slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

It is not all about beauty..

When your character and the type of person you are is not a threat to a man.....then that man will marry you

Slawormiir 12/12/ 2021

Beauty without character is ugly

Do you think being beautiful or a slay queen is a criterion of a good wife?. Mrs Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Mrs Okereke Onyiuke or Madam Ezekwensili Ibiageli would educate you more. For me, i prefer a lady who's more beautiful inside and intelligent than those slay Queens with good outward beauty but empty in their brains.

Datboredberry:
She could be a million times better than her bridesmaids...

It's not about looks alone... I don't know why men are so fixated on the beauty of a woman...

The bride could be smart, have an amazing personality...etc. The perfect partner..

Men tend to 'see'... I think it's dumb. That's why no matter how great their woman is, they would still cheat on her with someone who can't compare... Simply for a fine face, boobs and ass...

One reason I find it so hard to date...

Men don't cheat...

We are Polygamous in nature.. know this and know peace..

Op most beautiful ones are coded OLOSHOs and serial cheats.. only good for short term banging not commitments..

proxillin:
So much fun at the wedding. I noticed something. And this is not the first time.

The Bride was just an average looking lady. I don't want to sound rude by saying she is ugly. Despite the heavy makeup, she is still what she is.

But the story is, all her entourage, best lady, bridal train were beautiful straight girls. Her friends are so gorgeous. I kuku mingled with 3 of them exchanged whatsapp numbers. And they are telling me they are single.

I keep asking, why are guys always marrying these average looking girls? Who marries these beauty queens? They are always friends of brides.

Or is it me not getting the gist?

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Just give me one number

Mercychen:

These men after rejection, go after the average "looking" girls who on the hand wouldn't mind as they too face rejection and have very slim chances of getting a man and would jump at anybody that comes to them for marriage.


The thing with beautiful Ladies like us is, we believe the men will keep coming, so no need to rush as the best is yet to come.



So, it's not totally a case of rejection that keeps the beautiful ones from getting married.

First paragraph, you lie. You can't be average looking and not be heightened in good character and other things. Second paragraph that is the problem. You might be beautiful though, so the "not beautiful" doesn't get the best?? Third paragraph, so if rejection is not really the case, so wetin dey happen gan gan. I come in peace

Datboredberry:


She could be a million times better than her bridesmaids...

It's not about looks alone... I don't know why men are so fixated on the beauty of a woman...

The bride could be smart, have an amazing personality...etc. The perfect partner..

Men tend to 'see'... I think it's dumb. That's why no matter how great their woman is, they would still cheat on her with someone who can't compare... Simply for a fine face, boobs and ass...

One reason I find it so hard to date...

Hmmmm .... you shouldn't push back dating until men stop cheating! .... many many women have gone to the grave ... in old age ... while waiting for men to change from their cheating ways. Im not saying you should rush .... but don't shut your mind. Not all men cheat ... there are a few that don't .... many many many that do but their spouse don't ever know ..... and then there are the ehmmmm..... foolish men that cheat and be caught and give alllll men a bad name. You just have to be careful of who you choose .... one like me... who ehmmmm .... have a clean cheat record!

@ topic ..... when a man is seeking a wife ..... character over looks. When a man is out to play .... looks over character. The beautiful women you be seeing ... most likely were out in the field and are well known players. Some will be married to men who are blinded by looks .... the men that after marriage their eyes clear and their mouths be either complaining bitterly about their unfaithful wives ..... or become redpillers.... throwing curses at women at every opportunity. Losers.

Datboredberry:
Thought you would preach the gospel!

what is he preaching now? damsel? huh

Many pretty girls are getting married too.

Make una stop dey instigate all these unnecessary competition and war.

proxillin:
So much fun at the wedding. I noticed something. And this is not the first time.

The Bride was just an average looking lady. I don't want to sound rude by saying she is ugly. Despite the heavy makeup, she is still what she is.

But the story is, all her entourage, best lady, bridal train were beautiful straight girls. Her friends are so gorgeous. I kuku mingled with 3 of them exchanged whatsapp numbers. And they are telling me they are single.

I keep asking, why are guys always marrying these average looking girls? Who marries these beauty queens? They are always friends of brides.

Or is it me not getting the gist?

You are still a kid.

proxillin:
So much fun at the wedding. I noticed something. And this is not the first time.

The Bride was just an average looking lady. I don't want to sound rude by saying she is ugly. Despite the heavy makeup, she is still what she is.

