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So much fun at the wedding. I noticed something. And this is not the first time.

The Bride was just an average looking lady. I don't want to sound rude by saying she is ugly. Despite the heavy makeup, she is still what she is.

But the story is, all her entourage, best lady, bridal train were beautiful straight girls. Her friends are so gorgeous. I kuku mingled with 3 of them exchanged whatsapp numbers. And they are telling me they are single.

I keep asking, why are guys always marrying these average looking girls? Who marries these beauty queens? They are always friends of brides.

Or is it me not getting the gist?

Na why they no serve you jollof

She could be a million times better than her bridesmaids...

It's not about looks alone... I don't know why men are so fixated on the beauty of a woman...

The bride could be smart, have an amazing personality...etc. The perfect partner..

Men tend to 'see'... I think it's dumb. That's why no matter how great their woman is, they would still cheat on her with someone who can't compare... Simply for a fine face, boobs and ass...

One reason I find it so hard to date...

Damnnn niggarrrr

It is not all about beauty..

When your character and the type of person you are is not a threat to a man.....then that man will marry you

Slawormiir 12/12/ 2021

Righteousness2:
If all that makes you marry a lady or guy is Beauty , Handsomeness or 6 Packs, you are in for Long thing. You have Conciously entered One Chance.

Thought you would preach the gospel!

You are a very rude person that lack speech mannerisms

Datboredberry:
She could be a million times better than her bridesmaids...

It's not about looks alone... I don't know why men are so fixated on the beauty of a woman...

The bride could be smart, have an amazing personality...etc. The perfect partner..

Men tend to 'see'... I think it's dumb. That's why no matter how great their woman is, they would still cheat on her with someone who can't compare... Simply for a fine face, boobs and ass...

One reason I find it so hard to date...

Goodplace:
You are a very rude person that lack speech mannerisms

What's your comment gotta do with mine?

I'm rude for typing the truth? I really don't get it...

It is not all about beauty. Marry person wey get sense and give you rest of mind

Goodplace:
You are a very rude person that lack speech mannerisms

Mr how is she rude stop hitting at that gal like that abeg..she stated the pure truth about guys but pride no go allow you admit am..

No one has it a 100%.

Our ability to understand this fact, find a way around whatever deficiencies we notice, and focus on the positives goes a long way at helping us find peace and happiness.

When I'm imperfect, why should I be looking for someone perfect? That'd be an impossible find and an illusion.

Na God arrange am like that.

You don hear this song...?

"A pretty face and bad character"....

Kolewerk....

If you think that marriage is all about marrying the most beautiful girl you can find..

You are in for a lot of heartaches..


Just no rush to Nairaland to disturb us with your Lamentations..

It's because those beautiful girls are feeling entitled... They think their beauty is a ticket to easy and Rossy life that's going to be sponsored by a man they think is going to be lucky to have them.

There are still hot looking ladies that have better character, manners than the ugly or average looking ladies.


The thing is, most average guys innately believe that physically attractive ladies can't make a good wife, so they intentionally date them and leave them to marry the average looking ones.



I wished I can marry 3 more hot ladies with gigantic bombom, flat tummy and straight full legs

proxillin:
So much fun at the wedding. I noticed something. And this is not the first time.

The Bride was just an average looking lady. I don't want to sound rude by saying she is ugly. Despite the heavy makeup, she is still what she is.

But the story is, all her entourage, best lady, bridal train were beautiful straight girls. Her friends are so gorgeous. I kuku mingled with 3 of them exchanged whatsapp numbers. And they are telling me they are single.

I keep asking, why are guys always marrying these average looking girls? Who marries these beauty queens? They are always friends of brides.

Or is it me not getting the gist?

When you're beautiful. It's quite easy to
ignore and not develop the other aspects of your personality.

That's why you meet some people that have funny characters but yet do not realize that they're very toxic to be with.

What you see is different from what the groom sees.

The truth is, most times the guy ( groom) is not always that handsome or facially fine. They prolly would have tried to woo the beautiful ones but the pretty girls, being naturally selective would reject them. This is something I can relate with so I know.

These men after rejection, go after the average "looking" girls who on the other hand wouldn't mind as they too face rejection and have very slim chances of getting a man. therefore would jump at anybody that comes to them for marriage.


The thing with beautiful Ladies like us is, we believe the men will keep coming, so no need to rush as the best is yet to come.

I know of about 10 guys who came for me, they all ended up with average looking ladies. This is not to say it's right to live with such attitude or mindset but it is what it is.

