Pussywar:

It’s not factual. It’s an opinion based on misogyny. Call us whatever. But if sentiment isn’t enough to show you how bitter you are and how false your statement is, you’re a lost cause.

the facts are there. counter the facts with facts.

BigBashiru:


the facts are there. counter the facts with facts.

The fact is that women are “used”? And if you’re asked to bring up a research to back it up, you can? A clown. Cursed is the one that ends up with you.

Pussywar:


The fact is that women are “used”? And if you’re asked to bring up a research to back it up, you can? A clown. Cursed is the one that ends up with you.

This stupid who.re. Is still here venting like an animal.

Bratislav.a , go fck your d.ildo, you're gone die lonely.

Hmmm....how can one go blindly into a relationship without knowing a person's past? It cuts both ways .... men be with women who do not value their own bodies ... no dignity. How would the man know if he doesn't find out about her past? Women date men who are chronic womanizer / abusers ... how would the woman know if she doesn't find out about his past? It is for the man to find out ... then decide if he can accept her past and move forward in the relationship. If her last will torment him... then he should move on ... but to shame her is dead wrong.... and unbecoming of a man.... makes me almost always suspect such people as being in the group of ehmmm.... the other kind of men. The other times I believe such guys have realized how loose their mothers be ..... and take out their shame and vexation on women online. Prostitution is the oldest occupation... and will continue to be ... it is for us to find out and decide what's best for us as individuals.

Pussywar:


The fact is that women are “used”? And if you’re asked to bring up a research to back it up, you can? A clown. Cursed is the one that ends up with you.

there are "used up old hags" and "noble older women who did not sleep around" (5 or less is okay by me - temptations do happen etc) - these are two different sets of women. For a used up old hag who has slept with so many guys in the peak of her youth to now want to scam one holy deeper life brother who is a virgin or nearly one is a scam. this is a fact.

if a used up old hag is presenting herself to a used up old man-whorrre (aka male ashewo) for marriage - then i guess its a match

I only have issues where a used up old hag is trying to scam a deeper life virgin or near virrgin brother who has kept himself into marriage. In fact God Himself no go gree... He would shatter the marriage and demand the girl to go and marry her male match.

Let me assume you are too young to understand action and consequences, cause and effect or stimulus response behavior. but you must learn that whatever you sow you shall reap wether you like it or not. And no! It is not your your body! You don't have the right to live recklessly and not accept the consequences. You will give account to the one who created your body!

Forget these euphemisms like slut shaming, body positivity, my body, my life, culture shock etc, you can't plant yam and reap corn so there is no way an unrepentant, unremorseful self deluded being can be useful in a marriage nor expect the spouse so shut up and accept you the way you are, naaa! Who you be?

Regardless of your past life, you must make a decision to repent and seek to be better and truly change for good, it is you who should respect the spouse and be grateful for the chance to do better.

Marriages/relationships do not succeed because one is morally upright or not rather it is because you made a decision to make it work by being respectful, humble and responsible. No be to dey make mouth like this as if you get right to force anyone to accept rubbish.

Grow up! Real life no be this social media film trick o.

MyExpression:
When I read posts like this mehn, I just conclude that it is hard...very hard.

Which one we never meet??

The one that's engaged and you know her man?
Engaged and serving NYSC in another state?
The one that works with you buh has a man?
The one that had small quarrel and goes out for random bleeping?
The one that is married to a man she doesn't enjoy sex with?
The one in your compound that you pound regularly without commitments?
The baby mama that is comes for you just because you seem caring to her and her child?
The customer that admires your personality?
The one that likes you because you're in a position of small power?
The one that's stranded and wants to crash outside d house?
The one that you ask out in a tricycle and you both arrange to meet for kpekus...no love/like talks?
The one that came to the pub alone and wakes up in your bed d next day?

The stories plenty.
In every scenario, ladies just make themselves so available. How man wants to take trust again?!

I refuse to be deluded as the vast majority of men are. I grow up in a church environment. I know what many of us did with different women at that time. In the university, I know what my eyes have seen. How we all camp girls in our hostel and lodges, how boys and girls exchange themselves with restless abandon. 4 in every human in the university has done some sexual exploits. For men, it becomes a bragging right while women do this to mitigate their needs.

