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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by DimIsaac10(m): 8:31pm On Nov 02, 2021
Get a pregnant agama lizard, a blind sick mosquito, eye of a sleeping bee with a female bed bug.
Grind it together and give to him..
You will continue to praise me...
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 8:33pm On Nov 02, 2021
Hathor5:


What kind of life is that? undecided

Life for women. It is a different one for men. The problem with situations like this is, for how long would you continue to suppress your urges? 1 year, 2 years, 10 years.

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by GreatManBee: 8:34pm On Nov 02, 2021
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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by bilulu(m): 8:35pm On Nov 02, 2021
muykem:
Do this and thank me latter.

Stop using Maggi to cook in your house again. Ground cranefish and use instead. Within two months, you will see different.


Thanks.
Maggi ke.... how does that work?
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by clefstone(m): 8:36pm On Nov 02, 2021
olabrinks:
I’m going to be real with you sis, you cannot find the solution you want unless you cheat on your husband. Your husband is stuck in his ways, he’s not willing to compromise or sacrifice his beliefs for your satisfaction. Let me tell you the truth my sister, most men just want to cum and sleep. All this extra gra gra is work for them, and like you said they have other things to worry about. This is how most married women feel, men especially become laid back once they are having sex with the same woman over and over again. Married woman to married woman.

My real advice to you is to satisfy yourself with your hands or a toy when you are Hot. Focus on your child and your career. Accept that you can never have it all in marriage. Your partner must lack in one department, it may be sex, finances, compassion, good looks, hygiene etc.. there’s always something. The easy thing to do is to look for that missing thing in someone else. The smart thing to do is to focus on the positives and try to enjoy your marriage the best way you can. You said you are like friends….go on adventures with him, go out clubbing, go to parties.. you will begin to overlook this missing void you’re feeling. This is feeling is temporary, good luck to you.
send me a number i can use to send u 1k credit. All young married women need to read this
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by henryutd(m): 8:36pm On Nov 02, 2021
mejai:

shocked
To tell God she needs MouthAction too. Chim ooo

Deliverance first.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Odani: 8:37pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.



When dem say make una de nack b4 comitting to marriage una go de do holier than thou now look where u r
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Eze2000(m): 8:42pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.


Your hubby is gay but hiding well
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by BIGWILLIAMS4U(m): 8:43pm On Nov 02, 2021
Get this: bitter kola, ginger, garlic,tumeric and cloves. A hundred Naira worth of each, clean thoroughly, peel the garlic, tumeric and ginger, dice into small bits and add all to a 75 cl bottle of table water, fill with water, allow to sit for 2 days then let him take a shot-that small drinking glass used for spirits- of the water from the concoction every other day. It is not bitter, just sour in taste. He will drop off the ten seconds action, and I assure you, when he lasts longer, the sexual spark will return. Your job will now involve watching his gyration while performing his husbandly role and stopping him in his tracks when you notice he is about cumming and thus stop him from cumming. Let him relax a while and ascend the mount again. Till you get your fill. Learn to change position, you mount and gyrate from the top, on his staff of office till you climax. You are there to satisfy each other and nothing less. I'd he refuses to take the concoction, simply add small amounts of the ingredients to your cooking, he will not notice and your result is achieved. YOUR JOY SHALL BE FULL!!! COME BACK AND SHARE YOUR TESTIMONY OH!!!

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by theamazonguru(m): 8:46pm On Nov 02, 2021
amodujames:
See wentin I dey look for
To give married women head till she gave up the ghost cheesy

Yulk. So so disgusting.

Sha don't carry this your fantasy near your landlord's wife if you are not ready to be sent packing from that house.

Be wise my son.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Hathor5(f): 8:49pm On Nov 02, 2021
pocohantas:


Life for women. It is a different one for men. The problem with situations like this is, for how long would you continue to suppress your urges? 1 year, 2 years, 10 years.

