I dey tell you bro

dammywapes:
Broddy your eyes don see for this daughter of jezebel that means she dey Bleep guys when uno dey n una don do intro omo

If anybody wanna get married, He should wait at least till Buhari leaves power & we got a true leader as president... otherwise.. inflation alone go make u question why u got married in the first place.

Be there dey dream. Forget that thing

grandstar:


What happened to "for better for worse"?

November 2010 bro

Mvena:

Una date for 10years? Ahn ahn

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author=GboyegaD post=107767769]It is difficult to say much since I wouldn't expect anyone to act the way she is. This is the only reason I advice people to look deep into the family they want to marry from. Once you notice how they react to money, it should tell you the kind of expectations to have with their daughter/son when it comes to money.[/quote]

OlawaleBammie:
Women dont love, dey only respect

The moment what brings the respect leaves u, u re doomed.

Brother ur mistake is dat u didn't open a business for her to monitor wen ur job was still intact.

Next tym, open a business in ur name, put her there to manage, dont mind if she dey chop small small for inside ur money sofar the business is moving, afterall na where peeson dey work in dey chop.

The moment u lose ur job, u wil have that business to fall to.



Pls listen again, dont open the business in her name, i warned u ooh.

So, your idea to marry a wife is to exploit her?
You don't want a wife, you want a slave.

Humans can be that way - they will grind on the assistance they gave you! Don’t dwell on her utterances and mannerisms. Seek God. Keep a lookout for opportunities. Live with her with wisdom so she won’t turn the children against you and make the nighttime of your life a nightmare. Meanwhile don’t go getting another woman into your life for comfort - that will complicate things for you! All the best!

habsydiamond:
Uncle the best way of bringing peace to ur home is by gaining ur position back as the head of the family.... When women are put in such position they can't handle it cos they were not made to be so.. That's for married couples oo.. Try getting a job or go into business that will give u an edge over her... With that u will have ur home back... If not oga u never see anything ooo...

In as much as you're right, the wife is wrong....
And Op from the text, she wasn't even working when you were working...

What I see is she's exhibiting some selfishness...what concerns you and taking care of her... Doesn't she have hands and legs.
Marriage is to support each other...
At least support your husband till he's strong probably if her husband dies shey she'll go to his grave and flog him because he ain't taking care of her...

For from her is the race of women and female kind: of her is the deadly race and tribe of women who live amongst mortal men to their great trouble, no helpmeets in hateful poverty, but only in wealth. And as in thatched hives bees feed the drones whose nature is to do mischief—by day and throughout the day until the sun goes down the bees are busy and lay the white combs, while the drones stay at home in the covered hives and reap the toil of others into their own bellies— even so Zeus who thunders on high made women to be an evil to mortal men, with a nature to do evil

Jobs are never there for ever. Invest for the future when the opportunity is there. OP, it's also tough on wife & she's human. More than one child is there to cater for. If I were you OP, I would never have returned home to be fed by wife no matter what I'd done for her in the past. Rather I'd have relocated to somewhere with good prospects & struggle it out. If you knock head continuously on wall, one thing must give way; the head breaks or the wall opens. You'll keep in touch with family from wherever & send whatever you can till you find your feet. Every problem has expiry date where there's discipline and determination. Best wishes.

Mavor:
MGTOW bro!!!! I'm single and I love my peace of mind right now.

Gee make sure say you dey get toto. No go turn gay o.

Na only toto me want

Am sorry to break hearts.
But my husband should be my ATM machine even if the alerts are not huge
It doesn't matter if am working or not.

Stomoney:
.

Ever since then, nigga don wise
Nigga be fuxking those holes hard
Nigga be making more money
Nigga gotten so many investment

No love for Niger just make more money
Live good

nigga be calming down o...
Since when did you relocate to ibadan?
We fit hook up? Make you show nigga how to make money?

habsydiamond:
Uncle the best way of bringing peace to ur home is by gaining ur position back as the head of the family.... When women are put in such position they can't handle it cos they were not made to be so.. That's for married couples oo.. Try getting a job or go into business that will give u an edge over her... With that u will have ur home back... If not oga u never see anything ooo...

Gain his position back?? By having cash??
So does that mean that the one with the most cash occupies the position of the"head of the family"??

The summary of this is that you don't have sense.

You cannot be working for a firm and be living like you are Dangote.... Taking flight up and down and spending foolishly.

Before you live like a king as an employee ensure you have enough investment to sustain you when your boss decides to deal with you.

Yes, you are a bad husband because you lead like a bad leader... I don't want to talk about your wife because you only told us what she said but not how you treated her, only until we hear her reasons for saying what she said, I will only judge you based on your financial foolishness

That's how 90% of them always behave. Owo yí na ni

Olayetan:
You were spending your savings till you spent everything and you were depending on your wife's salary to keep up, i will blame you for not being man up, you could have looked for something to start up with that savings so as to be making little till you get back on your feet.


I'm also facing similar with my fiancée but I'm definitely cutting the relationship cux it has shown, she's only being caring when there's money.

Na man you be. No time for simping

Mariangeles:


So, your idea to marry a wife is to exploit her?
You don't want a wife, you want a slave.

Sorry to say this but u dont .........mtchew, lemme nit talk


So the woman i put in the house, pay her bills, buy tins for, cater for, feed, is not exploiting me abi?? And she no even my mama oh, even my gf, what i dont give my mama, she dey collect.

And u re telling me not to exploit her business acumen, pls what is her usefulness to me den?? Tell me ooh, women right activist.

