She could have come up with this rape story! This is a simple story that works-

After you guys quarreled, she went wild and hung out with some of her friends who introduced her to a man, she slept with the man and started feeling guilty. She had to give you a story that works!

You bought the story hook, line and sinker.

Mystoree:


I am not putting chains on her, I forgave her already but that doesn't take out that dark part of our story. If I don't love her, I will not be feeling this bad.

What exactly are your concerns? And what do you want advise on?

Rape indeed.

I don't know if rape cases are on the rise but two girls where I live were raped last month

I'm scared since I go back home late at night.

God please protect every woman/girl out there.

Mystoree:
So I had some issues with my girlfriend and we were kind of not talking for 2 weeks, during that time, a lot happened in her life.

We settled and while we were telling each other about what happened during our time apart, she began to cry and opened up to me that she was raped. I will ordinarily not believe that lie if she was a virgin but she wasn't, I met her as one and I was her first, so there will be no point in her even revealing it to me if she wasn't as it was a one time thing and I will hardly notice. At that point, i felt like my world just stopped for some seconds, o felt dizzy and found somewhere to sit trying to process what I just heard. Funny thing was that on the night of that incident, I was feeling weird about her and called her to find out how she was, it was around 9:30 pm and she was a student of a higher institution on the mainland while I stay on the island. After I called her, she picked up and told me she was going to call me back as she was trying to get a bike to take her to where she was going to, and immediately she ended the call, a man put a knife behind her and threatened to kill her if she doesn't give him what he wants, she offered her phone and all but this man was just after sex, according to her, the area was quiet and there was almost nobody on the streets, he pulled her to a shop corner and forced his way. I was devastated and confused, this is the only lady I have ever seen myself marrying amongst all the ladies I have met, she checks all the boxes, she said it didn't last up to 5 minutes and she cried all through but the man didn't care. He was a fat elderly man with a pot belly, wearing a nose mask in the night so she could not even see his face.

I was so angry at her because first of all, I warned her several times not to move in the night in that area as it is very dangerous, we were once robbed on the same street around 8pm, so I wonder what went into her mind moving by almost 10pm. She said she was on night shift where she works and then her friend called her to join them for a party, so she took permission and wanted leaving and that was when it happened. Now the thing is, those friends of hers are very bad influence on her and I told her a long time ago, she said she doesn't follow them but just hangs around with them in school, little did I know that she went to the bar alongside them and their boyfriends a number of time without my knowledge. She showed me pictures of their outings and a stab on the hand from the rapist. I'm so angry, she has been crying and begging, I asked her to stop the job and she agreed,i have thought of getting a girl and some guys to disguise and go to the same area late night to see if the devil will push the bastard to try his lick again cos I swear, I will make sure I put a stick through his anus through to his mouth,revenge is all that is on my mind cos I love this girl so much


I have read rape stories but I never thought it would come so close to me, I have been put in countless situations where a girl changes her mind on letting me into her and I respected that, I wonder why this would happen to me, I don't know what to do, any advice is welcome.

Modified - for those claiming she lied, she came along with the doctors report and tests receipt.

Let her go to the hospital and run some test on her self oooh, the earlier the better.

adajoe555:



Let her go to the hospital and run some test on her self oooh, the earlier the better.

She has done so already.

nairaman66:
She could have come up with this rape story! This is a simple story that works-

After you guys quarreled, she went wild and hung out with some of her friends who introduced her to a man, she slept with the man and started feeling guilty. She had to give you a story that works!

You bought the story hook, line and sinker.

Please stop saying this.

What if she was truly raped?

The consequence of not believing her is far worse.

You can't possibly imagine what rape does to people.

She needs a whole lotta psychological support... not doubts and criticism.

PrimadonnaO:




Please stop saying this.

What if she was truly raped?

The consequence of not believing her is far worse.

You can't possibly imagine what rape does to people.

She needs a whole lotta psychological support... not doubts and criticism.