And for how long would you work till exhaustion? undecided

People are dishing advice they can never take.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by chuxxxx007: 8:50pm On Nov 02, 2021
well, I’ll say your husband is selfish…e dey do only 10 seconds,…still e nuh gree give u head…how u wan come take cum bayi
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by mejai(m): 8:51pm On Nov 02, 2021
henryutd:


Deliverance first.
Ok.
Honestly.... She needs the deliverance.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by theamazonguru(m): 8:51pm On Nov 02, 2021
BIGWILLIAMS4U:
Get this: bitter kola, ginger, garlic,tumeric and cloves. A hundred Naira worth of each, clean thoroughly, peel the garlic, tumeric and ginger, dice into small bits and add all to a 75 cl bottle of table water, fill with water, allow to sit for 2 days then let him take a shot-that small drinking glass used for spirits- of the water from the concoction every other day. It is not bitter, just sour in taste. He will drop off the ten seconds action, and I assure you, when he lasts longer, the sexual spark will return. Your job will now involve watching his gyration while performing his husbandly role and stopping him in his tracks when you notice he is about cumming and thus stop him from cumming. Let him relax a while and ascend the mount again. Till you get your fill. Learn to change position, you mount and gyrate from the top, on his staff of office till you climax. You are there to satisfy each other and nothing less. I'd he refuses to take the concoction, simply add small amounts of the ingredients to your cooking, he will not notice and your result is achieved. YOUR JOY SHALL BE FULL!!! COME BACK AND SHARE YOUR TESTIMONY OH!!!

I believe you sir.
God bless you for this natural remedy.
I also learnt the scent leave teraphy from here and it's been working wonders.

Get enough scent leave.
Wash and blend.
Add water,sieve if you like.
Drink daily, morning and Evening.

Helps to cleanse the body and rid it of too much sugar.

Then add exercise to your daily routine.

All shall be well.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Twoclans(f): 8:51pm On Nov 02, 2021
akeeng:
Young Kings, in all you do, try to always eat ‘your woman’ puccy up like groceries. It’s your duty

Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by mejai(m): 8:52pm On Nov 02, 2021
Eze2000:



Your hubby is gay but hiding well

Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Babastrong(m): 8:54pm On Nov 02, 2021
I go marry my wife for better for best, yes i do.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by CoolJulian: 8:56pm On Nov 02, 2021
simplesearch:



Before marriage you both are of a different pole and polarity, attraction at that time is quite easy. But once married you become one, that is why marriage is both a phenomenon as it is a mystery. All the element dissolves into one, at that point the attraction may seems lesser but the latent residual energy it produces is so much that two of you can put a thousand to flight in prayers. Unfortunately this generation of ours is so wired to the point that what we think about marriage is sex, sex, and sex. Gods primary purpose for marriage is companionship not for oral or anal filthiness we fantasize with. Get your mind renew dear married woman, read Gods word regularly and fill your heart with virtuous thoughts and activities. If you're a visioner actively engaged on Gods word and profitable activities you would seek the deliverance and prosperity of your husband than him giving you a Mouth Action. No matter the sex experiment, position or how long the man can stay, the truth is sex can never and will never satisfy. Some married people may go into prostitution just to fulfill their fantasies about sex with multiple partners, at the end their lives are destroyed as they will never get satisfied even sleeping with 100 men that can last an 1 hour each. In other words, as married people enjoying each others company is a better choice than ruminating over an unending sex episode that usually leaves a bitter taste.

How old are you?

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Mariangeles(f): 9:00pm On Nov 02, 2021
onlinestaff2020:
Tom



Hi Sweet Queen Mary!

Marriage is like that most times.

Anyway, I can give you all the blow jobs that you have been fantasizing about with no strings attached.

I've a 12 inches cork which can last more than 30 minutes before my first cum. Furthermore, I can make love to you for many hours and that will make you to have multiple orgasms.

I am so clean down there with no issues. Also, I am free from STDs because I have never contracted any.

I am in Abuja.

Call me now: 081**34**1**98**79**5

Ashewo no be work!

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Teeejaaay(m): 9:01pm On Nov 02, 2021
I will like to assist her, the solution to her husband problem is very simple, I have a writeup which explains the items she needed to buy and the usage but is written in Yoruba language, all she needed to do is to look for those women selling herbs and show them, they will prepare it for her and to be taken by her husband.
I have tried all i could, but the document is not attaching due to its location on my phone.
Let her give other options of send her the document
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Taiwo20(m): 9:04pm On Nov 02, 2021
Reduce sugary foods.
Test and treat STI)STDs if any.


