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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by HazzanTazzan(m): 7:37pm On Nov 02, 2021
nairamaniac:


Most men that detest mouth action on there women are usually very proud.

Its a psychological problem.
Such men see it as STOOPING LOW to their partner.

Find out, men that don't give mouth action are red pillers.


Can you imagine Pete edoche giving mouth action?

There is nothing disgusting about MouthAction if your partner is clean.
Except if you tried it for the first time on very very dirty razz girls.

They say *first impressions* may last a lifetime.


But op, do u do MouthAction on him?

It’s not pride... some people can’t just stand putting their mouth in specific places ... no be everybody be pig

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Truvelisback(m): 7:38pm On Nov 02, 2021
Sharp shooters right now, will be like: Baby, come let me help u.

Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 7:39pm On Nov 02, 2021
Diagonal:
Experiencing a similar but worse situation with my wife. Been married for eleven month now, no sex; not even once!
Wife is scared of penetration and I've given up on it already! We only masturbate, touch each other and then come. She doesn't like mouth action either!
You both should probably go for professional, maybe mental health counseling to understand the fear she had of penetration. If it is pain related, she can get prescribed the right medication for such pain. undecided
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Lewisdinho(m): 7:39pm On Nov 02, 2021
Op this is still for you, please tell him to follow the guides. .......Men struggling sexually??

Do the following:

- Fast for 48 hours.

- Do 200 squats on each morning of the fast.

- Run the last morning of fasting.

-Take black coffee in the morning of the fast

You will be a Hot man daily.

Your woman will be singing hosanna for a week.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by fitinwell: 7:42pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

Op it is not 10 secs is the issues .. here

I want to believe there is something physiciologically or mental health wrong with your Man..

I think the Pressure of making ends meet to statisfy is family...

Price inflation ,Cost of holding and maintaining small size family Now in Nigeria can make a Man run Mad..

So i advice that you encourage him and support him financially..

When everything at home is balanced then Naturally ..

Fire go set.. penis go obey ..
And he go fire down.. and even suck you beyond your widest imagination..

When there is no Money ..

Naturally Erection dies in a Man with so much responsibility..

So think about these things .
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Icon79(m): 7:43pm On Nov 02, 2021
Premature ejaculation is actually quite easy to solve. First of all, let him check his blood pressure. High blood pressure is a major factor in premature ejaculation. If his blood pressure is good then put him on healthy diet for a couple of weeks - including fruits and veggies. And tell o hours before the big moment, let him eat bitter kola and wash it down with a bottle of big stout (Guinness) then watch him play. I promise you, na you go taya.

But if natural remedy doesn’t work, let him see a doctor. There are many drugs that can solve the problem.

But just so you know, 2 minutes is bad but a normal sex last an average of 5-6 mins for the first round. For the subsequent rounds 7-8 mins max. Don’t be deceived by what you may see in porn movies because those are several scenes that were cut and stick together. In addition, most of them do use powerful sex enhancers as well. Bottom line, porn is acting.


O pari

Maryliola:
Advice taken. This may work, although I know I’m good in bed, just that he doesn’t last long at all. After two thrust he’s holding back his Cum. I’m just being honest here.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by manuelkel(m): 7:43pm On Nov 02, 2021
Iyaebe:
Too many married women are becoming sex starved hence the increase in adultery. Men really need to up their game and live a healthy lifestyle.

Men dey hustle na, shuuu.
Who sex epp?
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by abbey621(m): 7:46pm On Nov 02, 2021
Whenever topics like this are put forth, I think of one thing, UNA NO DATE BEFORE MARRIAGE? WHAT CHANGED? Surely there must have been enough testing testing to know if the couple is compatible sexually. Your 10 seconds of sex is an exaggeration because that is not even enough to satisfy a woman not to talk of a man. The ball is still in your court, either you start helping him by getting correct herbal treatment for him/viagra or you learn new styles that does not put pressure on him to release quickly (E.g. If he stands instead of laying flat, he is likely to last longer, if he ejaculates before having sex, he is also likely to last longer(2nd round syndrome) after gaining back his energy).