What if she isn’t? Check the story line.. you’ll understand what I am saying

I met my ex girl, and she told me she was a virgin. I completely believed her. Tried to break her, but she begged me not to.



Meanwhile, she was busy going to a Corper house and performing the roles of a wife.


Brother, your girl was not raped. If she was, she would have pressed charges.

Let me ask you these. Did you see doctor's report or prescription drug that suggested she was raped? Were you at the hospital with her when rape was mentioned at the presence of a doctor?

Mystoree:
So I had some issues with my girlfriend and we were kind of not talking for 2 weeks, during that time, a lot happened in her life.

We settled and while we were telling each other about what happened during our time apart, she began to cry and opened up to me that she was raped. I will ordinarily not believe that lie if she was a virgin but she wasn't, I met her as one and I was her first, so there will be no point in her even revealing it to me if she wasn't as it was a one time thing and I will hardly notice. At that point, i felt like my world just stopped for some seconds, o felt dizzy and found somewhere to sit trying to process what I just heard. Funny thing was that on the night of that incident, I was feeling weird about her and called her to find out how she was, it was around 9:30 pm and she was a student of a higher institution on the mainland while I stay on the island. After I called her, she picked up and told me she was going to call me back as she was trying to get a bike to take her to where she was going to, and immediately she ended the call, a man put a knife behind her and threatened to kill her if she doesn't give him what he wants, she offered her phone and all but this man was just after sex, according to her, the area was quiet and there was almost nobody on the streets, he pulled her to a shop corner and forced his way. I was devastated and confused, this is the only lady I have ever seen myself marrying amongst all the ladies I have met, she checks all the boxes, she said it didn't last up to 5 minutes and she cried all through but the man didn't care. He was a fat elderly man with a pot belly, wearing a nose mask in the night so she could not even see his face.

I was so angry at her because first of all, I warned her several times not to move in the night in that area as it is very dangerous, we were once robbed on the same street around 8pm, so I wonder what went into her mind moving by almost 10pm. She said she was on night shift where she works and then her friend called her to join them for a party, so she took permission and wanted leaving and that was when it happened. Now the thing is, those friends of hers are very bad influence on her and I told her a long time ago, she said she doesn't follow them but just hangs around with them in school, little did I know that she went to the bar alongside them and their boyfriends a number of time without my knowledge. She showed me pictures of their outings and a stab on the hand from the rapist. I'm so angry, she has been crying and begging, I asked her to stop the job and she agreed,i have thought of getting a girl and some guys to disguise and go to the same area late night to see if the devil will push the bastard to try his lick again cos I swear, I will make sure I put a stick through his anus through to his mouth,revenge is all that is on my mind cos I love this girl so much


I have read rape stories but I never thought it would come so close to me, I have been put in countless situations where a girl changes her mind on letting me into her and I respected that, I wonder why this would happen to me, I don't know what to do, any advice is welcome.

Modified - for those claiming she lied, she came along with the doctors report and tests receipt.

ask her to go for test first then

Mystoree:


She has done so already.

I admire how you are ignoring the stupidity of some here and just want you to know.

Kobojunkie:

You forgive her for the rape?


The last thing this woman needs is a self conceited eejit in her life.

Brain dey pain you? He warned her not to move at night and follow bad friends. She disobeyed which led to the rape.

nairaman66:


What if she isn’t? Check the story line.. you’ll understand what I am saying

No, I don't understand.

Real life stories can be weird.
But it doesn't change the truth.

SportsHD:

Are you living in this country at all?

Really, police? Dna? Track him down?
Really? The police is the most useless organization in Nigeria. They'll even blame her for getting raped, collect money for statement and use the money to drink beer while laughing at her woes!

Is her boyfriend a policeman too since he also blames her for the rape.

Mystoree:

I don't blame her for the rape, I am angry about it but that was not what I forgave her for, I forgave her for going against all I have cautioned her about for the over 4 years of our dating.

I am not in any way feeling pity for her, she is learning life the hard way as she basically shut out everyone out of her life, her parents who she stays with does not even know about her night movements as they all think she is at work, she knows they will never allow that. she basically deceived everyone and didn't have anyone to put her in check all through that time and that is what I forgave her for.

