though. Kids can be such joy givers. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by adanny01(m): 12:51pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
duyox2004: I have 2 younger sisters, the one that chopped life, was a concern to my parents but she tried and avoided pregnancy and HIV is married. While the one we hailed, nicknamed "sister" is about to turn 35 unmarried with no relationship in sight. Like my sister, I believe you have some strict principles that prevents the modern eligibles to consider you. Its possible that you dont go beyond 2nd base with a guy, who in this age will considered settling down with you if he is not gold digging. In my opinion, girls who dont make serious effort in keeping a man will not be able to keep a man. The last guy who wanted to marry my sister only has an NCE with no intention of going further, had 3 children from 3 women, hid the truth, denied the truth before confessing. She is basically inexperienced in relationship and doesnt even hangout till date. The guys she meets are colleagues, church members, neighbours and wedding groomsmen. These are circle of guys that will hardly marry a lady in the same circle. My advise to you is, you are allowed to be desperate. It means consider having a child and it involves you taking charge of a relationship and getting what you want. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by GreenDee(f): 12:51pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Don't really know how to advice Op Well,Op just do what makes you happy.. Wishing you the best dear. 1 Like |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Timoleon(m): 12:54pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Too much wisdom no go kill you. Enter your favorite bar and collect one bottle in my name. Kobojunkie: 1 Like |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Streamz: 12:54pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
DeeMain: I met some cool nairalanders. Some very good people are out there. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by OwenJesse27(m): 12:54pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
duyox2004: Am interested can we talk. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by okoroemeka(m): 12:54pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Anyahuruagu:the only alternative is to get pregnant and be a single mom,that child will return your happiness and will be your companion as you grow older,I have a cousin that was exactly in same predicament ,I advised her to be single mom she rebuffed the idea claiming that her husband is on the way,10 years later with no husband,no child,she is now trying to adopt a child and regrets the wasted years she was fertile,men of this current generation are not in a hurry to get married and more men has actually decided not to marry but have children by baby mamas,which I don't blame anyone that decided not to marry because marriage will test the limits of your patience ,temper and endurance ,which sadly many men cannot handle without breaking into pieces. 1 Like |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by smartasuen(m): 12:56pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Sister, truth be told, it's either a physical or spiritual problem. Physical in the sense that your attitude towards people (men especially) may not have been appealing. Spiritual, being that it may be a Spiritual husband issue or some other family background issue robbing you of your marriage. Nonetheless, the good news is; You have a God who reforms, repairs and revolutionizes. Work on your character, maintain an excellent hygiene, keep an inviting countenance (be of good cheers always). Take some time to fast and pray! Deliverance either comes directly from above or through an instrument. Allow God lead you to a genuine ministry where you can become free indeed. God bless you and I hope your next post will be the testimony of a fruitful marriage. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by MrMacinterchi1: 12:56pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
duyox2004: would you have handled pregnancy then? Would you have achieved what you have now , the financial stability you have reached now, your current identity or the palace you have been if you had gotten pregnant then? See, I can only imagine how you feel like now and I can Tell that getting pregnant then would have been the dumbest thing you would have done. so , don't link your current situation to that because you had a good life, you dated , had friends and went to college. Why you haven't gotten engaged or married now is simply because of time and chance - it can happen to anyone. Time and chance happen to everybody. It's quite unfortunate that yours isn't that favorable and I hope it changes for you. But, till then , be your normal self, go out, have fun, meet people and make best decisions that you can handle the circumstances. Udo. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Katcall: 12:57pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
mysticgal:let me cum and cum inside |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by GloShare(m): 12:59pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY: No man wants to pay child support. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Mustbe28: 1:03pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
I am 27, single and broke, you can give me a try |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Katcall: 1:03pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
pinkygurl:are you a doctor? |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by 15ssDRIVE(m): 1:04pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
she is saying, send DM if you are Alpha Male in the same shoes. You here looking for good woman, the good woman don come now. see am, all you need is DM and pick it up from there . |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by appliedscience(m): 1:04pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
icecool12:But isn't it funny that they can submit themselves to have their womb flooded with sperm from a man, just to have a child..... Yet they cannot bring themselves to submit to the same gender in a marriage setting.... |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Katcall: 1:05pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
justscorchone:go and queue |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by yemmywesey(m): 1:07pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Are you in Nigeria, let's go on a date. But first let me see your pictures. How can I get your contact. |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by Katcall: 1:08pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest:no time, i just wanna fùck fùck fùck |
Re: What Is It Like To Grow Old And Never Be Married? by yemmywesey(m): 1:08pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
smartasuen: Mountain of fire people and cele church people |
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