But the story is, all her entourage, best lady, bridal train were beautiful straight girls. Her friends are so gorgeous. I kuku mingled with 3 of them exchanged whatsapp numbers. And they are telling me they are single.

I keep asking, why are guys always marrying these average looking girls? Who marries these beauty queens? They are always friends of brides.

Or is it me not getting the gist?

The "external beautiful ones are the demons (face and body structure only)....Some are ugly but have internal beauty (beautiful heart)...I rather go for the average lady wey no go stress me than the beautiful ones that all they care about is their fine faces,fancy dresses and numerous unreasonable outings.

Datboredberry:
She could be a million times better than her bridesmaids...

It's not about looks alone... I don't know why men are so fixated on the beauty of a woman...

The bride could be smart, have an amazing personality...etc. The perfect partner..

Men tend to 'see'... I think it's dumb. That's why no matter how great their woman is, they would still cheat on her with someone who can't compare... Simply for a fine face, boobs and ass...

One reason I find it so hard to date...

What do you need I'm interested

proxillin:
So much fun at the wedding. I noticed something. And this is not the first time.

The Bride was just an average looking lady. I don't want to sound rude by saying she is ugly. Despite the heavy makeup, she is still what she is.

But the story is, all her entourage, best lady, bridal train were beautiful straight girls. Her friends are so gorgeous. I kuku mingled with 3 of them exchanged whatsapp numbers. And they are telling me they are single.

I keep asking, why are guys always marrying these average looking girls? Who marries these beauty queens? They are always friends of brides.

Or is it me not getting the gist?

Cunning guys don tunrn all those ones you see to harlots!

proxillin:
So much fun at the wedding. I noticed something. And this is not the first time.

The Bride was just an average looking lady. I don't want to sound rude by saying she is ugly. Despite the heavy makeup, she is still what she is.

But the story is, all her entourage, best lady, bridal train were beautiful straight girls. Her friends are so gorgeous. I kuku mingled with 3 of them exchanged whatsapp numbers. And they are telling me they are single.

I keep asking, why are guys always marrying these average looking girls? Who marries these beauty queens? They are always friends of brides.

Or is it me not getting the gist?

You write like an educated person buh u ask questions that you should answer yourself. Do you think marriage is short time sex or something. Abeg character over beauty. If u get money even if u born monkey like Obasanjo Dem go rush am.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Many pretty girls are getting married too.

No doubt .... many pretty girls also have good character.

Come and take clay to mould your specification pls


[[left][/left]quote author=franchasng post=108429406]There are still hot looking ladies that have better character, manners than the ugly or average looking ladies.


The thing is, most average guys innately believe that physically attractive ladies can't make a good wife, so they intentionally date them and leave them to marry the average looking ones.



I wished I can marry 3 more hot ladies with gigantic bombom, flat tummy and straight full legs [/quote]

Mercychen:
The truth is, most times the guy ( groom) is not always that handsome or facially fine. They prolly would have tried to woo the beautiful ones but the pretty girls, being naturally selective would reject them. This is something I can relate with so I know.

These men after rejection, go after the average "looking" girls who on the hand wouldn't mind as they too face rejection and have very slim chances of getting a man and would jump at anybody that comes to them for marriage.


The thing with beautiful Ladies like us is, we believe the men will keep coming, so no need to rush as the best is yet to come.

I know of anout 10 guys who came for me, they all ended up with average looking ladies. This is not to say it's right to live with such attitude or mindset but it is what it is.

So, it's not totally a case of rejection that keeps the beautiful ones from getting married.

I doubt if u're pretty as u claim....

I have my beautiful, pretty friends who are so so cute with shape and bumbum, yet they visit Shiloh every year. I remembered telling one on campus babe becareful the way you are rejecting guyz... This was 2008 now at 34 she is sleeping on the mountain. Her elder sister average looking lady married at 22, but she 34 no fiance at all. I have female friends 34-38 still single, I am like what's wrong with this girls, what kind of pickiness is this, your beauty is not ticket to proposal, they keep saying why is God not answering them, but all I see they are the major issue. He must be financially stable, they can't settle for less, he must be this and that, there must be guarantee of flow of income.. all her average looking friends have gotten married and have forgotten about given birth to children. I myself I have stopped going after pretty Ladies one told me trash recently and I left her in the hands of Shiloh. Everyone wants a ready made man and no lady want to join hands in making their man to be made. I just pity alot of pretty ladies, go to Coza Abuja you see them, go to many mega churches you see them all have unrealistic expectations and standards. As long as a man can feed himself, cloth himself has a shelter over his head and has a source of income he is good to go... Life starts from somewhere. My own brother started his marital journey with 20k and today no go there ooooo. The thing is many ladies are afraid and are uncertain about the future, but the future is in the hand of God hand it over to him, person wey get today can loose everything tomorrow and the person that does not have can make it mega tomorrow. God help the ladies of this generation. God provide for we the ones who want to sincerely marry.