Is it a workplace where we make some kind of sexual arrangement in form of parties and functions? In a country like ours where 3 in 5 persons live below the dollar rate, the vast majority of women do a lot of things to put food on their table that including having sex with different men. I am old enough to apply logic rather than emotions. I am exposed to know that 4 in 5 girls out there have a very ugly past.

We live in an environment where survival is forged by doing unprintable things which include having sex to "meet up". I'm not surprised by most comments on this thread. Do the maths, 3 in one Nigerian is a stark illiterate who are brainwashed by religious views.70% of those who claim to acquire education are educated fools who refuse to explore and adapt to modern realities. It takes a woman to have sex because there was a man who has sex with her. It is foolishness to slut-shame a lady when both of you engage in the act. I will always blame the religious leaders and our parents for this height of hypocrisy. I refuse to live in that kind of arrangement. My post doesn't support 'irresponsibility' neither did it support exchanging the female body with material things, a woman is an adult. Let her make choices as she seems fit, if you are not comfortable with it then find your square roots. Sexual exploits are less of my concern and for some persons, I know. I will like to think that for an ideal home and family, a lady who know the basics of making a decent family, a kind of person that can contribute ideas that can make life journey easy, who work smart and is supportive is what every man should go for irrespective of her sexual past. Either you adapt to modern realities or you conform to your cave mentalities. The world doesn't revolve around your foolishness.

MyExpression:
When I read posts like this mehn, I just conclude that it is hard...very hard.

Which one we never meet??

The one that's engaged and you know her man?
Engaged and serving NYSC in another state?
The one that works with you buh has a man?
The one that had small quarrel and goes out for random bleeping?
The one that is married to a man she doesn't enjoy sex with?
The one in your compound that you pound regularly without commitments?
The baby mama that is comes for you just because you seem caring to her and her child?
The customer that admires your personality?
The one that likes you because you're in a position of small power?
The one that's stranded and wants to crash outside d house?
The one that you ask out in a tricycle and you both arrange to meet for kpekus...no love/like talks?
The one that came to the pub alone and wakes up in your bed d next day?

The stories plenty.
In every scenario, ladies just make themselves so available. How man wants to take trust again?!

I refuse to be deluded as the vast majority of men are. I grow up in a church environment. I know what many of us did with different women at that time. In the university, I know what my eyes have seen. How we all camp girls in our hostel and lodges, how boys and girls exchange themselves with restless abandon. 4 in every human in the university has done some sexual exploits. For men, it becomes a bragging right while women do this to mitigate their needs.

Is it a workplace where we make some kind of sexual arrangement in form of parties and functions? In a country like ours where 3 in 5 persons live below the dollar rate, the vast majority of women do a lot of things to put food on their table that including having sex with different men. I am old enough to apply logic rather than emotions. I am exposed to know that 4 in 5 girls out there have a very ugly past.

We live in an environment where survival is forged by doing unprintable things which include having sex to "meet up". I'm not surprised by most comments on this thread. Do the maths, 3 in one Nigerian is a stark illiterate who are brainwashed by religious views.70% of those who claim to acquire education are educated fools who refuse to explore and adapt to modern realities. It takes a woman to have sex because there was a man who has sex with her. It is foolishness to slut-shame a lady when both of you engage in the act. I will always blame the religious leaders and our parents for this height of hypocrisy. I refuse to live in that kind of arrangement. My post doesn't support 'irresponsibility' neither did it support exchanging the female body with material things, a woman is an adult. Let her make choices as she seems fit, if you are not comfortable with it then find your square roots. Sexual exploits are less of my concern and for some persons, I know. I will like to think that for an ideal home and family, a lady who know the basics of making a decent family, a kind of person that can contribute ideas that can make life journey easy, who work smart and is supportive is what every man should go for irrespective of her sexual past. Either you adapt to modern realities or you conform to your cave mentalities. The world doesn't revolve around your ignorance.

From all I read, black men still have a LONG wat to go...

It's amazing that few men like the Op exist on this forum... Ladies may not want to comment on threads like this, but trust me, they are on the side of very mature men like the Op...

