I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?

The future is smarter than you

Collect d red oil and give her back the 5 hundred, make she go buy am for market.

lalasticlala what do you have to say?

Damn! I understand you.

If I were to be in your position, I would rather go find help somewhere else than do such trade. One thing I've realised among many married couples is that they will tell each other everything which ain't supposed to be so sometimes.

Always avoid anything that would make you venerable to your brother's wife. She took advantage of your vulnerability.

Just keep your cool... The tension will die down with time.

RealLordZeus:

The future is smarter than you

She did a very terrible thing. I really pity the OP. I hate when people breach trust.

U shouldn't av asked for the exchange.

It would av been better if u took it out and sold to an outsider completely.

Little things betrays family trust.

I feel betrayed

One of the things I don't like about my gender . Most women cant keep secrets. Better to send your brother a message and narrate things just as it happened because she may have twisted the issue when she told your brother. I don't see it as a bad thing to have asked for that exchange since you were helpless. What's her gain now that she has put you in trouble.

Foodqueen:
U shouldn't av asked for the exchange.

It would av been better if u took it out and sold to an outsider completely.

Little things betrays family trust.

Did I plan to go there to sell anything in the first place? You've never been in a desperate needy situation b4 I guess.

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What was she trying to achieve by ratting you out to your brother?
I’d say watch out for that your brother’s wife.
She’s trying to bring discord between you and your brother.
She probably does not like seeing you coming around.

As for your brother, let him calm down first before you explain your own side to him. (He should at least understand how desperate you were for you to even sell the palm oil to his wife.)
Never let anything or anyone come between you and your brother.

Just be cautious in your interaction with your sister in law in future.

Sorry

Trust a woman at your own detriment...

Very deceitful creatures...

Something that spoke face to face with the devil and you had the mind to keep a secret with them...

Learn boy, learn...

For the record, you did nothing wrong..
Before you told her not to tell your brother, you must have known the kinda brother you have but that deceitful creature still fell your hands...

Damnnn niggar
Isoright
You can't trust that gender

The man above me just spoke very LOUD
My 2 cent to you be very careful with in law's ooo how they interpret things is different, and you can't blame them, if you where in same position, your bro you regularly help sold oil he can give for free to your wife how would you feel? Upset I think

I understand how #500 looks like 500k for someone students I also understand to how it feels to judge someone without hear his/her story, let ur wife tell us her own part

It's well with your soul.

Anything a woman can't destroy that thing does not exist.
Yhe wizard woman took advantage of your situation and your brother being a simp was unable to handle the situation. Let me boost your brain, for her to cause this issue means your simp brother doesn't handle her or put her in her position.
U gat nothing to worry about my brother, just feel as if nothing happened. Life na turn by turn, I was in worst situation back then, but do u know what, I'm a winner.

Ok

She's been looking for means to do away with you since. She finally succeeded....

Ehya

The future doesn't keep a promise

How dear you loose gaurd to that gender


Gender of betrayals

Future is feeeemale.

You have done nothing wrong

Now you need to hustle

So this bullshit will stop

Limitlessss:
I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?

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