Goodplace:
You are a very rude person that lack speech mannerisms

What are you even saying? What was rude about the lady’s mannerisms?

Its better for one to marry a lady with brain and good attitude than marry a flower vase.

Mercychen:
The truth is, most times the guy ( groom) is not always that handsome or facially fine. They prolly would have tried to woo the beautiful ones but the pretty girls, being naturally selective would reject them. This is something I can relate with so I know.

These men after rejection, go after the average "looking" girls who on the hand wouldn't mind as they too face rejection and have very slim chances of getting a man and would jump at anybody that comes to them for marriage.


The thing with beautiful Ladies like us is, we believe the men will keep coming, so no need to rush as the best is yet to come.

I know of anout 10 guys who came for me, they all ended up with average looking ladies. This is not to say it's right to live with such attitude or mindset but it is what it is.

So, it's not totally a case of rejection that keeps the beautiful ones from getting married.

See you at Shiloh 2030. keep selecting

My wife got me a new car. Congratulations to me!

joeking2222:
So, Pastor RIGHTEOUSNESS2 sef dey visit ASEHWO THREAD to con do evangelism!!!

God no go forgive you����

Vinnie2000:

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It's like U dey Craze!

You better speak for yourself? Men not knowing what they want?

As per Marriage, Even a Drunk man knows he wants!
Dat's why an Agbero, Druggie or a IndecentStar will still find one Decent, young Girl when he wants to settle down!

Can't you MC Oluomo how he is managing his Family? Can't you see how some American Pornstars pick up Nicer ladies and Marry them?
Better Be silent if you don't have what to Say!

no mind the girl, I just de look am...she doesn't know what's going on

Barbiturate:


Majority of the beautiful ladies I know, who did what you said above, are still single and have reached menopause. I know one who once told me that she regretted are actions, that she would have just accepted one!

I think you should make hay while the Sun shines! At times, you don't get what you want in life.....make do with the one available and just live! Except you've ruled out marriage completely.

And two years after settling with this averageness you recommend, she comes Nairaland and puts up the headline
'I don't find my husband attractive anymore'
'My neighbors husband is catching my eye'
whatchu gonna do, whatchu gonna say?
Hmm!
When a woman thinks something is average, she's forever looking for something better, they never settle for less, and when they do, na you go suffer am.

Goodplace:
You are a very rude person that lack speech mannerisms

How exactly was that comment rude? Perhaps you would have preferred it if she didn't contribute at all cause she's lady?

Datboredberry:
She could be a million times better than her bridesmaids...

It's not about looks alone... I don't know why men are so fixated on the beauty of a woman...

The bride could be smart, have an amazing personality...etc. The perfect partner..

Men tend to 'see'... I think it's dumb. That's why no matter how great their woman is, they would still cheat on her with someone who can't compare... Simply for a fine face, boobs and ass...

One reason I find it so hard to date...

Or she could be a million times worse.
Looks play an integral part in the business of sexual attraction. And it's looks most people will see first before whatever hullabaloo you're having a fit over.

Yes yes. Men are stupid 'seers' and women are intellectual analyzers who size up a man by diligently analyzing who he is and what not.

Let's pretend it's because they're purist intellectuals and not mere shameless gold diggers.

Righteousness2:
If all that makes you marry a lady or guy is just Physical Beauty , Handsomeness or 6 Packs, you are in for Long thing. You have Conciously entered One Chance.

And by entering one chance
You've lost sight of the JESUS, the one and only true eternal formidable, irresistible, wonderful blah blah blah.



ABI?

kingyang:
Come and take clay to mould your specification pls


[[left][/left]quote author=franchasng post=108429406]There are still hot looking ladies that have better character, manners than the ugly or average looking ladies.


The thing is, most average guys innately believe that physically attractive ladies can't make a good wife, so they intentionally date them and leave them to marry the average looking ones.



I wished I can marry 3 more hot ladies with gigantic bombom, flat tummy and straight full legs

No pictures, no videos to back ur story, oga you just want to gossip and I will never be a party to that

Not all that glitters are gold my brother