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Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by DICKstractor: 11:23pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
In all your confusion, always choose your business before her 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by DICKstractor: 11:23pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
In all your confusion, always choose your business before her 4 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Dollywood(m): 11:42pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
There's no single day I won't see a post about bfs/husbands having grievances about their relationship, is that how frustrating Nigerian girls can b! 4 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Kobojunkie: 12:22am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Dollywood:No be the same Bfs/husbands dey chose the women for themselves? These aren't forced marriages or relationships. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Dollywood(m): 2:55am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: those ladies sabi change personality in a blink, so no reason am. 3 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Kobojunkie: 3:27am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Dollywood:Don't you get tired shifting blame on to others when things go south? Where is your sense of responsibility? 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Elporo(m): 4:16am On Nov 14, 2021 |
tomtomastom4: You are starting a new phase in life and do not need any dead weight. How could she be this terrible? You are neck-deep in debt, but she asks for a 25k gown. When she knows your monthly expenses cannot exceed 30K. she's init for the digits 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Bola146(f): 6:38am On Nov 14, 2021 |
tomtomastom4: Now you know better, a thousand race starts in a day, it's better you let her go. You need peace of mind abeg 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 9:26am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Bola146: Seriously, the peace of mind is what I seek, even this morning my elder bro called and was asking why I did that. I had to explain everything to him. He saw reasons and told me that he will speak with her. 3 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 9:39am On Nov 14, 2021 |
DICKstractor: This is exactly what my cousin told me. That if she can't see reason with me, I should let her be and stay focused. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Bola146(f): 9:41am On Nov 14, 2021 |
tomtomastom4: Better |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Dollywood(m): 10:12am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Well, I'm not in a relationship and I don't actually know what you mean by that. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Nobody: 10:54am On Nov 14, 2021 |
tomtomastom4: Bros OP... If you have explained all these to her and she's still acting like this, then follow your mind... You have tried!!! You work for hours, then when you come back, no rest...you push your business till late at night...and then on weekends, no rest...you still push your business...and she knows all of this and still can't be understanding and supportive She even went ahead to start calling friends and family, calling you names ((a heart breaker))... So if wuna marry now and wuna get issues, this is what will also happen?? Hmm... You have tried sir... If she can't be supportive, then show her the door, she doesn't deserve you ... 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Nobody: 10:57am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Mercychen: Kikikikikiki I no know why your post dey sweet me die... |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Nobody: 11:00am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Involve her Won't she run down his business with this kind of mentality And besides sef... It's not smart to do business with a friend or family!!! Leave business for business partners and friendship for friends!! If she had a high financial IQ, she won't request for a 25k gown when the debt she incurred has not been paid 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Nobody: 11:05am On Nov 14, 2021 |
tomtomastom4: Oga... I can't decide for you... But if I were you, if seat her down one more time and explain things to her ((slowly and patiently)), if she still doesn't change ...I would show her the door without thinking twice... And besides sef, what is she adding to your life?? 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by bukatyne(f): 11:09am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Iyaebe: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by bukatyne(f): 11:13am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Favfables1: @bold: Very correct. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Nobody: 11:15am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Favfables1: Nooo.. you too check am now. So, if she's a wife, she'll open her mouth to ask for 25k gown with that amount the man is earning, 130k? In this economy? She should use that 25k and go into production of soaps and toiletries and sell in schools and offices to make more money instead of sitting there and requesting for some people's one month salary. If he was my brother, na me go tell the girl by myself to go. The OP seems mesmerized because I still see him going about saying the girl is good. His problem. 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by bukatyne(f): 11:16am On Nov 14, 2021 |
tomtomastom4: Please tell us her good qualities since you insist she is good. Your story so far highlights only the bad qualities. 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Nobody: 11:33am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Mercychen: Wow!! Abeg let's do and marry, I'm falling in love with your mentality... kikikikikiki Buh seriously eh... That girl needs to reevaluate her priorities here... Pleasure is good o...but first put yourself in a position that you can purchase pleasure without thinking twice.... If she buy gown 25k, what of shoe and necklace and bangle to wear with the gown ... Those expenses alone will reach like 50k then minus am from 130k, how she go take run the house?? She's not even understanding sef, that's the most annoying part!!! She knows the debt that guy is in now, she knows he is struggling to stand on his feet and yet she's acting this way... Buh that's the OP wahala Sha... I just pray God helps him... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Nobody: 11:46am On Nov 14, 2021 |
Favfables1: God has already helped him by giving him common sense. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Let him use his God given wisdom. Dem no dey tell man Sha. 3 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by DICKstractor: 12:35pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
tomtomastom4: True bro Secure your future first. There are alot of girls out there incase she doesn't see reason with you 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 1:16pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
bukatyne: If I say she isn't a good lady, am not doing justice to her. When I compare to other ladies that I knw and to other ladies that my friends/brothers are dating, I can fully say that she's good. Our relationship have been going on fine with the last two years. She's not even the demanding type. 90% of the time that I have given her money, I did that in my own, not on her request. It's just within the last three months that this one started happening. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 1:22pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Favfables1:Well I don't knw how you want me to say what she's adding to my life. Aside from the normal "companionship" that one get from been in a relationship, what else is expected. And mayb before you bring up sex, it's not part of our relationship. Am for "no sex till marriage" and so is she. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Mariangeles(f): 1:25pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
cooooooks: I thought men don't like wrappers? |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by cooooooks(m): 1:26pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Saintmary(f): 1:30pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
tomtomastom4: Visit her Mom, and ask her to help you explain better to her. Once they notice how serious you are about your girl, they'll smoothen things out for you guys. I don't see why you should throw a good girl away just because of her immaturity. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Nobody: 1:35pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
tomtomastom4: Tor! Don't stress yourself or allow anyone put you under unnecessary pressure... You're doing well sir to have supported her thus far in the little way you can and if she can't appreciate what you've done, then don't kill yourself... At this point of your life, you need support, understanding and encouragement not a nagging baggage in human form ((my apologies if you're offended, buh I hope you get my point)).... Surviving with 30k in this kind of economy no be beans o!! And yet she's acting this way....it's not fair na... Like I said, seat her down and talk to her, if she is still adamant, then commit the crime you've been accused of ((heart breaker))... 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Saintmary(f): 1:35pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Mercychen: Wow, Queen Pickmesha. Why don't you ask the OP to date you instead since you get sense pass him girl. REPENT! 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Karleb(m): 1:52pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
This girl, is she her orphan? Doesn't she has any relative? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Nobody: 2:15pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Saintmary: See them. Na them. Always asking a Man for what their father can not buy for them. But to work with their own hands so they can buy the world themselves, no way! I wonder why y'all (especially the ladies) always quick to misinterpret my honest opinion as seeking the male attention or wanting the person concerned to pick me. So myopic of you ladies. It also goes to show y'alls intention on here. Y'all know what? I will never stop dropping the bombshell where it matters, just to please you guys. You musn't all agree with my submissions but learn to disregard it, drop yours and vamoose! Na una type Dem dey use for money rituals easily. Receive sense and don't ever mention me again. Fake things everywhere. 4 Likes |
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