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Re: The Scam Called Marriage by wunmi590(m): 10:42am On Nov 17, 2021 |
sgtponzihater1: My dear brother, marriage is not a scam, if you are able to walk down the aisle, it means you are big enough to shoulder another responsibility..... Please let us man up to our responsibilities, God will help us 5 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by cayorday89(m): 12:06pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
Acidosis:Truly truly, you have nailed it head on, one way or the other, humans are an enabler of the mess they get to complain about. 8 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by Nobody: 12:17pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
If you like preach from today till kingdom come, Most he-goats won't hear. He-goats generally loves SUFFERING all In the name of being called Men. Men are "CURSED & BRAINWASHED ENTITIES" They can never have their FREEDOM.... 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by Nobody: 12:49pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
wunmi590: The title "MAN means SLAVE" You are Just a pathetic brainwashed slave. That's exactly what you are and what you will always be. A disposable and manipulated TOOL..... 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by ImaIma1(f): 2:31pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
sgtponzihater1: It.seems you have already shown her from the beginning that you have enough money to go round for both of you. So why should she use her own money? If your own family cannot visit your house, that is also on you. You have allowed it. Your situation is peculiar to your marriage because of how you have handled or mishandled things. So...YOUR MARRIAGE IS A SCAM 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by lkillbrokehoes: 7:18pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
cococandy:We don't provide for entitled and selfish women 5 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by mrbenjame: 7:26pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
You’re a very big f**l for posting this kind of rubbish! Is anybody forcing you to marry? See this one o. If you don’t fancy marriage is it not your choice to make? Why coming on a public forum to pour out your frustration. Are there not a thousand and one happy marriages out there? You’re sick in the head. You need paracetamol honestly. Where did you emanate from? So what God designed is now a scam. You’re a disgrace. Human beings are different. We have failed marriages here and there but that doesn’t make it scam my friend. What you’d say is that some people end up marrying the wrong persons. Not condemning it entirely. You have a very shallow reasoning. Go sit down and think about your miserable life. I blame the scams that brought you to this earth to type nonsense here. You need a psychiatrist! I tell you. Your brain dey shake. 1 Like |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by Opeyemiextra(f): 7:55pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
You people ehn! Will you ever rest over this matter. I have not heard of any man tied with a rope and dragged to the altar so what's all these complain na. If your marriage is not working, sorry but stop making it look like it can't work for anybody. 3 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by sgtponzihater1(m): 8:25pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
mrbenjame: Your post proofs why Nigerians are some of the most violent people on earth, insulting those who have done them no wrong. Using God and curses on the same page shows who's child you really are, and how desperately you need redemption. May God heal you, and teach you how to address people. Over and out. 11 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by ImaIma1(f): 9:14pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
sgtponzihater1: You sound so amateur and naive, and it's obvious you cannot stand up to your wife. So you come on Nairaland to vent. You cannot refuse the expenses she piles on you or insist that she contributes. So here you are trying to make your marriage problem a general one. You can't fool us all with that. You can only.fool the regular zombies who concur to anything anti-marriage. The insightful ones know better. 6 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by Farfalla(f): 9:27pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
FlipModeSquade:Why should he sit alone at home? Have you ever come across any family that has abandoned their loving father? 1 Like |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by emmanuelbrown26: 9:30pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
sgtponzihater1:Mehnnnnn, baba verily verily u have seen it all. Pls I'm following 1 Like |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by FlipModeSquade(m): 9:39pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
Farfalla:This shouldn't be a subject for debate.. Abandonment is subjective.. Definitely a maid would be there to cook his meals.. How many old men gets to take a trip around the world? To visit their married children? 2 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by Nobody: 9:40pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
wunmi590: 1. So a man who cannot "shoulder another's responsibility" is not "big enough"? Kikikikikiki .... 2. "Man up" to which responsibility?? Oga.... Whether or not a person chooses to not get married has nothing to do with his masculinity or him not being "big enough" ((according to you))... Marriage is a choice!! You're not more of a man all because you're married and another isn't... According to you... Jesus who didn't "walk the isle" was not big enough ba?? Prophet Elijah who didn't "walk the isle" did not "man up" to his responsibilities ba?? Mtttttcheeeeewww... Indeed God will help us... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by crackhaus: 9:58pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
This thread dey sweet me like sugarcane... @OP, please continue dropping your tidbits... Pay no mind to anyone trying to emotionally blackmail you into keeping shut. We are in the era of choices and doing whatever makes us happy as long as we're hurting no one. Ndi choice people need to keep up that same energy all round... 14 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by sgtponzihater1(m): 10:00pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
ImaIma1: Women outlive men by at least a decade. Apart from the chromosomal difference, male and female are essentially the same yet men die and women outlive them, and inherit all these men have worked for. When we have men trying to explore this phenomenon and change the narrative, truly naive jokers, like yourself, crawl up from no where with skewed and baseless opinion so as to continue the silent massacre against men. I am not opening this thread for your opinion, but teaching real men now to navigate the 21st century so they don't die for nothing before their time. If you can't put up with it, then go take a nap. Over and out 16 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by emmanuelbrown26: 10:03pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