Detoxify by diceing wild melon(Bara in Yoruba) and cooking till very soft in palm wine.

Take a cup twice a week. Say Tuesday and Friday.


Start exercising if he can



With this there should be changed.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Babastrong(m): 9:04pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by JOACHINpedro: 9:05pm On Nov 02, 2021
Aiel123:
Continue na so e take dey start. Subtle advances

Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by LifeOfTrigga(m): 9:05pm On Nov 02, 2021
lusid:
i dey fùck my gf sotey spam dey comot from her nose and ear


Lol werey easy o, you wan do somebody daughter remix.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by generalwo(m): 9:10pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
we never spoke about these things before marriage funny enough I just thought it’s one thing we would obviously do along the line. We also got married quick as we had such a strong bond. The friendship I’m talking about. We got married 10 months after dating.
.... Big mistake...... No matter how love sweet reach, couples suppose discuss knacking part before tying the knot.... For the sake of your child, my candid advise is for u to look for a way to make it work... U can compromise on the MouthAction...... Then on him not lasting enough, regular exercise can help.... Seek herbal remedies too...... Also tell him to stay away from alcohol and anything sugary for now.... I really do hope your marriage works.... It breaks my heart seeing couples of these days seperating with every little excuse....... Don't think about him as a friend, see him as your husband....... Things will come good with time
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by KarinaLove(f): 9:12pm On Nov 02, 2021
I watched a movie like this. The movie was titled "Perfect Picture". It's similar to this your story.

1) Your husband should start looking Sexy. Probably he has an Unsexy body. Probably if he does, you will be fantasising about him instead.

Does he have nice muscles with six packs, ripped chest and overall hot bud becos I'm sure a man with such image is what u fantasize about wink

If he is Fat with big stomach with an Unsexy body then I don't know what to say.

2)Teach him how to make love. There is a difference between having sex and making LOVE. 99% of men don't know this. Women are wired differently.

3) As for lasting long, you both will need to research on that and find what works for you both but I know that there is no problem without solution. The first step is identifying there is a problem which you have done

4) Have you told him all you just told us. Communication is key in matters like this. Narrate all you told us to him and hear what he will say.

I can't believe unmarried pesin like me just gave out this advice.

I need to celebrate with a glass of juice grin

Let me go and eat biko. Hunger wan scatter my belly.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Timblaze(m): 9:15pm On Nov 02, 2021
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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by abiambo(m): 9:16pm On Nov 02, 2021
Dear OP I wish I could tell you this in person but let’s make do with what we have.
Firstly you don’t need MouthAction to enjoy sex.
Secondly you have to understand that for a man, the more you have sex the better you become at it (like everything else in the life of a man). So if you want to get out of it you have to suffer through the process. What in is this.
I know you feel awful when your husband cums too quick but believe me if you have sex regularly its will Get better until he’s your standard ( last long enough)
So like I said you have work to do to get past this frustration of yours.
Thirdly, about your craving for MouthAction and your husband’s refusal to give you what you want in bed there are ways of getting it.
1. If it’s for religious reasons, kindly tell him it’s not against God for a husband to give wife the satisfaction of MouthAction. See https://www.neverthirsty.org/bible-qa/qa-archives/question/is-oral-sex-within-marriage-wrong/
2. Verbally disturb him and tell him how it is your right to be treated right sexually.
3. Tell him how you really feel just like you have told us (strangers). Any husband will go above and beyond to keep his woman away from sexual sin.

I’ll add others as they come.

Btw stop watching pornography they tend to make us get unrealistic expectations from our spouse, mind you husband won’t bother to take performance enhancing drugs to sleep with their wives just like pen actors do or Bleep boys…


Lastly: there’so excuse good enough to cheat on your husband or wife work out your sexual issues as a team that you are
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by bewla(m): 9:21pm On Nov 02, 2021
Iyaebe:
That's an insult to the husband
No kind off
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 9:21pm On Nov 02, 2021
Hathor5:


And for how long would you work till exhaustion? undecided

People are dishing advice they can never take.

Hahahahahaha. She would leave the kids unattended to and be working to kill her sexual urges. Sounds like a plan sha.

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Gboy5050: 9:22pm On Nov 02, 2021
Send me a dm I will do that for u, suck u till u forgot ur name.. 08086930205whatsapp me.

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