₦airaland Forum

kmcutez:
The lady is working and paying the bills, and you still expect her to cook for you and do all the housework? That’s why she is frustrated. The workload is too much. You should play her role, since she is playing your role.

Tunagee:
Keep quiet there!!!! Madam feminist

Qatar2022:
He was doing it before but lost his job , does it mean he will also loose his wife's respect

November24:
Baby talk ...
He married a wrong woman.

Stomoney:
Almost what happens to me bro. (10years relationship) We both lived together in osun state before i was transfereed to ogun state. Last year we had introduction and planning to have our wedding this year but unfortunately i lost my job early this year. Before I knew it she started giving attitude after I lost my job, it got to a stage where she receive calls distance far from me and i began suspicious of she having another relationship. One day I caught her red handed Omo that day eh I lost myself I couldn't control myself; my legs were shaking , i confronted her and she cried n pleaded. Told her mom about her doing but couldnt narrate to my family because I was in love, so we continue again. A month later, i travelled to ibadan from osun for another interview of which she knew about and thank god i got employed that same day. I started calling my babe Immediately i left their office to tell her how everything went but to no avail.
I got so worried when I got home and i was told she said she was travelling to Lagos. Till now I couldnt here from her.
lots happenf after her traveling to Lagos which almost separated her parents but na dia wahala

Relationship ended

last month i was packing my luggage trying to relocate to ibadan, omo come see several packs of used postinor under wardrobe cabinet
That babe almost finish me but God saved me.

Ever since then, nigga don wise
Nigga be fuxking those holes hard
Nigga be making more money
Nigga gotten so many investment

No love for Niger just make more money
Live good

Bola146:
She is human being, pray for her. I pray that you see a good job, a married man who lost his job is like someone who lost half of his life. You can tell people here who can help you to get a job. Best luck

November24:
Foolish talk
.
I earn more than my hb and I honor and support him... Even pay fees. A woman that love u will die for u... What is food?

Stomoney:
Almost what happens to me bro. (10years relationship) We both lived together in osun state before i was transfereed to ogun state. Last year we had introduction and planning to have our wedding this year but unfortunately i lost my job early this year. Before I knew it she started giving attitude after I lost my job, it got to a stage where she receive calls distance far from me and i began suspicious of she having another relationship. One day I caught her red handed Omo that day eh I lost myself I couldn't control myself; my legs were shaking , i confronted her and she cried n pleaded. Told her mom about her doing but couldnt narrate to my family because I was in love, so we continue again. A month later, i travelled to ibadan from osun for another interview of which she knew about and thank god i got employed that same day. I started calling my babe Immediately i left their office to tell her how everything went but to no avail.
I got so worried when I got home and i was told she said she was travelling to Lagos. Till now I couldnt here from her.
lots happenf after her traveling to Lagos which almost separated her parents but na dia wahala

Relationship ended

last month i was packing my luggage trying to relocate to ibadan, omo come see several packs of used postinor under wardrobe cabinet
That babe almost finish me but God saved me.

Ever since then, nigga don wise
Nigga be fuxking those holes hard
Nigga be making more money
Nigga gotten so many investment

No love for Niger just make more money
Live good

dapolaw:
Stop lamenting and get back on your feet, nah their ways.

Bluewitch:
In as much as you're right, the wife is wrong....
And Op from the text, she wasn't even working when you were working...

What I see is she's exhibiting some selfishness...what concerns you and taking care of her... Doesn't she have hands and legs.
Marriage is to support each other...
At least support your husband till he's strong probably if her husband dies shey she'll go to his grave and flog him because he ain't taking care of her...

habsydiamond:
Uncle the best way of bringing peace to ur home is by gaining ur position back as the head of the family.... When women are put in such position they can't handle it cos they were not made to be so.. That's for married couples oo.. Try getting a job or go into business that will give u an edge over her... With that u will have ur home back... If not oga u never see anything ooo...

womenareapess:
you people will be marrying those animals called NAIJA WOMEN, what do you expect for those animals

Leave those baboons alone you guys won't hear!
Just because those female baboons has brea.st and a hole doesn't make them reason like humans

Denvacandy:
We got married in 2018 and things where going smooth, i was working with a company in port harcourt and i can bodly say i was very okay, taking flight is not an issue.

When she wanted to give birth to our first child, it was through CS and i paid every damn bills amounting to 500k or so.

We moved down to ogun state and i was taking flight monthly to see her from port harcourt.

Fast forward to 2020, the comapny fold up and i lost my job, i came down to ogun fully with my wife and everything went down, feeding was hard and my savings is drying up.

You know how woman do and how to satisfy them so my savings eventually dried up and the reality was down.

She applied for a teaching job at govt school and she got employed and i was always at home.

Do she was supportive but its didnt took long when she changed and started treating me badly.