ikennamadu1:dont mind that pussy ass niggar. he is just a simp, he complained of how uber and bolt drivers were harrassing his olosho girl friend, 6 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by sgtponzihater1(m): 10:03pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
crackhaus: Kind regards. So many points to share, but this guys a bent on derailing my sincere truth. Cheers 7 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by sgtponzihater1(m): 10:10pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
They gave me long list. When I calculated the list then, all the items amounted to 450k. I ask for discount yet nobody look my side. With my 160k salary of those years, and squeeze my face to buy the items on those list. The goat was rejected for being too skinny. At this time no lady, even my own aunty told me we were equal with women. They all asked me to man up and pay for her head. After I marry she become feminist ontop my head. The same feminist that couldn't warn her people that she is not for sale. I no blame her, I blame my own aunties, and sister wey follow whine me Number 7 reason why modern marriages is a scam. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by sgtponzihater1(m): 10:14pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
After the so called bride price. She got a high paying job, and I no see Shi Shi for her salary. Wetin the price wey I pay come dey for. I still dey pay all the bill, and the only advice I am given is that I am the man. Who man come help? If this is not a scam, then what is. 17 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by pansophist(m): 10:14pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
As I see it, if the op married a lady that is equally working and contribute equally to the marriage, it would be the best thing ever. So my question is, why marry a woman that is not on your financial level? I mean, you can't be lifting her financially permanently, what if you crash? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by sgtponzihater1(m): 10:16pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
So many more examples from myself and people know and love.... This is a say it like it is zone.... Women wrappers and women will hate. PonziHater 1 Like |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by sgtponzihater1(m): 10:18pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
pansophist: Not on my financial level, but through me got a job that pays more than 800k, but still no show. 6 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by crackhaus: 10:31pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
sgtponzihater1:LOL... Are there any true Nigerian feminists? I highly doubt it. Mostly SJWs and Snowflakes. 6 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by Farfalla(f): 12:21am On Nov 18, 2021 |
FlipModeSquade: I have never invited my mother to my home without inviting my father. In fact if I were to choose who to tag along and I only had one ticket left, I'll most likely pick my dad and apologise to my mum. I've never planned for a vacation for one parent and leave out the other. Doesn't even seem right. The only time I notice children siding with their mother is when the father was a monster to his wife, and sometimes children. Children are not stupid. They notice when their mother is in severe pains because of one man's "polygamous nature". They notice when she's enveloped in sadness any time her "polygamous-by-nature" husband goes out when he wants to speak on the phone. They notice when the "naturally polygamous" parent never slept at home. They notice violence, they notice emotional abuse, they notice the silent treatment, they notice that look of disdain and disgust the "polygamous", "logical" parent always has when their mother walks into the room. They notice all that and more, and that's why when they're at that point in their lives where they can afford to pay for trips around the world, it's usually very clear who they'll choose. There's a lady I worked with who took up a job opportunity in a foreign country because her teenage children encouraged her to leave so she could have peace of mind away from their father. Now imagine such children. Not to justify anything, but who do you think they'll choose to pamper later in life? Of course that's not to say that wives cannot make their husbands miserable. Some do, and children notice that too. That's why I asked, is there a loving father who's sidelined by his children? I find it difficult to believe that a man who's been loving to his children and compassionate to his wife, will end up being sidelined by his children later in life. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by Gerrard59(m): 10:37am On Nov 18, 2021 |
Acidosis: Love let alone true love doesn't exist in the world's poverty capital. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by Gerrard59(m): 10:38am On Nov 18, 2021 |
sgtponzihater1: What stops you from filing for a divorce and stop making a fuss about marriage being a scam? Where you at anytime pointed a gun with the release clause being marriage? 6 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by baby124: 10:55am On Nov 18, 2021 |
pansophist:Their fragile ego can’t take a successful woman or woman they can’t turn to slave. In this day and age they want to be traditional man. When things are so expensive 4 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by sgtponzihater1(m): 11:12am On Nov 18, 2021 |
baby124: You want traditional marriage , but don't want traditional men . The height of wickedness in my opinion. Why should a man pay a price on your head, and then you flip to woke mode afterwards. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by baby124: 11:16am On Nov 18, 2021 |
sgtponzihater1:Marriage rites are different from wanting a traditional marriage. To marry the woman you desperately wanted, you paid what was asked by her family not her! You do understand she’s not her family right? Plus you were not forced by them to marry her, so who are you trying to degrade with traditional marriage talk? If she refuses to complete all marriage rights, na you go still insult am that her family don’t rate her. 3 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by sgtponzihater1(m): 11:20am On Nov 18, 2021 |
baby124: Not much time to exchange words. All the best Over and out 7 Likes |
Re: The Scam Called Marriage by sgtponzihater1(m): 11:23am On Nov 18, 2021 |
Gerrard59: Very rare to find true love from a woman. When there was no money I no see woman, when the money came, I had so many "kind" girls forming love. If woman fit leave her man collect apple from serpent wey she no know, then what a woman cannot do does not exist. 10 Likes 1 Share |
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