Finally, in this life nobody should be forced to endure an unhappy marriage, if the issue is too much that you're contemplating cheating, please please LEAVE THAT MAN AND GET A DIVORCE! Broken marriage is better than broken face or death by domestic violence!
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Tobedated(m): 7:46pm On Nov 02, 2021
I'm late to the post but the thing every marriage need IS CONVERSATION like tell your husband what going on and sort it out there is viagra/cialis for premature ejaculation
using of vibrator during sex for orgasm
spicing things up for death bedroom going on date like bf/gf for the love to feel new all in all it all about CONVERSATION without it it will not go right
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by dimexy247(m): 7:47pm On Nov 02, 2021
May God help you. Get a sidecock
Maryliola:
yeah it is complicated.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Creamz(m): 7:48pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.


Tell him to exercise and give him sex enhancement drugs.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by henryutd(m): 7:51pm On Nov 02, 2021
Can you go to God in prayer?
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Aiel123: 7:52pm On Nov 02, 2021
dettolgel:


Searching for materials to prove my point. grin
Now I get your message. No hard feelings.
Sometimes, silence is golden.
A Danish cartoonist once made a cartoon protraying Islam as a religion of violence.
The Muslims faithful there descended into chaos because of how the cartoonist sees Islam as.
What they never knew was that they were corroborating and proving the cartoonist's claims.
I like your personality.

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by alaafin(m): 7:52pm On Nov 02, 2021
The finger can thrill more than the mouth most times. He should find a good position to be inside and still be able to rub the clit vigorously. Orgasm is achieved easily is this way. No matter how clean, the under is not totally free from microbes.

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by ThothHermes: 7:52pm On Nov 02, 2021
Obiorahpcfg:
You are an idiot! A cursed human beings. How many men dt does MouthAction a millionaires ! Or are u not aware it's the cause of poverty in some men!!!
You don make laugh here grin grin cheesy
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by IvarDboneless: 7:53pm On Nov 02, 2021
Why do Nigerians find it hard to tell someone the truth..comments above
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by MisterKennedy(m): 7:54pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

OP what does he mean by he doesn't want to compromise his standards?


And OP honestly I'm really feeling your pain right now but what about masturbation or using vibrators or intimacy gadgets or cucumbers? Does it help satisfy you?
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Hathor5(f): 7:55pm On Nov 02, 2021
HazzanTazzan:


Most women who are working and have kids to cater for daily most times are tired for serious sex by the time the get home at night ... don’t ask me further, ask women in this category to confirm

It hasn't crossed your mind that I might be one of them?
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Joe4real1988(m): 7:55pm On Nov 02, 2021
ezugegere:
You both need to make conscious efforts to make your marriage work. I think the major problem here is his inability to last, which can be solved.
Don't try to pressure him into MouthAction since he finds it disgusting. I too don't like it. I don't think it's healthy.
Me too, i hate that shit
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by ikorodureporta: 7:56pm On Nov 02, 2021
grin cheesy
So u still want to b enjoying what u enjoyed as bf ,& gf...sorry, that time don pass
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Sterope(f): 8:00pm On Nov 02, 2021
Lol. You should not be making promises. It is a lie and unfair to others people health and safety. It is wickedness.


Prechgold1180:

Sorry nur vex forget about it

Go and buy Samsu oil
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Ezonman(m): 8:01pm On Nov 02, 2021
Please you need a serious relationship counselling but is not for free, if you are interested contact me on: 0-8-0-8-2-8-6-9-0-6-3
Best of luck l wish you.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by djgroove(m): 8:01pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.
.

Madam you don need to cheat on ur husband before you can be satisfied sexually there is solution to his sexual problem even if he can’t do the oral you are talking about but he can turn 10 seconds to 30 minutes if you are okay with that chat me on whatapp 08033843345 you will for ever thank me
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by djgroove(m): 8:02pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.
.

Madam you don need to cheat on ur husband before you can be satisfied sexually there is solution to his sexual problem even if he can’t do the oral you are talking about but he can turn 10 seconds to 30 minutes if you are okay with that chat me on whatapp 08034843345 you will for ever thank me
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by mejai(m): 8:02pm On Nov 02, 2021
Penis is for vagina ooooo
While, mouth is for kissing.
This children of the world don spoil finish.... Imagine, sucking vagina, meant for urine, period and childbirth.
Tufiakwa and nonsense!!



