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Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by vaca1: 4:19am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Spot on 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Gokoyer0(m): 4:22am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Don't mind them. In many part in Europe, this is the ranking: Women>Children>pets>men. If you know you know. Tannhauser: |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by udomma1005(m): 4:31am On Nov 09, 2021 |
wunmi590:Stop spewing trash because everyone can't be Dangote! Why wouldn't a working class lady split bills at home? What's her salary/income for? When the man finally dies of excess stress, her family will fall out enmasse to declare that all the properties, gadgets & sorts was jointly acquired, are you okay like dis 2 Likes
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Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by tiswell(m): 4:32am On Nov 09, 2021 |
wunmi590:you gave her a car,she is probably working and earns profits,e never do you,then you still think fuelling the car na your responsibility. What is she doing with all the monies she earns? Some men are just too weak,tueh!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by udomma1005(m): 4:42am On Nov 09, 2021 |
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Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by udomma1005(m): 4:54am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Sex is never an asset that can be hoarded! It's only a scumbag that can be subjected to your bedroom narrative above. A real dude has options, Infact better options with firmer breasts, tighter pus*Y & less saggy tummy! The options are very vast to remain in bondage to a being who feels her "thing" ought to be worshipped, sorry that "thing" had been greatly devalued & presently it has alternatives, better ones @that, which are as cheap as one is buoyant to pay for! |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by goooze(m): 4:56am On Nov 09, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color] GboyegaD:you have said it all. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by EmekaBlue(m): 5:01am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Nigeria female species are selfish and greedy They want to hide their money and enjoy all from the man. Na house help wey dey set nyansh Dem b like that. To be a man is not easy |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Nobody: 5:06am On Nov 09, 2021 |
In 10 years time,marriage will probably be extinct. As long as human ego exists,there can't be two captains in one ship. 3 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by frankyfranky(m): 5:22am On Nov 09, 2021 |
How old are u? What elders see seating down, children will climb iroko tree, yet they can't see it. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by clockwisereport: 5:25am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Mariangeles: God bless you. 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Angel1696: 5:36am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Who is this man to give advice on marriage issues? |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Proper1(m): 5:40am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Ur opinion is not bad but in marriage nothing is a most. But disgression must be applied. because : "Some of d best principles could be d worst practices". Compertabilty, respect its a key in marriage. Poverty is a diseases irrespective of who kill it should not tear d home apart. Bills or no bill disgression must be applied. Thank you. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:49am On Nov 09, 2021 |
vaca1:.....It's a shame that you found her post worthy. The implication of what she said is that women only have sex to offer and you agreed. Pity I must say. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Iheakonye(m): 5:56am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Are u married? |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Nobody: 6:08am On Nov 09, 2021 |
For sure it's the man responsibility �..a sensible man shouldn't wait for his wife to start paying bills.. But if she wish to do so fine..like assist him.. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Nobody: 6:09am On Nov 09, 2021 |
wunmi590:What do you mean the no must stand?what if it's against her own convenience..? |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Ijaya123: 6:12am On Nov 09, 2021 |
wunmi590: Where is Dangote’s wife? |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Ijaya123: 6:20am On Nov 09, 2021 |
wunmi590: How many Dangotes and Otedolas do we have in our society? |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by colyx1(m): 6:22am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Some people will just have small data, they will come here and start typing rubbish. Oga run your home the way you like. Don't teach us how to run our own. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Skyfornia(m): 6:25am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Iyaebe: You are pained...relax. This is online...people say one thing here and do other thing in real life. Do you! |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by sharone21(f): 6:30am On Nov 09, 2021 |
eazzzy1: You are right but the part u said bills should be split equally CANNOT be forced...Or during pregnancy and child bearing, u will help her carry it or help her pay a surrogate? I believe in partnership in marriage and a wife supporting her husband and if God blesses her more, even be the breadwinner while the man helps out...but understand that unlike men who are not bugged down by child birthing and care which takes a chunk of a woman's life and economic wellbeing, many women have lost opportunities of more progressive promotions at their places of work and subsequently are at the lower rung of life financially. There must be balance and each home is uniquely different. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by lookingfly: 6:33am On Nov 09, 2021 |
DoggoneDogg:no mind the amateur gal. No one is saying a woman should be careful coerced to pay bills in the home but somethings done by the woman in home sends a positive signal to the man that he's not in that marriage alone and he has a loving wife........they say love is giving, no be to they tell your husband always for mouth that you love him or moaning uncontrollably in the other room that's always love. Sometimes ask him to rest from paying some bills sometimes, take him out for he's personal shopping and pay the bills. It won't kill you as he's wife, it will only bond both of you the more. But if you think he's money is our money and your money as the wife is your own money, then there may be problems in the future. Learn this ladies and don't be stingy to the husband's you proffess you love! |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Acidosis(m): 6:40am On Nov 09, 2021 |
TheWrita: End of discussion. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by dammyllare(m): 6:41am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Smiles... Most of the ladies typing here are so humble and submissive to their husband at home. Don't be fooled by their dreams of being a super alpha females. You wonder how many Men are dying in their 50-60s? Women taking over the homes? In the present day Nigeria, no man want a burden as a wife and any sensible woman who sees how the Man hustle round to make money shouldn't be asked before taking care of some bills. Men, take from your earnings and treat yourself out, once you are dead they forget you. Most of these kids here are not even married or were products of broken homes and marriages. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by galax1: 6:50am On Nov 09, 2021 |
U are just chatting shit ,that's y most women are unenslaved by the all provider me,some even stop their wives from working and they want to,the woman is a help mate,there are times when it might not be rosy if u have a good helpmate u might survive.Chief provider continue na how many years reamain for your life u no know.I would always train my girl child to be independent even till marriage and that won't stop her to be submissive.I can't even have a wife that says yes to everything. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by BigBashiru: 6:50am On Nov 09, 2021 |
sharone21: It is obvious that a woman can't work when she is pregnant.... I think women shouldn't work during pregnancy and in the 12 months after the pregnancy. But a woman must contribute money at all other times. Anything short of that is tantamount to being used by the woman in the name of marriage. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by NoToPile: 6:51am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Loool so it has now been translated to if I foot the bills I have all the sole authority, oya foot first. Some are even saying its what makes men die before their time. All of them neatly dodged the nurturing role of the woman, she will share bills and also nurture everyone. Check out a woman who makes money and also does all the house work alone , she might even die faster than the man who only provides money only. You guys should choose a side and stick to it. You want her to split bills oya split chores to naw, no their ego won't allow it (this same ego doesn't follow them abroad ooothey do all chores possible) its the female can can provide money abi. male Primary role - Provide Female Primary role - nurture The boys want the females to share in their role but don't want to share the female role. Its not possible naaw. Their hypocrisy was exposed on that Toks2008 thread. All the NL boys shouting how many of them can comfortably feed their family without the wife's input. Just provision Oo, NL boys will be whining up and down when women have been providing and taking care of the home for a long time. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Elvis2kay: 6:53am On Nov 09, 2021 |
You wonder why so much widow in Nigeria... |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Slavishbenin: 6:54am On Nov 09, 2021 |
wunmi590:Shows how miserable you are you're the one crying all over the place, coming to advertise for your boss wife since you're her slave so you can say anything to retain your meal ticket. You're the one who needs mental emancipation and education bc you sound like someone with IQ of 4, get over yourself asshole |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Alohaa: 6:59am On Nov 09, 2021 |
neonly: Why you dey apologize ? |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Klass99(f): 7:00am On Nov 09, 2021 |
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