I was so sad the day she utter all terirble words to me, on how have not been a good husband and how i have not been dropping money for food and co.

how i have not been taking care of her, i almost moved to tears and i refused to eat her food for some period, i was being supported by a street friend.

How can someone you have sacrificed so much for all of a sudden change and bring out thier true color.

womenareapess:
should he start kidnapping your families so that he will get the required amount of money to start business that will give him edge over that ape

You think life is like a niaja movie wereby you just suddenly acquired wealth and live happily ever

Thinks like a man and stop thinking like a vagina! During trials Like this, that's when you know the monters you married as a wife

Is like you and those female baboons doesn't really understand the concept of marriage and family.

I will never advise my enemy to marry a naija women!

taylormed2:
Same thing my mother did to my father, when my dad retired in my year one, she started getting annoyed at everything looking for the smallest reason to blame him for not planning financially. Me, I knew all those were excuses cause I read her messages, and she had been seeing someone else. She was just looking for a reason to justify her departure do that people would blame the man instead. Since then I told myself marriage no go near me

abobote:
The earlier we realise that nothing like love, but interest the better for us. Some people thinks their wife love or married them coz of love, my brother, nothing like that. Life generally is all about interest. As a man if you are not bringing money, you are useless to that your wife.
Few days ago my wife stopped talking to me, cos she felt offended over a conversation and she demands I apologise, but I don't know how to say sorry, so she stopped talking to me, after two days, I just dropped 10k on her account without any instruction, since then, she has been calling me baby, what is the money for . Bros, you can only husle to regain back your position as head of the family

djon78:
True test of life is not when things are going Rosy. But you know reality when things are not going fine.

I believe it is even better for a man to start his marriage from when things are tough

That way, you will know your spouse early enough. Know her antecedents, so you will not be surprised

Viking07:
Non. Marriage is beautiful when you marry the right partner. Nairaland just seem to have a lot of negative reviews about marriage.

To those who get carried away with the daily lamentation on this forum just know that - for every single thread created castigating marriages whether male or female, there are thousands of married couples enjoying a blissful union. Unfortunately since negative news sells, you don’t see such threads.

Denvacandy:
We got married in 2018 and things where going smooth, i was working with a company in port harcourt and i can bodly say i was very okay, taking flight is not an issue.

When she wanted to give birth to our first child, it was through CS and i paid every damn bills amounting to 500k or so.

We moved down to ogun state and i was taking flight monthly to see her from port harcourt.

Fast forward to 2020, the comapny fold up and i lost my job, i came down to ogun fully with my wife and everything went down, feeding was hard and my savings is drying up.

You know how woman do and how to satisfy them so my savings eventually dried up and the reality was down.

She applied for a teaching job at govt school and she got employed and i was always at home.

Do she was supportive but its didnt took long when she changed and started treating me badly.

I was so sad the day she utter all terirble words to me, on how have not been a good husband and how i have not been dropping money for food and co.

how i have not been taking care of her, i almost moved to tears and i refused to eat her food for some period, i was being supported by a street friend.

How can someone you have sacrificed so much for all of a sudden change and bring out thier true color.

Bola146:
It is well with your soul and spirit, pele

Asour:
Looking for a job does not preclude him for airing his views/grievances. He can do both.

Denvacandy:
We got married in 2018 and things where going smooth, i was working with a company in port harcourt and i can bodly say i was very okay, taking flight is not an issue.

When she wanted to give birth to our first child, it was through CS and i paid every damn bills amounting to 500k or so.

We moved down to ogun state and i was taking flight monthly to see her from port harcourt.

Fast forward to 2020, the comapny fold up and i lost my job, i came down to ogun fully with my wife and everything went down, feeding was hard and my savings is drying up.

You know how woman do and how to satisfy them so my savings eventually dried up and the reality was down.

She applied for a teaching job at govt school and she got employed and i was always at home.

Do she was supportive but its didnt took long when she changed and started treating me badly.

I was so sad the day she utter all terirble words to me, on how have not been a good husband and how i have not been dropping money for food and co.

how i have not been taking care of her, i almost moved to tears and i refused to eat her food for some period, i was being supported by a street friend.

How can someone you have sacrificed so much for all of a sudden change and bring out thier true color.

stacyadams:
..bless ya...a man with the master plan..ayam learning from u sir

A woman's love is conditional.

She'll only love you if you can provide something.

If you can't, she'll leave you without a second thought.

Ussycool:
If you think i am not your perfect match go and marr your ur match lets see.

What is the meaning of this for goodness sake?

pocohantas:
Funny how men would always tell women to have a job and provide their basics to be respected, but somehow they are looking for one virtuous woman that would respect them when they can’t provide. Because you have a penis or what?

If that isn’t delusion, I wonder what it is.

Better go out there and hustle.

I can’t think of one usefulness of a man that isn’t providing. Maybe you can tell me what you have been doing at home all the while.

Nobody loves an overly dependent adult. They will get tired of you with time. Be you male or female.