Say NO to MouthAction.

Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Bestnoma: 8:06pm On Nov 02, 2021
Iyaebe:
Premarital sex is not good but I'll device a means to know my partner's sexual ability, I can't keep myself this long while my partner starts behaving like ops partner in marriage.I want a partner that'll be active 24hrs and will overdose me,I don't want to ever have any yeye cravings inside marriage.My story will be what can I give my partner to reduce the too much urge for sex all the time.lol


God bless you my darling sister.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Hathor5(f): 8:07pm On Nov 02, 2021
fitinwell:


Op it is not 10 secs is the issues .. here

I want to believe there is something physiciologically or mental health wrong with your Man..

I think the Pressure of making ends meet to statisfy is family...

Price inflation ,Cost of holding and maintaining small size family Now in Nigeria can make a Man run Mad..

So i advice that you encourage him and support him financially..

When everything at home is balanced then Naturally ..

Fire go set.. penis go obey ..
And he go fire down.. and even suck you beyond your widest imagination..

When there is no Money ..

Naturally Erection dies in a Man with so much responsibility..

So think about these things .

The male body too is a mystery.

I didn't know you guys orgasm faster when the economy is bad. cheesy

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by dettolgel: 8:07pm On Nov 02, 2021
Aiel123:

Now I get your message. No hard feelings.
Sometimes, silence is golden.
A Danish cartoonist once made a cartoon protraying Islam as a religion of violence.
The Muslims faithful there descended into chaos because of how the cartoonist sees Islam as.
What they never knew was that they were corroborating and proving the cartoonist's claims.
I like your personality.

You be correct person.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Abemy(m): 8:08pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.




Mouth action is Satanic as far as I am concerned, the mouth, the toungue, the fingers, are not sex organs.

You may be neat and healthy, but that the channel you dispose waste products and any man, who is conversant with how the female body system works, will feel disgusted, doing those dirty and irritating stuffs. Those who do that in phorn movies take drugs.

When was mouth action invented?

Your husband's poor performance in BEDMATHICS can be managed and even completely cured. Worms can deal with a man. When last did he dewormed? Tell him to deworm fast. He can take Mectizan 3 tablets and 500 mg of albendazol once in a week for two weeks..

Encourage him to eat at least 2 bitter kola nuts and two date fruits daily for at least 7 days, you will be surprised how far he can go.

If he can not stand the sugary taste of the date fruit, let him chew it concurrently with the bitter kola of better still, blend the date, and cook it in your stew.

To cure permenantly, call 07044548193 for your ERONASTIC ALPHA STONE, you will start monitoring him to see if he has been taking sex enhencement drugs, hahahaha, the stone takes good care of the underlying causes of BEDMATHICS problems.

Lastly, stop watching phonographic movies and be prayerful.

Cheers.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by nairamaniac: 8:08pm On Nov 02, 2021
HazzanTazzan:


It’s not pride... some people can’t just stand putting their mouth in specific places ... no be everybody be pig

I have done my research on this using close friends and relatives as case studies.

Out of like 30guys very very close to me, I found out that like 10 of them can't afford to give mouth action.


And it's beyond coincidence that those are the proudest set of friends and relatives I have/know.

It makes them believe they are loosing charge to the woman.

Some men see sex as a means of humbling/defeating/conquering the woman-race.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by kaywhy09(m): 8:08pm On Nov 02, 2021
Hmmmm.
I can only imagine how many DMs you'll get from other gender for this sad sad
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by tomietush(m): 8:08pm On Nov 02, 2021
I have a question to ask u. But privately if u dont mind. Will appreciate
Iyaebe:
Premarital sex is not good but I'll device a means to know my partner's sexual ability, I can't keep myself this long while my partner starts behaving like ops partner in marriage.I want a partner that'll be active 24hrs and will overdose me,I don't want to ever have any yeye cravings inside marriage.My story will be what can I give my partner to reduce the too much urge for sex all the time.lol

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