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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Midas01: 12:40am On Nov 03, 2021
34 year old man without sense.
Jefferyhi86:
Idiot u simply married him cos he's already made with looking at the romantic side in the first place now ur regretting, u better stick to him.. Yet 10 sec he was till able to impregnate you, except the son is not his

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by emmyluizzz: 12:41am On Nov 03, 2021
you husband is suffering from quick ejaculation and is obviously impotent

pls go to the hospital and leave us alone....nobody force you marry am
if you want to cheat ...pls cheat but don't drag us with you

Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Princewell2012(m): 12:41am On Nov 03, 2021
Iyaebe:
Too many married women are becoming sex starved hence the increase in adultery. Men really need to up their game and live a healthy lifestyle.
Yes that's why I tried my best to avoid sugary things and always take this Yoruba Agbo Jedi all the times even as a pastor. When gets to a husband and wife issues over spiritual can spoil thing. That's by the way. But it appears like this madam is not that busy, maybe she is a full house wife. She should not force her husband into proscumity.

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by emmyluizzz: 12:43am On Nov 03, 2021
Princewell2012:

Yes that's why I tried my best to avoid sugary things and always take this Yoruba Agbo Jedi all the times even as a pastor. When gets to a husband and wife issues over spiritual can spoil thing. That's by the way. But it appears like this madam is not that busy, maybe she is a full house wife. She should not force her husband into proscumity.
oga you have said nothing meaningful

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by jimcaddy(m): 12:46am On Nov 03, 2021
How old is your husband first and foremost?
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by lakezone67(m): 1:07am On Nov 03, 2021
Mix 200 gram of tramadol in his tea anytime you want to fvck him all night

grin
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by sleeksamurai(f): 1:16am On Nov 03, 2021
I'm sorry o.
Were you forced to marry him? Or was it the no premarital sex rule?

If you knew his sexual ability and still married, please lie in the bed you made..

I would never encourage a woman to cheat on her husband


Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Virgohills(m): 1:19am On Nov 03, 2021
Mary reply my email or reach me on virgohills@gmail.com

Signature too

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 1:39am On Nov 03, 2021
Princewell2012:

Yes that's why I tried my best to avoid sugary things and always take this Yoruba Agbo Jedi all the times even as a pastor. When gets to a husband and wife issues over spiritual can spoil thing. That's by the way. But it appears like this madam is not that busy, maybe she is a full house wife. She should not force her husband into proscumity.
So, all the 100s of millions of men around the world who eat "sugary things" set have no problems in the bedroom are what? Shigidi to you? undecided

Your agbo jedi which is meant for digestive problems is what you also take for bedroom problems? undecided

This madam could not force her husband into promiscuity? undecided

Who left the door open abeg? lipsrsealed

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Burgerlomo: 1:53am On Nov 03, 2021
Iyaebe:
Hope you won't demand for what you don't like?that'll amount to selfishness.

Gbam! You nailed it. cool

Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Vision101(m): 2:00am On Nov 03, 2021
@Iyaebe

Exactly, men should learn and perfect the act of licking plate thoroughly like their life depends on it to avoid this kind of situation.



@me
Most times I laugh at your comments....too realistic.

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by DaveHarry(m): 2:33am On Nov 03, 2021
Shut your mouth! I dislike women for this kind of complaints. Dem Bleep una the hard way una go complain, Bleep una easy way, same complain. The other day i was fucking this one night stand girl, she was saying "you wan kill me, you no dey tire? Only you suck, now you dey Bleep me like say tomorrow no dey!". Now another woman have come here complaining of her man not satisfying her. What will a man do for you people sef?
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by bepositive11: 2:33am On Nov 03, 2021
Greystone:


Hubby already insulted himself by refusing to lick his wife to multiple orgasms.

Small head make he dey give Madam e no gree, now we are trying to encourage Madam not to cheat. undecided

If na me, I go lick that my wife pussy clean till e shine like mirror ...

In fact na 69 position go sweet pass...

grin grin grin

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by bepositive11: 2:53am On Nov 03, 2021
Maryliola:
that’s the thing, I still give him head even though he doesn’t give it to me. And I know he enjoys it because he cums extremely quick and he tells me I’m the best he’s had. So I don’t know why he can’t return the favour.

That's very selfish of him. Tbh, men who don't give their women MouthAction have deep disrespect for her. They see it as an insult to go down on their women. They see women as less than

I won't give my partner what they're not willing to give me. If they won't give me MouthAction, I won't give them MouthAction either. Romantic relationships are give and take not only give or only take
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by descarado: 2:55am On Nov 03, 2021
This same storyline again?

Haba.
Mods, una well done.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by bepositive11: 2:55am On Nov 03, 2021
samsard:
The bolded is scam. Regardless, why take bacteria from the vagina into the mouth?

Does your woman take bacteria from your penis into her mouth?

If she washes well, where's the bacteria?

What the difference between kissing a clean mouth and sucking clean pussy?

