habsydiamond:
op... Women of nowadays don't care if u are married as long as they can taste that ur thing with two brothers underneath.. If u think u can withstand any temptation that comes with it u can continue. The last time I checked.. The only people for record wey temptation no hold Na Jesus and Joseph..

You're actually experienced bro. They seem not to care if one is married and I try to know why exactly it is like that. Men can easily walk away from a married woman than a single girl walking away from a married man

MrBrownJay1:


sorry mumu brotha, you come bring your issue to NL but get mad when someone tells you the hard truth, LOL!
you couldnt face your own wife and stand your ground, but then you have gut to now open your mouth to people who tells you the hard truth.

What a foolish idiot, I didn't read your gibberish. Direct your life frustrations to your mom's smelly pvssy . You were not invited here so swerve. Nwa ekwensu

pocohantas:



This response is the exact reason you shouldn’t put mouth in husband and wife’s matter.

He was being condescending. Others above him made their comments without insult, why must he be bad mouthed, didn't you see that ma'am?

habsydiamond:
it's not about being simp oo.. The op is trying to let peace reign.. If u happen to be in the op's shoes will u chase ur wife away or beat her.. Things like this need wisdom oo.. If u take any wrong step divorce straight..

I'll talk sense into her head and warn her never to try such again.. I'm not to be controlled by anyone just like I won't control her.
I'm not a Simp so no woman will ever attempt that with me.

You should know where to draw the line with your female friends once you are married. Your Wife should automatically be your friend.

Myexdisturbs:

What a foolish idiot, I didn't read your gibberish. Direct your life frustrations to your mom's smelly pvssy . You were not invited here so swerve. Nwa ekwensu

it is obvious the frustrated person here is you... thus why you brought your issues to NL. but hey, good luck in your married life brotha, lol! let me guess: you wash her dirty panties too, abi?!?!

you can ignore the hard truth all you want, but the reality is that you are a mumu and your wife knows that too.

flokii:


Don't be surprised the OP runs errands for the wife while she sits down to watch telemundo.. the mumu is not even seeing the implication of his actions.

From block your female friends, it will advance to block your sisters and mother, then he won't have any choice than abandon his family. Them plenty like that o, useless Simps.

those simps are so weak its unbelievable! see as this one cant even have friends, meaning that people that he possibly knew his WHOLE LIFE were deleted from his life, because of an insecure immature low self esteem woman you just met a few years ago. these mumus make me sick, a bunch of useless donkeys!
if any woman decides that a man cant have female friends in his life, then get rid of that deluded woman asap and find a proper sane secure mature woman to marry....instead of accepting her nonsense and then come to NL like a mumu!

Motigbo . We will be here waiting.

Mariangeles:


I believe she will get over it eventually. Especially when the babies start coming in.
For now, she's just being possessive and territorial, and the husband seem to be enjoying it.

MrBrownJay1:


those simps are so weak its unbelievable! see as this one cant even have friends, meaning that people that he possibly knew his WHOLE LIFE were deleted from his life, because of an insecure immature low self esteem woman you just met a few years ago. these mumus make me sick, a bunch of useless donkeys!
if any woman decides that a man cant have female friends in his life, then get rid of that deluded woman asap and find a proper sane secure mature woman to marry....instead of accepting her nonsense and then come to NL like a mumu!

As in ehnn.. so annoying and disgusting

I should block my female friends that didn't offend me or anything because I married an insecure woman.. for wetin na? if na fvck, I for never fvck dem tey tey??

This is the method employed by bullies and domestic abusers.. they alienate their victims from those who care about them and subject them to mental torture. This poster is already in stage 1 and I'm sure he is seeing all the signs of domestic abuse and violence in his marriage, reason he posted this here. It's a shame some people are giving him terrible advices instead of asking him to seek help or see a counsellor.

flokii:
As in ehnn.. so annoying and disgusting
I should block my female friends that didn't offend me or anything because I married an insecure woman.. for wetin na? if na fvck, I for never fvck dem tey tey??

This is the method employed by bullies and domestic abusers.. they alienate their victims from those who care about them and subject them to mental torture. This poster is already in stage 1 and I'm sure he is seeing all the signs of domestic abuse and violence in his marriage, reason he posted this here. It's a shame some people are giving him terrible advices instead of asking him to seek help or see a counsellor.

exactly!!!!

habsydiamond:
Op.. Wetin u won use female friends do Na people wey go pour sand sand for ur garri u dey find upandan.. No let dem destroy ur home oo.. A jealous wife is good than one I never care one oo.. But over jealous one can kill.. Married men don't keep female friends oo. Except those that are close to the family.

What are you talking??
So all the platonic female friends a man had before he got married should thrown under the bus because he has a wife??