You even continue to repeat the same tripe without even realizing your error.

I really hope it does not work out for you with her so she can get someone better in her life and soonest too. She was violated only recently and this to you is all about you and how your ego can continue to get its way over her. women dey see things abeg!

PrimadonnaO:



No, I don't understand.

Real life stories can be weird.
But it doesn't change the truth.

Sure I totally understand! Rape stories are rare and not after you have surrounded your valuables, a thief would want to have carnal knowledge of you, while on the road and on the job.

Her story has too many red flags!

she offered her phone and all but this man was just after sex, according to her, the area was quiet and there was almost nobody on the streets,

From the OP- Seems her phone wasn’t stolen nor her bag. Secondly, there was almost nobody in a Lagos street? Is this plausible?

She may be telling the truth (truth is relative)! Maybe she was forced into sex by the guy she was with that night! She couldn’t stand the shame and her heart must have been pricking her bad she had to tell some story to her boyfriend.. Etc

PrimadonnaO:



No, I don't understand.

Real life stories can be weird.
But it doesn't change the truth.

Sure I totally understand! Rape stories are rare and not after you have surrounded your valuables, a thief would want to have carnal knowledge of you, while on the road and on the job.

Her story has too many red flags!

she offered her phone and all but this man was just after sex, according to her, the area was quiet and there was almost nobody on the streets,

From the OP- Seems her phone wasn’t stolen nor her bag. Secondly, there was almost nobody in a Lagos street? Is this plausible?

She may be telling the truth (truth is relative)! Maybe she was forced into sex by the guy she was with that night!

OR

She got drunk with her friends and someone slept with her without her consent and she felt used, she couldn’t stand the shame and her heart must have been pricking her bad she had to tell some story to her boyfriend.. Etc

nairaman66:


Sure I totally understand! Rape stories are rare and not after you have surrounded your valuables, a thief would want to have carnal knowledge of you, while on the road and on the job.

Her story has too many red flags!



From the OP- Seems her phone wasn’t stolen nor her bag. Secondly, there was almost nobody in a Lagos street? Is this plausible?

She may be telling the truth (truth is relative)! Maybe she was forced into sex by the guy she was with that night!

OR

She got drunk with her friends and someone slept with her without her consent and she felt used, she couldn’t stand the shame and her heart must have been pricking her bad she had to tell some story to her boyfriend.. Etc

Oh no!

So these are your reasons for invalidating the story?

The man wasn't a thief! He was a rapist...out with the sole intention to rape!


And about a Lagos street being quiet, why not? Do you live in Lagos?

Everywhere isn't a market in Lagos!

Kobojunkie:
You even continue to repeat the same tripe without even realizing your error.

I really hope it does not work out for you with her so she can get someone better in her life and soonest too. She was violated only recently and this to you is all about you and how your ego can continue to get its way over her. women dey see things abeg!

oga shut the fucck up. You have no point.

nairaman66:


Sure I totally understand! Rape stories are rare and not after you have surrounded your valuables, a thief would want to have carnal knowledge of you, while on the road and on the job.

Her story has too many red flags!



From the OP- Seems her phone wasn’t stolen nor her bag. Secondly, there was almost nobody in a Lagos street? Is this plausible?

She may be telling the truth (truth is relative)! Maybe she was forced into sex by the guy she was with that night!

OR

She got drunk with her friends and someone slept with her without her consent and she felt used, she couldn’t stand the shame and her heart must have been pricking her bad she had to tell some story to her boyfriend.. Etc

You obviously have not been around first gate at ojo. I am sure that is where op is referring to. Because of the high rate of robbery, killing and raping there, most shops lock by 6, especially those in the streets. You can be robbed even by 5pm around there.

Again, most people just conclude that nairaland stories are fake, while many are, I can say that a majority are real life happenings, I have personally had my story on front page using an alt moniker and I was surprised at the number of people who accused me of making up something that was my reality at that time.