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by bepositive11: 2:56am On Nov 03, 2021
cr7lomo:
This is why marrying a virgin is best

Who said that virgins don't have fantasies?
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by bepositive11: 2:57am On Nov 03, 2021
Iyaebe:
Marriage is indeed complicated,this your story makes premarital sex looks important but however it's against God's commandments which brings the question on how do we know the sexual compatibility of a partner before marriage? I don't know what to say.

I think what matters most is having a partner who deeply loves and cares about you, wants to please you, and is open to learning and compromising

A partner who has all the above can be sexually compatible with anyone as long as the other has these qualities too
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by bepositive11: 3:00am On Nov 03, 2021
princewarri1985:
Some women are really disgusting, how do you expect a man to put his mouth down there?? A place where all manner of discharges come out from, and some women are not even helping matters because they keep wearing dirty pants that has the map of africa under and they are the type that always disturb their husband for mouth action, i know some men do give mouth action, but to me it's very unhealthy

And what do you think about women who give men MouthAction?

I don't see the difference between kissing a clean mouth and kissing a clean pussy
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by samsard(m): 3:25am On Nov 03, 2021
bepositive11:


Does your woman take bacteria from your penis into her mouth?

If she washes well, where's the bacteria?

What the difference between kissing a clean mouth and sucking clean pussy?
I guess the same principle is what you guys use to justify anal rimming?
Nothing like washes well. No self-respecting and health conscious man should put his mouth there. Have you heard about the correlation between MouthAction and increased risk of mouth cancer? Yeah, "the vagina is clean" yen yen yen

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by bitingcool: 4:01am On Nov 03, 2021
let your husband stop eating any food with salt and oil and unhealthy carbs. he will regain his sexual stamina

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by ddeola: 4:49am On Nov 03, 2021
Encourage him to see a physician, quick ejaculation can be treated. From your story, I feel if he's doing it long enough you won't look elsewhere. God bless your home

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by babadudu2019: 5:00am On Nov 03, 2021
You need a support system. Shoot a DM
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Munzy14(m): 5:13am On Nov 03, 2021
Iyaebe:
Let me call Pansophist, bukatyne and MariahAngel to come give advise from their wealth of knowledge and wisdom. Premarital Sex how important is it?then God's factor I'm really confused.
Times have changed...

Sexual compatibility must be checked if you don't want to end up like this..This is a serious case for OP...she is just 27 for good sake...So many years to be explored as a woman before nature steps in...And the hubby is not willing to explore her.

Purely frustrating.

We all should learn to seperate religion from Natural stuffs...

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Princeokwuego1(m): 5:13am On Nov 03, 2021
na this kind woman I dey like Bleep..sex starved meet power horse..
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Bianda24: 5:14am On Nov 03, 2021
You better don't think of extramarital affairs.
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Munzy14(m): 5:22am On Nov 03, 2021
Patrioticman007:
Hmm under this regime any di*k raising more twice a week belongs to dem mango park & Christober Columbus group, yes I mean they are explorers & even at the point of death they will still rise.
Hahahahahah you people will not kill me here abeg.. grin grin
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Munzy14(m): 5:24am On Nov 03, 2021
pickatyoubackup:
Churchill pass this one but ur husband pass will Smith.
Lmao...
Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Zico007: 5:38am On Nov 03, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

This life is funny. You're husband doesn't like MouthAction and boring in oza room. My wife enjoy it oral and good sex but don't like sex. We have sex three times a month and yet we are looking for the fruit of the womb. Not to deviate from the topic. You can talk to him and also help him some herbs. One man food another's man posion. My wife is faithful and I married a vergin. Take note

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by BRATISLAVA: 5:45am On Nov 03, 2021
Lollittaa:

The hypocrisy stinks to the heavens.

Cumming in less than 10 seconds. Must be extremely frustrating just imagining. As much as God doesn't like divorce, this is enough grounds for a divorce. If he's been like that since day 1,she's a walking sex time bomb.

The real ten seconds man.

And because he's a man, he doesn't see it as a big issue, neither do other men. He probably claims it's dehumanizing because if he does oral on her, she would want to do the same on him, and he can't keep it up for more than ten seconds before blowing his load. A very crafty man.

He could probably have tricked her into a lavender manage and can't wait to be done with the compulsory sex, so that his true desires stay hidden. Hence his ten hurried seconds.

Don't believe men who use words like "dehumanizing".

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by princewarri1985: 5:58am On Nov 03, 2021
bepositive11:


And what do you think about women who give men MouthAction?

I don't see the difference between kissing a clean mouth and kissing a clean pussy
Nothing is clean about a pussy, it's meant to receive dick not one idiot putting his mouth there with all manner of discharge coming out from the opening down there, i even feel like throwing up right now, yuck! Some men dey try sha, them go come still use that mouth eat too

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Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Komo4dmoney: 6:29am On Nov 03, 2021
Ensure your man started exercise especially push/press up, then let him be taking Orijin bitters (the small plastic).

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