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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by MartinsD12(m): 11:46am On Dec 10, 2021
PUSSYHOE:
Mtcheeeeech na normal thing now all girls of this generation are prostitutes. This one is small marry her and see the full whore_.
It's too damn disappointing the way girls of these generation are too loose, they have sex at any given moment and pretend like nothing happened

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Keniwit(m): 11:46am On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.

Even if i advice you nw,you will still do what's on your mind ....I will just say she just cheated on you and also lied to you Abt d guy identity.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Ofadaman(m): 11:47am On Dec 10, 2021
Lol if you're smart,just take a picture, move out like nothing happened, then return unaccounced at night to catch them red handed. I feel sorry for some guys shaa

Cos even now, I dey lash my neighbor and her bf comes from time to time to visit her and even gives me some of the item he got for her cos I'm the one who helps her move her gen and fix electrical problems as well.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Akerele44(m): 11:48am On Dec 10, 2021
FACT.....na sex bẹ her work for Ukraine.. believe me or nt
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by MartinsD12(m): 11:50am On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.
Mr man what other advice do you need , your GF is a very loose one , not far from being a prostitute, better run for your life , any girl that can be that loose will give you STD easily.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by jayice(m): 11:50am On Dec 10, 2021
You just got saved from the future heartbreak that DNA would give you...the harsh truth is that one or two of ur neighbors knows what u just got to know.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by fredoooooo: 11:52am On Dec 10, 2021
Welcome to the real World and not the usual fake World love use to preach .. you can as well remain in that love stupid World and continue with the relationship o .. Nonsense and Radarada.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Nobody: 11:53am On Dec 10, 2021
Mrkumareze:
shocked


If this isn't a fiction, that guy that helped her carry the gen enjoyed with her in the bathroom. Didn't you satisfy her before you left?
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by AyeMoJuba: 11:53am On Dec 10, 2021
BadRadio:
Yours is easy.... my girlfriend is 3 weeks pregnant for a guy she met on facebook... now she wants me to help her with some money to remove it. Imagine !!!grin


Wahala no dey finish my guygrin

Hàaaaaaa! You guys too dey watch Nollywood joo...how can this happen in real life?
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by AyeMoJuba: 11:57am On Dec 10, 2021
Ninisun:



If this isn't a fiction, that guy that helped her carry the gen enjoyed with her in the bathroom. Didn't you satisfy her before you left?

See question o!
So even if he no satisfy her,the next best thing is to bring in another guy?...and inside they boyfriends bathroom?
Na wha o
But dem never born the woman that would try this with me sha and I'm certain she no go ever find her way into this world.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by charlesdinho7(m): 11:58am On Dec 10, 2021
them don Bleep your girlfriend
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by slex(m): 11:59am On Dec 10, 2021
@willywonda

From Ukraine? Forget it. She don bang Taya for there.

I lived there so I know what I'm. Saying

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Macgyver1: 12:03pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.

Quit that hoe. Igbo people will say "ora gi otu na ishi" meaning she dey bang another man on top your head. End that relationship brother.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Charliej: 12:04pm On Dec 10, 2021
Brother dem say we move no be for everybody but try move used condom in your bathroom ah ah it's clear now even in your own house she no respect you asides the cheating next will be gateman oh use your head
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by AfroKnight: 12:04pm On Dec 10, 2021
I’m just pissed that she told a stupïd lie.

There are some lies that are like insults. How can she be confident to tell that kind of lie? That means she doesn’t even rate you.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by halfbloodprince(m): 12:05pm On Dec 10, 2021
omoelesa:
Where is mosdii to give us his anthem?

Lifetime ban na. grin
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by walkingshadow911: 12:05pm On Dec 10, 2021
Elidrisy20:
Just pick it up and move on, you to, you no dey f***k?

some of us has refused to accept this present reality. times have change
OP if you believe you are the only one sleeping with your gf becos you are are her bf, u all gon be getting disappointed till jesus come.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by ukandi1(m): 12:06pm On Dec 10, 2021
Kuriosmynd:
dafuq...

I guess the guy came with his girlfriend to act bluefilm in your bathroom cos your girlfriend is a porn film director.
.
dafuq....they couldn't even wait before u leave..chai....women of these days don mad gan o
.


Hahahaha hahahaha........

This makes a lot of sense.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by surequality: 12:06pm On Dec 10, 2021
What kind of advice do you need?
You are seeing something, yet you are looking for candle to search for what you are seeing.
Bros, EVIDENCE needs no ARGUMENT!

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by ukandi1(m): 12:08pm On Dec 10, 2021
walkingshadow911:


some of us has refused to accept this present reality. times have change
OP if you believe you are the only one sleeping with your gf becos you are are her bf, u all gon be getting disappointed till jesus come.

Very simple. Sometimes even a wife isn't any different. 90% of married women

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by halfbloodprince(m): 12:08pm On Dec 10, 2021
Kriss216:

These girls hoe every Thyme.

OmG the fact that many people won’t catch what u did. Brilliant. grin
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by ActuaRise696969: 12:08pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:


Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.

Stop loving that woman cos she has crossed the line. All you should be planning now is how to evict her even with love in your eyes.

Forget the idea of fuccking her for the last time. grin
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by POLYGAMY: 12:09pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:


Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.
KINDLY FORGIVE HER BASE ON SIMPle MAN WEY YOU BE cool
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by iLoveYouToo(m): 12:10pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:


Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.


You’re not a SIMP yet till you forgive and take her back. The ball is in your court. Shey no be Amarisco do you this thing?

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Nipplegodfather: 12:10pm On Dec 10, 2021
So sorry bro,but u r lucky in more ways than one.
First ur woman still uses a condom.
Next the revelation came during Shiloh..... Face ur work n let her leave her life... U WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH for her....
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Biafraaa: 12:12pm On Dec 10, 2021
Not even your wife but girlfriend. someone we don't even know if you have intentions of making your wife in the future. mtcheww
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by worldclass68(m): 12:12pm On Dec 10, 2021
This post just made me vex blocked and deleted one girl like that.... grin grin
Olosho everywhere
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Orpe7(m): 12:13pm On Dec 10, 2021
Zero ur mind now, she no be ur gf
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Monday60655(m): 12:14pm On Dec 10, 2021
They couldn't even get a quality condom to use.
Run for your dear life. should your story be true, if she can have the mind to bang another guy in your matrimonial room when you have not got married to her, she can do undue after marriage.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by dapolaw(m): 12:14pm On Dec 10, 2021
Na even gold circle condom Dem take knack her, cheap girl.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Stanbest7728: 12:16pm On Dec 10, 2021
Bro it's painful but the bitter truth there is that She's a Cheater....Just Move like no break
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Kinzo0917(m): 12:17pm On Dec 10, 2021
THEY SAY THE VOICE OF PEOPLE IS THE VOICE ID GOD.GOD WILL NOT COME DOWN TO YOU PHYSICALLY BUT HE USES HIS CHILDREN. I 100% BELIEVED GOD BROUGHT YOU HOME PURPOSELY TO SEE THE USED CONDOM. IF YOU LIKE FORGIVE HER, IT IS YOUR CROSS TO CARRY. BUT DONT CRY TOMORROW OR BLAME GOD NOR ANYONE BECAUSE GOD HAS PLAYED HIS PARTS BY REVEALING HER TO YOU. THE BALL IS IN YOUR COURT. I WILL JOIN OTHERS BY ADVICING YOU TO RUN FAR AWAY FROM HER. DITCH HER NOW THAT GOD HAS REVEALED IT TO YOU. I WISH YOU THE BEST IN LIFE

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