So, men too don't have body counts? While we know many are sex addicts sleeping with different ladies each week... So, men do not have problems of erectile dysfunction( and all that comes with it), STIs/venereal diseases/ HIV?...Na dem spread am more pass.

Men pretending to be holier than women... If woman preach morality to me and Bible, I will believe her more than men who can sleep with fellow men, chicken, goats etc if women no dey...Men should be very GRATEFUL to God for creating women: I'm talking to those boys who say women are never good( including their mums& sisters).

Both men and women should be responsible for their bodies though.... Women at times sleep with men thinking by doing that he will marry them...apart from those who need money...unlike men who sleep around because they are addicts...

If na fellow woman dey slut shame another woman though it is bad but at least still understandable NOT public toilet which most men are and trying to slut shame a woman.... As far as I'm concerned, NO MAN can dare that as I no get their time.

Women, stay strong... Better men dey that will value u, no too put mind on Naija men sharing same mindsets as the ones in Nairaland....Men plenty, just believe in yourselves( no matter your age) and learn to explore outside Africa...At least to help your future generation- if nothing u gain in this, u will gain another citizenship and very intelligent children who think maturely and out of the box.

*I'm TOTALLY disappointed with men in this forum, I hope majority of Naija men don't think like this though...Anyway, I may not know because I will NOT give them that privilege ( lol)....

Straight from your own past threads

She is independent and can make life-death decisions, so I don’t feel bad if she doesn’t consult me and make some decisions highhandedly. I trust her, she good decision-maker the majority of times. For us, It’s accountability and responsibility that counts. I won't settle for less and she won't either. No room for excuses or self-pity.

She has to be nice to her patients and fellow male colleagues. I don’t mistake this for flirting. Her male colleagues are there with her than I am, so I am more comfortable and carefree because I trusted her. we do know our boundaries. Most of the time she will be discussing how much she misses me with them. I have the self-confidence that helps me though sometimes I get a bit jealous.

She is Superwoman without the cap all the time. So I have to decide whether to expect even more from her or be Super Man myself and share her burden a bit more.. understand her a bit more..love her a bit more.

As a doctor, she is extremely sensitive but also blunt. She knows when I need a hug and when an earful. Most of the time, she sees me as a case, desperately trying to diagnose my actions, detect my mood, I have to explain every action, etc.

She is great, very polite, courteous, intelligent, and fun and I love her effortlessly. The hard part is living with the job, the workload, the schedule, she never off duty, even when she is off duty, no time for long conversations. I already know I am committed to her and I must be committed to her job too. I need to be supportive of her, emotionally mature and have a life of my own. It has been a long ride but our relationship is thrilling. Will I choose another if given an opportunity? Only if I stop been me.

You are the definition of a beta male. You are not in control of the relationship, she is. Most likely you wrote this garbage because your girl has a high body count of Alpha males and now she believe she deserves what she though she can get from ALPHA by getting a BETA male. This is typical. You did not find any holy grail here.

You talk about how great your woman (and women) are but what exactly are YOU doing?

Stop sucking up to women and calling them QUEENS. By no definition are you defined as a KING and without a KING there is no QUEEN. You show no sense of leadership mentally, financially, or spiritually. You are simply a BETA male looking for a FAN.

Years back, I had this Queen, who everyman will proudly show off and be identified with. We had everything going on well but our conversation always Centre on her, her job, her achievement alone. I had things going on well, then Port Harcourt was truly an oil city, there was money to make. So I have my game up, wasn't a pushover, so I expect equal respect but we were like we competed in some sort. I pointed it out but it was getting so bad as days gone by.

What exactly are you trying to point out? You pointed put kneeling to women. Are you obsessed? Do you have no respect for your self. You do know you can respect the other gender without looking like a total F00L?

