Rosement:
Respect is very important in a relationship, how can a guy give gift to a lady in exchange for sex, he was passing out an information to the lady but she did not get the hint, is it not prostitutes that get paid for sex?

This is why we ladies have to observe any guy that approach us before accepting to date them. Don't be blinded by money, some guys are not psychologically okay.

some ladies are accepting nonsense from their guys now but after marriage they will become feminists and start demanding the respect they can never earn. If you want your guy to respect you, this is the time to earn the respect. If you allow him to treat you bad now because of what you want from him, he will treat you worse in the future and by then, it will be too late for you to correct it. If you feel your guy does not respect you, it is better for you broke up with him before it is too late, if you don't, you will regret it later because you will end up not enjoying your relationship and his money will later become worthless to you, by then you will prefer your peace of mind.

Some guys don't need a real relationship, what they need is a lady that we play the role of a prostitute. As a lady, you have to think properly before you accept some type of gifts from guys, it is better to live in a hut and eat what you have while you are waiting for God to bless you than to allow somebody belittle you.

bigpicture001:


Stop all this advice stuff.. even you can never date a struggling very good guy( in all indexes)
Una too like money of reason...every girl carry ein cross jare

southniyikaye:
he booked the vacation, and he decided to cancel it... His money, his choice, his decision...
Stop trying to look annoying, I don't want to use derogatory words but have been noticing your comments for a while, they don't look like that of an intelligent someone

bigcasava1:
mumu girl, she thought she going there to see Jesus. She doesn't want to contaminate herself. Let her come back and stay with us here! Mumu girl!

KosiGee:


I think you lied about the identity and nationality of the man. I bet he is from East Africa probably Kenya, Uganda or Tanzania.

They are the ones that call Caucasians Mzungu.

Iyaebe:
Do I look like I'm here to impress this crypto yahoo boys on nairaland? I don't even check my comments before posting them because its a waste of time trying to impress this Internet fraudsters calling themselves crypto traders littered all over nairaland

rayopt:
It is today I know that NL's niggas wey dey form alpha are real broke. I mean, just imagine the comments I dey see for front.

The man is right in every sense to spend his money how he likes. And I am putting emphasis on his money because you won't know how that feels until you have yours too blow as you like too.

The only thing that made me lose respect for him is how he is broadcasting about online. But, I guess he wanted full revenge anyway.

Mercychen:
When will ladies ever have Sense?

Even with all the news of ritual killings and chidinmas case still in and out of court, some ladies are still following men to hotels.. SMH.

Now you got there and started forming what exactly?
Should I call it decency or chastity? Dumb!

If the man was high on some hard substance and tried to force himself on her; she too fights back and kills him or ends up being killed, what will she explain? That she was forced down to the place?

Rosement:
Respect is very important in a relationship, how can a guy give gift to a lady in exchange for sex, he was passing out an information to the lady but she did not get the hint, is it not prostitutes that get paid for sex? This is why we ladies have to observe any guy that approach us before accepting to date them. Don't be blinded by money, some guys are not psychologically okay.

Some ladies are accepting nonsense from their guys now but after marriage they will become feminists and start demanding the respect they can never earn. If you want your guy to respect you, this is the time to earn the respect. If you allow him to treat you bad now because of what you want from him, he will treat you worse in the future and by then, it will be too late for you to correct it. If you feel your guy does not respect you, it is better for you broke up with him before it is too late, if you don't, you will regret it later because you will end up not enjoying your relationship and his money will later become worthless to you, by then you will prefer your peace of mind.

Some guys don't need a real relationship, what they need is a lady that we play the role of a prostitute. As a lady, you have to think properly before you accept some type of gifts from guys, it is better to live in a hut and eat what you have while you are waiting for God to bless you than to allow somebody belittle you.

greenprince:


Unfortunately they won't think like this. They'd say you're blaming the victim.

southniyikaye:
you sound incoherent. what am insinuating is totally different from your reply..

Let me give it to you in a lay man's term.
For a man to take a woman out for a date, everyone knows where it will end..
For a man to now take a woman on an expense paid trip abroad c'mon, unless that woman doesn't have a brain, or she wants to fool her self which this particular one did, she knows something must go down...
We've left the world of something goes for nothing behind, let's be sincere with ourselves

CuriousMynd:
A Nigerian man has revealed what she did to a lady whom he flew out of the country for a vacation in another country, Igbere TV reports.

On Twitter, the man identified as Mullah said he paid for the lady's flight and booked a hotel for them to stay in while they enjoy their vacation. However, when the said lady wouldn't sleep with him in the same bed, he had to fast forward the lady's return to


That is the trouble with most of them female folks, they like starting what they can not finish. And when the table turns they cry fowl

https://twitter.com/MullahCo/status/1458896477523165185

What do you think about this whole situation?

Iyaebe:
As long as there was no agreement, she can sue him and claim damages,your statement does not hold waters in the court of law and in a sanner clime he'll be prosecuted. Stop trying to program her brain for her by saying she knows something must go down. That's why I continue to say almost 80% of modern African men are rapist and potential rapist as the case may be because they assume it should be sex once you step into their rooom

CuriousMynd:
A Nigerian man has revealed what she did to a lady whom he flew out of the country for a vacation in another country, Igbere TV reports.

On Twitter, the man identified as Mullah said he paid for the lady's flight and booked a hotel for them to stay in while they enjoy their vacation. However, when the said lady wouldn't sleep with him in the same bed, he had to fast forward the lady's return to the country.

Read the full gist;

https://twitter.com/MullahCo/status/1458896477523165185

What do you think about this whole situation?

southniyikaye:
the day you said Iyaebe mean head of a group, I know you ain't yoruba cos head of a group mean iyaegbe or oloriegbe..
But I will leave you with this short yoruba proverb..
Oun ti o ko ba ni je MA fi run mu

Jman06:
You have no sense for tagging people broke just because they don't subscribe to wasteful spending of money on something as useless as a woman's pusszy. If you check well, that guy might not have got any investments anywhere but just stumbled on some undeserved funds he's throwing away!

MJBOLT:

the man is the foolish person here.
The man spent money on flight tickets and hotel reservations just to have sex he got played by a smart woman,he should hide his face in shame.


A fool and his money are soon parted

slowice:


A whole epistle talking nonsense... Lubbish.

They always want what they can't give... And give what they can't take.... Inglorious bstrds

Iyaebe:
The man is all wrong here,when did paid vacation=sex?was it in their agreement? You can agree to go on a vacation with someone and still not have sex and the man has no right to be angry or forceful about it,it's like asking her to trade her body for the vacation expenses and that is cheap and also an insult.

drnoel:
Nothing like that. He felt he had the money and wanted to spend. Who are U to question how he spends his own money? U have too much time. Go and make Ur own money

okoroemeka:
that is why I believe men will not totally understand how complex women are, something made her to switch off and I also believe that the man may have caused the switch off or it may be the complexity of women hormones,body and behavior at play,instead of chasing her away and abusing her ,the man could have used this opportunity to interact more with the girl to better understand what went wrong,for a girl that was lavished with such goodies to switch off at the point of sex is just pointing to a critical issue,what went wrong?how I wish I was in that room with that girl to better understand and learn what made her to behave is such manner