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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Nobody: 10:37am On Dec 10, 2021
Wait o! And she's still in your house...for what exactly

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by FuckDModz: 10:37am On Dec 10, 2021
And bathroom sex dey sweet die.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by tonididdy(m): 10:37am On Dec 10, 2021
DroppingLiquid:
If truly the guy came with his girlfriend why did she need to lie in the first place? And why would she allow a guy to bang his girlfriend in a house that’s not hers?

This is the first time I’m hearing this one ohh. vagina people no go kill us.
Honestly when I got to that part... I burst into laughter, that Ukrainian biatch is a master of the game.

I doff my hat for her.... See plot twist, even nollywood nor think this far.


Wtf...... grin

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Elidrisy20: 10:37am On Dec 10, 2021
Just pick it up and move on, you to, you no dey f***k?
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by uptownemmygee(m): 10:38am On Dec 10, 2021
oyoirabor:
They bleeped your girlfriend with cheap condom...Gold circle!!! congratulations!!!!

Nah the condom dey vex me pass
#100 gold circle.
And this broz dey wait for explanation

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by TonyBby: 10:38am On Dec 10, 2021
She's for the streets �✝️

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Nyanabo(m): 10:39am On Dec 10, 2021
To save yourself from more bigger problems in the future (if it eventually becomes serious to lead to marriage) tell her to leave you house before you get back. Seems she is a prostitute over there in Ukraine.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by VULCAN(m): 10:40am On Dec 10, 2021
Those calling you SIMP are not doing so because your GF banged a neighbour in your bathroom.

That can even happen to a certified Red Piller

They are calling you SIMP because you had the guts to type the words below:


A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore


A man that types the above is a certified SIMP. No Nairaland girl except for Iyaebe would be happy if their brother typed those words.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by KAYVIA: 10:40am On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:


Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.

Your girlfriend got banged right inside your house. You don't need to waste your time figuring out this simple fact.

Kick her out before you end up miserable.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by TOPCRUISE(m): 10:40am On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.
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You are seeking for advise.
Maybe you left the part that you allowed your girlfriend to bring couples into your house to have sex and use as an hotel.
It's left to you to dodge a bullet or to accept a bullet that will later kill you.
It is left to you to embrace and marry a red flag or to avoid it. sad

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by remitarich(f): 10:41am On Dec 10, 2021
not alll please use some
PUSSYHOE:
Mtcheeeeech na normal thing now all girls of this generation are prostitutes. This one is small marry her and see the full whore_.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Zeel007: 10:42am On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.
don't move on with her, imagine someone that just came back into the country doing all that. My guy don't marry her, move on with your life

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Nobody: 10:42am On Dec 10, 2021
She's a very loose hoe and has no respect for u. U should run for ur dear life of this story is true.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by ugotaya: 10:42am On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.


OP, what advise do you need again? my advise for you is to open you eyes wide and see A USED CONDOM.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by marsup: 10:42am On Dec 10, 2021
Gold circle..... grin.
Haven't seen that in a while.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Nobody: 10:43am On Dec 10, 2021
Why would the condom be put in an obvious place? Think through brother

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by remitarich(f): 10:43am On Dec 10, 2021
not alll please use some
PUSSYHOE:
Mtcheeeeech na normal thing now all girls of this generation are prostitutes. This one is small marry her and see the full whore_.
[b][/b]

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Zeel007: 10:43am On Dec 10, 2021
DroppingLiquid:
If truly the guy came with his girlfriend why did she need to lie in the first place? And why would she allow a guy to bang his girlfriend in a house that’s not hers?

This is the first time I’m hearing this one ohh. vagina people no go kill us.
he didn't leave with the girlfriend. And I guess no sane man will do that in another man's house
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by BarrElChapo(m): 10:44am On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.

If the guy came with his girlfriend to your house is enough disrespect to end the relationship but I guess we both know the truth, she is the girlfriend.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Nobody: 10:44am On Dec 10, 2021
Were you not informed she is our girlfriend and not your girlfriend. grin grin grin girls ain't loyal even wives too.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by uptownemmygee(m): 10:44am On Dec 10, 2021
BadRadio:
Yours is easy.... my girlfriend is 3 weeks pregnant for a guy she met on facebook... now she wants me to help her with some money to remove it. Imagine !!!grin


Wahala no dey finish my guygrin

Baba your own worst
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Brownshoe: 10:44am On Dec 10, 2021
I know Remi my ex could do that, so i believe the op story, there are some girls who can do that.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by gidado14(m): 10:45am On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.
YOU sef you sure say you no de with another woman or have been f**king another gurl?

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by SKYHIGHfx: 10:45am On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.

Watch warroom

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Carot: 10:45am On Dec 10, 2021
Differentiate:

Even the luv don't give her a 100% who knows she might fake the one she have towards you..
that is why i sleep around. I can't trust any girl
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by InvertedHammer: 10:45am On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.
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I believe her.

I think the guy came with his girlfriend who coincidentally happens to be her. God works in a mysterious ways. He just gave you an open revelation to avoid future heartbreak. Yet in your infinite simpism, you are considering forgiveness. Some of you are irredeemable. So go ahead and marry her. She is your cross to bear.

/

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by manchinKY(m): 10:45am On Dec 10, 2021
PUSSYHOE:
Mtcheeeeech na normal thing now all girls of this generation are prostitutes. This one is small marry her and see the full whore_.
shey u know say if u get sister(s) men say them be hoe or ashawo kobo kobo too?
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by samonak(m): 10:45am On Dec 10, 2021
Op , from the little I can grasp from the write up, you strike me as the gentle, compassionate ( For the mere fact that you didn't throw a tantrum or cause a scene when u saw the condom, proves a lot) and trusting type who hates confrontation or strife. This attributes will make it even harder for u to break up with her. So I'll suggest your break up with her in a coded and very subtle way. First you have make her believe all is well and you bought into her lie. Try as much as much as possible to get her stuff out of your house, change the locks and tell her you'll be out of town for a month. Blacklist her line and gradually get over her. She's not trust worthy and the earlier you let that sink in, the better for you. Even if it was true that another guy brought his girl to your crib to lash, would you still trust someone who'll allow that kind of Nonsense? Guy better MAN up and leave her ass.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by showafrica(m): 10:45am On Dec 10, 2021
posty56:
they don straff your girlfriend grin grin wetin no good, but come oo, why be say na gateman, mechanic, plumber they always do the straffing for big men

They have more energy and always available. Big man no get time and too much sitting writing, attending to people makes them weak in bed except the ones that knows importance of gym. However, if you are rich, you will hardly have time for your babe or wife. I tell people, the best riches are the ones you make from home.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Newboss(m): 10:46am On Dec 10, 2021
Girl wey you suppose don discharge since.

Simping get levels abeg

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by nedekid: 10:46am On Dec 10, 2021
You have not married her and this is happening. When you marry nko?
Her gym man, petrol attendant, old school mates, uncle etc will be bringing girlfriend to your house grin

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by izibili44: 10:46am On Dec 10, 2021
My brother run far. Before you get Bp.

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