Again taken from your words

Like I always tell my girl( a Nigerian whom I adore and love deeply), if I didn't met you, I will have steadily work my way up, get marry to a western lady due to the fellowing factors 1 economic power, 2. Loyalty and respect 3. World influence. Don't get me wrong, I have a world view and selfish interest. You can achieve a lot been in the circle of white ladies if you play your cards right

Again you are a BETA male. Nothing is wrong with you being a BETA MALE. You want to be taken care of by fiscally stable women and fetishize them that is your personal kink. However, stop trying to convince to be submissive to women. Its not good for the country or for the future of men. Men who come from single mother homes tend to have poor relationship boundaries with women and wonder why the wife ends up cheating on them.. because god intended men to be masculine and women to be feminine and its CLEAR you are more on the FEMININE spectrum. This is not an insult. this is just a fact and you better get into your masculine because WHEN your wife cheats on you you are finds a another doctor who is more masculine than you.. you are EASILY replaceable because you have NO advantage in a relationship.

Before you get into the LOVE thing marriage is not about LOVE its about compromise and hard work. Men love harder than women. A Woman can leave a relationship into the arms of another man.. because the only unconditional love she has is too her children. Stop being arrogant and you barely been married 5 years kid.. SMH You are just going thru the honeymoon stage and trying to educate with NO experience.


We really don't care about your relationship.

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

Says the man who went with one of the most conservative girls on Nairaland. And two of your girlfriends were or are virgins. You should be putting your money where your mouth is. It's as clear as daylight that this was just a self-serving post.

sharone21:
From all I read, black men still have a LONG wat to go...

It's amazing that few men like the Op exist on this forum... Ladies may not want to comment on threads like this, but trust me, they are on the side of very mature men like the Op...

So, men too don't have body counts? While we know many are sex addicts sleeping with different ladies each week... So, men do not have problems of erectile dysfunction( and all that comes with it), STIs/venereal diseases/ HIV?...Na dem spread am more pass.

Men pretending to be holier than women... If woman preach morality to me and Bible, I will believe her more than men who can sleep with fellow men, chicken, goats etc if women no dey...Men should be very GRATEFUL to God for creating women: I'm talking to those boys who say women are never good( including their mums& sisters).

Both men and women should be responsible for their bodies though.... Women at times sleep with men thinking by doing that he will marry them...apart from those who need money...unlike men who sleep around because they are addicts...

If na fellow woman dey slut shame another woman though it is bad but at least still understandable NOT public toilet which most men are and trying to slut shame a woman.... As far as I'm concerned, NO MAN can dare that as I no get their time.

Women, stay strong... Better men dey that will value u, no too put mind on Naija men sharing same mindsets as the ones in Nairaland....Men plenty, just believe in yourselves( no matter your age) and learn to explore outside Africa...At least to help your future generation- if nothing u gain in this, u will gain another citizenship and very intelligent children who think maturely and out of the box.

*I'm TOTALLY disappointed with men in this forum, I hope majority of Naija men don't think like this though...Anyway, I may not know because I will NOT give them that privilege ( lol)....

I didn't even read all this..

MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME.
-Not mentally
-BIOLOGICALLY
- We dont have the SAME VALUE ADD IN THIS WORLD

WOMEN CAN SELL SEX RIGHT?
MEN CANNOT SELL SEX - Not a the same level
Therefore the more sex a women has --- the value drops -
A man value is HOW much he can produce with his hands and mind.

I dont expect for you to understand this.. your fem training runs deep. Good luck to you!

Get educated - sister and top thinking men and women are the same

You already started a feminist and you will suffer the fate as a feminist

Theoutsider:


I didn't even read all this.

MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME.
-Not mentally
-BIOLOGICALLY
- We dont have the SAME VALUE ADD IN THIS WORLD

WOMEN CAN SELL SEX, RIGHT?
MEN CANNOT SELL SEX - Not the same level
Therefore the more sex a woman has --- the value drops -
A man's value is HOW much he can produce with his hands and mind.

I don't expect you to understand this.. your fem training runs deep. Good luck to you!

Get educated - sister and top thinking men and women are the same

You already started a feminist and you will suffer fate as a feminist

She should get educated" when it is you who need education. Should men be thinking about how to build their lives, make explore so as to make life comfortable rather than being concerned with what a woman chooses to do with her body?

Theoutsider:


I didn't even read all this..

MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME.
-Not mentally
-BIOLOGICALLY
- We dont have the SAME VALUE ADD IN THIS WORLD

WOMEN CAN SELL SEX RIGHT?
MEN CANNOT SELL SEX - Not a the same level
Therefore the more sex a women has --- the value drops -
A man value is HOW much he can produce with his hands and mind.