Many stories on nairaland are in fact very very genuine

Cutezt:


You obviously have not been around first gate at ojo. I am sure that is where op is referring to. Because of the high rate of robbery, killing and raping there, most shops lock by 6, especially those in the streets. You can be robbed even by 5pm around there.

Again, most people just conclude that nairaland stories are fake, while many are, I can say that a majority are real life happenings, I have personally had my story on front page using an alt moniker and I was surprised at the number of people who accused me of making up something that was my reality at that time.

Many stories on nairaland are in fact very very genuine

I sincerely looked at the facts! She can be robbed even around any time of the day, this is possible. But rape? Hmnnn.., think again

PrimadonnaO:



Oh no!

So these are your reasons for invalidating the story?

The man wasn't a thief! He was a rapist...out with the sole intention to rape!


And about a Lagos street being quiet, why not? Do you live in Lagos?

Everywhere isn't a market in Lagos!

Honestly, you he story doesn’t add up. She was raped outside on the streets

nairaman66:


Honestly, you he story doesn’t add up. She was raped outside on the streets

During my undergrad, a coursemate of mine attempted raping a girl close to Hall 2/Hall 3.

You may not know where I'm talking about but that passage is busy most times.

But he wanted to rape a girl there.

Cholls:
My brother sorry to digress.

Is the Queen of England alive?

You have any news? Last i heard a couple of days back she was advised to stay off official duties for about 3 weeks by doctors

Walkee:
oga shut the fucck up. You have no point.

You "shut the fucck up". You are pointless.

Fake rape stories from hoe- low-shows no dey let person blive this kind thing again.. Why e come be say,na d two weeks wen una break up ,them rape her? Abi na u set her up ni mr op?
Better go arrest the guy she said was the rapist,so that you can get to know the truth.. If she by any means, tells you not to arrest the rapist.. My brother run o.. E get why.. Cux that shows truth no dey d matter..

nairaman66:


Sure I totally understand! Rape stories are rare and not after you have surrounded your valuables, a thief would want to have carnal knowledge of you, while on the road and on the job.

Her story has too many red flags!



From the OP- Seems her phone wasn’t stolen nor her bag. Secondly, there was almost nobody in a Lagos street? Is this plausible?

She may be telling the truth (truth is relative)! Maybe she was forced into sex by the guy she was with that night! She couldn’t stand the shame and her heart must have been pricking her bad she had to tell some story to her boyfriend.. Etc

Thank you for this level of scrutiny.


I grew-up on Lagos Mainland and even as at the 1990s, it was difficult not to see people on a street around 9:30pm.

A fat man ordering her to go to a corner shop (what if he wanted to kill her in the shop in this days of ritual killings) and she cooperated easily? She didn't attempt to run away or shout for help? Her clothes weren't torn.

And the only part of her body with the 'stab wound' was the back of her hand?

Was the rapist alone or there were some other guys holding her down?



So many questions to be answered.

Mystoree:


I am not putting chains on her, I forgave her already but that doesn't take out that dark part of our story. If I don't love her, I will not be feeling this bad.

You forgave her for being raped? I don't get that.What crime did she commit by being raped?

Mystoree:


Well I saw the report, the tests and everything so no need to try to make it a joke on me.

Really I hate rape. I don't know but I think I could kill a rapist. If I'd intentionally murder anything, it'd be a rapist. I don't even feel that strongly about armed robbers. As enjoyable as sex is, it should never be forced. It is most traumatizing. It kills you from deep inside, it leaves you dirty and worthless, you become suicidal, very dehumanising. You'd even blame yourself at some point and make excuses for your violator.

Please, give your girl ALL the love you can at this point. She needs an overdose of it. And if you have a way to revenge, just stop short of killing him and make sure you're not caught. Good luck.

By fornicating and deflowering her u
became the ist to rape her. The other guy only rough handled her in addition . Anyway, hurry up and take her for comprehensive std treatment and pregnancy check cos all these rapists are usually infected