Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions.

I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance I saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, I picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers.

We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when I saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel.

Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.

How do I get this guilt off me?

confess to ur wife n her husband am sure u will be fine las las.. trust me, if u do dis u will never cheat in ur life again. come! make nobody quote me again, give ur own advice leave me.

"Boom" U do.

Boom! also and end it.

Joeblazeochola:
confess to ur wife n her husband am sure u will be fine las las..

really difficult sir because her husband will definitely send her out of the house after physically abusing her with beatings, he also know where i work and will certainly report this in my office and i'm sure to loose my job.

This is what I will do if I were in your shoes.

For peace to reign in your family and hers, you must accept the guilt never to repeat it again. Yes, your wife may never trust you again if she finds out. The woman's husband will definitely send her packing...the odds are high. You both may lose the happiness you have both worked for many years cos of minutes of illegitimate fun.

I am moved to understand you are repentant.

Action plan:
• Delist every contact of hers you have.
• You must learn to also take your eyes off other women...no hangouts, no flirting, no wooing, no friendships...your wife should be your friend, your crush, your everything. Personally, I do not see any reason to keep female friends while married.
• Learn to shun bad things you wouldn't tolerate if your wife did them.
• Ask God for forgiveness... genuine repentance will help you.
• If you have a circle of friends who see nothing bad with it, or who cheat on their wives, cut them off. They are not your friends! They are demons looking so nice!

The harm has been done. You'll have to live with it forever..but you must learn not to repeat it ever again.

He who finds a wife finds a beautiful thing.

Op what is done is done , going forward delete her no and desist from seeing her to kill that wrong relationship else if you continue soon you wunt be able to feel guilty anymore cos you wud av started enjoying it .

First of all,I believe no man is infallible..At a certain stage in our lives, we've all made one mistake or the other......But the most important thing is that we shouldn't allow those mistakes to weigh us down..

Op,So long you've set your mind to purpose not to repeat that mistake again,no problem.....

Las las, another man wife no suppose thrill guyman...The moment she tells you she's married and even with kids, guyman no suppose collect her control....Any ways, it's well with your soul, op

Rtk5:
really difficult sir because her husband will definitely send her out of the house after physically abusing her with beatings, he also know where i work and will certainly report this in my office and i'm sure to loose my job.

This is new,
Nigerian man is seriously feeling guilty after adultery...

..at least it’s a good thing you are feeling guilty and not feeling like cool for bedding another man’s wife


U go dey alright las las...

Fragile weak men everywhere nowadays.
u chatted her with amorous intent and u dint feel bad....when u sliding in, u dint feel bad...when u were thrusting in and out, u dint remember ur wife or her hubby....u continued with all vehemence and alacrity.
When u ejaculated u felt so high like in cloud 9 and u looked up to heaven to savor the ecstacy
.
After u don nut, like 24 hrs later, u are coming here to form one moral person when u had all the time in the world to stop it....
.
u dey craze.. no be me u go use catch cruise...Weak goat

Rtk5:
Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions. I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance i saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, i picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers. We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when i saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel. Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact i couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil. How do i get this guilt off me.

this is interesting and confusing at the same time,the action is premeditated because you planned and went to a hotel for sex obviously and later had remorse over your actions,do not confess to anyone and expect forgiveness without a backlash,your remorseful nature proves that you still have some control over your emotions but the true test will come because she will not let go,she will try to have another encounter especially if you nacked her very well,that is were you will stand firm and say no,she will try every trick to get you back and that is the true test of a man ability to stand by his decision and say no to what he believes is wrong.

i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference.

You bin just wan add the man wife to your list..
Well-done..and expect karma..

Kuriosmynd:
Fragile weak men everywhere nowadays.
u chatted her with amorous intent and u dint feel bad....when u sliding in, u dint feel bad...when u were thrusting in and out, u dint remember ur wife or her hubby....
When u ejaculated u felt so high like in cloud 9.
.
After u don nut, like 24 hrs later, u are coming here to form one moral person when u had all the time in the world to stop it....
.
u dey craze.. no be me u go use catch cruise...Weak goat

Lmaooo. This is hilarious.

Anyway, it's not me the OP wee use to catch cruise too. Fiction writers everywhere.

SO, WHEN YOU DEY KNACK HER, YOU KNOW KNOW SAY NA EVIL THING YOU DEY DO, NA AFTER YOU FINISH YOU CON KNOW.
AND I SURE SAY U NO TELL HER SAY U KNOW HER HUSBAND.
SHAMELESS PEOPLE EVERYWHERE.

Op when you been dey nack in and out, your conscience no disturb you, well i have nothing much to say other than, go and sin no more

Magnoliaa:


Lmaooo. This is hilarious.

Anyway, it's not me the OP wee use to catch cruise too. Fiction writers everywhere.

common quiet your mouth,
you smelling hoè knows that ain't fiction but the truth.
nigeria housewife's are useless.

not to talk of single ones like you, when don dey reach menopause tueeh.

you are all useless

Joeblazeochola:
confess to ur wife n her husband am sure u will be fine las las..

What manner of advise is this.. E easy make you tell person say you Bleep him wife?

Joeblazeochola:
confess to ur wife n her husband am sure u will be fine las las..

Suicide mission

OP, never, never, never, I repeat never tell your wife you cheated on her, E geh why

Chai !!! Where is mosdii

Once a cheater, always a cheater

BlaqJosh:
Chai !!! Where is mosdii

I reported him to nairaland moderators for violating rule 2

Beebah2000:
SO, WHEN YOU DEY KNACK HER, YOU KNOW KNOW SAY NA EVIL THING YOU DEY DO, NA AFTER YOU FINISH YOU CON KNOW.
AND I SURE SAY U NO TELL HER SAY U KNOW HER HUSBAND.
SHAMELESS PEOPLE EVERYWHERE.

He was thinking with his stick then

I pity the foolish woman flirting around, she doesn't pity her kids and the husband. You did it intentionally so no excuses, stop looking for cheap publicity. That is how plenty men will be sleeping with any woman in your life

Make a resolve not to cheat on your wifey AGAIN.

Love her and keep this promise,,, you'll soon forget about the encounter

Person wife dey freak u?

Olunmercy56:
I pity the foolish woman flirting around, she doesn't pity her kids and the husband. You did it intentionally so no excuses, stop looking for cheap publicity. That is how plenty men will be sleeping with any woman in your life

people like you i know very well, hypocrite. Pot calling kettle black.

It has been part of u. U will still do it again & u will still seek for solution.
Mark my word.

Bombshell!!!!

After enjoying another man kpekus, you are here asking us what to do. Did you consult us before tearing a married woman's pussy. Get the fucck out of here and go fucck yourself. I wish her husband will find out and fucck you up too. Idiot

KiNg0G:

common quiet your mouth,
you smelling hoè knows that ain't fiction but the truth.
nigeria housewife's are useless.

not to talk of single ones like you, when don dey reach menopause tueeh.

you are all useless

E pain am
so the one that is narrating the story is useful
I swear e sweet me say there is no good girl again in Nigeria
Go and meet your useful foreign babes