So, it's not totally a case of rejection that keeps the beautiful ones from getting married.

Mercychen:
The truth is, most times the guy ( groom) is not alway that handsome facially. They prolly would have try to woo the beautiful ones but the pretty girls, being naturally selective would reject them. This is something I can relate with so I know.

These men after rejection, go after the average "looking" girls who on the hand wouldn't mind as they too face rejection and have very slim chances of getting a man and would jump at anybody who comes to them for marriage.


The thing with beautiful Ladies like us is, we believe the men will keep coming, so no need to rush as the best is yet to come.

I know of 10 guys who came for me, they all ended up with average looking ladies. This is not to say it's right to live with such attitude or mindset but it is what it is.

So, it's not totally a case of rejection that keeps the beautiful ones from getting married.

Gbamisologically nailed it

Attitude supersede beauty on every levels!

A beautiful lady without the right attitude, is like a rotten apple- Barack Obama 1998

not all that glitters are gold

Hope you don marry!

Mercychen:
The truth is, most times the guy ( groom) is not alway that handsome facially. They prolly would have try to woo the beautiful ones but the pretty girls, being naturally selective would reject them. This is something I can relate with so I know.

These men after rejection, go after the average "looking" girls who on the hand wouldn't mind as they too face rejection and have very slim chances of getting a man and would jump at anybody who comes to them for marriage.


The thing with beautiful Ladies like us is, we believe the men will keep coming, so no need to rush as the best is yet to come.

I know of 10 guys who came for me, they all ended up with average looking ladies. This is not to say it's right to live with such attitude or mindset but it is what it is.

So, it's not totally a case of rejection that keeps the beautiful ones from getting married.

Not all that glitters is gold

Datboredberry:
She could be a million times better than her bridesmaids...

It's not about looks alone... I don't know why men are so fixated on the beauty of a woman...

The bride could be smart, have an amazing personality...etc. The perfect partner..

Men tend to 'see'... I think it's dumb. That's why no matter how great their woman is, they would still cheat on her with someone who can't compare... Simply for a fine face, boobs and ass...

One reason I find it so hard to date...

anybody that tells you men know what they want us is a big lair

Mercychen:
The thing with beautiful Ladies like us is, we believe the men will keep coming, so no need to rush as the best is yet to come.

I know of anout 10 guys who came for me, they all ended up with average looking ladies. This is not to say it's right to live with such attitude or mindset but it is what it is.

Majority of the beautiful ladies I know, who did what you said above, are still single and have reached menopause. I know one who once told me that she regretted her actions, that she would have just accepted one!

I think you should make hay while the Sun shines! At times, you don't get what you want in life.....make do with the one available and just live! Except you've ruled out marriage completely.

Hayee:
anybody that tells you men know what they want us is a big lair

So na women know wetin dem want

Barbiturate:
So na women know wetin dem want

we are all confused together lol
Are we not humans again

Barbiturate:
Majority of the beautiful ladies I know, who did what you said above, are still single and have reached menopause. I know one who once told me that she regretted are actions, that she would have just accepted one!

I think you should make hay while the Sun shines! At times, you don't get what you want in life.....make do with the one available and just live! Except you've ruled out marriage completely.

Make which hay while sun shines?
Is Marriage a do or die affair?

Every one will marry when they feel like it.

Hayee:
we are all confused together lol
Are we not humans again

I dey tell you

But women are the most confused

Chloraseptic:
[b]It's because those beautiful girls are feeling entitled... Th[/b]ey think their beauty is a ticket to easy and Rossy life that's going to be sponsored by a man they think is going to be lucky to have them.

You have said it All!

Particularly the Slim ones!

They believe they are Better than Agbani Darego and Genevieve!
So they Target Guys with a Clean ride, Big Mansion and a Fat bank Account!

When they get to 28,29 Years and realize their Folly, It's either they snatch their Friend's Rich Fiancee or Become second wife/mistress to a Married Man!

Average looking Girls are not Like Dis!
Hence Men prefer dem more!

Barbiturate:
I dey tell you

But women are the most confused

your opinion

So, Pastor RIGHTEOUSNESS2 sef dey visit ASEHWO THREAD to con do evangelism!!!

Mercychen:
Every one will marry when they feel like it.

No mercy! It doesn't work that way! Age really counts for mostly women.
You really don't want to attain menopause before marriage and it will be very very rare to see a man marry a lady at her late 40's/50's etc!
And remember I said, except you have ruled out marriage completely