| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by FourElements: 7:39pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
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| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by vickydevoka(m): 8:18pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
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| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Imansportzcasmi: 8:21pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Leave with the guilt....never u confess |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by afrika(f): 8:58pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Lemme ask two questions before the advise.
1. U knew she was married and u needed a secret place to meet, what was ur intention before the finding the secret home?
2. Having known she had 3 kids and imagined her kpekus is no more as fresh as a youngster, was ur motive to explore d more or give her a 4th child??
Anyways, confess to your wife and allow ur heart feel lighter. Buy ur wife something very expensive and break the news.
If u decide to keep this to urself, u may repeat it at evil times when u feel lonely, vexed or depressed.
OR better still tell a clergy man to advise ur wife on it.
My advise is only mine o do not copy. I repeat, do not copy |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Amwitty(f): 9:15pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Rtk5:
really difficult sir because her husband will definitely send her out of the house after physically abusing her with beatings, he also know where i work and will certainly report this in my office and i'm sure to loose my job. so why did you not think of all this before indulging in it. First and foremost ask God for forgiveness and pray for the holy spirit to guide you on what to do next trust me He alone can help you now at this juncture. It's well with you |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by DeGLORIOUS: 9:20pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Before you knew it  Guy, you stupid die. So you arranged meeting with a woman in a hotel without knowing that sex will be involved? and before you knew it, boom you swimmed. Allah you stupid 1 Like |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by SoapQueen(f): 9:23pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Rtk5:
Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions.
I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance I saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, I picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers.
We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when I saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel.
Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.
How do I get this guilt off me? The stupid scam and sham called marriage. How you people go into something that you cannot respect keeps me bemused and confused. Mtshewww |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Shine04: 9:28pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Rtk5:
Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions.
I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance I saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, I picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers.
We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when I saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel.
Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.
How do I get this guilt off me? |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by chaloskyx: 9:29pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
GO AND TELL HER HUSBAND WHAT YOU HAVE DONE AND TAKE WHAT EVER PUNISHMENT THAT COMES YOUR WAY THEN WILL YOU KNOW PEACE USELESS MAN |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Bamzyriches451: 9:51pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Ogbeni OP! You don collect be say you don collect, just try dey stay away from the woman, avoid her totally cuz if not una go still dey do am steady e go con the sweet both of una and before una know boom!! Belle don enter. |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Epher: 9:52pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Rtk5:
Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions.
I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance I saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, I picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers.
We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when I saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel.
Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.
How do I get this guilt off me? There are two phases to this. 1) You have a missing part that got resuscitated when you met her or you are attracted to her because of something. I think you're sapiosexual since you said your chat was interesting, meaning she awed You. Solution to this? Sit down and analyse what is missing, if it's the attraction to your wife, find ways to wake it up, watch videos on strengthening love on YouTube, put in the action. 2) You have to distract your mind right now, you can't confess to anyone. Not your wife, not Her husband, not your pastor. If you must, probably take a trip to another state, check out their fun places like waterfall etc. Telling anyone will lead to bad events for both of you. You will lose your marriage, she will lose hers, you will lose respect in the society. |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Ziniora: 10:04pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Rtk5:
Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions.
I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance I saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, I picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers.
We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when I saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel.
Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.
How do I get this guilt off me? Bro this is not guilt, if she books that same room for another rendezvous you won’t waste time to run there with your instrument of destruction for plenty more rounds, all I wish is that your wife is also cheating on you with multiple men not just one. Have fun brother YOLO. |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Munzy14(m): 10:06pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
chatinent:
This is what I will do if I were in your shoes.
For peace to reign in your family and hers, you must accept the guilt never to repeat it again. Yes, your wife may never trust you again if she finds out. The woman's husband will definitely send her packing...the odds are high. You both may lose the happiness you have both worked for many years cos of minutes of illegitimate fun.
I am moved to understand you are repentant.
Action plan:
• Delist every contact of hers you have.
• You must learn to also take your eyes off other women...no hangouts, no flirting, no wooing, no friendships...your wife should be your friend, your crush, your everything. Personally, I do not see any reason to keep female friends while married.
• Learn to shun bad things you wouldn't tolerate if your wife did them.
• Ask God for forgiveness... genuine repentance will help you.
• If you have a circle of friends who see nothing bad with it, or who cheat on their wives, cut them off. They are not your friends! They are demons looking so nice!
The harm has been done. You'll have to live with it forever..but you must learn not to repeat it ever again.
He who finds a wife finds a beautiful thing. Chati my guy you tried with the advise...But see, if the sex was good, forget it...OP will go back for more or she will guilt trip him for more.. Now when there partners play hard with sex, they both know where to get it.... Mouth wey don chop, don commit like this. These things must be avoided from onset....One mistake, too many follows. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Munzy14(m): 10:36pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:
First of all,I believe no man is infallible..At a certain stage in our lives, we've all made one mistake or the other......But the most important thing is that we shouldn't allow those mistakes to weigh us down..