I dont expect for you to understand this.. your fem training runs deep. Good luck to you!

Get educated - sister and top thinking men and women are the same

You already started a feminist and you will suffer the fate as a feminist

That is y I believe that since' what goes around comes around'... Most of una hypocrite men shouting body counts up & down will ultimately end up with the deadliest of sluts u think u are avoiding, they will just be pretentious...

Okay, who una wan leave the girls u disvirgined or slept many times with( lol)... Accept it as nature's way to pay back...A girl may have dodged being raped from birth, but fit no fit dodge deceptive tongues of men so u are think dem no go still marry? Na lie, women go marry wella, and the funniest part is that they get the best men while the broke boys on Nairaland keep on lamenting...Some go come stupidly say they want foreigner wives( lol) after some of them have read your very traditional mindsets online.

Men were even the first to practice homosexuality in the Bible when they tried to sleep with angels that visited Lot's family and they are here still having the guts to condemn women? ( Lol)

I repeat, no man has ANY RIGHT to condemn ANY woman because they are GUILTY as charged( lol).

*FYI: I do NOT subscribe to NONSENSE redpilling and feminism....u will only succeed in missing your RIB.

* What stupidly makes some men think that ladies who condemn their childish talk of body counts are sleeping around? Anyway, the same shallow reasoning that makes them talk of body counts as the only criteria that defines a good wife is what is making them talk nonsense.

* I now see y black men are in the lower cadre of those who reason properly, all because they have misplaced priority... I hope the curse on black men in the Bible is not playing out already... The black men I respect( including my dad) are those who are polished and exposed.

* If na beta( better) man go take care of me WELL, why should I be bothered?...It actually takes 2 FOOLS to marry: this I learnt from my parents.

cococandy:

You’re going to be eternally frustrated if you expect these double standards to lead to anything but dysfunction

There are no extra women hidden in a cave somewhere so that y’all can have one and some extra on the side. The more sex you have, the more women are having sex. Expecting low body count is you being in denial and having absolutely no sense or logic in how you operate. Sorry to break it to you.

A woman has unlimited access to sex.
Men have to become the top 10-25% of society to get access to GOOD quality beautiful women

The fact you think you are some how special that you can get access to multiple men is laughable.

If you are giving you sex to multiple men. It means you don't value your pussy. Because DICK is not valuable (not in the eyes of women)

this is how slow a lot of you are

- PUSSY IS valuable and if your are giving away a Ferrari for free something is wrong with it. because NO ONE GIVES AWAY A FERRARI

What is valuable in the eyes of men (IS HIS ABILITY TO PRODUCE) and if your pussy can not keep a man that has the ability to produce is very possible you gave up the PUSSY to TOOOOO many men or its over valued. If this man how has worked so hard finds out you are the village door knob. YOU THINK HE WILL TAKE YOU? LOL

That is what the Beta men are here for.. to take care of the left overs.

Lets just face it you WANT TO BE A MAN and have no deserve to be a woman and this is why you bitch and moan. Suck it up sister.

sharone21:


That is y I believe that since' what goes around comes around'... Most of una hypocrite men shouting body counts up & down will ultimately end up with the deadliest of sluts u think u are avoiding, they will just be pretentious...

Okay, who una wan leave the girls u disvirgined or slept many times with( lol)... Accept it as natire's way to pay back...A girl may have dodged being raped from birth, but fit no fit dodge deceptive tongues of men so u are think dem no go still marry? Na lie, women go marry wells, and the funniest part is that they get the best men while the broke ones on Nairaland keep on lamenting...Some go come stupidly say they want foreigners( lol) after some of them have read your very traditional mindsets online.

Men were even the first to practice homosexuality in the Bible when they tried to sleep with angels that visited Lot's family and they are here still having the guts to condemn women? ( Lol)

Listen femcel do as you please.. but the only men that will take you are desperate beta males just like the OP. They will call you queen and tell you soo many lovely things it will get sick to your stomach. They do this because they lack self esteem and have a unhealthy desire to be loved and will thus have unhealthy boundaries.. but some some like the fact they can CONTROL A MAN.

