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Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Pataricatering(f): 9:19pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Youngpo413:from time immemorial marrying any naija man has always been the greatest risk in human history. |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Karnice600: 9:23pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Toks2008: So what do you call a court wedding? Can you break kolanuts and read the Bible in a single marriage setup? Can you Pour out spirit from a bottle of Shnapps to fulfill ancestral rites and call on the Holy Spirit to seal up the marriage as well in a single setup? Marriage will forever be affected by Divinity or religion. It's not about the white man's tradition here. It's about your religion. So you can do more than one if your religious beliefs projects a different picture on marriage rites from your traditional setup,I.e meeting all demands required. There's nothing cool in trashing any of these as rubbish. |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by BamakSNR(m): 9:26pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
I strongly don't buy into the idea of white wedding. It's just a slave trade mentality. It's so bad that some people even borrow money to pay for unnecessary party 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by westerngezy(m): 9:31pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
The most painful part is the whites we copy do their reception in a very simple way I.e no noise,at most glass of drink and snacks or little food..why don't we imitate that part 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Toks2008(m): 9:32pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Karnice600: I don't know the traditional wedding you are referring to but the one I know, they pray to GOD through Jesus coupled with the authentic prayers from Parents which is far stronger than that of a pastor. Lalas if you need a validation from a pastor just go get blessings from your pastor |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Nobody: 9:33pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Munzy14:I don't really pay attention to likes,I'm saying mind |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Pataricatering(f): 9:35pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
TheOldGods:men of nowadays insult waaaaay more than women . You are all pvssies . Your penis that you carry to be pissing all over the place is what is deceiving you - its so sad that we were deceived that you people were smart . How can a grown man be so foolish in his reasoning - so you and a gorilla are equal as long as you both pee standing? Is this what they taught you in school? Or you just picked the stupidity from a stupid old man ? 3 Likes |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by PastorFire: 9:37pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Kissmyassbiach:You that have abundant sense, oya show us where in the Bible you must have a white wedding? Talk o |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Pataricatering(f): 9:38pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Workch:You people and your stupid generalisations |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Johel(m): 9:38pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Toks2008: Court wedding is ok then reception... everyother thing is a waste of time, resources and money. |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by PastorFire: 9:40pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Kissmyassbiach:Get the point. It is not about whether you are rich or not. But wastage. |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by PastorFire: 9:42pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
TheOldGods: You deserve this
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Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Pataricatering(f): 9:43pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
lkillbrokehoes:lol both naija men and woman are slaves to this religion - stop making it seem like its mainly women, abeg . . |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Pataricatering(f): 9:49pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Toks2008:Oga, check well , on every thread on this nairaland men abuse hundred times more than women . Men are sentimental , bitter , insulting and extremely disrespectful , envious of women etc etc . Men are way more sentimental and emotional than women - have one argument with a man and he immediately starts to curse and insult . |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Munzy14(m): 9:50pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Ok o. 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Mrbenny001: 9:59pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Did you see MUST in my statement? Olodo.. Church weeding is glorious and wonderful thing...it could be shame to you but it's a blessing to the children of God and the beloved of Christ...there absolutely no wasting of any resources in church weeding... people waste resources in all kinds of weeding PlayMaker14: |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 9:59pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
There is nothing wrong in marriage, as long as you marry the one God chose for you, it is more of spiritual than physical. Marriage does not stop you from advancing or achieving in life. I have seen many young struggling married couples and latter made it big in life. Biblically marriage is to help you progress and achieve alot more than when you are single. Who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtain favour from the LORD. |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by BigBashiru: 10:00pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Toks2008: In a vast majority of the cases the men are spilling money on old expired oloshos who are actually used up old hags.... what they are celebrating, I do not know! |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by PlayMaker14: 10:03pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Mrbenny001:Just small argument and you are throwing insults.... So much for Christianity. This only shows that you're a daft unintelligent fellow and I bid you goodnight. 2 Likes |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Pataricatering(f): 10:04pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
JANK23H:gi and tell this to your men of God if na to abuse women u people mouth dey sharp wella - go and confront your God of men that you people do mumu for and tell.them you men have decided no more church wedding |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Pataricatering(f): 10:08pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
TheOldGods:but younjisy talked to her? Loooool . Your emotions got the better of you , you had to respond. Pvssy playing hard man. |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Pataricatering(f): 10:10pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Don27tiky:Nigerian men are daft !..the stupidity running through your ram brain is second to none - all of you |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Rexnegro(m): 10:10pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Kissmyassbiach:you got that wrong okay, the tin is that marriage is an agreement between two people to live together as husband and wife. The ceremony is just part of the culture but basically marriage is just an agreement between two adults to live together as one now . The white wedding is a traditional wedding of the white people why the traditional wedding here is the traditional wedding of Africans. |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Pataricatering(f): 10:11pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
TheOldGods:but you made time to respond . Pvssy! |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Rexnegro(m): 10:12pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Johel:For me if I can I just need a lady to agree to marry me for me that is marriage then go to registry to register the agreement which is marriage between us. That is it for me live after marriage is all that matters to me. 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Nobody: 10:13pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Rexnegro: So, why then do church leaders lead white weddings? Even non-Christians still have to get someone ordained by a priest in order to do a white wedding. |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Pataricatering(f): 10:14pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Kissmyassbiach:they claim religion when ifs convenient , claim African culture when its convenient When they are screaming about submission they use the Bible bit when its time to fornicate and commit adultery then its evolutionary biology and African culture .. 2 Likes |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Pataricatering(f): 10:19pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
TheOldGods:your mother too is definitely beneath you nah - since she doesn't pull out penis to pee standing - abi she has penis Yeah, maybe she has a penis, probably the only reason you respect her is becos of her penis |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by lovelybugs(f): 10:20pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
ERF: Exactly. I'm really confused with what everyone is writing. From what I know, white weddings don't cost much. Unless you decide to spend. You don't even have to wear an expensive wedding gown. A long white dress will do. I think their problem is actually the reception which isn't even part of the white wedding. 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by denobaba: 10:20pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Toks2008:Depends on where you are coming from. I agree completely that African traditional marriage is of the same weight as the western "white wedding". However, in Catholicism, marriage is a sacrament and based on that one needs to present one's wife before God and his people for blessings. Please note that there's no need for any ceremonies here other than the celebration of mass where the sacrament is administered to the intending couples. |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Pataricatering(f): 10:24pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Munzy14:Oga mi , why are you people hiding under female skirt? You dont want to do church wedding ? OK nah face your men of god man to man and insist on African culture - no be you men get the religion ? Women just dey follow una rules . |
Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by Stankovic22: 10:26pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Kissmyassbiach: You are just a religion follower and not a Christian. If at all you are a Christian you would have studied the wedding of Isaac to Rebecca and how Abraham your Christian father paid dowry and and Isaac went with his wife. Scriptures made it clear countless times of the need for dowry to be paid. Don't confuse wedding with marriage |
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