Op,So long you've set your mind to purpose not to repeat that mistake again,no problem.....
Las las, another man wife no suppose thrill guyman...The moment she tells you she's married and even with kids, guyman no suppose collect her control....Any ways, it's well with your soul, op  I swear...Very somehow...Even a single lady with kid is no longer appealing to me, not to talk of a married woman with 3kids. Some guys sef. |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Coolgent(m): 1:58am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Rtk5:
Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions.
I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance I saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, I picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers.
We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when I saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel.
Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.
How do I get this guilt off me? Repent but don't confess it to anyone not even your pastor or imam, Avoid fornication otherwise it will destroy u. |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Daxyd4realzy(m): 8:56am On Dec 07, 2021 |
It's well |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Daxyd4realzy(m): 9:07am On Dec 07, 2021 |
Revenge is best served chilled...... |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by ScofieldBello(m): 10:25am On Dec 07, 2021 |
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| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by MATEX30: 10:34am On Dec 07, 2021 |
I dropped a recommendation on my blog, on what the man in this situation can do, and how to avoid such a pitfall next time; You can read it here; https://sportafriq.com/see-reasons-why-you-should-flee-from-sexual-immorality-and-adultery/The devil excel when you are in quietness and secrecy, but when you expose him, you destroy his work over you, that is exactly the situation in this case. May God grant you wisdom and GRACE to live right henceforth in Jesus name, amen. |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by ScofieldBello(m): 11:37am On Dec 07, 2021 |
...and we had to drag Devil into this mess?! We are just so irresponsible that we always have to blame someone, and most times Uncle Devil. MATEX30:
I dropped a recommendation on my blog, on what the man in this situation can do, and how to avoid such a pitfall next time;
You can read it here; https://sportafriq.com/see-reasons-why-you-should-flee-from-sexual-immorality-and-adultery/
The devil excel when you are in quietness and secrecy, but when you expose him, you destroy his work over you, that is exactly the situation in this case.
May God grant you wisdom and GRACE to live right henceforth in Jesus name, amen. |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by hollagokay(m): 11:52am On Dec 07, 2021 |
you are an intelligent individual. was only messing with the poster so that he can receive some beating from the hubby for his senselessness. your advice for him is still the best. Ikem11:
No its not. Breaking another man's home will be the worst mistake he can ever make.
Let him call the woman and tell her his conscience and cut every ties with her. Go to his wife and confess he slept with another man's wife and ask her for forgiveness.
Go to God and make peace with his mind
What the woman do with her husband and how she handles it from there isn't his problem.
Same advice goes to the woman |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by GetMeRight: 12:58pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
Joeblazeochola:
confess to ur wife n her husband am sure u will be fine las las.. trust me, if u do dis u will never cheat in ur life again. come! make nobody quote me again, give ur own advice leave me. Lol. Most especially if the other man send killers after him. Rtk5:
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Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.
How do I get this guilt off me? Go and tell her husband then. Lol |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Laideabdulahi: 6:23pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Cerebellum:
OP, never, never, never, I repeat never tell your wife you cheated on her, E geh why True talk |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Lugianostar(m): 6:21am On Dec 18, 2021 |
Married Ashawo kobo kobo  ?? You guys are morally bankrupt and was thinking towards what you did. May God forgive you both ? |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Rinoxy: 5:31am On Dec 29, 2021 |
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| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Map1(m): 5:55am On Dec 29, 2021 |
Rtk5:
Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions.
I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance I saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, I picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers.
We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when I saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel.
Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.
How do I get this guilt off me? it just a pity a Man who could not keep a secret like you still exist,My Brother you kill no one and dont ever make any attempt to reveal what happened between both of you to anyone,be a Man enough to keep your mouth and my advice for you is just reduced the tempo |
| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by Aboks(m): 7:00am On Dec 29, 2021 |
Kuriosmynd:
Fragile weak men everywhere nowadays.
u chatted her with amorous intent and u dint feel bad....when u sliding in, u dint feel bad...when u were thrusting in and out, u dint remember ur wife or her hubby....u continued with all vehemence and alacrity.
When u ejaculated u felt so high like in cloud 9 and u looked up to heaven to savor the ecstacy
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After u don nut, like 24 hrs later, u are coming here to form one moral person when u had all the time in the world to stop it....
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u dey craze.. no be me u go use catch cruise...Weak goat 
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| Re: What A Mess! I Slept With A Married Woman In A Hotel by BluntCrazeMan: 5:10pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
Rtk5:
Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions.
I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance I saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, I picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers.
We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when I saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel.
Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.
How do I get this guilt off me? .. .. GUY GIVE US UPDATE...
YOU GUYS bleeped AGAIN, SHEEYY.. .. |