And how about married women...are they allowed to keep male friends??

Mariangeles:


What do you need female friends for when you've got your wife?
What do you have to discuss with them that you cannot discuss with your wife?
Your wife is all the female friends you need.
Ghost the rest and give your wife the attention that belongs to her.

Rubbish!!!

Myexdisturbs:
Can you believe my wife has made me not to have even a single female friend. I don't mean colleagues oo. Chai I have lost all female friends and blocked them on social media because of her

It's for your own good. She's now your gf,bestie,etc

habsydiamond:
it's not about being simp oo.. The op is trying to let peace reign.. If u happen to be in the op's shoes will u chase ur wife away or beat her.. Things like this need wisdom oo.. If u take any wrong step divorce straight..

Yes you're right ...
He needs wisdom buh you have to underrstand that sometimes, the price for peace is WAR...
This issue needs to be addressed...
Imagine all the female friends he has had from back in the days, he will just abandon them like that, not because they've betrayed him or something, buh because his wife said so... Nahhhhhhh....

Favfables1:


What are you talking??
So all the platonic female friends a man had before he got married should thrown under the bus because he has a wife??

And how about married women...are they allowed to keep male friends??

if u don't want to destroy ur home, am not saying u should keep but for peace to reign ur wife must be aware of ur friendship. So that she won't be thinking of something else. The op's wife is affected with insecurity cos she don over do am

Myexdisturbs:

You're actually experienced bro. They seem not to care if one is married and I try to know why exactly it is like that. Men can easily walk away from a married woman than a single girl walking away from a married man

this world is turning into something else, if our single ladies can be dating married men, this tells us that most of them don't care about anyone's happy.. The only language they understand is money. If KWAN1 or this motorist chairman should announce that they want to take another wife that ladies should apply.... We all know what will happen I guess

Guy, what's the essence of bringing your matter here when you knew you would be attacking some people here because they advised you.

Don't worry, your wife has just started, sooner or later she will start selecting or rather blocking you from even your male friends.

Watch out, this is coming soon...

Myexdisturbs:
Can you believe my wife has made me not to have even a single female friend. I don't mean colleagues oo. Chai I have lost all female friends and blocked them on social media because of her

Sterope:
There is no guarantee she will get over it later

What then is guaranteed? You try to make sense but made absolutely none.

The chances that she will get over it will be high if OP focuses all the attention to her. That's what we are talking about.

Nairalanders with weird people and weird opinion

Myexdisturbs:
Can you believe my wife has made me not to have even a single female friend. I don't mean colleagues oo. Chai I have lost all female friends and blocked them on social media because of her

This is exactly what I planned on doing when I get married. I no even need any distraction. Nor do I need social media.

My own is my wife and family. It will be the primary and secondary. Case closed.

So long as your wife is not a bad person, please give her all the attention she seeks.

Favfables1:


What are you talking??
So all the platonic female friends a man had before he got married should thrown under the bus because he has a wife??

And how about married women...are they allowed to keep male friends??

How old are you? I'm sure you aren't up to 23 yet. So you're excused.

Myexdisturbs:
Can you believe my wife has made me not to have even a single female friend. I don't mean colleagues oo. Chai I have lost all female friends and blocked them on social media because of her

I don't think you are a responsible man.

Issokay

mikezuruki:


This is exactly what I planned on doing when I get married. I no even need any distraction. Nor do I need social media.

My own is my wife and family. It will be the primary and secondary. Case closed.

So long as your wife is not a bad person, please give her all the attention she seeks.

She's a good woman, thank you

Your wife na your female friend na...

She knows the kind of man she got married to.

Ere kil'aja n bekun se?

aggos:
Guy, what's the essence of bringing your matter here when you knew you would be attacking some people here because they advised you.

Don't worry, your wife has just started, sooner or later she will start selecting or rather blocking you from even your male friends.

Watch out, this is coming soon...

Bros that guy didn't advice me naw. Nairalanders take advantage of people posting here to insult them for no reason. Everyone is addressed the way they present. Thank you for your contribution

Op I sympathise with u on your confusion, a married man with a female friend/female friends, haba respect your matrimonial vows na

Myexdisturbs:
Can you believe my wife has made me not to have even a single female friend. I don't mean colleagues oo. Chai I have lost all female friends and blocked them on social media because of her

Trouble dey sleep....yanga wan wake am

flokii:


Oga keep quiet if you have nothing sensible to say.. marriage is not bondage that one woman will come and alienate you from your friends be it male or female.

If any of my friend who is a guy should do what this OP did, I will cut him off sharp sharp. I hate Simps.

Common, stop adding madness to your irregularity

Why?