Is this the man you want to be with - one who always sides with you. That sounds lovely - how many years will you put up with a push over.

Maybe that is you.
If you want to bang 100 men go for it? What make you think you are still valuable after that? Why not 200 hundred?
Remember its you that has unlimited access to men .. so your argument is not of EQUAL!

Theoutsider:



Listen femcel do as you please.. but the only men that will take you are desperate beta males just like the OP. They will call you queen and tell you soo many lovely things it will get sick to your stomach. They do this because they lack self esteem and have a unhealthy desire to be loved and will thus have unhealthy boundaries.. but some some like the fact they can CONTROL A MAN.

Is this the man you want to be with - one who always sides with you. That sounds lovely - how many years will you put up with a push over.

Maybe that is you.
If you want to bang 100 men go for it? What make you think you are still valuable after that? Why not 200 hundred?
Remember its you that has unlimited access to men .. so your argument is not of EQUAL!

Why are you so concerned with what women do with their bodies? Are you been deluded or you can't grow to be a man?

sirjamesjnr:
Why are you so concerned with what women do with their bodies? Are you been deluded or you can't grow to be a man?

Why are YOU concerned what men want in a woman?

Can't grow to be a man and concern your self with your own desires?

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

All because of pussy you write this long epistle. Go get a life and a body count pussy of 500 Men to shag and go bleep yourself.

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

Marry the ones you choose and let others marry those there want.

Marry the hoes with uncountable body count and let me marry a Virgin.

I can't imagine how someone will type all this epistle because of Pussy or body count. Go get a life Mr Op

ume1000:
a hole would be more wide

Why do you care about the width of the Hole?
Do you even Understand The female Biological Setup At all ?

Y’all are acting like after all this you won’t still desire to have sex with a sexually Active woman .

Abeg make una take dey do the hypocrisy small small.

Theoutsider:


A woman has unlimited access to sex.
Men have to become the top 10-25% of society to get access to GOOD quality beautiful women

okay

The fact you think you are some how special that you can get access to multiple men is laughable.

why are you contradicting yourself? Since I have unlimited access to sex, that means I can get access to unlimited men unless I plan on having sex with women. No?
See how illogical many of you are. It’s embarrassing for you.

If you are giving you sex to multiple men. It means you don't value your pussy. Because DICK is not valuable (not in the eyes of women)

allow me to decide what I consider valuable. Thanks

this is how slow a lot of you are

but we are clearly seeing who’s slow right now in this moment. Contradicting yourself shamelessly because of vaginaà

- PUSSY IS valuable and if your are giving away a Ferrari for free something is wrong with it. because NO ONE GIVES AWAY A FERRARI

What is valuable in the eyes of men (IS HIS ABILITY TO PRODUCE) and if your pussy can not keep a man that has the ability to produce is very possible you gave up the PUSSY to TOOOOO many men or its over valued. If this man how has worked so hard finds out you are the village door knob. YOU THINK HE WILL TAKE YOU? LOL

That is what the Beta men are here for.. to take care of the left overs.

Lets just face it you WANT TO BE A MAN and have no deserve to be a woman and this is why you bitch and moan. Suck it up sister.

Just additional silly rants which do not change the FACT that the more sex men have, the more sex women inevitably have too.
If y’all want virgins, zip up.
Sorry.

cococandy:
okay
why are you contradicting yourself? Since I have unlimited access to sex, that means I can get access to unlimited men unless I plan on having sex with women. No?
See how illogical many of you are. It’s embarrassing for you.

allow me to decide what I consider valuable. Thanks

but we are clearly seeing who’s slow right now in this moment. Contradicting yourself shamelessly because of vaginaà


Just additional silly rants which do not change the FACT that the more sex men have, the more sex women inevitably have too.
If y’all want virgins, zip up.
Sorry.

There is no contradiction you are simply a dummy.

If women value men who are in the top 25% that means if men are having sex with multiple women he IS valuable collectively women SEE HIM AS VALUABLE and women dont want men that other women DO NOT want.

Still confused?

