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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by irunoko(m): 8:45am On Dec 01, 2021
grin
helinues:
grin

Who no sabi the magic behind the disappearance of meat in the mouth
you gerrit? If you don't gerrit forget rabout rit grin

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 8:46am On Dec 01, 2021
Relationship is partnership it's not all about sex
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Freelane33(m): 8:47am On Dec 01, 2021
Body no be firewood

Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:47am On Dec 01, 2021
BluntTheApostle:
I can't answer this question because people have different libido levels.

However, circumstances might cause couples to seperate temporarily.

So, if it happens to you, don't believe that it is impossible to remain faithful to your spouse.

It is very possible, with determination.

Ways to stay faithful if your partner is away for a long time:

1. Masturbation: With your fingers or intimacy gadgets. Or even sex chats with your spouse.

2. Celibacy: Being celibate is not such a hard thing, if you are dedicated. As soon as you are able to get it going, you will soon get used to it. I have been celibate for over 5 years now.


What's your plan for the weekend? Let's hang out. Why will a fine boy like you be celibate? Your scrotal sac will be so full now.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by BigDawsNet: 8:48am On Dec 01, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
I can't even try it and will not advise any female I know to try it. I love sex very much and I am active. Fingering no dey belleful me. Or else I go dey call my EX to come work am.

My friend wey her husband travel for 5 years and returned. She say when the husband been wan nack the local government, the place don close up. I can't try it. Instead of her to find someone to be helping her. And the husband will be cheating like that.


Even if he pay you $3000/m as your salary embarassed
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:49am On Dec 01, 2021
BigDawsNet:



Even if he pay you $3000/m as your salary embarassed

I'll use the money to be paying my sugar boy. After all, he makes me happy.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by mrdino(m): 8:49am On Dec 01, 2021
Calibrator:
As a jonzing guy, I say with all authority that they are the best set of females you can keep as "Friends".




The guyman abroad is already taking care of her finances. All you have to do is turn up with your D and a little care and attention here and there and you got yourself a steady supply of Coochie and Urgent 100ks,200ks and even more depending on how tight your game is
Karma just sent you a friend request, you may check your inbox and click the accept button.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Bimpe29: 8:49am On Dec 01, 2021
Out of 10 spouses whose partners are residing in different countries/cities, only 2 are arguably faithful. Distant marriage is mostly vulnerable to infidelity and unfaithfulness.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by CanadaOrBust: 8:50am On Dec 01, 2021
BABANGBALI:
Na babe o, she beautiful well well I swear

Na lie. He’s a man. I just checked. See this:

Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by coolh3ad(m): 8:50am On Dec 01, 2021
ednut1:
Both parties find ways to find alternatives na. And there are some who don’t have high libido and are faithful

Exactly!.. Faithful ladies still dey na.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Kingstanding: 8:51am On Dec 01, 2021
Iamdipson:


True talk
The day you mistakenly born girl like Okonjo Iweala, Oby Ezekwesili,Funsho Alakija, Serena Williams, Venus Williams, Queen Elizabeth of England and many more of notable women, you will just throwed her in dustbin, isn't? Useless talk from useless future father. Africa mentality.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by BigDawsNet: 8:51am On Dec 01, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:


I'll use the money to be paying my sugar boy. After all, he makes me happy.

Quickly delete this comment now.
You future husband may be reading them now lipsrsealed
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:51am On Dec 01, 2021
BigDawsNet:


Quickly delete this comment now.
You future husband may be reading them now lipsrsealed

My future husband is on my bed with me reading this post.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by InvertedHammer: 8:51am On Dec 01, 2021
Awkabigboy:
How do spouses whose partners live abroad cope sexually?

I have a neighbour, her spouse is in Europe and came back after 5 straight years to see the wife and the kids this year.

How do they do this? Are they really faithful to themselves?
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You must understand that some people marry for love while some people marry to procreate. Without being judgmental, your goal should be to mind your business. The two individuals in the relationship know how they "sort" themselves out.
There are many single ladies out there who cannot even find a husband.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Naijaolosho2: 8:53am On Dec 01, 2021
ednut1:
Both parties find ways to find alternatives na. And there are some who don’t have high libido and are faithful

To be honest this looks impossible.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by BigDawsNet: 8:54am On Dec 01, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:


My future husband is on my bed with me reading this post.