As some one who has vexed for love before I never thought I could I really work everyday even on my birthday so the little I manage to see I manage to save for us … then you will now come and be posing for me like I’ve arrived when your money comes..Olosho here abc there na that time my real Ariel color Dey show

The money Kuda chopped was supposed to be his weekend enjoyment package

Yesterday me and one Sheraton staff were arguing because my car broke down in front of their gate o na so Dey sey make i move am the coolant hose came loose so not much coolant in engine na so d man said we women we are unstable I said marry your fellow man born for an since una Sabi see silence


my man can’t say thank you even if his leg is on fire but I will help when I can no be everyday so I do it anyway.

Update - Kuda paid my money today shortly after this post all is not lost

Denvacandy:
We got married in 2018 and things where going smooth, i was working with a company in port harcourt and i can bodly say i was very okay, taking flight is not an issue.

When she wanted to give birth to our first child, it was through CS and i paid every damn bills amounting to 500k or so.

We moved down to ogun state and i was taking flight monthly to see her from port harcourt.

Fast forward to 2020, the comapny fold up and i lost my job, i came down to ogun fully with my wife and everything went down, feeding was hard and my savings is drying up.

You know how woman do and how to satisfy them so my savings eventually dried up and the reality was down.

She applied for a teaching job at govt school and she got employed and i was always at home.

Do she was supportive but its didnt took long when she changed and started treating me badly.

I was so sad the day she utter all terirble words to me, on how have not been a good husband and how i have not been dropping money for food and co.

how i have not been taking care of her, i almost moved to tears and i refused to eat her food for some period, i was being supported by a street friend.

How can someone you have sacrificed so much for all of a sudden change and bring out thier true color.

you people will be marrying those animals called NAIJA WOMEN, what do you expect for those animals

Leave those baboons alone you guys won't hear!
Just because those female baboons has brea.st and a hole doesn't make them reason like humans

Na wen you no get money, you go know the real attitude of your wife/gf. My brother, don't give up, keep working hard, God will meet. Wish you the best.

MARRIAGE!!
I dey fear dat thing eehn

Stomoney:

Ever since then, nigga don wise
Nigga be fuxking those holes hard
Nigga be making more money
Nigga gotten so many investment

No love for Niger just make more money
Live good

You still need to heal yourself from the betrayal and disappointment and get over it because you're yet to.

Bro i feel your pain, but the point and the fact is it has happened all u need do, keep striving it will be a story someday, most women only treasure and value you when things are booming but as soon as things red na to jakpa or make your home a living hell. All u can ever do is don't give up.

Stomoney:
November 2010 bro

Na wa o

Favfables1:


Gain his position back?? By having cash??
So does that mean that the one with the most cash occupies the position of the"head of the family"? ?

That's the honest truth

May sorrow never come your way

abobote:
The earlier we realise that nothing like love, but interest the better for us. Some people thinks their wife love or married them coz of love, my brother, nothing like that. Life generally is all about interest. As a man if you are not bringing money, you are useless to that your wife.
Few days ago my wife stopped talking to me, cos she felt offended over a conversation and she demands I apologise, but I don't know how to say sorry, so she stopped talking to me, after two days, I just dropped 10k on her account without any instruction, since then, she has been calling me baby, what is the money for . Bros, you can only husle to regain back your position as head of the family

You nailed it. Love doesnt exist at all.

kmcutez:
The lady is working and paying the bills, and you still expect her to cook for you and do all the housework? That’s why she is frustrated. The workload is too much. You should play her role, since she is playing your role.

Where did you read that workload was the problem?
Daughters of discord

habsydiamond:
Uncle the best way of bringing peace to ur home is by gaining ur position back as the head of the family.... When women are put in such position they can't handle it cos they were not made to be so.. That's for married couples oo.. Try getting a job or go into business that will give u an edge over her... With that u will have ur home back... If not oga u never see anything ooo...

should he start kidnapping your families so that he will get the required amount of money to start business that will give him edge over that ape

You think life is like a niaja movie wereby you just suddenly acquired wealth and live happily ever

Thinks like a man and stop thinking like a vagina! During trials Like this, that's when you know the monters you married as a wife

Is like you and those female baboons doesn't really understand the concept of marriage and family.

I will never advise my enemy to marry a naija women!

Stomoney:
Almost what happens to me bro. (10years relationship) We both lived together in osun state before i was transfereed to ogun state. Last year we had introduction and planning to have our wedding this year but unfortunately i lost my job early this year. Before I knew it she started giving attitude after I lost my job, it got to a stage where she receive calls distance far from me and i began suspicious of she having another relationship. One day I caught her red handed Omo that day eh I lost myself I couldn't control myself; my legs were shaking , i confronted her and she cried n pleaded. Told her mom about her doing but couldnt narrate to my family because I was in love, so we continue again. A month later, i travelled to ibadan from osun for another interview of which she knew about and thank god i got employed that same day. I started calling my babe Immediately i left their office to tell her how everything went but to no avail.
I got so worried when I got home and i was told she said she was travelling to Lagos. Till now I couldnt here from her.
lots happenf after her traveling to Lagos which almost separated her parents but na dia wahala

Relationship ended

last month i was packing my luggage trying to relocate to ibadan, omo come see several packs of used postinor under wardrobe cabinet
That babe almost finish me but God saved me.

Ever since then, nigga don wise
Nigga be fuxking those holes hard
Nigga be making more money
Nigga gotten so many investment

No love for Niger just make more money
Live good

Lol

Funny how men would always tell women to have a job and provide their basics to be respected, but somehow they are looking for one virtuous woman that would respect them when they can’t provide. Because you have a penis or what?

If that isn’t delusion, I wonder what it is.

Better go out there and hustle.

I can’t think of one usefulness of a man that isn’t providing. Maybe you can tell me what you have been doing at home all the while.

Nobody loves an overly dependent adult. They will get tired of you with time. Be you male or female.