I see you are because - women are having sex with the same valuable men. NOT all men are having sex.. this is what happen when you are self absorbed and cannot see beyond your gender are just really shitty at math

If men were having as much sex as WOMEN than WOMEN COULDNT SELL SEX!!

AlphaAlex:
Why do you care about the width of the Hole?
Do you even Understand The female Biological Setup At all?

Y’all are acting like after all this you won’t still desire to have sex with a sexually Active woman .
Abeg make una take dey do the hypocrisy small small.

. They won't because they choose to live in denial. These are men who have females either as sisters or girlfriends who have multiple men yet they come online to slut-shame others. I don't if it is foolishness or a mere ingorant.

sirjamesjnr:
. They won't because they choose to live in denial. These are men who have females either as sisters or girlfriends who have multiple men yet they come online to slut-shame others. I don't if it is foolishness or a mere ingorant.

slut-shame huh?

So you condone women being sluts?

Because that is what slut-shame implies - it means you are pro-slut or maybe... just be you are repeating $hit you heard your feminist friend echo in your ear.

Listen kid.. Mark my words. You relationship is going to fail. Keep up with that BETA crap!

YES you are correct the bothers and fathers are protecting their daughters and sisters from becoming SLUTS You have a problem with that?

Leviticus 19:29
Do not prostitute thy daughter, to cause her to be a LovePeddler; lest the land fall to whoredom, and the land become full of wickedness.

Leviticus 21:7
They shall not take a wife [that is] a LovePeddler, or profane; neither shall they take a woman put away from her husband: for he [is] holy unto his God.

It's either the OP is dating a hoe and just trying to feel better with his thoughts or the OP is a hoe who is trying to change men's mindset. Whichever one sha, you have failed woefully.
Once blue, ever blue. Once a hoe, forever a hoe

sirjamesjnr:
. They won't because they choose to live in denial. These are men who have females either as sisters or girlfriends who have multiple men yet they come online to slut-shame others. I don't if it is foolishness or a mere ingorant.

it’s insecurity, They still think that they are and should be the only person in the life of any girl they are dealing with . Which is Just Dumb Do you know on Average the Average Looking woman gets to meet new people Everyday?It is a fact that women get more sexual advances than men now these men here are pained because they don’t get offers the same way women do,

Now tell me if you were getting the same amount of sexual Advances that most women are getting on a daily Wouldn’t You Take Some and Leave some ?

Some of these Men don’t get to meet twice as many new people women meet on a daily,
some are heartbroken and still bitter , some don’t really know women and don’t want to know the truth about women they are just living off assumptions and Other people’s opinions, If you Know the truth about women you won’t have problems dealing with them in anyway.

If You Like Keep Lying to Yourself unless you want to be Gay or Don’t want to Deal with Women Entirely.

That Girl you’re admiring Hoping to Date if she’s not a Virgin Somebody Has Fûcked her and she’s Fûcking people she won’t tell you because she knows you’re weak.

That Virgin You Hope you will marry and Be her one and Only Some other person will still Fûck her and Do it well she won’t tell you you’ll never find out.

That Your Girlfriend or Wife you think that’s So much into God and faithful. news Flash Somebody else will whip that ass and you won’t find out.

That’s life’s Reality if you Like Kill yourself People go bury you move on

Laugh in spanish konkobility...take me as I am kill you there...

Theoutsider:


There is no contradiction you are simply a dummy.

If women value men who are in the top 25% that means if men are having sex with multiple women he IS valuable collectively women SEE HIM AS VALUABLE and women dont want men that other women DO NOT want.

Still confused?

I see you are because - women are having sex with the same valuable men. NOT all men are having sex.. this is what happen when you are self absorbed and cannot see beyond your gender are just really shitty at math

If men were having as much sex as WOMEN than WOMEN COULDNT SELL SEX!!

You’re the typical dumbass who will believe any misguided and non founded social talking point as long as it strokes your ego or what you want to believe.
Let’s assume your BS is true.
Not all men are having sex? Okay?
Top 25% of men are having as much sex as they want to, That means the more sex they have with different women, the more women are having sex no? So more women are having sex than men then since only 25% of men have access to unlimited sex?
Ode

Yeah! get married to someone who has fried all her eggs with countless abortions...stupid.