Are you guys engaged?
Confirm the ring first cool
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Oceanblaze(m): 8:55am On Dec 01, 2021
Searchingvictor:
If U sabi any woman wey her husband dey yankee. Connect me to her
Wetin you wan use her do?
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by BABANGBALI: 9:02am On Dec 01, 2021
mu2sa2:
That's typical of yoloba, highly cunny and deceptive people.
they are better than your race, that is known for crimes
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Jeezuzpick(m): 9:02am On Dec 01, 2021
CanadaOrBust:


Does that include men married to 4 wives? If not, then why not one wife abroad? Just asking

So you think polygamists don't have sidechicks?

In any case, I am sure wives in polygamic homes don't see their husbands having other wives as infidelity. They are all his wives and they came knowing he has other wives.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:02am On Dec 01, 2021
BigDawsNet:



Are you guys engaged?
Confirm the ring first cool

He has done small thing on my head.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Myexdisturbs: 9:02am On Dec 01, 2021
Bennysam:

Those abroad guys know all this things that's why they marry for the marriage sake. I have been there i know all these. I'm traveling back to my base this January, immediately i travel back whatever my wife does is none of my business
Meaning u have someone u cheat with as well, its just natural its not your business what she does since u both are deceiving yourself and doing same thing cheesy wink

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by BABANGBALI: 9:03am On Dec 01, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:


My future husband is on my bed with me reading this post.
he tie towel?
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Jeezuzpick(m): 9:04am On Dec 01, 2021
Naijaolosho2:


To be honest this looks impossible.

It's not.

Some people need sex less as they have less sex. Some can't stop thinking about it.

People are just different. The key is to avoid situations where your weakness is site tested.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Jeezuzpick(m): 9:04am On Dec 01, 2021
Naijaolosho2:


To be honest this looks impossible.

It's not.

Some people need sex less as they have less sex. Some can't stop thinking about it.

People are just different. The key is to avoid situations where your weakness is sore tested.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Myexdisturbs: 9:05am On Dec 01, 2021
Fescoblack:
See for me oo, I no mind of them bang her well well whilst I am away, na her palavar. For me I just want to travel , explore, give my children the best of exposure and be rich. I will travel well well and leave my wife behind. Toto is not the ultimate thing in life.
Poor mindset of a poor church rat who hasn't seen life cheesy embarassed

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by BABANGBALI: 9:05am On Dec 01, 2021
CanadaOrBust:


Na lie. He’s a man. I just checked. See this:
confirm it from lalasticlala our class prefect
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Kog45(m): 9:06am On Dec 01, 2021
Lalami3232:
grin I pity you as a man wey leave your spouse for 9ja and travel go abroad, you just be like person wey plant corn by the roadside grin grin. On no condition should you ever leave your spouse in 9ja, no ever try am atall because you don give free food to friends/community and street urchins. Even the woman wey you dey live with for house still dey carry another man pikin to give to you, talkless of say you leave her at the mercies of people. Women dey always claim say dem no like sex and fit control body, my dear na lie ooooo. Deep down, dem want their engines to be serviced regularly and greesed thoroughly grin.
Never make the mistake of leaving ur spouse for 9ja while you travel for long, I don warn you finish. Pu*sy no be like WhatsApp wey get "LAST SEEN", so u no fit know if dem dey cheat but 99.9999% of the time, one guy dey drill her oil on a regular basis.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again " The day I go mistakenly born girl pikin eeh, I go *********** "
Guys don pass all these your reasonings and your last paragraph summed it all ""THE DAY U GO MISTAKENLY BORN GIRL PIKIN eeh, I go"" guys wey dey think like this na depression,hypertension and stroke o....pls my man free your mind o.

Check it out.....I have seen married as a virgin turning to cheats....I have seen not virgin but turning to most faithful wife....koko be say if you want to free from woman palaver better to stay out of marriage.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Fescoblack(m): 9:09am On Dec 01, 2021
Myexdisturbs:

Poor mindset of a poor church rat who hasn't seen life cheesy embarassed
Sorry rich mindset of rich private jet owner!

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by MorningStar233: 9:09am On Dec 01, 2021
JooEeL:
Many cheat but some are faithful. It's not even about traveling abroad. There are certain times spouses move to diffferent parts of the country for years just for greener pastures. Even within that same country. Nigeria is very big. They may see only once in a year like Christmas or New Year... so how do they cope for the remaining parts of the year? It always happens to most families. There will always be a time you will separate from your wife or husband. So what will you now do? How do you trust? It will affect almost every marriage at some point.

Some do come down from time to time.

Others masturbate more often and do video chats with their spouses.

There are still faithful men and women albeit few.

And they say masturbation is a sin...wahala no dey finish

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